Tuesday, May 29, 2012

Mr Sunbuckus: To the Club, then Home Again

Ever since the party a few weeks ago wherein Mrs. Sunbuckus and I did not play because the atmosphere was not really to our liking, a couple we had met at the party (well, the male half, anyways) had been wanting to meet up with us.

Mrs. Sunbuckus and Mr. E had been exchanging texts for the last several weeks, since they are both at home during the day. Mrs. E was unavailable during the day, the time of the day I would be most likely to text, so I didn't really talk to her too much, if at all, but according to Mr. E, she was interested in me.

Now, not to make too much of it, but I was hesitant to have them over at our home right away, since I felt like I'd gotten burned a couple of times with the husband half saying that the wife is "interested" in me, and then it feeling really more like a taking-one-for-the-team fuck than genuinely-interested-in-fucking-me-fuck. To that end, I instructed Mrs. Sunbuckus to make arrangements to meet the couple at a neutral location, and if things worked out, we would go from there.

We decided to go back to the club we had been to with Mr and Mrs. B the first time, since it is swinger-friendly and we had been invited to help celebrate the birthday of another swinging couple we had seen there last time. Mr and Mrs. E were gracious enough to accomodate on short notice.

Now, our children would be spending the weekend with my parents, so after we dropped them off there, Mrs. Sunbuckus and I went to the mall so she could dress me in some new clothes, since almost all my clothes were picked out by me and I probably don't have much of a clue as to what women like to see on a man. I'm glad she dressed me, because afterwards I looked pretty sharp.

Mrs. Sunbuckus had promised Mr. E a certain time that we would be at the club, and for some reason was hurrying up to make it there at that exact time. I told her not to worry since it's a club, it's not going to matter too much if we're a little late, but she hurried me along anyways. We grabbed a quick bite to eat, hurried home to shower and dress, then off to the club.

The club was, as always, loud. A sizeable crowd had gathered for the birthday party, perhaps 10-15 couples. We knew about five or six of them, and met a few new ones. Mr. B was there by himself since Mrs. B was working that night. He had brought along a friend of his, also a swinger. Mr and Mrs. D were not there yet, and I looked at Mrs. Sunbuckus and told her "See, we didn't have to be here early." We got some drinks, and mingled with the swinger crowd. Several people recognized us from our profile and stopped by to say hi, but we weren't interested in most of them.

Finally, about forty-five minutes after we arrived, Mr and Mrs. E showed up. We tried conversing, but because of the noise level I kept having to duck my head in so I could hear. Fortunately, Mr. E did most of the speaking, as he had at the party, so Mrs. Sunbuckus and I didn't have to do much. After a bit, Mrs. E ducked out to smoke a cigarette, leaving Mr. E to speak to us together and holding Mrs. E's drink.

Apparently, Mrs. E had run into an old friend, because she was out there at least fifteen minutes, if not longer. After she returned, we all spoke some more, I went to the restroom and got another drink, and halfway through that drink Mrs. Sunbuckus informed me that Mr and Mrs. E were ready to leave, signaling that they wanted to play.

Well, that was good enough for me. I got a good enough feeling that Mrs. E was at least mildly interested in something different (me) so what the heck. It's the start of a three-day weekend, let's see just how much pussy I can get.

To make logisitics easier, and to get a chance to speak without the extra noise of the club, Mrs. E rode with me and Mrs Sunbuckus rode with Mr. E to direct him to our home. It worked out well, we were able to talk more and find out more about each other, and that made me feel more comfortable.

Mrs. E and I arrived earlier than Mr E and Mrs. Sunbuckus, so I showed her around the home, including the king-size bed. Just as I was getting ready to seat her on the couch and start making out with her, Mrs Sunbuckus and Mr. E arrived at the door.

All of us chatted in the hallway for a few minutes before we moved onto the bedroom.

Once in the bedroom, the clothes came off and the fun began. I started by kissing Mrs. E like teenagers in heat, then getting her clothes off and giving her kisses all over her body. Once I got down to the legs, I hesitated a bit. Mrs. E apparently has some sort of skin condition which gives her what appear to be small sores all over her legs. I had noticed it at the party, but of course we didn't play at the party so it was not a concern. Taking it in stride here, though, I noted that her pussy area did not have these sores, and most of her body did not. I kissed up and around the sores and then concentrated on the pussy, which pleased Mrs. E. Meanwhile, Mr. E was eating out Mrs. Sunbuckus' pussy, although it seemed like her moans were a little forced. She would later confide to me that she was faking the moans during oral so that Mr. D wouldn't feel like he was doing a bad job.

I looked over at one point, and Mrs. Sunbuckus was sucking Mr. E's cock, and he looked like...he was stroking out! If I hadn't known better, and someone had taken a picture of only his face and shown it to a stranger, I bet they would have guessed he was having a stroke. I will admit, that took a little of the energy from me, but I continued on, put on the condom and mounted Mrs. E.

She was fantastic, accepting my cock in all different missionary positions. I believe we fucked for at least thirty minutes. At one point, I was about to try going in doggy style, but Mr. E decided to have his "O" face at that very moment. And as he was making his "O" face, he let out some wicked, scary moans or something. Well, that was enough to soften me up and I was unable to take Mrs. E doggy style. I let her know, but she didn't seem dissappointed at all. I guess if you've been in the lifestyle long enough, you know it happens now and then. The fatigue from the day at work plus the unexpected fright from Mr. E's orgasm just did me in. I laid next to Mrs. E and snuggled her in my arms as we all talked some more.

Eventually, as Mrs. E started falling asleep, they decided to leave. We all got dressed and bid goodbye. Perhaps we will see them again. I told Mrs. Sunbuckus that if we see them again, Mr. E and Mrs. Sunbuckus will have to play in another room, since I didn't want a repeat of the screaming thing that Mr. E did.

Overall, though, a good start to the weekend with a lovely couple.

Mrs. Sunbuckus: Couple Number 4

Mr. Sunbuckus and I have planned quite the Memorial Weekend. First off, we headed to the club (non-swinging but LS friendly) to celebrate a LS friend's birthday and meet with a couple we wanted to play with but had met at the last party we went to. I was pretty interested in the husband at the party. He chatted with both of us and was attractive to me. About a couple of weeks later, we traded phone numbers and we've texted and I even teased him with a bit of sexting. The only question was whether Mr. Sunbuckus and Mrs. E would hit it off.

I admit, I almost didn't recognize Mr. E when they walked into the club. The last time we saw them, he was only wearing boxers and a silly jester's hat. He looked scrumptious and more in line with what I am usually attracted to, tucked in button down shirt, sleeves rolled up, glasses, and hair combed just right to make you want to run your hands through it.

For the two hours that we were there, we chatted most of the time with Mr. and Mrs. E. I wanted to do a some dancing with several people (Mr. Sunbuckus, Mr. E, and Mr. B) but it just wasn't to be. When it was agreed that everyone wanted to play, we left to go to our place. Mr. Sunbuckus and Mrs. E left in our car while I went with Mr. E to help direct him to our house. We took a lot longer to get to the house than Mr. Sunbuckus and Mrs. E because Mr. E liked to drive slowly. But I still enjoyed conversing with him on the way. I do have to say, for the majority of our playmates, I have enjoyed the company of the married men because they are able to hold a conversation with me that doesn't always have to be about sex.

Anyway, I wanted to go straight to the bedroom when we got home, but we ended up chatting some more before retreating to the bed. Mr. E and I were the first to get undressed but I suppose that's to be expected...I seem to be more enthusiastic about getting down to playing right away.

I can't really tell you what exactly Mr. Sunbuckus and Mrs. E did...I think he did some oral on her and mostly missionary. To be honest, I was too busy with Mr. E to really take note. Mr. E performed oral on me before I went down on him. He seemed to really enjoy the blowjob I give, much to Mr. Sunbuckus' disconcertment. Not because of feeling discomfort that I was performing oral on Mr. E but by Mr. E's facial expression. Mr. Sunbuckus even had to stop and ask if Mr. E was okay because I guess it looked like Mr. E was having a stroke! All I know was that I could hear his moans and gasps and I haven't had that kind of reaction from another man while performing oral so it was a nice ego boost to know that I may actually know what I'm doing when giving a blowjob!

Eventually, we got to the main course, which is what I am always after. After doing a few standard positions, he put me in one that I usually don't do, or none of my playmates have done with me yet. Apparently, it is his favorite position because he can go really deep. I don't know about that...it felt good sometimes but other times, it was average. But he really enjoyed it and when it came time for him to cum, it seemed that he went on for about a minute, grunting and shaking. It was the most dramatic cum I have seen and heard from a man. Sure, I may have helped prolong it by grinding my hips toward his pelvis and squeezing his cock but I looked over to Mrs. E and she seemed a bit disturbed with her own husband's reaction! I asked her if he usually does that and she said no. Later on, Mr. Sunbuckus confided in me that he didn't cum because Mr. E's explosive cum reaction made him lose his hard-on.

We all were lying in bed naked and talking. Mr. E was hoping for a second round after some recovery time but Mrs. E was tired from her long day at work and we had to cut playtime short. In all, I thought it was fun and maybe we'll do separate rooms next time so make sure Mr. Sunbuckus and Mrs. E get their completion. I'm curious to see if I can get Mr. E to have a similar reaction again!

Monday, May 21, 2012

Date Night With Mr. B

Mrs. Sunbuckus here, obviously. I hardly think Mr. Sunbuckus would go out on a date with Mr. B...unless it was to hang out and pick up other women.

Mr. B is a big movie watcher and we have talked about going to see a movie together. This past Saturday, we were finally able to go out to movie and a dinner. I dressed up, made myself as pretty as I knew how to (I don't know how to apply makeup so I do what I can), and we were off. I think I did a pretty good job at knocking him off his feet because for the first time in my life, I heard someone use the words amazing and stunning to describe me!

Since he got off work later than he wanted, we were running late and decided to see the movie first and then go to dinner afterwards. I was a bit nervous about how it would be to actually go out on a date. I'm not really the best conversationalist or knowledgeable about world events so I was afraid that he might be bored but we did pretty well. I guess it helped that he is pretty good at just shooting the breeze about anything and that we've had our moments of just talking before and after playing.

It was both thrilling and odd to be sitting in the theater with him. Thrilling because it had been quite awhile since feeling that "date" feeling while at the movies. Odd because it wasn't Mr. Sunbuckus next to me. I wasn't sure if Mr. B wanted to hold hands or touch during the movie so I waited. Of course, he was busy scarfing down nachos at first since he hadn't eaten since lunch but once I was holding the box, he started to caress my leg and I snaked my hand over to his lap. I guess I was more bold than he thought I would be or what he was even used to. I admit, I like to rub Mr. Sunbuckus' crotch through his pants at the theaters...and it was just natural for me to do that with Mr. B. Later, I was surprised to learn that he hasn't had anyone do that with him before. Throughout the film, we held hands and caressed each other here and there. Mr. B later informed me that the male sitting next to him kept looking at us because I was rubbing him. How naughty is it that I relish in that??

After the movie, we walked around the nearby shops and restaurants because Mr. B's leg was hurting a bit. We chatted about the movie and whether we should eat or not. (Can you believe it? He claimed to have filled up on nachos??) He had originally planned on taking me to a Japanese restaurant and that's where we ended up going. We made it just in time before last call. They even put out some candles for our table since the overhead light wasn't working. I sat next to him because it was freezing cold and I needed some extra warmth. I was literally shivering before I switched over to his side. We decided on two sushi rolls and an appetizer of calamari. Very yummy but I didn't want to get too full before playing so for once, I had to fight my desire to waste not-want not and leave some sushi behind. Sushi! It still bothers me to have left those two pieces on the platter....

We headed back to his place. I brought in my purse and my mystery backpack that I had brought along. I had planned on tying him up and teasing him relentlessly so I brought along our bed restraining system as well as some extra condoms, lube, an extra pair of clothes, toothpaste and a toothbrush in case I stayed the night. I had asked Mr. Sunbuckus ahead of time if he was okay with me staying the night. He seemed okay with it. I was glad to get his permission because it had been one of my longtime fantasizes to fall asleep and wake up to a different man and see what he would do.

After some show and tell (I had expressed interest in seeing his uniforms) and some light chatter, we got down to business. He was really ready to go after feeling the wetness of his underwear. We didn't really do any crazy positions like in the past but I was amazed at how many times he was able to keep going. Three times that night before falling asleep and one more in the morning. He had told me in the past that the most he has cum in one night was 6 times. I was trying to see if we could reach and pass that benchmark but it was late at night and he had worked all day.

He did finally figure out the position that makes me make moan the loudest. Unfortunately, it's not his favorite position but did say that he liked seeing the reaction I was giving him from doing it. We didn't use the restraining system though because I wasn't sure how willing he would have been. He had recently played with a playmate that was really interested in dominating him and he resisted that idea so I didn't want to push it.

Two things I wanted to point out...I had a bit of a hard time falling asleep. Even though I had thought about how nice it might be, it was actually harder for me to relax than I thought. Even though I enjoy Mr. B's company, I still ached to have Mr. Sunbuckus next to me.

The second thing...I've come to the conclusion that I enjoy seeing a man on top of me, thinking that he is the one in control but in actuality, I'm the one with the power over him to make him cum. It was quite pleasurable seeing Mr. B struggling not to cum while I was doing what I could to make him climax.

Saturday, May 5, 2012

Boyfriends and Boy Toys

Mr. Sunbuckus and I came to an arrangement so that I would explore the realm of having a boyfriend or boy toy on the side. I was a bit intrigued with this idea when we found out that Mr. and Mrs. B were on the lookout for their own girlfriend/boyfriend. However, I did see firsthand from them how easily it was for Mrs. B to get a boyfriend whereas Mr. B has yet to get a girlfriend. I was also concerned a bit when it seemed that Mrs. B would meet with her boyfriend almost everyday before work and play with him at least once a week. When does Mr. B get his time with Mrs. B? I didn't want to do that to Mr. Sunbuckus.

I have waffled back and forth between a boyfriend or a boy toy as well as to whether or not I should even be getting one at all. One of the reasons why I was wishy washy was because I wasn't certain I wanted to expend emotional energy on someone other than Mr. Sunbuckus. Yes, it's thrilling to think about having a male attracted to me to wine and dine me. However, I don't want it to take away from what I need to give to Mr. Sunbuckus...he comes first and I didn't want him to feel like a second fiddle. Second, two men that I was attracted to either expressed no interest or did but not enough to really make me feel like I wanted to meet him. Whereas, there have been a few men that contacted me but I wasn't interested in the slightest. It has turned out to be harder to find a boyfriend than I thought. And a lot more time and work finding one that works. Third, I had considered requiring friendship with the boyfriend/boy toy but have thought about changing the "screening" process...instead of getting to know them first and then playing, reverse it. I was telling Mr. Sunbuckus that I should see if they are fun in bed first and if they are, then explore that. And if not, then put them in the reject pile. Of course, attraction would still have to be a two-way street.

Mr. Sunbuckus has expressed concern about single males in the past and present and I'm sure he will complain about them in the future, too. I didn't really have a problem with them but after experiencing meeting and playing with a single male...I know exactly what he means and why he was so skeptical. He is a man, I probably should have listened to him but I had to learn for myself. Mr. Sunbuckus doesn't like single males because he is afraid that they will dog the female for playtime all the time. Although the single male that I toyed with did seem to ask to see me a lot, he didn't ask to play every time. But, yes, I did get turned off from his asking everyday to see me. Granted...he had a friendly face but he wasn't at all what I wanted in a boyfriend/boy toy. If he had been more attractive to me, perhaps I would have liked the attention more. But as it was, I did not like it. For this reason, Mr. Sunbuckus is more comfortable if it were a married male that I used as a boyfriend/boy toy. And who do we know that is a married male and also looking for a girlfriend? Mr. B of course. However, I have not mentioned anything about us being in that type of relationship other than that Mr. Sunbuckus would prefer that arrangement.

So, will I be doing the boyfriend thing? I don't know. It's a very fun thought but I like couple swapping so that we both get playtime and we can connect with each other during that time. There is something to be said about sharing your spouse so intimately with another woman and knowing he is having a fun time.

To be continued....

Mr Sunbuckus: Another Fun Couple, and a new Twist

Ever since the last house party we attended, there was a gentleman who had wanted to play with Mrs. Sunbuckus but wasn't able to get it up at the party.

She had reached out to him because she felt bad that he wasn't able to get an erection at the party. Finally, last night, nearly a month after the party, he and his wife were able to make it to our place. We'll refer to them as Mr and Mrs D. Now, Mrs. D had played - extensively - with Mr. B at the same house party. They were the couple that kept fucking even after falling off the bed. What a trooper!

I promised Mrs. D that we wouldn't fall off the bed, to which she replied that was good since she is too old for that shit. She was in for a different surprise, though.

When the lucky couple arrived at our home, we all sat around the couch. Mrs. D is a taller redhead, like Mrs. B. I guess tall redheads like guys like me? That's not a complaint! Mr. D is a little bigger but very enthusiastic.

After a few minutes of chit chat, Mrs. Sunbuckus rearranged the parties so that Mrs. D sat next to me and Mrs. Sunbuckus sat next to Mr. D. That was enough to get the party started. After only a couple minutes of that, we all went to the bedroom.

Both the men started by kissing the women all over. Mrs D has nice breasts with pierced nipples, so I spent a great deal of time going all over those with my tongue. I kissed my way all over her body. She has soft, creamy white skin, and I made sure to kiss it in as many places as possible, front and back.

I then gently spread her legs and worked my way up and down her legs before finally getting my mouth on her pussy. She tasted great, so I kept going, eventually working my finger inside her, then two fingers, then fingering her for awhile until she squirted a little. I kept licking her pussy until I offered to let her suck my cock, which she agreed to heartily.

I laid on my back and she started in on the cock. Now, I had taken a half-dose of Viagra, so my equipment was in full working condition. Meanwhile, Mrs. Sunbuckus and Mr. D had decided start having sex, and as I lay there, Mrs. Sunbuckus laid down next to me and started moaning almost too loudly while Mr. D pounded her pussy. After about five minutes of that, Mr. D finished, while Mrs. D was still sucking my cock. Mrs. Sunbuckus decided she would help suck the cock and started deep-throating the cock while Mrs. D sucked on my balls. Well, that got me to the extra level of hardness. I asked Mrs. D if she is ready for my cock inside her. She says yes, so I put on a condom and start out missionary. I proceed to have her in many positions, enjoying watching my cock go in and out of her pussy, legs up, doggy style, missionary again. I also enjoyed kissing her to some extent, although she also spent a fair amount of time with Mr D's cock in her mouth.

This got Mr. D aroused again, so he and Mrs. Sunbuckus got it together and had another round of sex, while I was still fucking Mrs. D! At this point I could feel the sweat building up on Mrs. D, so I offered to flip over so the fan could get her and she could use my cock as a pleasure toy. I think she enjoyed that and rode me doggy style for about ten minutes.

Finally, I was inside Mrs. D missionary, and she leaned her head back and sucked Mr. D's cock, which got him excited enough for a third round with Mrs. Sunbuckus. Mrs. D and I were still on round 1, and Mr. D did something kind of new to us, in that he was totally getting off on seeing Mrs. D get pounded for such a long time. We're used to Mr. B playing separtely from Mrs. B or excusing himself to another room while Mrs. B plays. So it was kind of suprising to hear Mr. D say things like "Tell him how much you love his cock" or "It's a pleasure watching your man work" (to Mrs. Sunbuckus.) Mrs. D squirted a lot after that, and didn't want my cock inside her while she was sensitive. But Mr. D insisted she take my cock in again, so back in it went. After all, who am I to complain?

Finally, after what was about an hour of nearly non-stop pounding for Mrs. D, I had a huge orgasm inside her. We both collapsed, sweaty and satisfied. Later she would confide that I gave her about as much as she could handle, but that she had fun and would do it again.

I always enjoy it when they would do it again.

Sunday, April 22, 2012

Mr. Sunbuckus. Big Party Blues

Mrs. Sunbuckus and I had signed up for a swanky-sounding party. The theme was to be "Kink" and it was to be held at a large venue. Only couples and single women were to be allowed. But, if you haven't figured it out yet, we didn't make it to that party. Two nights before the party our ticket was unexpectedly refunded. The next day I found out that the party organizers had not been able to obtain some kind of event license with the host city and so therefore had to cancel.

This was very disappointing on several levels. On the first level, we had to plan a babysitter to stay overnight and arrange a hotel and so on and so forth. So all that preparation would go to waste.

We hastily signed up for a party that Mr and Mrs B had signed up for, only to find out later THEY wouldn't be able to make it.

We decided to push ahead anyways. After all, where would we be if we didn't give ourselves the opportunity to meet new people?

We went to the party anwyays. We enjoyed a nice meal at an unusual Brazilian restaurant. Then we showered and went to the party.

The location was ok. Not fantastic, mind you, merely ok. The space was a bit crowded, and as the night wore on, we noticed that the number of single men was increasing.

Of course, we also met a few new couples, and a few couples we already knew. But ultimately, we didn't play with anyone. We left fairly early - for a swinger's party - and went back to the hotel, where we played with each other.

In retrospect, I knew that I was a bit concerend about this party on several levels. First of all, the hosts were allowing single men. And there were about 30 single men signed up for the party. Secondly, most of the single men were African-American. While race itself was not an issue, what the party turned out to be was for non-African-American women to have sex with African-American men. In the time we were there, that was basically all we saw for playtime, except for two other women playing with each other. I watched a nearly middle-aged man look on as his wife had sex with a large black man. We also saw another gentleman look on while his wife serviced three African-American men.

We also had the unfortunate experience of another single male come up to us, in what seemed like a too-eager way. He didn't really even try to get to know us, but kept hounding us to come back to our hotel. As we left the party, he practically chased us out trying to get to us to let him come back to the hotel with us. Uhhh..no?

As I said, it was a very uncomfortable atmosphere to me, nearly to the point of one of the swinger's clubs being filled with single guys all trying to get a glimpse of some action. I'm not entirely sure Mr and Mrs B would have enjoyed the party themselves.

A few of the people we spoke with said they had been to this host's other parties before and kept coming back for more. All I can say is that those people must be looking for African-American men. As I said to Mrs B, there's nothing wrong with that, except I'm not African-American and that's all the ladies seemed interested in. Of the couples we talked to, we would spend some time chatting with the male half while, once again, the female half would slink away and talk to someone else or generally just decide to hang out separate from their spouse or boyfriend. Very frustrating, as Mrs Sunbuckus and I have decided that with new couples we would only play together for awhile.

Overall, strike out, but next time I think we'll stick to parties that limit or outright ban single men. That way it's not a sausage fest.

We've also decided that would be our last party for awhile and try one-on-one (or two-on-two) dating so that we can concentrate on the other couple. I think I prefer that to some extent. It allows me to concentrate on the woman and not worry about her getting distracted or some other man coming up and trying to steal her away for playtime. When I'm with a woman, I want to be with her mentally and not feel like she's looking around wondering if there's anyone with a better cock nearby. Because that's just going to distract me and make it that much harder to get an erection.

Sunday, April 8, 2012

Showing Interest

Mr. Sunbuckus and I are pretty shy and reserved people. We met online 13 years ago and didn't really have to deal with the dating scene or developing our self confidence or skills in how to approach those that we were interested in. This, in itself, has pros and cons. We both know that we fell in love with each other's personality core. However, that has also given us some doubts on the level of attraction that our physical appearances hold.

Ever since January, I have come to the conclusion that it is a thousand times easier to be a woman in the LS than it is to be a man. If you are a woman, it really does center around you and who you want to play with. If you are a single female, the LS world is your oyster. The absolute opposite is true for men. If you are a married man, you have it a lot easier than single males but you still have to work hard to get a woman warmed up enough to want to play with you. It is not entirely dependent on looks. Men are visual and are attracted to what they usually see. Women need to be chatted up, be shown that they are desired and interesting as a whole package before wanting to play. In a nutshell...women want to be chased. At least I do. I can be interested in how a man appears but if he can't hold a conversation with me or has an attitude that is off putting, then it's no playtime with him. Of course, I have been a bit of a slut at the parties lately and if a man kisses and fondles me, I will more than likely play...after all, it's a swingers party, not a book/movie club. But overall, women like some conversation to judge a man's personality before playing with him.

Well, Mr. Sunbuckus feels that no one is interested in him, which I do not think is the case. He is a very attractive man. The only problem is that he doesn't know how to go up to a woman and show he is interested. You can't really blame him though since we have been together for 12 years and he has wired himself to not outwardly show interest in a woman in the form of actually talking to her in order to get her into bed.

Some ways that I have been approached is to be complimented first and then an introduction. Another is being approached and asking me if I'm having a great time, and then some light touching on my back. Then, if the person doesn't pull away, then they might be interested in more so you can rub a bit more sensually until they are warmed up a bit for the fondling to get more aggressive. Obviously, once there seems to be interest some kissing and suggestion for more can be broached. I think running the fingertips up and down lightly on the arm can be nice...and if they like it, move to the legs and then between the legs.

I know that I have to work on this myself and being more outgoing in approaching couples that we are interested in. So far, we have coasted on other couples approaching us. I have vowed to try really hard at our next party to approach a couple that we are interested in and chatting them up. After all, how are we going to build up our seductive skills if we don't practice?