First Threesome - With Another Guy!

Well, we had our first male-female-male threesome last night. I have to say, I was a bit hesitant at first. I had arranged a surprise for Mrs. Sunbuckus and invited over the guy who broke us in at the party. I felt comfortable with him, I know he is good to perform sexually. Most importantly for me, I know he has a beautiful wife at home to relieve any excess tension. Sorry single guys, not yet - maybe never - but making sure the other guy has a relief valve assuages my mind. Why is this? Because I'm a guy, and I know that guys will go to great lengths for a piece of pussy and are more likely to be pushy.

So, we're finishing up our evening workout. I had been texting him and told him it's going to be a surprise. Well, our workout ran about 30 minutes later than I thought, so I had to text him in the middle of the workout to come over about 30 minutes later. Mrs. Sunbuckus was still in the bathroom finishing her shower when he knocked on the door. I let him in and immediately Mrs. Sunbuckus knew the game was on!

Now, I try to be a good host to our guests, so I got him something to drink, and noted in my mind that we must be in bizzaro world. Not only had I invited over a good-looking man to have sex with my wife, I'm getting him a drink!

All three of us conversed for about 10 minutes and it's going pleasantly, but Mrs. Sunbuckus wants the cock and herds us all back into the bedroom.

Well, things went very wildly from that point on. The details are in the post below, but suffice it to say, Mrs. Sunbuckus was satisified in her pussy and ass, and got quite alot of cock in her mouth as well. While the DP wasn't able to materialize like we wanted, everything else went pretty smoothly. Once again, he was like a machine and not only fucked Mrs. Sunbuckus well, but she made him cum three times.

I know she enjoyed it immensely, and that was what I was hoping for. And secretly, I'm hoping Mrs. Sunbuckus will surprise me with a little something extra one night.

As to my thoughts about the whole thing? Well, since he has been in the lifestyle for awhile, he was kind, wasn't pushy, followed the rules we laid out for him (condoms required for intercourse; if it's been in the ass, you have to change condoms before going back in the pussy...the usual stuff), took turns and overall just enjoyed himself while making sure Mrs. Sunbuckus had a nice time.

I felt very comfortable throughout the whole thing, and although I'm not attracted to men sexually, I can admire a guy who takes care of himself. After it was all over, I didn't feel jealous at all, and I think I would gladly do it again after seeing how much Mrs. Sunbuckus enjoyed rolling off one cock and taking another.

Entering the LS

Mrs. Sunbuckus here. I am hoping that this blog will help myself and Mr. Sunbuckus explore our thoughts and feelings concerning issues and experiences we've encountered while joining the Lifestyle. And perhaps our writings will help you and your significant other determine if this is for the both of you or not. I have found that the Swingers Forum to be very useful in terms of discussion and questions with those more experienced then us. Oh, what would we do without the internet??

So, how did we decide to get into the LS? Well, I was exchanging friendly emails with a man and it came to be that I asked him if he would consider having a threesome with us. Just out of curiosity...not necessarily something that I thought would really happen but just to gauge the level of interest. I was surprised that he would be willing to. Now, I've had a lot of different fantasies throughout my life. They may have originated from pornos or erotic literature but I know what I'm interested in, curious about, and downright disgusted by. Threesomes, gangbangs, light bondage...those are what frequent my fantasies along with the situational couplings like workplace sex and the like. Now that I knew someone might be interested in a threesome with me and Mr. Sunbuckus, I asked him how he felt about it. At first, he had his doubts. I knew that I wasn't going to do anything unless he was comfortable and on board with everything. So, we would talk about this on and off. Throughout that time, the third wheel male of the picture withdrew himself from the situation but the talks between myself and Mr. Sunbuckus continued. It was as if a door had been opened and we were both curious to see what was on the other side.

As I have learned from the Swingers Forum, the LS is something that you do as a couple. You don't do it to fix a relationship. If you have a strong and secure relationship, it will help to further strengthen it. If your relationship has problems, it will magnify them and make the issues come forth and force the couple to deal with them. Even though both Mr. Sunbuckus and I have dealt with infidelity on both sides, we both love each other very much and have worked through them. Since we are still very new to the LS and have not actually had any real LS experiences in terms of soft or hard swapping, the level of trust, commitment, respect and communication has increased dramatically between the two of us. I have learned that it is crucial to talk about anything and everything with your partner to make the LS work for the both of you.

So, before you do anything LS related, talk, talk, talk, talk, talk, talk, talk, talk about it. Don't just talk about it before, during, and after sex. Talk about it when it's appropriate but not always under the glow of having sex either.