Showing posts with label house party. Show all posts
Showing posts with label house party. Show all posts

Thursday, May 31, 2012

Mrs. Sunbuckus: Two Parties In One Night

Mr. Sunbuckus and I have been interested in trying out one of the swankier parties in town. They are supposed to be "exclusive" with a hefty cover charge. Well, Mr. B was telling me about how he had heard that a lot of the people at those types of parties were cliquish and snobby. Mr. E was telling us that he had heard good things about those parties so it was a vote for each side. Well, I had my reservations but we had to see for ourselves.

Judging from the couples that had RSVP'd for the event, a lot of them were what I call really pretty people. Young, beautiful, fit, tone, in shape, big breasts...I was getting mighty intimidated. Even though Mr. Sunbuckus kindly called me "the hottest woman" at the club the night before, this was an entirely different crowd. I have pretty big body issues and was nervous. Mr. B had informed me that he was going to another party that night and said we would have more fun there. A few hours before the party, I asked Mr. B if it would be okay with the host if we crash his party if our swanky party turned into a dud. We got the A-OK so we had a firm back-up plan...although I wasn't certain about seeing Mr. B for the 3rd night in a row. I didn't want my playmate to get tired of me!

Well, the party started at 5 but we arrived at 7. The host said that there were going to be about 200 people there but only a quarter of them were there when we got there. Later, it was more believable that there were 200. With that amount of people and the venue being held at a big "mansion" there wasn't going to be enough parking along the street so they had everyone park at a nearby school and a limo would shuttle party-goers back and forth between the parking lot and house party. I was impressed but with such a big "donation" you should get something for your buck, right?

Driving through the neighborhood, we kept guessing which house we would stop at until the limo finally halted. We walked up the driveway and through the garage while one of the hosts, an ex-porn star, asked us our nationality (he meant ethnicity). He was trying to get a "good mix" of people to come to the parties.

As we walked into the house, through the garage entrance, doors were appropriately labeled "restroom" or "playroom". We toured the house and as silly as it sounds, I thought it wasn't very big considering it was touted as being 12,000 square feet of play area! And it didn't help that some of the house was closed off while a big hallway was set up for photographs.

There was an attractive, petite Asian woman from L.A. that we introduced ourselves to. We later saw her with an older gentleman...not someone I was interested in playing with. We didn't chat with her much because we were still looking around and getting our bearings. We had brought along our "fuck bag" and had to find a suitable place for it. When we reached the backyard area, a lot of bags were placed against the house perimeter, which is where we eventually placed ours. We got some complimentary drinks (soda and water) and sat near the hot tub to see if anyone would be at our "level." There was a table full of older people just chatting within their group. There were two younger couples chatting at the hot tub. Another two couples near the drink station. And various other groups that consisted from 2-4 couples in each that stayed within their limited group. There were single couples, like us, milling around. They seemed to be the ones that were more at our "level". All of the other groups that had paired off were mostly younger (probably our age, to be honest), buff (for males), thin with big breasts (females), and seemingly stand-offish. I did see some men look our way for maybe a second but that was it. I had put on my bikini but kept my shirt and skirt on over it because I just felt like I couldn't compete with the overwhelming amount of attractive women there. Mr. Sunbuckus wanted me to dress down but I told him that I would on one condition, if I could find three women at the party that was also dressed down but looked like a normal woman. I know it sounds harsh because I'm sure a lot of those pretty women are nice but they sure made me feel awful for having the body that I did have after having three children and losing a lot of weight.

We went up to a couple who were standing around by themselves like us. They consisted of an older woman with a younger man. She was in very good shape and wearing just her bikini. She offered to show us some moves on one of the pole platforms. I thought she was going to do a lot but it was just some basic stuff so I wasn't really impressed. We chatted a bit and found out they were just there to look. Another couple came by and joined us. They seemed friendly and I thought the woman was attractive, though certainly pretty tall. However, her husband was a bit abrasive in attitude or personality because I was not at all attracted to him.

Nothing seemed to be happening so, I had the idea of just playing with Mr. Sunbuckus in one of the playrooms to see if it would spark anything...like our first house party where people at least gathered around. I gave him a blowjob but the room was dark so we moved to another room. A couple came in and they were talking about whether they could join in or not so I stopped long enough to invite them into bed. Soon enough, I felt a pair of hands on my ass and then the male half fingered me a bit before placing himself between my legs to give me oral while I was still doing oral on Mr. Sunbuckus. Eventually, he put on a condom and went inside me for a few minutes. I'm still unsure if he finished or not but it was quick lived. The female half of the couple didn't play because her master, who was not present, forbid her to play with males. After they left, we also left to walk around some more. We noticed that one of the other rooms had about 2-3 other couples playing, but each separately...same room sex. Mr. Sunbuckus wanted me to ride him and I gushed all over him quite a lot because it was dripping off of him and down my legs as well. During that time, Mr. Sunbuckus offered to play with a woman who was waiting for her partner to return. She declined very hastily as if the idea repulsed her. Another couple across from us on a couch was engaged--the female blowing the male. Mr. Sunbuckus wanted me to go over and offer to suck him as well but I was very hesitant. I have to be very horny and very comfortable to perform oral on another male other than Mr. Sunbuckus. Eventually, we left to clean up ourselves. Upon walking around, we met with the couple that played with us for a few minutes and traded names and numbers. Shortly after, we declared the party a bust and returned to the garage area for the limo to take us back to our car.

While we were there waiting, there was the male half of a couple standing around that seemed familiar. Eventually, he approached us and asked us if we had been at the club the night before. We introduced each other and talked about the party. They had attended several of the parties before and they were "fun" but this one just didn't go anywhere. With the right amount of time to chat with them, I could be interested in playing with them in the future. Then when the limo arrived to drop off some new attendees and shuttle us back to the school, the couple that we were waiting to show up arrived (we saw that they were attending through one of the swingers' websites). We formally introduced each other but went our separate ways. We had already let Mr. B know that we were going to his friend's party and didn't want to prolong the agony/frustration from the first party.

I had teased Mr. B through text that I would give him oral once we arrived, making him think that Mr. Sunbuckus was telling him that. Yes, the two parties could not have been any more different in atmosphere, location, and the ratio of attractiveness of party goers but after introductions, there was already some action going on in one of the rooms and kitchen and Mr. Sunbuckus pushed me and Mr. B into one of the rooms so I could make good on my tease. Mr. Sunbuckus even had his playmate, an older single female so everyone was happy. The host wanted to take pictures of us playing as long as no faces were in the photos. After about an hour of playing, the men needed to rest and it was getting late in the night. Mr. B needing to work in the morning and Mr. Sunbuckus and I having to wake up at a decent hour to pick up the children the next day so we said our goodbyes and thank yous to the hosts and headed home.

Mr. Sunbuckus had not cum during Friday night's playtime and as well as during the 2nd party so we played once we got home and he had an explosive cum before we fell asleep. Although we had quite playtime the past two nights, we still had our two dates coming up before the weekend ended...Mr. B and I on Sunday night and Mrs. B and Mr. Sunbuckus on Monday night.

Wednesday, May 30, 2012

Mr. Sunbuckus: One Night, Two Parties

Part of trying everything in the lifestyle, I had decided about a month earlier to sign up for a swankier party. It was to be held at a mansion and hosted by two ex-adult film stars. The price of admission was farely high, although the hosts did provide some food (hamburgers and hotdogs) and drinks (generic soda and water).

Mrs. Sunbuckus was a little nervous about the party due to the attractiveness of the other people who were signed up to go. She also had heard that big parties like that were very hit and miss. I told her that we would try it out and go from there.

It turns out that our friend, Mr. B, was also going to a much smaller party the same night, so as a backup plan Mrs. Sunbuckus had asked Mr. B if we could go to their party should ours turn into a bust.

So the big night came. It was certainly a nice home. We parked away from the house and the hosts had a limo going back and forth to pick people up and drop them off. The home itself was quite spacious, with a big backyard, small-ish but elegant pool, and a hot tub. About half the rooms in the home were blocked off, with only two marked for "Playtime" with another, outside-accessible only room also marked for playtime, for a total of four indoors beds and one outdoors bed, which was really just an air mattress. I remarked to Mrs. Sunbuckus that, for the number of guests attending, that seemed like it might be an inadequate amount of playroom.

As befit a larger party in a swanky neighborhood, there were plenty of good-looking women wearing skimpy bathing suits. I did notice that several of them also wore coverups for their bottoms, which seemed a little odd to me. After all, at most of the swinger parties we have been to so far, the women walked around either naked or practically naked. We changed into our outfits in one of the nice bathrooms and stowed our gear away. I tucked some condoms and lube into my shorts just in case we needed them.

When we arrived, there were maybe 50 or so people milling around, with more coming in every ten minutes or so as the limo driver made his rounds. The hosts were certainly nice enough, and there was a photographer taking pictures on request. Most of the people had formed into small groups of four-five couples. My observation of the types of people who were there:
  • Older couples, not in swimsuits, who hung out at a table and talked with each other
  • Older men with their trophy-wife younger wives or girlfriends who appeared to be there just to show off how hot their wife or girlfriend is
  • Younger, successful, attractive men with their hot wife or girlfriend, again showing off
  • A few real swinger couples who were probably excited about all the hot action they might get with the attractive people
  • Some regular-ish people who came to the party to check out what it's like

So, we did talk to a few couples, some in from out of state. There was a classic cougar situation with an older woman and her younger boyfriend or husband. She was still attractive, but they weren't swinging, just observing. This was the third party they had gone to that was hosted by this particular group. They were a nice couple, just apparently not interested in having sex with other people. Too bad, because Mrs. Sunbuckus was attracted to the guy and I would totally have played the shit out of the woman.

After a couple hours of nothing but milling around by most guests and no action going on, we decided to try and get some people to start playing. I had taken a viagra earlier so that I could stay hard if there were minor distractions, as there tend to be at parties. So we went into one of the playrooms and Mrs. Sunbuckus started sucking my cock. But the room was completely dark and no one would be able to see what was going on. So I had us move to one of the two remaining, prominent rooms, where she again started sucking my cock.

Now, at this house, every bedroom has a bathroom, so there were about four bathrooms total available for the 200+ guests, so you can imagine that the bathrooms were in quite high demand. As Mrs. Sunbuckus kept sucking my cock, people would walk by the bed on their way to the bathroom and hardly even pay attention. Fortunately, one gentleman and his playmate walked in and decided to play with us. As it turned out though, the woman was "on restriction" because she has some sort of master/slave relationship going on with another person who was not at the party. The gentleman did fuck Mrs. Sunbuckus a bit, but it only lasted a few minutes. I did get a couple handfuls of boobs from his playmate, but again, it was not much. All the while, people kept walking by and were like "Oh, excuse us, we're just going to use the bathroom..."

Now I'm just like "What the heck is going on here?" At any other party, a nice blowjob would have attracted a crowd of people, and some would have invariably joined in. Meanwhile, outside, people are still hanging out in small groups, talking, doing nothing but looking pretty and drinking alcohol. A few groups are playing with whipped cream on boobs, but no real swinging is going on. Mrs. Sunbuckus and I go to a room with two beds in it, and finally she mounts me and rides me until she gushes all over my cock, and stomach, and legs...

In the other bed is another couple, young-ish looking, and they're playing with each other. Suddenly the guy gets up and leaves, so I ask the woman if he left I can come over there and "take care of that" for you. Although in a pleasant, tone, she insisted that he is coming back and no help was needed whatsoever. So much for playtime.

By this time it's getting later into the night, so Mrs. Sunbuckus and I decide to call this party a bust and head over to Mr. B's party. On the way out, we saw another couple that we had met at the club the prior night. They had only been there 45 minutes and were already leaving. We also saw arriving another couple we had met at our first party but had not played with. I decided that we still needed to go because nobody was really playing.

We drove over to Mr. B's party, which was about as opposite of the other party as it gets. The house was in a rundown part of town, the guest were not nearly as attractive, no pool, but it did have nice people who wanted to do some swinging. We had been there maybe fifteen minutes, said hi to everybody, before Mrs. Sunbuckus and Mr. B got onto a bed and started playing. There was another woman who joined us and I ended up playing with her for about forty five minutes or so. While not the most attractive woman I had met that night, she was the one who played the hardest with us.

As we finished up playing there, another couple came to the party. We had been sort of interested in meeting them, but had not sent them any email or anything. Well, now they were there, at the party. However, by this time we were getting tired and I had to rest, so we excused ourselves from the room before those two started having an orgy with about two women and five men or something like that. I would have liked to play with the woman, but we were getting tired and finally, around 1am, decided to leave the party.

In retrospect of the first party, I believe there wasn't much, if any, playing, because the crowd was mostly younger and it seemed like most of the couples were showing off with a "You can look but not touch!" attitude. Which is pretty much the opposite of what a swinger's party should be. Also, as with many younger people, they have more conservative views on sex and are less comfortable with their body image than older people tend to be. That's not to say all are like that, just that most are like that. And when the older man, young trophy wife dynamic comes in, it's very clear that those couples are not interested in playing, just for the woman to show up and look good while the man shows off his woman. Very frustrating, and then it's like "Why would you even sign up for a party like this if that's all you're going to do?"

So, from now on, we'll probably be avoiding the big, swanky parties like that. First of all, there is the cost, although that is a relatively minor issue. Second of all, we want to have fun. Sexy kind of fun, and that wasn't happening there. As I remarked to several people, "My eyes are happy but my penis is sad."

Sunday, April 22, 2012

Mr. Sunbuckus. Big Party Blues

Mrs. Sunbuckus and I had signed up for a swanky-sounding party. The theme was to be "Kink" and it was to be held at a large venue. Only couples and single women were to be allowed. But, if you haven't figured it out yet, we didn't make it to that party. Two nights before the party our ticket was unexpectedly refunded. The next day I found out that the party organizers had not been able to obtain some kind of event license with the host city and so therefore had to cancel.

This was very disappointing on several levels. On the first level, we had to plan a babysitter to stay overnight and arrange a hotel and so on and so forth. So all that preparation would go to waste.

We hastily signed up for a party that Mr and Mrs B had signed up for, only to find out later THEY wouldn't be able to make it.

We decided to push ahead anyways. After all, where would we be if we didn't give ourselves the opportunity to meet new people?

We went to the party anwyays. We enjoyed a nice meal at an unusual Brazilian restaurant. Then we showered and went to the party.

The location was ok. Not fantastic, mind you, merely ok. The space was a bit crowded, and as the night wore on, we noticed that the number of single men was increasing.

Of course, we also met a few new couples, and a few couples we already knew. But ultimately, we didn't play with anyone. We left fairly early - for a swinger's party - and went back to the hotel, where we played with each other.

In retrospect, I knew that I was a bit concerend about this party on several levels. First of all, the hosts were allowing single men. And there were about 30 single men signed up for the party. Secondly, most of the single men were African-American. While race itself was not an issue, what the party turned out to be was for non-African-American women to have sex with African-American men. In the time we were there, that was basically all we saw for playtime, except for two other women playing with each other. I watched a nearly middle-aged man look on as his wife had sex with a large black man. We also saw another gentleman look on while his wife serviced three African-American men.

We also had the unfortunate experience of another single male come up to us, in what seemed like a too-eager way. He didn't really even try to get to know us, but kept hounding us to come back to our hotel. As we left the party, he practically chased us out trying to get to us to let him come back to the hotel with us. Uhhh..no?

As I said, it was a very uncomfortable atmosphere to me, nearly to the point of one of the swinger's clubs being filled with single guys all trying to get a glimpse of some action. I'm not entirely sure Mr and Mrs B would have enjoyed the party themselves.

A few of the people we spoke with said they had been to this host's other parties before and kept coming back for more. All I can say is that those people must be looking for African-American men. As I said to Mrs B, there's nothing wrong with that, except I'm not African-American and that's all the ladies seemed interested in. Of the couples we talked to, we would spend some time chatting with the male half while, once again, the female half would slink away and talk to someone else or generally just decide to hang out separate from their spouse or boyfriend. Very frustrating, as Mrs Sunbuckus and I have decided that with new couples we would only play together for awhile.

Overall, strike out, but next time I think we'll stick to parties that limit or outright ban single men. That way it's not a sausage fest.

We've also decided that would be our last party for awhile and try one-on-one (or two-on-two) dating so that we can concentrate on the other couple. I think I prefer that to some extent. It allows me to concentrate on the woman and not worry about her getting distracted or some other man coming up and trying to steal her away for playtime. When I'm with a woman, I want to be with her mentally and not feel like she's looking around wondering if there's anyone with a better cock nearby. Because that's just going to distract me and make it that much harder to get an erection.

Sunday, April 8, 2012

Mr. Sunbuckus: Third House Party

We had an unexpected invite to a third house party after our most recent house party only the previous week. It included several of the couples from the previous week, plus our most frequent playmates, Mr. and Mrs. B. Having everyone we've met so far in one place certainly seemed intriguing.

At first we weren't sure if we would be able to make it, since we usually don't party on consecutive weekends. But Mrs. Sunubuckus was able to arrange a last-minute babysitter, so we decided to go ahead and go.

It was a long drive out to the house party, the furthest we've gone so far in the lifestyle. Mrs. Sunbuckus had decided beforehand that, although she would ask my permission to play, she wouldn't insist that she and I play together at the same time. That way she would be free to do her thing and I would be free to do my thing.

When we arrived at the party, we recognized the woman opening the door for us right away as being at the party the previous weekend. Hugs were exchanged and we entered the premises. Almost immediately upon entering, Mr. B approached us and said hi. I had not seen him in some time so I took a few minutes to get caught up and chat with him. I also saw Mr and Mrs C, whom we played with last weekend and we waved hello to each other. Mrs. Sunbuckus gave hugs to Mr B and Mr C, as well as a few others we had met before. We were introduced around to some of the other couples, but I honestly can't remember most of their names.

This home had a pool and hot tub, so I wanted to check that out. I went outside, and immediately saw a lovely naked woman floating on the pool. I looked around to see if Mrs. B was anywhere around, but I did not immediately see her in the couple of groups that were around there chatting. Since I had already toured the interior of the home, I knew she wasn't inside. Only then, by the power of deduction, did I realize that Mrs. B was the lovely figure floating around the pool! Sometimes having bad eyesight sucks, right?

So Mrs. B recognizes me and immediately says hi, and invites me into the pool. Now, I may not be very saavy with the women, as the case would be later, but I do know enough that when a beautiful naked woman invites you into the pool, you don't waste time.

So, here I am, haven't even been at the part 20 minutes, and I'm jumping back into the house getting naked and going out to the pool. By this time Mrs. B had moved to the hot tub, so I jump right in with her and Mr C and a couple of other ladies whose names I honestly do not remember. I get comfortable with her, and try my best to get other ladies to get comfortable with me, but I must be putting out some sort of creepy vibe that only Mrs B knows to ignore. After perhaps ten minutes in the pool, Mrs B sees Mr B about to play through one of the windows.

We went inside the house and saw Mr. B and a few ladies getting busy. Then some other people started getting busy. And some other people. Mrs. B took a small spot on the bed, and I started caressing her body. She was eventually able to work her legs apart so I could start fingering her. Well, she must have been extremely horny because I had not even fingered her for more than a minute or two before I could feel her squirting on my hand. She didn't have me stop, though, so I kept going and I could see her having another orgasm. But she still didn't tell me to stop, and she had another squirting orgasm.

At this time, Mrs Sunbuckus was playing with Mr C. What happened for the next hour or so I don't quite recall. I did try to chat up a few women, but no one seemed interested. Maybe I'm not charming enough? Maybe I'm not forceful enough, I dunno. I just know no one seemed to want to talk to me except a few of the guys, and I was pretty sure I wouldn't be playing with them. Mrs. Sunbuckus was trying to encourage me to get a playmate for the evening, and eventually Mrs B walked by and asked what was going on. Mrs Sunbuckus said she was trying to get me a playmate, at which point Mrs B simply took my hand and we found a place to play. She's very subtle like that.

This was about 10pm, give or take. Mrs B and I could only find some space where the hosts had layed out a few sheets and some pillows. We started kissing, and I let Mrs B stroke my cock until it got hard in her hand. I put on some protection and we started playtime. We played for a good long time. Mrs B must have orgasmed about 10 times while we were playing, and several of those I could feel her squirting warm juices on my cock. But I kept going, and Mrs B correctly guessed that I had taken a viagra which, with the alcohol, made me hard and long-lasting. I guess Mrs B didn't anticipate that, because I wore her out and possibly disappointed her to some extent because I didn't cum on demand for her (she asked several times for me to cum). I wasn't apologetic, though, as I finally turned the tables on her and gave her more than she could handle. When we finished, it was nearly 11pm, give or take, again, so we had been playing for most of an hour, which would be a good night for most swingers.

During this time that Mrs B and I had been playing, Mrs Sunbuckus did a little soft play with the host, which he enjoyed. Others came and went, watching us play, including Mr B, who just gave me a big smile while I had sex with his wife. Very odd sometimes, swinging is.

Well, my cock was still able to easily get hard after Mrs B played with me. So I spent the next hour or so trying to get other women to play with me. Now, I'm not exactly a hard body, but compared to many of the other men there, I could have easily been considered a boy toy, or at least someone without a beer belly. No takers. I had a hard time getting anyone to engage in a conversation with me. The most talking I did was with Mrs Sunbuckus. Not that I minded, but I could hear her disappointment in her voice when I told her that I hadn't gotten anyone else to play with me.

About 12:30 or so, I gave up, got dressed, gave hugs and kisses to Mr and Mrs B (I didn't kiss Mr B) and left the home. On the way home, I floated the idea of going to the swingers club so that I could finally cum with Mrs Sunbuckus. We chose that route since Mrs Sunbuckus' parents were watching the kids and would stay overnight. I didn't feel like having loud noisy sex with her parents in the house.

We went to the club, which, as usual, was hopping with a maybe a dozen or so women and maybe three dozen or so men. We played a bit in the couples room where others could see us, then decided to take the "Fish Bowl" bedroom, a room with beds and a window so others could see us having sex. Three months ago we wouldn't have done that, but after having been to three house parties and letting others watch us, it almost seemed normal, except Mrs Sunbuckus wouldn't give the guys a show and let them watch my cock go into her pussy. Oh well...

So, the aftermath, the evaluation of the house party. Overall, if you want to consider it a success, I would have to say, yes, I played, and Mrs Sunbuckus played, so in that respect, it was a success. Did I play with someone new? No. Mrs Sunbuckus did not, either, although she sort of played with another man but he couldn't get it up, and she soft-played with the host.

However, in the maybe too-much self-examination aftermath, I think I have some issues with the crowd we played with, apart from Mr and Mrs B. First of all, they almost all, to a T, seemed to be more interested in Mrs Sunbuckus and not so much I. Is that partly due to my somewhat guarded personality around new people? Sure. But I also think asian men aren't as accepted into the lifestyle. More than once did women slink away from me. One does it, sure, maybe they just don't like you. But once it starts happening all the time, it does become disheartening. I know if I could engage some of them in some conversation, that I could probably make them feel differently, but I just don't seem to have the knack for breaking into their conversation, for one, and for just attracting women to me, for two. I'm not the kind of person who goes into a bar and leaves with a woman I've never met, and I don't think I ever will be. Most of the other couples were white, and they tended to play with the white guys. On one level, I don't blame them for knowing what they like, on another level, isn't part of being in the lifestyle trying out new things? And I like to think that, for many of the women, I am a new thing. It was not to be, however.

Mrs Sunbuckus says I just need to be more forceful, something I've never really been in pursuing a woman. In order to be more successful, I have to break a lifelong behavior of being polite and respectful around women, trying to minimize the sexualization of the situations. Yes, many of the women were sitting around naked, which sort of automatically sexualizes the situation, but seriously. Coming into their personal space and trying to break the ice has never come naturally to me. It's going to take some time to unlearn this habit. In the meantime, it looks like I may miss out on lots of opportunities.

Mrs Sunbuckus says I need to get out there and play with other people. I have assured her that I would like to. But in the meantime, if I only play with Mrs B, who confided in me why she was attracted to me in the first place, I am more than happy. At least I know she is attracted to me physically, which does make me feel better about myself. It also makes me so very, very glad that we met them when we did.

I think that our next move will be to get around to larger parties, since there will be a better chance of a compatible couple liking both of us, and to do individual dates with other couples, since their focus will be on us and it will be much more difficult for them to wander off and talk to other people. Small house parties can be fun, but I think it's best when you know - and have played with - at least two or three of the couples there. I also will try to be more forward in engaging the women, but no promises in unlearning a lifetime's behavior in a short amount of time.

Mrs. Sunbuckus: Third House Party

I suppose our third house party was not really "third time's the charm." I had fun but most of the time, I was worried about Mr. Sunbuckus getting his playtime in....

Originally, we had heard of the party from the weekend before while we attended our 2nd house party. We usually don't go out 2 weekends in a row so I assumed we wouldn't be able to make it. Not to mention, the possibility of being broken for the weekend. And we had Easter Sunday with family.

Well, Mr. and Mrs. B were attending the same party and some of the couples (4 of them in fact) from our 2nd house party were attending this party. I thought it would be nice to see them again and do some "networking". I do love the social aspect of the LS since Mr. Sunbuckus and I don't really have that many friends and would like to get to know others more, even if we don't play with them.

As it was getting closer to Saturday evening, I asked our sitter if she was available. She was not. Then I figured I'd shoot in the dark and ask my parents to see if they would mind staying late to watch the kids. We would get them ready for bed and then leave. All they had to worry about was putting them to bed and then just be present in the house as they slept. Surprisingly, they didn't mind and actually didn't ask any questions either. Quite odd...perhaps they are aware of something but don't want to say. Either way, it was nice of them to stay the night so Mr. Sunbuckus and I could go out.

Since we had our house swap on Tuesday, and I had playtime with Mr. B while Mr. Sunbuckus did not, I wanted to make it up to him. Secretly, I hoped that we could find new playmates. However, Mr. Sunbuckus is just a bit too shy and only played with Mrs. B at the party. He told me he tried to get something going with Mrs. C but she didn't seem interested. I had hoped that he would expand to someone completely new but he didn't.

During the night, I played with Mr. C (the male part of our 2nd play couple). He was very fun and had me squirting while he was giving oral and fingering me as well as when I was on top. It's nice to enjoy being with a male who loves being drenched from a woman.

Then, while I was watching Mr. Sunbuckus and Mrs. B play, Mr. V (the male host of the party) came up from behind me and started to rub and kiss me. He had asked me if I was having fun. I like to rub my backside on whoever is behind me so I was doing that. Eventually, he rubbed my tits and pussy while I was stroking his cock. Mr. V is on the older side and I admit that I wasn't really into that. However, I was appreciative of the attention so I was willing to kiss, stroke, and do a little oral on him. He did have a very thick cock at the base but not so much at the tip. It was almost cone shaped to me. Fleetingly, I entertained the thought of how his cock would feel inside me but I couldn't mentally get past the age difference. I felt bad that I had gotten him so riled up so I offered to let him cum on my ass. Which he did. Mr. and Mrs. V are very kind people. I was surprised to hear from Mr. Sunbuckus that he wasn't interested in Mrs. V because I found her very attractive and if I was a male, I would want to be with her.

Later, I was in the hot tub by myself when a male, Mr. D, came in. He told me that Mr. Sunbuckus had invited him to join me in the hot tub. I had met Mr. and Mrs. D a bit earlier in the night but not too much. They seemed very nice but I wasn't sure if they were interested so I had gone off to rest and play again. After fondling and kissing a bit in the hot tub, Mr. D asked if I would mind if we go use one of the bedrooms. I was definitely game and went to make sure Mr. Sunbuckus was okay with it. To my dismay, he was sitting in a chair and not playing. I was hoping to find him having fun with a playmate. I felt a bit guilty for having more playmates than him and hesitated. After all, I had agreed to the party so he could get some playtime. I hadn't expected to do much or any playing myself.

Mr. Sunbuckus seemed okay so Mr. D and I went to find a room. He was very excited and went down on me immediately. His technique is similar to Mr. Sunbuckus' until he started to finger me at the same time which was rough and aggressive. Although different and exciting in the way that rough sex can be exciting, sometimes the roughness can get to be too much for it to be fun after awhile. Luckily, he had to take a break and go to the bathroom. Mr. Sunbuckus came into the room and I decided to give him some oral while waiting. Mr. D came back and seemed to have some trouble getting hard. I gave him some oral but it didn't work. We tried kissing but it didn't work. I mounted him, hoping that maybe grinding on him would do something. He moaned and groaned but it just wasn't working. I felt bad that we didn't get any playtime but sometimes things happen. I think he played earlier and he might have had too much to drink. He was very nice though and gave me one of the nicest compliments of the night. He said that I was the hottest woman at the party. The other compliment came from Mr. C when he said that I was close to the top of his "fun list" because I was able to make him cum (he says he doesn't cum with every woman he plays with) and I was a great kisser and we seemed to really be compatible.

After the house party, Mr. Sunbuckus and I returned to the club we visited when we first started to explore the LS. It was hopping at the club and it was interesting going in there, knowing that we might be more hardcore "swingers" than some of the ones in there considering how we just came from a private house party, engaged in swapping, and witnessed many orgies with our own eyes. I was surprised that Mr. Sunbuckus pulled into the club but he explained that he wanted us to fuck without anything worry of my parents hearing us (which we would have had to think about if we were to go straight home and fuck.) We sat around for a few minutes to soak in the atmosphere, went to the "couples only" room to do some oral and sex, then we moved onto the "see through" room where couples can go in a "secluded room" but onlookers can watch through the 1 way window. I found it very liberating to know that we didn't really have any hesitation doing it in there. A few months ago, it would have been a big leap to have sex in that room, hearing and knowing that there were other people on the other side of the window while we fucked. Now, it just seemed "normal" since we have gone to a few parties and had onlookers while we play. I wonder how out of the box it was for those on the other side to be on the viewer side of the window. Was it their first time watching another couple have sex? Did they get turned on? I liked to imagine that some of the males rubbed themselves a bit while watching. After Mr. Sunbuckus creamed me, we left and went home.

I have really enjoyed meeting so many nice people so far. I even kind of felt that Mr. Sunbuckus and I knew more people at the party than maybe Mr. and Mrs. B even though they had more experience.

So, you're probably wondering why I didn't play with Mr. B. Two reasons: 1. I had recently played with him just that week. 2. I have to be honest and say that I am a bit tired of him. We have been playing with each other about 1-2 times a week since meeting. I wanted another playmate to explore and enjoy. Plus, I have come to the conclusion that although he has the stamina, he doesn't make me as wet and excited as I thought he would. Perhaps I am not as attracted to him as I thought? Perhaps I feel self-conscious about my body when I play with him since he maintains himself so well (and gets worried when he gets little stretch marks on his arms from working out--thus making me wonder what he must think about mine?) Who knows. I do know that I want to have a break from playing with him for awhile.

Monday, April 2, 2012

Mrs. Sunbuckus: Our Second House Party

Mrs. Sunbuckus here. Ever since our first house party and finding that the couple, Mr. and Mrs. B lived so close by and played separately, I have been playing roughly 1-2 times every week since. Personally, I had been getting a little burned out and wanted a break. I wanted to reconnect with Mr. Sunbuckus so I had considered playing one last time this past Saturday and then not playing until our next party on the 21st of April.

I had intel that there would be a private house party after a meet and greet in the east side of town. Originally, we did not plan on going to the meet and greet because it was so far away and our first meet and greet wasn't really as fun as compared to our house party experience. (As Mr. Sunbuckus says, why go to a meet and greet when you can go to a meet and fuck?)

The person who had passed the intel onto me is considered a unicorn (single female) but she has been a bit flaky at times. Well, the morning of the meet and greet, we received an email inviting us to a house party from a couple we haven't met before but one that we had expressed some interest in but never contacted them. Mr. Sunbuckus and I were more than happy to skip the meet and greet to go. The only thing they asked was that we bring a dish for everyone to eat. How exciting...but I was also getting nervous as the time got closer. Were we going to be able to come out of our reserved shells to hit it with other couples? Would we even attract any interest from others? And would we be attracted to anyone? I shared my thoughts to Mr. B and he told us to "Be active" and "Be brave."

The dress I had originally bought to wear to the meet and greet, I decided to wear to the party anyways, even if it was a bit too dressy for the occasion. After all, when am I going to get another chance to wear it anytime soon?? As it turned out, it was quite the hit with the males at the party. But we'll get to that.

We are pretty punctual people so we arrived right on time but didn't really want to be the first couple to "go in" since we didn't know anyone. Well, after sitting in the car for a few minutes, we bit the bullet and went in anyways. We were able to chat with the hosts for a while before anyone else arrived and it was nice. At first, I didn't find the male host to be particularly attractive but he was very nice and as I got more comfortable with him, I found that I wouldn't mind playing with him if he asked.

Then, other couples started to pour in. It was close to about an hour after the "starting time". Personally, I was hoping to start playing about an hour in but it was just at that time that couples were just arriving. Argh. Mr. and Mrs. C, the couple that invited us, arrived and I was a bit disappointed in the male half, again. And it felt like Mrs. C wasn't friendly at all to me at first. She was mostly interested in chatting with the wife-host since they are good friends. Probably about 9:30, the majority of the couples had arrived. In all, there were 7 other couples besides us. One couple, I recognized the male half from our first house party. I remembered him because I had a slight interest in him the first time but I thought he was a single male so I kind of just dismissed him. Imagine my surprise when I found out after the party that he was part of a couple. We did talk with him and his wife but I wasn't quite feeling it for the male half after chatting with him a bit. He seemed dazed, in my opinion. His wife seemed nice, after she talked to us for a little bit. At first, I thought she was a bit stand-offish until she stopped to talk to us.

The majority of us stood around the kitchen island, chatting and laughing. I found it very pleasant but I think Mr. Sunbuckus was bored. He wanted to know when we would start playing. I enjoyed the conversation and company. I wanted to play too, especially since I knew we didn't want to get home too late but I wanted to forge some kind of friendship with these couples so we could be invited to other parties in the future.

Eventually, some couples went to some of the bedrooms to play. However, about 4-5 women went out to the backyard patio to talk. Mr. C, the male half of the couple that invited us to the house party, started to rub my back. I had noticed that he stood to my left and kept looking at me. But I wasn't sure how to really break the ice so I kind of let him take the lead in conversation and touching. I put my back to him and began to rub my bottom against him to show him that I was interested. I could feel his erection through our clothing, which was stimulating. Another reason why I faced away from him though is so I could look at Mr. Sunbuckus and make sure he was okay. I felt guilty that he wasn't playing with anyone yet. And so, that's probably how it went on for at least 20 minutes, Mr. C and a few of the other males fondling and rubbing me, wanting to play. I had to hold them off, telling them that I wasn't going to play unless Mr. Sunbuckus also had a playmate. Mr. C encouraged Mr. Sunbuckus to go out to the back patio to talk and convince the other women to come in. While he was away, one male kneeled down behind me and wanted to lick my asshole. Another male came to rub and nibble at my nipples. And Mr. C did a little oral, nipple play, and fingered me. While he was fingering me, we were all in the same room as the mini-orgy (3 couples) going on in the bedroom, the not-really-standoffish woman was watching Mr. C finger me and was telling me to relax and squirt...to concentrate on what he was doing. Well, that did it and I squirted right there, standing up. That was very new for me, since I had only experienced squirting while riding on top of my male partners. Mr. C was very ecstatic and really wanted to play right then and there. I told him that I still wouldn't play unless Mr. Sunbuckus was playing too. He tried to put me at ease and say that he was probably in the other room getting his brains fucked but I told him to make sure by looking outside. Sure enough, he was outside with the other women. Mr. C pressured Mrs. C to play with Mr. Sunbuckus so we could play.

Looking back, I feel bad about how that went down. I didn't want anyone to feel pressured. Even Mrs. C commented about how she felt pressured to play and I told her that we can slow down if she wanted. Well, somehow, we all got onto the bed and started playing. Mr. C and I started missionary and I tried to show him that I was more than willing to hold my legs in the air for him. He was nice enough to ask me what my favorite position was...I responded that as long as a cock was inside, I was happy. So, we did missionary and doggy style. However, he doesn't have the stamina that Mr. B has and had to ask a few times if I could be on top so he could rest. I was more than happy to oblige and soon enough, I was squirting all over him. Throughout the time we were playing, I would notice that the males that were rubbing on me earlier kept popping in to watch, as if they wanted their turn. Thinking about it now, I probably should have invited them over to play and maybe I could have engaged in a MFMM. Mr. C and I rotated between positions again and eventually, he came. We chatted a bit and fondled while Mr. Sunbuckus and Mrs. C were still playing. After awhile, Mr. C wanted to play again so he put on another condom and we went for round 2. When he needed a break again, I was on top and squirted several times. Mr. C seemed to really enjoy all the wetness on him. However, he didn't cum again with me. I think he was tired and needed a break from playing. So, once Mr. Sunbuckus and Mrs. C finished, we all sat or laid on the bed chatting. Mr. Sunbuckus took note of the time, and decided we should get going. I was a bit disappointed that we wouldn't get to play with anyone else but hopefully we will get invited by the hosts again for their next party.

I had a lot of fun at the party and I didn't feel any jealousy at all. Of course, maybe I was too busy having my own fun to really see what Mr. Sunbuckus was doing. I do know he enjoyed Mrs. C's triple D breasts. Okay, maybe I was jealous...but not of what Mr. Sunbuckus was doing but of Mrs. C's big breasts. I wish I had such beautiful breasts! I know Mr. Sunbuckus would love them, too. But that's another topic that I've written about and one that I go back and forth on....

I can't wait until our next house party or our next playtime...which is tomorrow night!

Sunday, February 26, 2012

House Party 2/25: Mrs. Sunbuckus' Perspective

Mrs. Sunbuckus here. Mr. Sunbuckus and I just attended our first house party (a birthday party for a single female) this past Saturday night and I thought it would be a great idea for both of us to write about our experience and thoughts on it since it was such a big step for us in the lifestyle.

For the past few weeks, I haven’t been feeling particularly excited about sex or the lifestyle. Maybe it had to do with the fact that Mr. Sunbuckus had been bothered by all the messages we received from single males so we had to hide our profile from single males on the swinging site…thus I didn’t get that surprise email from someone else stating that they found me attractive. That always boosts your self-confidence and it makes you feel aroused knowing everything is so sexually charged when it concerns the lifestyle. And that in turn makes me want to fuck like crazy.

Or perhaps it’s the fact that I didn’t feel close to Mr. Sunbuckus the past few weeks due not exercising with him every night because of an ankle injury. Or perhaps we just weren’t communicating enough. In any case, with the combination of AF visiting and not connecting emotionally with Mr. Sunbuckus, we just hadn’t been having as much sex as we had before and I knew it was affecting us as a couple and personally. However, a couple of days before the party, we cleared up what was the matter and made things better. And although we had considered “saving” ourselves for the house party by abstaining from cumming while having sex, the desire proved too great to save it for Saturday night.

The big night came upon us and the theme was lingerie so we headed to the local adult toy/clothing store and picked a red/black corset for me and a non-hammock lingerie underwear for Mr. Sunbuckus. We arrived not too long after the start time of the party so we could change into our “party clothes”. I had originally planned on wearing the corset with the accompanying garter straps and stockings with maybe no underwear but when we found that the straps still dangled too low to be comfortable, we decided to forego the garter straps and stockings and just wear the corset and a thong. Although I’m not comfortable exposing my legs, I got used to it after a while since many females were baring a lot of skin as well.

I have always been self-conscious about many parts of my body. From the stretchmarks on my arms, my funny looking deflated breasts, my saggy tummy full of battle scars, thick jiggly thighs to my varicose veins I wasn’t sure how confident or comfortable I would be in the lifestyle. But if I get anything out of being in the LS it is that we all have something that is not attractive and something that is. And that cellulite, jiggly-ness, puffy-poofy-saggy skin doesn’t just affect me but a lot of women and that it’s normal. Looking at touched up photos on the internet, tv, magazines…not real but brainwashes us nonetheless. And I am grateful for the reminder that women come in all shapes and sizes and that someone will find them attractive and sexy no matter what. It’s quite awesome.

Well, when I walked up the stairs clad in just my corset and thong, I was greeted by the birthday girl herself, wearing a babydoll lingerie dress. I was taken aback that she was hugging me right away and thought momentarily that she was mistaking me for someone else. As it turns out, she hugged everyone that night which I thought was very sweet and a very warm way to welcome everyone. I thought she was very attractive and her friendliness made her more attractive. Before the party, I had thought about surprising Mr. Sunbuckus with a little show and kissing the birthday girl in front of him. But I didn’t want to seem too forward or give her the wrong idea that I was bi or bi-curious.

Mr. Sunbuckus had brought in our little case of alcoholic drinks to help loosen us up. But truth be told, it made me flushed and my heart race. And it didn’t make me feel any more comfortable. Besides, I had read on the forums that swinging is something you should be able to do sober. If you can’t do it unless you’re buzzed or drunk, then it’s not right for you at this time.
For about three hours, I’d say that we were bored. I certainly was. I would yawn sometimes and wonder when things were going to get “wild”. We went up and down the tri-level home several times. Sometimes we’d poke our heads into the bedrooms to see what was going on and usually nothing except for people lining up to use the bathrooms. And we were wondering when they were going to do the “who can eat pussy the best” contest. Mr. Sunbuckus was interested in trying it out and I wanted to see if I would be able to see him do that. During that span of time, we did talk to the male half of a couple. He seemed nice and somewhat interested but we play as a couple and since the female half of the couple was too busy chatting with someone else, I just felt that it was a pleasant way of passing the time. Mr. Sunbuckus did ask him his opinion about my ass and had him pat it which was nice but I admit, I was being a bit shy and self-conscious.

We went up to the roof-top patio a couple of times. The view was great but I didn’t particularly like hiding out up there even if it was warmer outside than it was inside. Mr. Sunbuckus was interested in what was going on on the roof again so we went up the second time but after that, I didn’t want to go up again due to the spiral staircase. After coming down from the staircase the second time, a woman was standing in the hallway and remarked to me, “I could eat you up all night.” I was surprised and flattered while Mr. Sunbuckus quipped, “Go ahead.” I thought she was a single female but as it turned out, she was part of a couple.

There was more general boredom/uncertainty on our part for a while. I noticed that a male half of a couple that we met at the meet and greet from last month was rubbing very suggestively on another female. Sure enough, we saw them head upstairs. Within ten minutes, there was a full on orgy going on in one of the bedrooms. I think Mr. Sunbuckus thought it might unnerve me. It actually did not. I had watched porn videos of orgies before. I will say it is different when you see actual people do it in front of you and they aren’t all pretty and thin or choreographed. There were heads and limbs bumping into each other. There were comments and conversation between participants and watchers which I felt was very nice. There were even some “Hey! So-and-so is here!” And people would stop for a second or two to say hi. I thought it was very neat how they were so friendly and comfortable.

We headed downstairs again and probably another 15 or so minutes, those in the orgy started to come down one by one, some dressed up, some missing some clothes, and some a bit mussed looking. But what I really enjoyed was how there was a general camaraderie among them. There was laughing, friendliness, and sexual and non-sexual touching that just made me hope that one day, Mr. Sunbuckus and I would reach that level of being comfortable in our own group (or non-clique) and enjoy ourselves like they did.
During our wanderings, the same woman from earlier kept coming up to us and commenting about how she liked the corset or some other feature. At one point, I think she mentioned how she wanted to taste me and Mr. Sunbuckus was all for it, again. I said I would be okay as long as she was interested. She proceeded by saying, “You want to know if I’m interested?” and gently pushing me against the wall and kissed me a few times. Then she said, “Yes, I’m interested.” But she excused herself and I can’t remember why. The kiss was definitely different but mostly I remember how surprised I felt at how her lips felt thin and tasted smoky since she was a smoker.

Eventually, I think Mr. Sunbuckus was aching for something and asked that I give him a blowjob in one of the bedrooms. I acquiesced and after a time, we began to perform oral on each other. My ass was in the air and a few bystanders were commenting on my ass. I even heard a male ask Mr. Sunbuckus if he shared but I didn’t hear the response. Thinking about it now, I think it would have be nice to feel his hands run down my ass cheeks while Mr. Sunbuckus was licked and sucking at my clit. Although I thought we might start fucking, we heard about how they were signing up participants for the “who-can-eat-pussy-the-best” contest at that very moment and Mr. Sunbuckus was anxious to get down there. So we stopped and rushed downstairs. In actuality, I think Mr. Sunbuckus was excited to get me on the list to get my pussy eaten by other men while I was interested in having him doing the eating. As it turned out, we didn’t sign up for anything.

Meanwhile, when we got downstairs, the same woman from earlier came up to me again and asked to nibble on my breasts. I gave her the go-ahead…unfortunately, it escaped my mind to warn her about my breastmilk and I think she had a gulp. I feel bad about that because I don’t think she was expecting it. She had her husband come over and talk to us but Mr. Sunbuckus was really interested about the contest so we didn’t stay to talk.

I’m probably remembering the sequence of events incorrectly but at some time, we saw this couple and two others upstairs in their own orgy. Mr. Sunbuckus and I were in the room watching with one couple to our right and a male to my left. I was actually attracted to the male half of the couple that was watching (we’ll call him Peter Saarsgaard because that’s who he looked like to me) but most of the night, I thought he was single for some reason and he was attached to the female half of a couple. Anyway, while we were watching the orgy, I was aroused and started to kiss Mr. Sunbuckus deeply. The male to my left had been glancing at my ass and rubbing himself. After a short while, I could feel his hands lightly fondling my ass. I have always fantasized about being fondled by strangers and this was just a tiny taste of it. And I loved it. I purposely invited him to touch me some more by pushing my bum toward him and shaking it just a hint. And he got the hint. Eventually, I was so turned on that I reached behind me, while still kissing Mr. Sunbuckus, and started to stroke his cock through his underwear. Then I took it out and stroked it. Eventually, I turned around to face him and was surprised that he was one of the men that I thought was attractive but maybe a bit out of our age range. He was very excited and proceeded to kiss me a few times…sometimes aggressively. I wanted to play some more and be the center of attention between Mr. Sunbuckus and this older male but Mr. Sunbuckus wanted to check out the other bedroom. I think maybe Mr. Sunbuckus was a bit overwhelmed. I felt bad for leaving the male behind and not going any further but I think he was happy with what he got at least.

Sometime later, we headed downstairs again and the female from earlier, we’ll call her A, approached me and asked if her husband, B, could touch my breasts. I agreed and she brought him over. He reached into my corset and fondled my breasts. I admit, even though it was arousing, I was self-conscious about my lack of assets in comparison to the ones that A had. B asked if we were playing tonight and I answered in the “maybe”…I think Mr. Sunbuckus was saying something else. B seemed a little disappointed but not much and I could see his eyes wander. I noted to A that Mr. Sunbuckus had something to ask her. Mr. Sunbuckus was reluctant so I asked for him and asked her if she wanted to go down on me. She said she wasn’t good at it but I didn’t really care to be honest. I wanted to give Mr. Sunbuckus a sight that I knew he was itching for…to watch me get eaten. Personally, I don’t really get off of receiving oral pleasure. I prefer to be finger fucked or fucked by a cock. There’s real pressure and real urgency when being penetrated and I love that. With the right speed and angle, give me a good fuck any day.

Well, she led me upstairs and we went into a bedroom where she took off my thong and proceeded to go down on me. B ran his hands all over my body while I gave Mr. Sunbuckus a blowjob. It was awesome. I loved being in the center of things and feeling so many hands on me because Mr. Sunbuckus, A, and B were rubbing me everywhere. I was extremely turned on. I noticed that B was kind of left out so as I stroked A’s hair with my right hand, I reached for B’s cock and decided to stroke him while giving Mr. Sunbuckus his blowjob. I wasn’t really aiming to be fucked but Mr. Sunbuckus noted to B that I wanted his cock. Well, that wasn’t really the truth. I did want to be fucked but I wasn’t certain if it was by him. But I was open for anything…especially in the heightened aroused state that I was in. B took Mr. Sunbuckus’ place while Mr. Sunbuckus started to fondle and finger A’s pussy. At some time, B asked Mr. Sunbuckus if he could taste me and Mr. Sunbuckus was game. Eventually, Mr. Sunbuckus was eating A’s pussy while B ate mine. Mr. Sunbuckus pointed to the condoms he had brought out and B put one on and started to fuck me.

While I was getting banged, I saw Mr. Sunbuckus finger and pleasure A very much. At the time, I didn’t feel much about it except that I was glad that Mr. Sunbuckus was enjoying himself. Eventually, Mr. Sunbuckus was fucking A while B was fucking me. A full swap! There was even another male and female fucking next to us in the same bed…three couples fucking on one queen sized bed. How awesome!

Throughout the whole thing, I did have that realization that yes, this is what those swingers are talking about. This is just sex. I still felt all of this love for Mr. Sunbuckus and exhibited this by seeking out his hand or arm to stroke him to make sure things were still okay. And sometimes, while B was fucking me, I would actually imagine that it was Mr. Sunbuckus that was fucking me. Of course, feeling his intensely smooth skin and much thinner frame, I knew it wasn’t but to make myself feel a bit more comfortable, I had to pretend that it was Mr. Sunbuckus on top of me.

Eventually, everyone finished and got dressed. We were very surprised to find out that the majority of the people at the party had left and we were actually one of the last ones to leave! We thought that the night was young since it was only 1 am when we finished and the party was set to last until 2am.

We had a great time experiencing our first house party and first full swap. Unfortunately, it was overshadowed by the discovery that my new phone that Mr. Sunbuckus had given to me for Valentine’s Day was stolen while we were playing.
As for my emotions and feelings…I didn’t really feel jealousy during the swap; however, once it was over and during the times when I wasn’t worried or upset about the loss of my phone, the comparison questions started to creep into my head. Was she a better kisser? Was she a better lay? Does Mr. Sunbuckus wish I had big tits like she did? On and on and on. But I think one of the things I was bothered by the most was how much pleasure she actually received. I know Mr. Sunbuckus is fabulous at finger banging but I haven’t really squirted or gushed in that manner. I may have gushed a few times on Mr. Sunbuckus while I was on top but never finger-banged. And I was jealous that she was able to experience such pleasure from my husband when I couldn’t. Was something wrong with me? Am I doing something wrong? Will Mr. Sunbuckus start to resent me for not reacting in such a manner?

Anyway, I am looking forward to our next house party. And I think on our next outing, perhaps I will put out a general invitation to all attendees that if they wanted to fondle me, they could without asking…but with Mr. Sunbuckus’ permission, of course. Because being touched and fondled was my favorite part of the night.

Diving In Head First

Well, we've been hanging around the fringes of the lifestyle for a couple of months now. Gone to a meet and greet, went to the club a few times, exchanged emails with a few couples and singles.

That had been enough to get Mrs. Sunbuckus and I more interested. Since we hadn't been able to attend the previous party like we would have liked to, Mrs. Sunbuckus surprised me by arranging for an overnight babysitter and signing us up for another, smaller house party.

Looking at the invitation, we saw over 100 people had signed up for the party, but it was only a 3-bedroom, 1600 square foot house. I looked at her and said "There's not going to be enough room for everyone."

The whole week before the event, I was either giddy with anticipation or nervous about what might happen. I think Mrs. Sunbuckus was, too. But we knew that if we just stuck to our old ways, we'd never get to experience everything the lifestyle has to offer; sometimes, you just gotta jump in head first and hope for the best. Or a sharp rock to kill you instantly so you don't live the rest of your life as a vegetable.

Before the party we had a nice dinner, some sushi. Since there was still some time left over before the party started, we stopped by a dealership and looked at some cars. We also stopped by a grocery store and purchased some wine coolers to help lubricate our personalities a bit before the evening. Sort of like giving yourself courage pills, I suppose, but we felt that if we were being too prudish, we'd down a few drinks and hopefully we'd be a bit more forward.

So, finally we're at the house. We enter and Mrs. Sunbuckus goes off to the bathroom to change into some of her sexy, sexy lingerie. I run back to the car to get the drinks. As I'm coming back in, the host of the party comes downstairs and says hi. She's wearing a see-through babydoll, a g-string and very little else! I know then I'm at the right place.

Finally Mrs. Sunbuckus gets her sexy wear on. As the man in the relationship, I feel luck in that I'm not having to wear anything much different than maybe some sexy underwear under my clothing (I was.)

The party starts out slow as couples trickle in. A main difference we noted from the swinger's clubs is that the ratio of men to women is much, much more even. Single men are rare, and many of the ladies are wearing sexy lingerie leaving little to the imagination. People are bringing their own drinks, standing around talking, normal party stuff that it might as well be a holiday party except the ladies are wearing almost nothing. Mrs. Sunbuckus, I'm proud to say, we wearing one of the more revealing outfits, a corset with a g-string, high heels and nothing else. She received quite a few compliments on her ass, and hopefully she now has more confidence in it as well.

At one point, we were standing in the hallway near the bedrooms, either waiting to see if something would happen in them or maybe something was going on in there, I'm not sure. This lovely lady, let's call her M, walks in off the balcony, looks at Mrs. Sunbuckus and says something to the effect of liking her outfit and that she could eat her pussy all day! So, being bold, I jump in and ask her "Do you want to eat it?"

Before I or Mrs. Sunbuckus know what is happening, she pushes Mrs. Sunbuckus against the wall, gives her a long kiss on the lips, hesitates for a moment, and says "yes; but right now a beer is calling me."

That beer would take another hour to materialize, but now I was interested, and I was hoping to get Mrs. Sunbuckus to spread her legs for a lovely lady. At some point we met her husband, a tall, very fit and very handsome man that I was almost sure Mrs. Sunbuckus would love to fuck. We'll just refer to him as Tony.

Finally, we were able to corner the lovely lady and ask her "Do you still want to lick Mrs. Sunbuckus' pussy?" So she, her husband, Mrs. Sunbuckus and I found an unused room.

What happened next was right out of a porno. There was the lovely lady eating out Mrs. Sunbuckus' pussy; Mrs. Sunbuckus sucking first my cock, then Mrs. Sunbuckus sucking Tony's cock. Tony eating out Mrs. Sunbuckus while I ate out M's pussy. Mrs. Sunbuckus and Tony were 69'ing at some point. Luckily we had brought protection, because I knew at that point that if we were going to go this far, we might as well go all the way.

Tony suited up Tony Jr, and he entered Mrs. Sunbuckus. Before I know it, he's pounding her hard while I'm still eating out M's pussy. They're making such a show of it, though, that I ask M if we should try to compete, to which she surprisingly said "Of course!" Maybe it was "absolutely" but either way I couldn't believe it. So I suit up and pretty soon I'm having at it with M.

Now, don't get me wrong, I enjoyed it very much, but the excitement of the night, that diving in, must have got me too excited, because after maybe five minutes of thrusting, I had spent my load. Of course Tony and Mrs. Sunbuckus were STILL going at it! I whispered to M "Your man is a machine; he could go all night." and she says back "I know." And it wasn't like I was jealous, I think I was more in awe of his machine-like endurance.

Not wanting to disappoint M, I start going back down on her pussy, with some deep-finger stimulation. Well, she is loving it. She keeps screaming at me to do it harder, faster, whatever. After maybe ten, twenty minutes of this, she starts gushing. And gushing. I can feel my hand getting wet from her juices, but I keep going until she tells me to stop. As I'm sitting there, her husband still giving Mrs. Sunbuckus quite the ride, I can feel M's legs and body quivering, and finally I feel like I'm good enough to do this swinging thing without disappointing the other ladies. Even if I had cum way, way before I planned to.

And so it happened, we dived in head first, and I don't feel like Mrs. Sunbuckus was cheating on me, and I was happy that she was getting to experience other men in a safe way.

Later, Mrs. Sunbuckus would confess to me that their cocks were not as thick as mine. While I don't have first hand experience to dispute that, it is nice of her to say. We spoke extensively about what we liked and maybe didn't like. But overall, I think it went well, and we are eagerly and lustily looking forward to the next house party we can make it to.