The past two couples that we played with have been less than enticing. I knew that we would play with couples that wouldn't be very exciting but I didn't think we would actually play with couples that we may not really be attracted to! I think we just wanted to play and accepted whoever was interested...which may have not been a good idea. I actually found myself not at all attracted to the past two males in these couples and was not at all excited to kiss them. In all honesty, if I could have just closed my eyes and focused that their dicks were inside and I could pretend it was someone else, I probably would have. Luckily, with the last couple, I was fingered a bit too harshly and was able to stave off anymore playtime by claiming that I had "broke". Not to mention, that the last couple seemed to only be interested in playing with me...which I hated. I wanted Mr. Sunbuckus to play as well and when it seemed that the female half just wanted girl/girl play, I wanted out but I wasn't sure how.
Anyway, those two experiences have made me very wary in going out and finding another couple to play with...almost to the point of just wanting to swing with one of the couples that we've played with already or not swing for awhile. It's so hard to find couples that we're both interested in and who are interested in us...the both of us. I have often wondered if couples who have been in the LS for awhile realize this and decide to swing separately or if those couples are resigned to pass on swing opportunities. Since it seems that women are able to get more playtime, I would be more than happy to give Mr. Sunbuckus a hall pass to play with the wife of a couple (as long as they are okay with it) separately if I am not attracted to the husband. Of course, how do you politely tell a couple, "Hey, I don't find you attractive but our spouses are into each other, why don't we just let them have fun?"
We have another weekend of possible fun coming up. I really hope we have a good experience because if not, I am not sure how many more of these "bad" experiences I can take before I want to withdraw from swinging for awhile.
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Monday, August 13, 2012
Wednesday, March 21, 2012
Another Threesome
Mrs. Sunbuckus had her threesome, of which we wrote about a couple weeks back. Today it was Mr. Sunbuckus' day to play. Mrs. Sunbuckus had arranged for only the wife of our playmates to come over today, and it was fantastic.
I was actually taking a shower when she came over. So she peeked in the shower real quick and said "Daddy," like she was one of my kids. I quickly hurried with the shower, popped a vitamin "V" and said hello to the lovely ladies. They had already started playing. T had brought over a butterfly vibrator and was using it on Mrs. Sunbuckus, who seemed to be enjoying it. I offered my fingers to Mrs. Sunbuckus' pussy, and we teased her for a few minutes like that.
T then pushed me down on the bed and proceeded to kiss me all over my body. Mrs. Sunbuckus joined in with the kisses, and that went on for awhile. I did notice that T is a little rough with her teeth, but that's okay by me. Eventually Mrs. Sunbuckus took my cock into her mouth while T licked my balls. There were occasional kisses between the two as well.
I couldn't wait to give kisses all over those two bodies, so I got up and instructed them to lay next to each other. I then proceeded to place kisses all up and down both succulent bodies, being sure to play around their pussies but not lick them yet. By this time both their bras were off, and I proceeded to remove both their panties.
I'm pretty sure they were both ready to have their pussies licked, so I started with Mrs. Sunbuckus. She's not as much into the oral as I am, so I moved on to T. I was really enjoying her pussy, and I could tell she was getting into it with her little whimpers. I moved her closer to the edge of the bed and Mrs. Sunbuckus then took my cock into her mouth while I stood up and licked T's pussy.
This went on for several minutes, and of course I enjoyed every second. I started in with the fingers after that. Once I got to T's pussy, we had to put a towel down. She once again expertly instructed me on how to use my fingers and she had two squirting orgasms, then a third one which got her knees quivering again. Having pleased both ladies greatly, T, always the lady, noted that I had not been taken care of yet.
So she started in cowboy style while Mrs. Sunbuckus used my face as a seat. I then had T turn over for some missionary while Mrs. Sunbuckus lay next to us and smiled. I pounded T in several missionary variations, then Mrs. Sunbuckus took a ride on my cock after sucking it again. I had T use my face as a seat, and although I sure loved her pussy, she almost suffocated me! Ah, the dangers of a threesome!
Much more happened after that, and finally I had T doggy style again, and as soon as the condom went on I went a little flacid. Luckily, Mrs. Sunbuckus was there to pump him back up with her hand! Thanks honey! I entered T and pounded her from behind until I exploded deep down inside her pussy.
We lay recovering for about ten minutes. There were kisses all around and T stepped out into the night.
As my philosophy goes, if you do enough good deeds, eventually you will get them back in turn. Having done Mrs. Sunbuckus a good deed with a MFM, my "turn" came tonight, and boy am I glad! I literally can't stop smiling everytime I think about it! It was so much better, too, knowing Mrs. Sunbuckus was there enjoying it with me. She even took a picture of T and I snuggling together afterwards!
The Lifestyle, although it can be slow starting, is starting to get better! I look forward to finding new playmates and attending more parties.
I was actually taking a shower when she came over. So she peeked in the shower real quick and said "Daddy," like she was one of my kids. I quickly hurried with the shower, popped a vitamin "V" and said hello to the lovely ladies. They had already started playing. T had brought over a butterfly vibrator and was using it on Mrs. Sunbuckus, who seemed to be enjoying it. I offered my fingers to Mrs. Sunbuckus' pussy, and we teased her for a few minutes like that.
T then pushed me down on the bed and proceeded to kiss me all over my body. Mrs. Sunbuckus joined in with the kisses, and that went on for awhile. I did notice that T is a little rough with her teeth, but that's okay by me. Eventually Mrs. Sunbuckus took my cock into her mouth while T licked my balls. There were occasional kisses between the two as well.
I couldn't wait to give kisses all over those two bodies, so I got up and instructed them to lay next to each other. I then proceeded to place kisses all up and down both succulent bodies, being sure to play around their pussies but not lick them yet. By this time both their bras were off, and I proceeded to remove both their panties.
I'm pretty sure they were both ready to have their pussies licked, so I started with Mrs. Sunbuckus. She's not as much into the oral as I am, so I moved on to T. I was really enjoying her pussy, and I could tell she was getting into it with her little whimpers. I moved her closer to the edge of the bed and Mrs. Sunbuckus then took my cock into her mouth while I stood up and licked T's pussy.
This went on for several minutes, and of course I enjoyed every second. I started in with the fingers after that. Once I got to T's pussy, we had to put a towel down. She once again expertly instructed me on how to use my fingers and she had two squirting orgasms, then a third one which got her knees quivering again. Having pleased both ladies greatly, T, always the lady, noted that I had not been taken care of yet.
So she started in cowboy style while Mrs. Sunbuckus used my face as a seat. I then had T turn over for some missionary while Mrs. Sunbuckus lay next to us and smiled. I pounded T in several missionary variations, then Mrs. Sunbuckus took a ride on my cock after sucking it again. I had T use my face as a seat, and although I sure loved her pussy, she almost suffocated me! Ah, the dangers of a threesome!
Much more happened after that, and finally I had T doggy style again, and as soon as the condom went on I went a little flacid. Luckily, Mrs. Sunbuckus was there to pump him back up with her hand! Thanks honey! I entered T and pounded her from behind until I exploded deep down inside her pussy.
We lay recovering for about ten minutes. There were kisses all around and T stepped out into the night.
As my philosophy goes, if you do enough good deeds, eventually you will get them back in turn. Having done Mrs. Sunbuckus a good deed with a MFM, my "turn" came tonight, and boy am I glad! I literally can't stop smiling everytime I think about it! It was so much better, too, knowing Mrs. Sunbuckus was there enjoying it with me. She even took a picture of T and I snuggling together afterwards!
The Lifestyle, although it can be slow starting, is starting to get better! I look forward to finding new playmates and attending more parties.
Sunday, March 11, 2012
Date Night: Mr. Sunbuckus' Perspective
Well, apart from attending swinger-specific events, Mrs. Sunbuckus and I had what could be considered a date night. Of course, it was with the couple who initiated us into the lifestyle.
We met at a local club, and we found out they usually meet there with other swingers. We were there first, and almost nothing was going on. We got a couple of drinks and waited. And waited. And waited some more. Eventually the other couple, we'll nickname Mr. and Mrs. T, showed up. And then some other swinger couples showed up. Eventually, there were six swinger couples there, and the club started filling up with people looking to drink, dance, and have a good time.
We did have a good time. Mrs. Sunbuckus wore an appropriately short dress that allowed her ass to hang out or hands to go under it without much effort. She ended up getting felt up by pretty much every one of the male half, and quite a few of the women halves, too. I ended up on the dance floor a few times dancing in between Mrs. Sunbuckus and Mrs. T. It was quite a confidence builder, knowing I'm out there on the dance floor, two women on me giving me kisses. Hopefully making the regular guys jealous, wondering how this short guy who isn't even dressed that well is getting two beautiful women to openly kiss on the mouth and grinding against him. And secretly, I know I will probably get to have sex with both of them later.
The good times seemed to last as long as I was drinking and for a short time afterwards. Unfortunately, I didn't get to know all the other ladies as well, possibly because of my shyness, possibly because some of the other ladies seemed a little stand-offish, like it would take a few more meet-ups for them to get comfortable with me. To their credit, all the male halves were very friendly, spoke to me a bit, and one of them who has been married for 20+ years gave me a little advice which I'm sure to take to heart later.
As the evening wore on, Mrs. T took my hand, dragged me down to a couch and started making out with me in earnest. Despite her smoking habit, I thoroughly enjoyed her kisses all over me. We were having so much fun until a security guard came over and made us sit up. What a killjoy! Still, that didn't stop us from making out some more. Mrs. Sunbuckus, seeing us making out, decided she'd make out with one of the other guys, and that's exactly what she did, until security came over and told her to pull her skirt down since she was showing too much ass.
Finally, I was sober enough to drive home, and we convinced Mr. and Mrs. T to head back to our home. Of course, it took 10 minutes to leave since Mrs. T was kissing everyone on the way out and there were hugs all around.
Once at home, the fun began. We were all naked, and then Mr. T requested that he be allowed to take Mrs. Sunbuckus to a different room to play. I was ok with that, and Mrs. T remarked that would I really care if they did anything else as at that moment her beautiful nude body was above me and she was busy kissing me. I admitted, I did not care.
Many things were enjoyed that night, and I enjoyed Mrs. T in many ways, and, apparently, Mrs. Sunbuckus enjoyed Mr. T in many ways. At one point I was fisting Mrs. T, and she was moaning and screaming and trying to muffle her passion by putting her hand over her mouth. I gently moved her hand away and said "You don't need to be quiet here." She just proceeded to be as loud as she wanted to be, and I felt pretty good being able to make her moan like that.
Unfortunately, due to the late hour and the fact I had been drinking - something I don't do on a regular basis - Mr. Sunbuckus Jr. had some trouble staying hard throughout the night. Mrs. T took it all in stride, though, and we played in other ways. At one point she was trying to suck my nipples and I couldn't keep from laughing. It doesn't work for Mrs. Sunbuckus, and it didn't work for Mrs. T. Sorry, ladies, Mr. Sunbuckus' nipples are off-limits.
At some point Mrs. T. had a knee-shaking, body-quivering orgasm. After she recovered from that, she was quite the lady, insisting that I cum as well, and offering herself doggy style. A minute later, she's bent over, and I'm in the unthinkable position: a gorgeous lady offering me her pussy and Mr. Sunbuckus Jr at half-staff!
Fortunately, I was able to get him up to snuff, and started riding Mrs. T doggy style, about halfway through Mr. T and Mrs. Sunbuckus come back into the room looking freshly fucked. Mrs. Sunbuckus gives Mrs. T a kiss, and I ride Mrs. T to a long-awaited, overdue orgasm which had me feeling fantastic.
Some more kisses, some more smalltalk, and then Mr. and Mrs. T had to leave.
Mrs. Sunbuckus and I tried some more sex, but the late hour and fatigue factor set in and we were unable to finish what we started. Fortunately, the next morning we were able to finish with a little anal, some oral and fantastic pounding.
Overall a fanstastic date, and I have to believe by now that Mrs. T is a nympho on some sort of level. She just loves cock too much. I'm totally ok with that, of course.
Still loving the lifestyle, even if we have only played with one couple so far.
We met at a local club, and we found out they usually meet there with other swingers. We were there first, and almost nothing was going on. We got a couple of drinks and waited. And waited. And waited some more. Eventually the other couple, we'll nickname Mr. and Mrs. T, showed up. And then some other swinger couples showed up. Eventually, there were six swinger couples there, and the club started filling up with people looking to drink, dance, and have a good time.
We did have a good time. Mrs. Sunbuckus wore an appropriately short dress that allowed her ass to hang out or hands to go under it without much effort. She ended up getting felt up by pretty much every one of the male half, and quite a few of the women halves, too. I ended up on the dance floor a few times dancing in between Mrs. Sunbuckus and Mrs. T. It was quite a confidence builder, knowing I'm out there on the dance floor, two women on me giving me kisses. Hopefully making the regular guys jealous, wondering how this short guy who isn't even dressed that well is getting two beautiful women to openly kiss on the mouth and grinding against him. And secretly, I know I will probably get to have sex with both of them later.
The good times seemed to last as long as I was drinking and for a short time afterwards. Unfortunately, I didn't get to know all the other ladies as well, possibly because of my shyness, possibly because some of the other ladies seemed a little stand-offish, like it would take a few more meet-ups for them to get comfortable with me. To their credit, all the male halves were very friendly, spoke to me a bit, and one of them who has been married for 20+ years gave me a little advice which I'm sure to take to heart later.
As the evening wore on, Mrs. T took my hand, dragged me down to a couch and started making out with me in earnest. Despite her smoking habit, I thoroughly enjoyed her kisses all over me. We were having so much fun until a security guard came over and made us sit up. What a killjoy! Still, that didn't stop us from making out some more. Mrs. Sunbuckus, seeing us making out, decided she'd make out with one of the other guys, and that's exactly what she did, until security came over and told her to pull her skirt down since she was showing too much ass.
Finally, I was sober enough to drive home, and we convinced Mr. and Mrs. T to head back to our home. Of course, it took 10 minutes to leave since Mrs. T was kissing everyone on the way out and there were hugs all around.
Once at home, the fun began. We were all naked, and then Mr. T requested that he be allowed to take Mrs. Sunbuckus to a different room to play. I was ok with that, and Mrs. T remarked that would I really care if they did anything else as at that moment her beautiful nude body was above me and she was busy kissing me. I admitted, I did not care.
Many things were enjoyed that night, and I enjoyed Mrs. T in many ways, and, apparently, Mrs. Sunbuckus enjoyed Mr. T in many ways. At one point I was fisting Mrs. T, and she was moaning and screaming and trying to muffle her passion by putting her hand over her mouth. I gently moved her hand away and said "You don't need to be quiet here." She just proceeded to be as loud as she wanted to be, and I felt pretty good being able to make her moan like that.
Unfortunately, due to the late hour and the fact I had been drinking - something I don't do on a regular basis - Mr. Sunbuckus Jr. had some trouble staying hard throughout the night. Mrs. T took it all in stride, though, and we played in other ways. At one point she was trying to suck my nipples and I couldn't keep from laughing. It doesn't work for Mrs. Sunbuckus, and it didn't work for Mrs. T. Sorry, ladies, Mr. Sunbuckus' nipples are off-limits.
At some point Mrs. T. had a knee-shaking, body-quivering orgasm. After she recovered from that, she was quite the lady, insisting that I cum as well, and offering herself doggy style. A minute later, she's bent over, and I'm in the unthinkable position: a gorgeous lady offering me her pussy and Mr. Sunbuckus Jr at half-staff!
Fortunately, I was able to get him up to snuff, and started riding Mrs. T doggy style, about halfway through Mr. T and Mrs. Sunbuckus come back into the room looking freshly fucked. Mrs. Sunbuckus gives Mrs. T a kiss, and I ride Mrs. T to a long-awaited, overdue orgasm which had me feeling fantastic.
Some more kisses, some more smalltalk, and then Mr. and Mrs. T had to leave.
Mrs. Sunbuckus and I tried some more sex, but the late hour and fatigue factor set in and we were unable to finish what we started. Fortunately, the next morning we were able to finish with a little anal, some oral and fantastic pounding.
Overall a fanstastic date, and I have to believe by now that Mrs. T is a nympho on some sort of level. She just loves cock too much. I'm totally ok with that, of course.
Still loving the lifestyle, even if we have only played with one couple so far.
Wednesday, March 7, 2012
First MFM Threesome
It finally happened! Our first MFM threesome! And it was sort-of a surprise to me. We had invited the male half of the couple that we played with at the party to come over last night. But we didn’t hear back from him until almost 12 hours after we sent the invite (good thing we asked early in the morning). I, Mrs. Sunbuckus, thought that maybe something had come up or he just wasn’t interested even though he had expressed his desire the past two nights to come visit. We did our usual nighttime routine once the kids were in bed…I blogged, we exercised then showered. However, something was odd and while I was in the shower, I had this sneaking suspicion that Mr. Sunbuckus had something up his sleeve. Perhaps he was going to surprise me and have our playmate, B, come and join me in the shower. After I exited the shower with no unexpected visitors, I began to wonder why that feeling wouldn’t go away. As I was drying my hair, I heard a knock on the door…just as I was thinking about how there would have been if B were coming over. My internal conversation stopped and exclaimed, “No way. Is this really happening?” As excited as I was to experience a MFM threesome, I was a bit relieved that we hadn’t heard back and might have a relaxing night. On top of having a somewhat stressful day with the kids, I was feeling insecure about my sexual abilities and wasn’t sure how good it would be for B. So when I realized that we were actually going to do a MFM threesome, I did freak out internally about how I was going to handle it...but I pushed it away as fast as I could so I could enjoy the night.
Mr. Sunbuckus approached me from behind as I was finishing up in the bathroom and I was nervously but ecstatically teasing him that I knew he’d pull something like this on me. Since I had nothing else to do but go out and greet our guest, I walked out to our living room just wearing my nightgown. Neither Mr. Sunbuckus or B knew that I wasn’t wearing underwear, which added to the upcoming excitement of the night. We chatted for a while on the couch, Mr. Sunbuckus on my left and B on my right. I let my arm rest against his and we rubbed each other’s legs and arms. It was getting to be almost 11 and I knew both of my playmates had to work the next day so I basically said, “Let’s go to the bedroom!”
B admired our big king-sized bed and enjoyed the comfort of it. I laid down next him and he immediately lifted my nightgown up to squeeze my ass. I noticed that Mr. Sunbuckus was cleaning off the Laz-Boy chair in the room and I told him that he should join us on the bed. So, there I was, right in the middle of two men and I loved the feeling of it. Being desired by both and knowing that both were going to fuck me that night was intoxicating.
It seemed like it was a long time when we played but I think in all, it was only about 70 minutes. There was a lot going on during that 70 minutes. At one time, I was giving a blowjob to one while stroking the other. Being taken doggie style and giving oral to the other partner. Attempting our first double penetration, which didn’t turn out but there’s always next time. Getting eaten and fingered while sucking the other cock. B ended up cumming three times, one with vaginal sex, one with anal sex, and the last with a handjob. It was nice to be able to make him cum by a handjob because I’ve never been able to do that with Mr. Sunbuckus and it worried me that maybe I don’t know how to handle a cock. Perhaps B was just ready to cum but at least I was able to do that for him with my hand. And, of course, Mr. Sunbuckus finished creaming my asshole at the end.
With our full swap and threesome under our belts, I am even more convinced that we are in the right mindset to swing. Both times, I found the sex fun but not intimate. Only when I was kissing Mr. Sunbuckus did I feel that I was having a special, loving moment with him. I hope that if he ever feels insecure or jealous that he knows that no matter how much fun I am having with other playmates, my bond and love for him is what makes the sex we have together unique and unmatchable by any others.
Throughout the entire experience, I was having a blast although there was one time where I was worried about being able to take care of two men at the same time. Perhaps I would get worn out? But I didn’t. Another concern I had was my lack of being able to multi-task. I had a hard time giving oral at times because of the pounding I was getting…it was affecting my stability and rhythm. In all, I can’t wait for the next MFM threesome but I think I owe Mr. Sunbuckus his own FMF threesome next!
Mr. Sunbuckus approached me from behind as I was finishing up in the bathroom and I was nervously but ecstatically teasing him that I knew he’d pull something like this on me. Since I had nothing else to do but go out and greet our guest, I walked out to our living room just wearing my nightgown. Neither Mr. Sunbuckus or B knew that I wasn’t wearing underwear, which added to the upcoming excitement of the night. We chatted for a while on the couch, Mr. Sunbuckus on my left and B on my right. I let my arm rest against his and we rubbed each other’s legs and arms. It was getting to be almost 11 and I knew both of my playmates had to work the next day so I basically said, “Let’s go to the bedroom!”
B admired our big king-sized bed and enjoyed the comfort of it. I laid down next him and he immediately lifted my nightgown up to squeeze my ass. I noticed that Mr. Sunbuckus was cleaning off the Laz-Boy chair in the room and I told him that he should join us on the bed. So, there I was, right in the middle of two men and I loved the feeling of it. Being desired by both and knowing that both were going to fuck me that night was intoxicating.
It seemed like it was a long time when we played but I think in all, it was only about 70 minutes. There was a lot going on during that 70 minutes. At one time, I was giving a blowjob to one while stroking the other. Being taken doggie style and giving oral to the other partner. Attempting our first double penetration, which didn’t turn out but there’s always next time. Getting eaten and fingered while sucking the other cock. B ended up cumming three times, one with vaginal sex, one with anal sex, and the last with a handjob. It was nice to be able to make him cum by a handjob because I’ve never been able to do that with Mr. Sunbuckus and it worried me that maybe I don’t know how to handle a cock. Perhaps B was just ready to cum but at least I was able to do that for him with my hand. And, of course, Mr. Sunbuckus finished creaming my asshole at the end.
With our full swap and threesome under our belts, I am even more convinced that we are in the right mindset to swing. Both times, I found the sex fun but not intimate. Only when I was kissing Mr. Sunbuckus did I feel that I was having a special, loving moment with him. I hope that if he ever feels insecure or jealous that he knows that no matter how much fun I am having with other playmates, my bond and love for him is what makes the sex we have together unique and unmatchable by any others.
Throughout the entire experience, I was having a blast although there was one time where I was worried about being able to take care of two men at the same time. Perhaps I would get worn out? But I didn’t. Another concern I had was my lack of being able to multi-task. I had a hard time giving oral at times because of the pounding I was getting…it was affecting my stability and rhythm. In all, I can’t wait for the next MFM threesome but I think I owe Mr. Sunbuckus his own FMF threesome next!
Sunday, February 26, 2012
House Party 2/25: Mrs. Sunbuckus' Perspective
Mrs. Sunbuckus here. Mr. Sunbuckus and I just attended our first house party (a birthday party for a single female) this past Saturday night and I thought it would be a great idea for both of us to write about our experience and thoughts on it since it was such a big step for us in the lifestyle.
For the past few weeks, I haven’t been feeling particularly excited about sex or the lifestyle. Maybe it had to do with the fact that Mr. Sunbuckus had been bothered by all the messages we received from single males so we had to hide our profile from single males on the swinging site…thus I didn’t get that surprise email from someone else stating that they found me attractive. That always boosts your self-confidence and it makes you feel aroused knowing everything is so sexually charged when it concerns the lifestyle. And that in turn makes me want to fuck like crazy.
Or perhaps it’s the fact that I didn’t feel close to Mr. Sunbuckus the past few weeks due not exercising with him every night because of an ankle injury. Or perhaps we just weren’t communicating enough. In any case, with the combination of AF visiting and not connecting emotionally with Mr. Sunbuckus, we just hadn’t been having as much sex as we had before and I knew it was affecting us as a couple and personally. However, a couple of days before the party, we cleared up what was the matter and made things better. And although we had considered “saving” ourselves for the house party by abstaining from cumming while having sex, the desire proved too great to save it for Saturday night.
The big night came upon us and the theme was lingerie so we headed to the local adult toy/clothing store and picked a red/black corset for me and a non-hammock lingerie underwear for Mr. Sunbuckus. We arrived not too long after the start time of the party so we could change into our “party clothes”. I had originally planned on wearing the corset with the accompanying garter straps and stockings with maybe no underwear but when we found that the straps still dangled too low to be comfortable, we decided to forego the garter straps and stockings and just wear the corset and a thong. Although I’m not comfortable exposing my legs, I got used to it after a while since many females were baring a lot of skin as well.
I have always been self-conscious about many parts of my body. From the stretchmarks on my arms, my funny looking deflated breasts, my saggy tummy full of battle scars, thick jiggly thighs to my varicose veins I wasn’t sure how confident or comfortable I would be in the lifestyle. But if I get anything out of being in the LS it is that we all have something that is not attractive and something that is. And that cellulite, jiggly-ness, puffy-poofy-saggy skin doesn’t just affect me but a lot of women and that it’s normal. Looking at touched up photos on the internet, tv, magazines…not real but brainwashes us nonetheless. And I am grateful for the reminder that women come in all shapes and sizes and that someone will find them attractive and sexy no matter what. It’s quite awesome.
Well, when I walked up the stairs clad in just my corset and thong, I was greeted by the birthday girl herself, wearing a babydoll lingerie dress. I was taken aback that she was hugging me right away and thought momentarily that she was mistaking me for someone else. As it turns out, she hugged everyone that night which I thought was very sweet and a very warm way to welcome everyone. I thought she was very attractive and her friendliness made her more attractive. Before the party, I had thought about surprising Mr. Sunbuckus with a little show and kissing the birthday girl in front of him. But I didn’t want to seem too forward or give her the wrong idea that I was bi or bi-curious.
Mr. Sunbuckus had brought in our little case of alcoholic drinks to help loosen us up. But truth be told, it made me flushed and my heart race. And it didn’t make me feel any more comfortable. Besides, I had read on the forums that swinging is something you should be able to do sober. If you can’t do it unless you’re buzzed or drunk, then it’s not right for you at this time.
For about three hours, I’d say that we were bored. I certainly was. I would yawn sometimes and wonder when things were going to get “wild”. We went up and down the tri-level home several times. Sometimes we’d poke our heads into the bedrooms to see what was going on and usually nothing except for people lining up to use the bathrooms. And we were wondering when they were going to do the “who can eat pussy the best” contest. Mr. Sunbuckus was interested in trying it out and I wanted to see if I would be able to see him do that. During that span of time, we did talk to the male half of a couple. He seemed nice and somewhat interested but we play as a couple and since the female half of the couple was too busy chatting with someone else, I just felt that it was a pleasant way of passing the time. Mr. Sunbuckus did ask him his opinion about my ass and had him pat it which was nice but I admit, I was being a bit shy and self-conscious.
We went up to the roof-top patio a couple of times. The view was great but I didn’t particularly like hiding out up there even if it was warmer outside than it was inside. Mr. Sunbuckus was interested in what was going on on the roof again so we went up the second time but after that, I didn’t want to go up again due to the spiral staircase. After coming down from the staircase the second time, a woman was standing in the hallway and remarked to me, “I could eat you up all night.” I was surprised and flattered while Mr. Sunbuckus quipped, “Go ahead.” I thought she was a single female but as it turned out, she was part of a couple.
There was more general boredom/uncertainty on our part for a while. I noticed that a male half of a couple that we met at the meet and greet from last month was rubbing very suggestively on another female. Sure enough, we saw them head upstairs. Within ten minutes, there was a full on orgy going on in one of the bedrooms. I think Mr. Sunbuckus thought it might unnerve me. It actually did not. I had watched porn videos of orgies before. I will say it is different when you see actual people do it in front of you and they aren’t all pretty and thin or choreographed. There were heads and limbs bumping into each other. There were comments and conversation between participants and watchers which I felt was very nice. There were even some “Hey! So-and-so is here!” And people would stop for a second or two to say hi. I thought it was very neat how they were so friendly and comfortable.
We headed downstairs again and probably another 15 or so minutes, those in the orgy started to come down one by one, some dressed up, some missing some clothes, and some a bit mussed looking. But what I really enjoyed was how there was a general camaraderie among them. There was laughing, friendliness, and sexual and non-sexual touching that just made me hope that one day, Mr. Sunbuckus and I would reach that level of being comfortable in our own group (or non-clique) and enjoy ourselves like they did.
During our wanderings, the same woman from earlier kept coming up to us and commenting about how she liked the corset or some other feature. At one point, I think she mentioned how she wanted to taste me and Mr. Sunbuckus was all for it, again. I said I would be okay as long as she was interested. She proceeded by saying, “You want to know if I’m interested?” and gently pushing me against the wall and kissed me a few times. Then she said, “Yes, I’m interested.” But she excused herself and I can’t remember why. The kiss was definitely different but mostly I remember how surprised I felt at how her lips felt thin and tasted smoky since she was a smoker.
Eventually, I think Mr. Sunbuckus was aching for something and asked that I give him a blowjob in one of the bedrooms. I acquiesced and after a time, we began to perform oral on each other. My ass was in the air and a few bystanders were commenting on my ass. I even heard a male ask Mr. Sunbuckus if he shared but I didn’t hear the response. Thinking about it now, I think it would have be nice to feel his hands run down my ass cheeks while Mr. Sunbuckus was licked and sucking at my clit. Although I thought we might start fucking, we heard about how they were signing up participants for the “who-can-eat-pussy-the-best” contest at that very moment and Mr. Sunbuckus was anxious to get down there. So we stopped and rushed downstairs. In actuality, I think Mr. Sunbuckus was excited to get me on the list to get my pussy eaten by other men while I was interested in having him doing the eating. As it turned out, we didn’t sign up for anything.
Meanwhile, when we got downstairs, the same woman from earlier came up to me again and asked to nibble on my breasts. I gave her the go-ahead…unfortunately, it escaped my mind to warn her about my breastmilk and I think she had a gulp. I feel bad about that because I don’t think she was expecting it. She had her husband come over and talk to us but Mr. Sunbuckus was really interested about the contest so we didn’t stay to talk.
I’m probably remembering the sequence of events incorrectly but at some time, we saw this couple and two others upstairs in their own orgy. Mr. Sunbuckus and I were in the room watching with one couple to our right and a male to my left. I was actually attracted to the male half of the couple that was watching (we’ll call him Peter Saarsgaard because that’s who he looked like to me) but most of the night, I thought he was single for some reason and he was attached to the female half of a couple. Anyway, while we were watching the orgy, I was aroused and started to kiss Mr. Sunbuckus deeply. The male to my left had been glancing at my ass and rubbing himself. After a short while, I could feel his hands lightly fondling my ass. I have always fantasized about being fondled by strangers and this was just a tiny taste of it. And I loved it. I purposely invited him to touch me some more by pushing my bum toward him and shaking it just a hint. And he got the hint. Eventually, I was so turned on that I reached behind me, while still kissing Mr. Sunbuckus, and started to stroke his cock through his underwear. Then I took it out and stroked it. Eventually, I turned around to face him and was surprised that he was one of the men that I thought was attractive but maybe a bit out of our age range. He was very excited and proceeded to kiss me a few times…sometimes aggressively. I wanted to play some more and be the center of attention between Mr. Sunbuckus and this older male but Mr. Sunbuckus wanted to check out the other bedroom. I think maybe Mr. Sunbuckus was a bit overwhelmed. I felt bad for leaving the male behind and not going any further but I think he was happy with what he got at least.
Sometime later, we headed downstairs again and the female from earlier, we’ll call her A, approached me and asked if her husband, B, could touch my breasts. I agreed and she brought him over. He reached into my corset and fondled my breasts. I admit, even though it was arousing, I was self-conscious about my lack of assets in comparison to the ones that A had. B asked if we were playing tonight and I answered in the “maybe”…I think Mr. Sunbuckus was saying something else. B seemed a little disappointed but not much and I could see his eyes wander. I noted to A that Mr. Sunbuckus had something to ask her. Mr. Sunbuckus was reluctant so I asked for him and asked her if she wanted to go down on me. She said she wasn’t good at it but I didn’t really care to be honest. I wanted to give Mr. Sunbuckus a sight that I knew he was itching for…to watch me get eaten. Personally, I don’t really get off of receiving oral pleasure. I prefer to be finger fucked or fucked by a cock. There’s real pressure and real urgency when being penetrated and I love that. With the right speed and angle, give me a good fuck any day.
Well, she led me upstairs and we went into a bedroom where she took off my thong and proceeded to go down on me. B ran his hands all over my body while I gave Mr. Sunbuckus a blowjob. It was awesome. I loved being in the center of things and feeling so many hands on me because Mr. Sunbuckus, A, and B were rubbing me everywhere. I was extremely turned on. I noticed that B was kind of left out so as I stroked A’s hair with my right hand, I reached for B’s cock and decided to stroke him while giving Mr. Sunbuckus his blowjob. I wasn’t really aiming to be fucked but Mr. Sunbuckus noted to B that I wanted his cock. Well, that wasn’t really the truth. I did want to be fucked but I wasn’t certain if it was by him. But I was open for anything…especially in the heightened aroused state that I was in. B took Mr. Sunbuckus’ place while Mr. Sunbuckus started to fondle and finger A’s pussy. At some time, B asked Mr. Sunbuckus if he could taste me and Mr. Sunbuckus was game. Eventually, Mr. Sunbuckus was eating A’s pussy while B ate mine. Mr. Sunbuckus pointed to the condoms he had brought out and B put one on and started to fuck me.
While I was getting banged, I saw Mr. Sunbuckus finger and pleasure A very much. At the time, I didn’t feel much about it except that I was glad that Mr. Sunbuckus was enjoying himself. Eventually, Mr. Sunbuckus was fucking A while B was fucking me. A full swap! There was even another male and female fucking next to us in the same bed…three couples fucking on one queen sized bed. How awesome!
Throughout the whole thing, I did have that realization that yes, this is what those swingers are talking about. This is just sex. I still felt all of this love for Mr. Sunbuckus and exhibited this by seeking out his hand or arm to stroke him to make sure things were still okay. And sometimes, while B was fucking me, I would actually imagine that it was Mr. Sunbuckus that was fucking me. Of course, feeling his intensely smooth skin and much thinner frame, I knew it wasn’t but to make myself feel a bit more comfortable, I had to pretend that it was Mr. Sunbuckus on top of me.
Eventually, everyone finished and got dressed. We were very surprised to find out that the majority of the people at the party had left and we were actually one of the last ones to leave! We thought that the night was young since it was only 1 am when we finished and the party was set to last until 2am.
We had a great time experiencing our first house party and first full swap. Unfortunately, it was overshadowed by the discovery that my new phone that Mr. Sunbuckus had given to me for Valentine’s Day was stolen while we were playing.
As for my emotions and feelings…I didn’t really feel jealousy during the swap; however, once it was over and during the times when I wasn’t worried or upset about the loss of my phone, the comparison questions started to creep into my head. Was she a better kisser? Was she a better lay? Does Mr. Sunbuckus wish I had big tits like she did? On and on and on. But I think one of the things I was bothered by the most was how much pleasure she actually received. I know Mr. Sunbuckus is fabulous at finger banging but I haven’t really squirted or gushed in that manner. I may have gushed a few times on Mr. Sunbuckus while I was on top but never finger-banged. And I was jealous that she was able to experience such pleasure from my husband when I couldn’t. Was something wrong with me? Am I doing something wrong? Will Mr. Sunbuckus start to resent me for not reacting in such a manner?
Anyway, I am looking forward to our next house party. And I think on our next outing, perhaps I will put out a general invitation to all attendees that if they wanted to fondle me, they could without asking…but with Mr. Sunbuckus’ permission, of course. Because being touched and fondled was my favorite part of the night.
For the past few weeks, I haven’t been feeling particularly excited about sex or the lifestyle. Maybe it had to do with the fact that Mr. Sunbuckus had been bothered by all the messages we received from single males so we had to hide our profile from single males on the swinging site…thus I didn’t get that surprise email from someone else stating that they found me attractive. That always boosts your self-confidence and it makes you feel aroused knowing everything is so sexually charged when it concerns the lifestyle. And that in turn makes me want to fuck like crazy.
Or perhaps it’s the fact that I didn’t feel close to Mr. Sunbuckus the past few weeks due not exercising with him every night because of an ankle injury. Or perhaps we just weren’t communicating enough. In any case, with the combination of AF visiting and not connecting emotionally with Mr. Sunbuckus, we just hadn’t been having as much sex as we had before and I knew it was affecting us as a couple and personally. However, a couple of days before the party, we cleared up what was the matter and made things better. And although we had considered “saving” ourselves for the house party by abstaining from cumming while having sex, the desire proved too great to save it for Saturday night.
The big night came upon us and the theme was lingerie so we headed to the local adult toy/clothing store and picked a red/black corset for me and a non-hammock lingerie underwear for Mr. Sunbuckus. We arrived not too long after the start time of the party so we could change into our “party clothes”. I had originally planned on wearing the corset with the accompanying garter straps and stockings with maybe no underwear but when we found that the straps still dangled too low to be comfortable, we decided to forego the garter straps and stockings and just wear the corset and a thong. Although I’m not comfortable exposing my legs, I got used to it after a while since many females were baring a lot of skin as well.
I have always been self-conscious about many parts of my body. From the stretchmarks on my arms, my funny looking deflated breasts, my saggy tummy full of battle scars, thick jiggly thighs to my varicose veins I wasn’t sure how confident or comfortable I would be in the lifestyle. But if I get anything out of being in the LS it is that we all have something that is not attractive and something that is. And that cellulite, jiggly-ness, puffy-poofy-saggy skin doesn’t just affect me but a lot of women and that it’s normal. Looking at touched up photos on the internet, tv, magazines…not real but brainwashes us nonetheless. And I am grateful for the reminder that women come in all shapes and sizes and that someone will find them attractive and sexy no matter what. It’s quite awesome.
Well, when I walked up the stairs clad in just my corset and thong, I was greeted by the birthday girl herself, wearing a babydoll lingerie dress. I was taken aback that she was hugging me right away and thought momentarily that she was mistaking me for someone else. As it turns out, she hugged everyone that night which I thought was very sweet and a very warm way to welcome everyone. I thought she was very attractive and her friendliness made her more attractive. Before the party, I had thought about surprising Mr. Sunbuckus with a little show and kissing the birthday girl in front of him. But I didn’t want to seem too forward or give her the wrong idea that I was bi or bi-curious.
Mr. Sunbuckus had brought in our little case of alcoholic drinks to help loosen us up. But truth be told, it made me flushed and my heart race. And it didn’t make me feel any more comfortable. Besides, I had read on the forums that swinging is something you should be able to do sober. If you can’t do it unless you’re buzzed or drunk, then it’s not right for you at this time.
For about three hours, I’d say that we were bored. I certainly was. I would yawn sometimes and wonder when things were going to get “wild”. We went up and down the tri-level home several times. Sometimes we’d poke our heads into the bedrooms to see what was going on and usually nothing except for people lining up to use the bathrooms. And we were wondering when they were going to do the “who can eat pussy the best” contest. Mr. Sunbuckus was interested in trying it out and I wanted to see if I would be able to see him do that. During that span of time, we did talk to the male half of a couple. He seemed nice and somewhat interested but we play as a couple and since the female half of the couple was too busy chatting with someone else, I just felt that it was a pleasant way of passing the time. Mr. Sunbuckus did ask him his opinion about my ass and had him pat it which was nice but I admit, I was being a bit shy and self-conscious.
We went up to the roof-top patio a couple of times. The view was great but I didn’t particularly like hiding out up there even if it was warmer outside than it was inside. Mr. Sunbuckus was interested in what was going on on the roof again so we went up the second time but after that, I didn’t want to go up again due to the spiral staircase. After coming down from the staircase the second time, a woman was standing in the hallway and remarked to me, “I could eat you up all night.” I was surprised and flattered while Mr. Sunbuckus quipped, “Go ahead.” I thought she was a single female but as it turned out, she was part of a couple.
There was more general boredom/uncertainty on our part for a while. I noticed that a male half of a couple that we met at the meet and greet from last month was rubbing very suggestively on another female. Sure enough, we saw them head upstairs. Within ten minutes, there was a full on orgy going on in one of the bedrooms. I think Mr. Sunbuckus thought it might unnerve me. It actually did not. I had watched porn videos of orgies before. I will say it is different when you see actual people do it in front of you and they aren’t all pretty and thin or choreographed. There were heads and limbs bumping into each other. There were comments and conversation between participants and watchers which I felt was very nice. There were even some “Hey! So-and-so is here!” And people would stop for a second or two to say hi. I thought it was very neat how they were so friendly and comfortable.
We headed downstairs again and probably another 15 or so minutes, those in the orgy started to come down one by one, some dressed up, some missing some clothes, and some a bit mussed looking. But what I really enjoyed was how there was a general camaraderie among them. There was laughing, friendliness, and sexual and non-sexual touching that just made me hope that one day, Mr. Sunbuckus and I would reach that level of being comfortable in our own group (or non-clique) and enjoy ourselves like they did.
During our wanderings, the same woman from earlier kept coming up to us and commenting about how she liked the corset or some other feature. At one point, I think she mentioned how she wanted to taste me and Mr. Sunbuckus was all for it, again. I said I would be okay as long as she was interested. She proceeded by saying, “You want to know if I’m interested?” and gently pushing me against the wall and kissed me a few times. Then she said, “Yes, I’m interested.” But she excused herself and I can’t remember why. The kiss was definitely different but mostly I remember how surprised I felt at how her lips felt thin and tasted smoky since she was a smoker.
Eventually, I think Mr. Sunbuckus was aching for something and asked that I give him a blowjob in one of the bedrooms. I acquiesced and after a time, we began to perform oral on each other. My ass was in the air and a few bystanders were commenting on my ass. I even heard a male ask Mr. Sunbuckus if he shared but I didn’t hear the response. Thinking about it now, I think it would have be nice to feel his hands run down my ass cheeks while Mr. Sunbuckus was licked and sucking at my clit. Although I thought we might start fucking, we heard about how they were signing up participants for the “who-can-eat-pussy-the-best” contest at that very moment and Mr. Sunbuckus was anxious to get down there. So we stopped and rushed downstairs. In actuality, I think Mr. Sunbuckus was excited to get me on the list to get my pussy eaten by other men while I was interested in having him doing the eating. As it turned out, we didn’t sign up for anything.
Meanwhile, when we got downstairs, the same woman from earlier came up to me again and asked to nibble on my breasts. I gave her the go-ahead…unfortunately, it escaped my mind to warn her about my breastmilk and I think she had a gulp. I feel bad about that because I don’t think she was expecting it. She had her husband come over and talk to us but Mr. Sunbuckus was really interested about the contest so we didn’t stay to talk.
I’m probably remembering the sequence of events incorrectly but at some time, we saw this couple and two others upstairs in their own orgy. Mr. Sunbuckus and I were in the room watching with one couple to our right and a male to my left. I was actually attracted to the male half of the couple that was watching (we’ll call him Peter Saarsgaard because that’s who he looked like to me) but most of the night, I thought he was single for some reason and he was attached to the female half of a couple. Anyway, while we were watching the orgy, I was aroused and started to kiss Mr. Sunbuckus deeply. The male to my left had been glancing at my ass and rubbing himself. After a short while, I could feel his hands lightly fondling my ass. I have always fantasized about being fondled by strangers and this was just a tiny taste of it. And I loved it. I purposely invited him to touch me some more by pushing my bum toward him and shaking it just a hint. And he got the hint. Eventually, I was so turned on that I reached behind me, while still kissing Mr. Sunbuckus, and started to stroke his cock through his underwear. Then I took it out and stroked it. Eventually, I turned around to face him and was surprised that he was one of the men that I thought was attractive but maybe a bit out of our age range. He was very excited and proceeded to kiss me a few times…sometimes aggressively. I wanted to play some more and be the center of attention between Mr. Sunbuckus and this older male but Mr. Sunbuckus wanted to check out the other bedroom. I think maybe Mr. Sunbuckus was a bit overwhelmed. I felt bad for leaving the male behind and not going any further but I think he was happy with what he got at least.
Sometime later, we headed downstairs again and the female from earlier, we’ll call her A, approached me and asked if her husband, B, could touch my breasts. I agreed and she brought him over. He reached into my corset and fondled my breasts. I admit, even though it was arousing, I was self-conscious about my lack of assets in comparison to the ones that A had. B asked if we were playing tonight and I answered in the “maybe”…I think Mr. Sunbuckus was saying something else. B seemed a little disappointed but not much and I could see his eyes wander. I noted to A that Mr. Sunbuckus had something to ask her. Mr. Sunbuckus was reluctant so I asked for him and asked her if she wanted to go down on me. She said she wasn’t good at it but I didn’t really care to be honest. I wanted to give Mr. Sunbuckus a sight that I knew he was itching for…to watch me get eaten. Personally, I don’t really get off of receiving oral pleasure. I prefer to be finger fucked or fucked by a cock. There’s real pressure and real urgency when being penetrated and I love that. With the right speed and angle, give me a good fuck any day.
Well, she led me upstairs and we went into a bedroom where she took off my thong and proceeded to go down on me. B ran his hands all over my body while I gave Mr. Sunbuckus a blowjob. It was awesome. I loved being in the center of things and feeling so many hands on me because Mr. Sunbuckus, A, and B were rubbing me everywhere. I was extremely turned on. I noticed that B was kind of left out so as I stroked A’s hair with my right hand, I reached for B’s cock and decided to stroke him while giving Mr. Sunbuckus his blowjob. I wasn’t really aiming to be fucked but Mr. Sunbuckus noted to B that I wanted his cock. Well, that wasn’t really the truth. I did want to be fucked but I wasn’t certain if it was by him. But I was open for anything…especially in the heightened aroused state that I was in. B took Mr. Sunbuckus’ place while Mr. Sunbuckus started to fondle and finger A’s pussy. At some time, B asked Mr. Sunbuckus if he could taste me and Mr. Sunbuckus was game. Eventually, Mr. Sunbuckus was eating A’s pussy while B ate mine. Mr. Sunbuckus pointed to the condoms he had brought out and B put one on and started to fuck me.
While I was getting banged, I saw Mr. Sunbuckus finger and pleasure A very much. At the time, I didn’t feel much about it except that I was glad that Mr. Sunbuckus was enjoying himself. Eventually, Mr. Sunbuckus was fucking A while B was fucking me. A full swap! There was even another male and female fucking next to us in the same bed…three couples fucking on one queen sized bed. How awesome!
Throughout the whole thing, I did have that realization that yes, this is what those swingers are talking about. This is just sex. I still felt all of this love for Mr. Sunbuckus and exhibited this by seeking out his hand or arm to stroke him to make sure things were still okay. And sometimes, while B was fucking me, I would actually imagine that it was Mr. Sunbuckus that was fucking me. Of course, feeling his intensely smooth skin and much thinner frame, I knew it wasn’t but to make myself feel a bit more comfortable, I had to pretend that it was Mr. Sunbuckus on top of me.
Eventually, everyone finished and got dressed. We were very surprised to find out that the majority of the people at the party had left and we were actually one of the last ones to leave! We thought that the night was young since it was only 1 am when we finished and the party was set to last until 2am.
We had a great time experiencing our first house party and first full swap. Unfortunately, it was overshadowed by the discovery that my new phone that Mr. Sunbuckus had given to me for Valentine’s Day was stolen while we were playing.
As for my emotions and feelings…I didn’t really feel jealousy during the swap; however, once it was over and during the times when I wasn’t worried or upset about the loss of my phone, the comparison questions started to creep into my head. Was she a better kisser? Was she a better lay? Does Mr. Sunbuckus wish I had big tits like she did? On and on and on. But I think one of the things I was bothered by the most was how much pleasure she actually received. I know Mr. Sunbuckus is fabulous at finger banging but I haven’t really squirted or gushed in that manner. I may have gushed a few times on Mr. Sunbuckus while I was on top but never finger-banged. And I was jealous that she was able to experience such pleasure from my husband when I couldn’t. Was something wrong with me? Am I doing something wrong? Will Mr. Sunbuckus start to resent me for not reacting in such a manner?
Anyway, I am looking forward to our next house party. And I think on our next outing, perhaps I will put out a general invitation to all attendees that if they wanted to fondle me, they could without asking…but with Mr. Sunbuckus’ permission, of course. Because being touched and fondled was my favorite part of the night.
Monday, January 30, 2012
Easing Our Way Into the Lifestyle
Mrs. Sunbuckus and I have been having pretty good sex lately. Mrs. Sunbuckus started giving me wet and sloppy blowjobs on a regular basis, which really gets my motor running. In return, I asked that she allow me to lick her pussy while I finger it hard. She is really loving it and the sex has been phenomenal.
More recently, around Christmas, we have been playing with some light bondage. Restraints, a little ass-slapping, blindfolds. She really got into and we have been fucking like bunny rabbits.
It was during this time that she confided in me she would like to try having sex with two men at once. She then confided that she had already picked out who she wanted the second man to be. There was only one condition: he wanted to have sex with her alone first.
Well, that was a little too much for me, so I put the kibosh on it, somewhat to Mrs. Sunbuckus' dismay. A few days later, I suggested that she might be interested in the Lifestyle. She did a little bit of research before, but seemed sort of skeptical.
As it turned out, a week later we were able to arrange a kid-free night. We went out to dinner, and then had no immediate plans. I had suggested we try a swinger's club earlier that week, so we went over to a club. It was dark inside, smelled kind of like smoke that you can never get out of a place that people used to smoke in all the time. But it was very open and there was a hot woman with big tits dancing around on a pole. I figure she worked there. Anyway, it happened to be a Friday night. There were a few couples, but otherwise it was single guys. We decided to spend the night just kind of sitting, relaxing, and figuring out what we're comfortable with.
Eventually, we made our way to the "Showroom" of sorts, the couples-only room. There were a few other couples in there. One of them was being shy, but the other two couples were getting naked and fooling around with each other. So we went in there with them, sat on a side couch, where Mrs. Sunbuckus could hardly hold herself back and started sucking my cock right there! Now, being newbies to the whole swinging thing, Mrs. Sunbuckus had not dressed for success, wearing jeans and a nice blouse. I did finger her pussy a little, but the jeans made it hard. So I said that next time we come, she should wear a nice, tight dress. The other couples that were playing together were busy spreading their legs, giving blowjobs, getting their pussies licked and the ladies were sharing the cocks between them, but only by blowjobs.
After the club, we went home and fucked hard and I had an explosive orgasm inside her.
Mrs. Sunbuckus really seemed to get off on having people watch her. I, on the other hand, at least for the first time, was a little creeped out by all the single guys peering through the door and in the peepholes trying to get a glimpse of everybody having sex.
Well, after that experience, Mrs. Sunbuckus signed up for a swinging lifestyle membership site. We started getting emails from all sorts of people. We settled on attending a meet and greet last weekend. Mrs. Sunbuckus wore a sexy party dress, with garters and stockings, and no underwear! If we hadn't been at a restaurant, she would have flashed people her ass all night. We met some very nice people, and it seems most of the people in the Lifestyle are very nice. It also seems that those in the Lifestyle are older. Most are above the age of 40, and a good number are over 50. I can understand. After all, at an advanced age, most people become more comfortable with their body, they know what they like. They also usually have their kids out of the house and are not tied up with the grind of getting kids to school and everything else that comes with kids and life in general.
We did meet a nice couple, an older Irish man and his Japanese wife. Mrs. Sunbuckus and I would not have placed this man at more than 35, but he revealed that he is 50! Shocker, even his wife, although attractive, appeared older than him. In retrospect, we probably should have invited them to our hotel room for some playtime. But since our night at the club, I had wanted to try another swing club, so we left the party a bit early, after having met about 4-5 couples. By that time, the room had become very crowded and it was hard to move around, let alone get a conversation with someone.
So we proceeded to a second swingers club. By contrast to the first one we went to, this one was darker, creepier, and skankier. Although I do love a little bit of the dirty aspect of this lifestyle, this was a bit TOO dirty, if you know what I mean. Creepy single guys, almost no couples, very poor layout for mingling. We stayed there for an hour or so. There were some couples there, but nothing really seemed to be going on other than single guys sitting around waiting for any of the couples to have sex.
So, this being a Saturday night and all, we decided to go back to the original club, and see what the Saturday crowd is like. We must say, it was much livelier! There were probably 10 couples there, many ladies wearing sexy see-through dresses. As we sat down, I noticed a short, stout Hispanic mean sitting across from us, stroking his cock, which was out of his pants. I must say, it was impressively large. I asked Mrs. Sunbuckus to look at it, but she declined. She eventually changed out of her party dress and into a sexier dress. Tight and red, it had a lace-up seam in the back that exposed a line of flesh all the way down to the ass.
After observing for a while, we made our way back to the couples room. This time, we sat in an area where Mrs. Sunbuckus and I were clearly visible. She proceeded to give me a nice, wet blowjob, really fantastic. Slow strokes, long strokes, lots of spit. It was fantastic. I returned the favor by fingering her pussy. She then climbed onto my still-hard cock and started fucking me right there. Of course by that time there was a crowd of men outside watching us, and a few couples had come into the room and, while they were having some oral sex, were not going all the way to fucking like we were. I wish they had, then the show would have been even better.
Of course, while Mrs. Sunbuckus was fucking me, I pulled up her dress, exposing her ass for everybody to see. I felt like, hey, I wanted to put on a show, and let all those other guys wish they could stick their cocks in Mrs. Sunbuckus, but only I could control who did it and when. Otherwise, I loved knowing that the other men were watching us and may even fantasize about us later while they stroked their cocks at home. After a few minutes of this, we quit and went back to the main floor to see what else was going on.
It's then that I noticed a couple that had been at the club the previous time was there again. This time with another couple. I surmised that they bring in other couples to play with.
After a bit, we went back into the couples room. I was determined to put on even more of a show. I licked Mrs. Sunbuckus' pussy, then had her suck my cock at an angle that those watching could clearly see my cock going in and out of her soft, wet mouth. I then bent her over the bed, again sideways, and took her from behind. By this time there was a sizable audience, and that got me going even more. Some more people came into the couples room. Two guys sat down and started receiving blowjobs from their partners. Then, one of them started sucking the other guy's cock. Then she had two cocks in her hands at once. It was very exciting. We would have stayed and watched some more, but I had to get Mrs. Sunbuckus back to the hotel and fuck her brains out.
We fucked very nicely at the hotel, and Mrs. Sunbuckus even surprised me and swallowed my cum.
So, what has the Lifestyle done for us so far, and why are we choosing to try it out? Well, never mind that the sex lately just between us has been great. But, there's only so many positions two people can try. Mrs. Sunbuckus wants to try two cocks at once, maybe a gangbang. And I wouldn't mind fucking some other guys' wives while Mrs. Sunbuckus enjoys their husband's cocks. Or even doing some stuff that only a group can do.
I feel comfortable with our marriage, secure knowing that my wife loves me, but that she is just curious to try new things. We have both been curious in the past, and went behind each other's backs to try those things out. I feel it's better this way if we can be honest about what we want to try and do it together instead of secretly. On top of that, thinking about all the sex has Mrs. Sunbuckus unbelievably horny, and we have been fucking like bunnies still.
I think the Lifestyle will help us explore our sexuality and fulfill fantasies that we just can't do alone. And, on top of that, it's a great way to meet a lot of nice people, something that is difficult when you have kids and other life responsibilities. It's nice to be able to talk about pleasing each other, openly, with other couples. Instead of talking about our kids, we get to be adults, talking about pleasure, our pleasure. It doesn't mean we don't love our kids, it just means we get to be adults with wants and needs apart from our kids once in awhile.
I feel that way when I get to play basketball. No one knows what I do at work, I get to be someone else, just a guy who likes to play basketball. That's how I feel in the Lifestyle. I'm just a guy who wants to have some fun with his sexy wife.
I hope the Lifestyle works out for us. Right now we're taking it slow, partly because it's hard to get time for just ourselves, and partly because we want to be comfortable with what we're doing.
So, watch for our next post. Hopefully we'll have something to talk about where we went with another couple and had some playtime.
More recently, around Christmas, we have been playing with some light bondage. Restraints, a little ass-slapping, blindfolds. She really got into and we have been fucking like bunny rabbits.
It was during this time that she confided in me she would like to try having sex with two men at once. She then confided that she had already picked out who she wanted the second man to be. There was only one condition: he wanted to have sex with her alone first.
Well, that was a little too much for me, so I put the kibosh on it, somewhat to Mrs. Sunbuckus' dismay. A few days later, I suggested that she might be interested in the Lifestyle. She did a little bit of research before, but seemed sort of skeptical.
As it turned out, a week later we were able to arrange a kid-free night. We went out to dinner, and then had no immediate plans. I had suggested we try a swinger's club earlier that week, so we went over to a club. It was dark inside, smelled kind of like smoke that you can never get out of a place that people used to smoke in all the time. But it was very open and there was a hot woman with big tits dancing around on a pole. I figure she worked there. Anyway, it happened to be a Friday night. There were a few couples, but otherwise it was single guys. We decided to spend the night just kind of sitting, relaxing, and figuring out what we're comfortable with.
Eventually, we made our way to the "Showroom" of sorts, the couples-only room. There were a few other couples in there. One of them was being shy, but the other two couples were getting naked and fooling around with each other. So we went in there with them, sat on a side couch, where Mrs. Sunbuckus could hardly hold herself back and started sucking my cock right there! Now, being newbies to the whole swinging thing, Mrs. Sunbuckus had not dressed for success, wearing jeans and a nice blouse. I did finger her pussy a little, but the jeans made it hard. So I said that next time we come, she should wear a nice, tight dress. The other couples that were playing together were busy spreading their legs, giving blowjobs, getting their pussies licked and the ladies were sharing the cocks between them, but only by blowjobs.
After the club, we went home and fucked hard and I had an explosive orgasm inside her.
Mrs. Sunbuckus really seemed to get off on having people watch her. I, on the other hand, at least for the first time, was a little creeped out by all the single guys peering through the door and in the peepholes trying to get a glimpse of everybody having sex.
Well, after that experience, Mrs. Sunbuckus signed up for a swinging lifestyle membership site. We started getting emails from all sorts of people. We settled on attending a meet and greet last weekend. Mrs. Sunbuckus wore a sexy party dress, with garters and stockings, and no underwear! If we hadn't been at a restaurant, she would have flashed people her ass all night. We met some very nice people, and it seems most of the people in the Lifestyle are very nice. It also seems that those in the Lifestyle are older. Most are above the age of 40, and a good number are over 50. I can understand. After all, at an advanced age, most people become more comfortable with their body, they know what they like. They also usually have their kids out of the house and are not tied up with the grind of getting kids to school and everything else that comes with kids and life in general.
We did meet a nice couple, an older Irish man and his Japanese wife. Mrs. Sunbuckus and I would not have placed this man at more than 35, but he revealed that he is 50! Shocker, even his wife, although attractive, appeared older than him. In retrospect, we probably should have invited them to our hotel room for some playtime. But since our night at the club, I had wanted to try another swing club, so we left the party a bit early, after having met about 4-5 couples. By that time, the room had become very crowded and it was hard to move around, let alone get a conversation with someone.
So we proceeded to a second swingers club. By contrast to the first one we went to, this one was darker, creepier, and skankier. Although I do love a little bit of the dirty aspect of this lifestyle, this was a bit TOO dirty, if you know what I mean. Creepy single guys, almost no couples, very poor layout for mingling. We stayed there for an hour or so. There were some couples there, but nothing really seemed to be going on other than single guys sitting around waiting for any of the couples to have sex.
So, this being a Saturday night and all, we decided to go back to the original club, and see what the Saturday crowd is like. We must say, it was much livelier! There were probably 10 couples there, many ladies wearing sexy see-through dresses. As we sat down, I noticed a short, stout Hispanic mean sitting across from us, stroking his cock, which was out of his pants. I must say, it was impressively large. I asked Mrs. Sunbuckus to look at it, but she declined. She eventually changed out of her party dress and into a sexier dress. Tight and red, it had a lace-up seam in the back that exposed a line of flesh all the way down to the ass.
After observing for a while, we made our way back to the couples room. This time, we sat in an area where Mrs. Sunbuckus and I were clearly visible. She proceeded to give me a nice, wet blowjob, really fantastic. Slow strokes, long strokes, lots of spit. It was fantastic. I returned the favor by fingering her pussy. She then climbed onto my still-hard cock and started fucking me right there. Of course by that time there was a crowd of men outside watching us, and a few couples had come into the room and, while they were having some oral sex, were not going all the way to fucking like we were. I wish they had, then the show would have been even better.
Of course, while Mrs. Sunbuckus was fucking me, I pulled up her dress, exposing her ass for everybody to see. I felt like, hey, I wanted to put on a show, and let all those other guys wish they could stick their cocks in Mrs. Sunbuckus, but only I could control who did it and when. Otherwise, I loved knowing that the other men were watching us and may even fantasize about us later while they stroked their cocks at home. After a few minutes of this, we quit and went back to the main floor to see what else was going on.
It's then that I noticed a couple that had been at the club the previous time was there again. This time with another couple. I surmised that they bring in other couples to play with.
After a bit, we went back into the couples room. I was determined to put on even more of a show. I licked Mrs. Sunbuckus' pussy, then had her suck my cock at an angle that those watching could clearly see my cock going in and out of her soft, wet mouth. I then bent her over the bed, again sideways, and took her from behind. By this time there was a sizable audience, and that got me going even more. Some more people came into the couples room. Two guys sat down and started receiving blowjobs from their partners. Then, one of them started sucking the other guy's cock. Then she had two cocks in her hands at once. It was very exciting. We would have stayed and watched some more, but I had to get Mrs. Sunbuckus back to the hotel and fuck her brains out.
We fucked very nicely at the hotel, and Mrs. Sunbuckus even surprised me and swallowed my cum.
So, what has the Lifestyle done for us so far, and why are we choosing to try it out? Well, never mind that the sex lately just between us has been great. But, there's only so many positions two people can try. Mrs. Sunbuckus wants to try two cocks at once, maybe a gangbang. And I wouldn't mind fucking some other guys' wives while Mrs. Sunbuckus enjoys their husband's cocks. Or even doing some stuff that only a group can do.
I feel comfortable with our marriage, secure knowing that my wife loves me, but that she is just curious to try new things. We have both been curious in the past, and went behind each other's backs to try those things out. I feel it's better this way if we can be honest about what we want to try and do it together instead of secretly. On top of that, thinking about all the sex has Mrs. Sunbuckus unbelievably horny, and we have been fucking like bunnies still.
I think the Lifestyle will help us explore our sexuality and fulfill fantasies that we just can't do alone. And, on top of that, it's a great way to meet a lot of nice people, something that is difficult when you have kids and other life responsibilities. It's nice to be able to talk about pleasing each other, openly, with other couples. Instead of talking about our kids, we get to be adults, talking about pleasure, our pleasure. It doesn't mean we don't love our kids, it just means we get to be adults with wants and needs apart from our kids once in awhile.
I feel that way when I get to play basketball. No one knows what I do at work, I get to be someone else, just a guy who likes to play basketball. That's how I feel in the Lifestyle. I'm just a guy who wants to have some fun with his sexy wife.
I hope the Lifestyle works out for us. Right now we're taking it slow, partly because it's hard to get time for just ourselves, and partly because we want to be comfortable with what we're doing.
So, watch for our next post. Hopefully we'll have something to talk about where we went with another couple and had some playtime.
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