Mrs. Sunbuckus here. Mr. Sunbuckus and I just attended our first house party (a birthday party for a single female) this past Saturday night and I thought it would be a great idea for both of us to write about our experience and thoughts on it since it was such a big step for us in the lifestyle.
For the past few weeks, I haven’t been feeling particularly excited about sex or the lifestyle. Maybe it had to do with the fact that Mr. Sunbuckus had been bothered by all the messages we received from single males so we had to hide our profile from single males on the swinging site…thus I didn’t get that surprise email from someone else stating that they found me attractive. That always boosts your self-confidence and it makes you feel aroused knowing everything is so sexually charged when it concerns the lifestyle. And that in turn makes me want to fuck like crazy.
Or perhaps it’s the fact that I didn’t feel close to Mr. Sunbuckus the past few weeks due not exercising with him every night because of an ankle injury. Or perhaps we just weren’t communicating enough. In any case, with the combination of AF visiting and not connecting emotionally with Mr. Sunbuckus, we just hadn’t been having as much sex as we had before and I knew it was affecting us as a couple and personally. However, a couple of days before the party, we cleared up what was the matter and made things better. And although we had considered “saving” ourselves for the house party by abstaining from cumming while having sex, the desire proved too great to save it for Saturday night.
The big night came upon us and the theme was lingerie so we headed to the local adult toy/clothing store and picked a red/black corset for me and a non-hammock lingerie underwear for Mr. Sunbuckus. We arrived not too long after the start time of the party so we could change into our “party clothes”. I had originally planned on wearing the corset with the accompanying garter straps and stockings with maybe no underwear but when we found that the straps still dangled too low to be comfortable, we decided to forego the garter straps and stockings and just wear the corset and a thong. Although I’m not comfortable exposing my legs, I got used to it after a while since many females were baring a lot of skin as well.
I have always been self-conscious about many parts of my body. From the stretchmarks on my arms, my funny looking deflated breasts, my saggy tummy full of battle scars, thick jiggly thighs to my varicose veins I wasn’t sure how confident or comfortable I would be in the lifestyle. But if I get anything out of being in the LS it is that we all have something that is not attractive and something that is. And that cellulite, jiggly-ness, puffy-poofy-saggy skin doesn’t just affect me but a lot of women and that it’s normal. Looking at touched up photos on the internet, tv, magazines…not real but brainwashes us nonetheless. And I am grateful for the reminder that women come in all shapes and sizes and that someone will find them attractive and sexy no matter what. It’s quite awesome.
Well, when I walked up the stairs clad in just my corset and thong, I was greeted by the birthday girl herself, wearing a babydoll lingerie dress. I was taken aback that she was hugging me right away and thought momentarily that she was mistaking me for someone else. As it turns out, she hugged everyone that night which I thought was very sweet and a very warm way to welcome everyone. I thought she was very attractive and her friendliness made her more attractive. Before the party, I had thought about surprising Mr. Sunbuckus with a little show and kissing the birthday girl in front of him. But I didn’t want to seem too forward or give her the wrong idea that I was bi or bi-curious.
Mr. Sunbuckus had brought in our little case of alcoholic drinks to help loosen us up. But truth be told, it made me flushed and my heart race. And it didn’t make me feel any more comfortable. Besides, I had read on the forums that swinging is something you should be able to do sober. If you can’t do it unless you’re buzzed or drunk, then it’s not right for you at this time.
For about three hours, I’d say that we were bored. I certainly was. I would yawn sometimes and wonder when things were going to get “wild”. We went up and down the tri-level home several times. Sometimes we’d poke our heads into the bedrooms to see what was going on and usually nothing except for people lining up to use the bathrooms. And we were wondering when they were going to do the “who can eat pussy the best” contest. Mr. Sunbuckus was interested in trying it out and I wanted to see if I would be able to see him do that. During that span of time, we did talk to the male half of a couple. He seemed nice and somewhat interested but we play as a couple and since the female half of the couple was too busy chatting with someone else, I just felt that it was a pleasant way of passing the time. Mr. Sunbuckus did ask him his opinion about my ass and had him pat it which was nice but I admit, I was being a bit shy and self-conscious.
We went up to the roof-top patio a couple of times. The view was great but I didn’t particularly like hiding out up there even if it was warmer outside than it was inside. Mr. Sunbuckus was interested in what was going on on the roof again so we went up the second time but after that, I didn’t want to go up again due to the spiral staircase. After coming down from the staircase the second time, a woman was standing in the hallway and remarked to me, “I could eat you up all night.” I was surprised and flattered while Mr. Sunbuckus quipped, “Go ahead.” I thought she was a single female but as it turned out, she was part of a couple.
There was more general boredom/uncertainty on our part for a while. I noticed that a male half of a couple that we met at the meet and greet from last month was rubbing very suggestively on another female. Sure enough, we saw them head upstairs. Within ten minutes, there was a full on orgy going on in one of the bedrooms. I think Mr. Sunbuckus thought it might unnerve me. It actually did not. I had watched porn videos of orgies before. I will say it is different when you see actual people do it in front of you and they aren’t all pretty and thin or choreographed. There were heads and limbs bumping into each other. There were comments and conversation between participants and watchers which I felt was very nice. There were even some “Hey! So-and-so is here!” And people would stop for a second or two to say hi. I thought it was very neat how they were so friendly and comfortable.
We headed downstairs again and probably another 15 or so minutes, those in the orgy started to come down one by one, some dressed up, some missing some clothes, and some a bit mussed looking. But what I really enjoyed was how there was a general camaraderie among them. There was laughing, friendliness, and sexual and non-sexual touching that just made me hope that one day, Mr. Sunbuckus and I would reach that level of being comfortable in our own group (or non-clique) and enjoy ourselves like they did.
During our wanderings, the same woman from earlier kept coming up to us and commenting about how she liked the corset or some other feature. At one point, I think she mentioned how she wanted to taste me and Mr. Sunbuckus was all for it, again. I said I would be okay as long as she was interested. She proceeded by saying, “You want to know if I’m interested?” and gently pushing me against the wall and kissed me a few times. Then she said, “Yes, I’m interested.” But she excused herself and I can’t remember why. The kiss was definitely different but mostly I remember how surprised I felt at how her lips felt thin and tasted smoky since she was a smoker.
Eventually, I think Mr. Sunbuckus was aching for something and asked that I give him a blowjob in one of the bedrooms. I acquiesced and after a time, we began to perform oral on each other. My ass was in the air and a few bystanders were commenting on my ass. I even heard a male ask Mr. Sunbuckus if he shared but I didn’t hear the response. Thinking about it now, I think it would have be nice to feel his hands run down my ass cheeks while Mr. Sunbuckus was licked and sucking at my clit. Although I thought we might start fucking, we heard about how they were signing up participants for the “who-can-eat-pussy-the-best” contest at that very moment and Mr. Sunbuckus was anxious to get down there. So we stopped and rushed downstairs. In actuality, I think Mr. Sunbuckus was excited to get me on the list to get my pussy eaten by other men while I was interested in having him doing the eating. As it turned out, we didn’t sign up for anything.
Meanwhile, when we got downstairs, the same woman from earlier came up to me again and asked to nibble on my breasts. I gave her the go-ahead…unfortunately, it escaped my mind to warn her about my breastmilk and I think she had a gulp. I feel bad about that because I don’t think she was expecting it. She had her husband come over and talk to us but Mr. Sunbuckus was really interested about the contest so we didn’t stay to talk.
I’m probably remembering the sequence of events incorrectly but at some time, we saw this couple and two others upstairs in their own orgy. Mr. Sunbuckus and I were in the room watching with one couple to our right and a male to my left. I was actually attracted to the male half of the couple that was watching (we’ll call him Peter Saarsgaard because that’s who he looked like to me) but most of the night, I thought he was single for some reason and he was attached to the female half of a couple. Anyway, while we were watching the orgy, I was aroused and started to kiss Mr. Sunbuckus deeply. The male to my left had been glancing at my ass and rubbing himself. After a short while, I could feel his hands lightly fondling my ass. I have always fantasized about being fondled by strangers and this was just a tiny taste of it. And I loved it. I purposely invited him to touch me some more by pushing my bum toward him and shaking it just a hint. And he got the hint. Eventually, I was so turned on that I reached behind me, while still kissing Mr. Sunbuckus, and started to stroke his cock through his underwear. Then I took it out and stroked it. Eventually, I turned around to face him and was surprised that he was one of the men that I thought was attractive but maybe a bit out of our age range. He was very excited and proceeded to kiss me a few times…sometimes aggressively. I wanted to play some more and be the center of attention between Mr. Sunbuckus and this older male but Mr. Sunbuckus wanted to check out the other bedroom. I think maybe Mr. Sunbuckus was a bit overwhelmed. I felt bad for leaving the male behind and not going any further but I think he was happy with what he got at least.
Sometime later, we headed downstairs again and the female from earlier, we’ll call her A, approached me and asked if her husband, B, could touch my breasts. I agreed and she brought him over. He reached into my corset and fondled my breasts. I admit, even though it was arousing, I was self-conscious about my lack of assets in comparison to the ones that A had. B asked if we were playing tonight and I answered in the “maybe”…I think Mr. Sunbuckus was saying something else. B seemed a little disappointed but not much and I could see his eyes wander. I noted to A that Mr. Sunbuckus had something to ask her. Mr. Sunbuckus was reluctant so I asked for him and asked her if she wanted to go down on me. She said she wasn’t good at it but I didn’t really care to be honest. I wanted to give Mr. Sunbuckus a sight that I knew he was itching for…to watch me get eaten. Personally, I don’t really get off of receiving oral pleasure. I prefer to be finger fucked or fucked by a cock. There’s real pressure and real urgency when being penetrated and I love that. With the right speed and angle, give me a good fuck any day.
Well, she led me upstairs and we went into a bedroom where she took off my thong and proceeded to go down on me. B ran his hands all over my body while I gave Mr. Sunbuckus a blowjob. It was awesome. I loved being in the center of things and feeling so many hands on me because Mr. Sunbuckus, A, and B were rubbing me everywhere. I was extremely turned on. I noticed that B was kind of left out so as I stroked A’s hair with my right hand, I reached for B’s cock and decided to stroke him while giving Mr. Sunbuckus his blowjob. I wasn’t really aiming to be fucked but Mr. Sunbuckus noted to B that I wanted his cock. Well, that wasn’t really the truth. I did want to be fucked but I wasn’t certain if it was by him. But I was open for anything…especially in the heightened aroused state that I was in. B took Mr. Sunbuckus’ place while Mr. Sunbuckus started to fondle and finger A’s pussy. At some time, B asked Mr. Sunbuckus if he could taste me and Mr. Sunbuckus was game. Eventually, Mr. Sunbuckus was eating A’s pussy while B ate mine. Mr. Sunbuckus pointed to the condoms he had brought out and B put one on and started to fuck me.
While I was getting banged, I saw Mr. Sunbuckus finger and pleasure A very much. At the time, I didn’t feel much about it except that I was glad that Mr. Sunbuckus was enjoying himself. Eventually, Mr. Sunbuckus was fucking A while B was fucking me. A full swap! There was even another male and female fucking next to us in the same bed…three couples fucking on one queen sized bed. How awesome!
Throughout the whole thing, I did have that realization that yes, this is what those swingers are talking about. This is just sex. I still felt all of this love for Mr. Sunbuckus and exhibited this by seeking out his hand or arm to stroke him to make sure things were still okay. And sometimes, while B was fucking me, I would actually imagine that it was Mr. Sunbuckus that was fucking me. Of course, feeling his intensely smooth skin and much thinner frame, I knew it wasn’t but to make myself feel a bit more comfortable, I had to pretend that it was Mr. Sunbuckus on top of me.
Eventually, everyone finished and got dressed. We were very surprised to find out that the majority of the people at the party had left and we were actually one of the last ones to leave! We thought that the night was young since it was only 1 am when we finished and the party was set to last until 2am.
We had a great time experiencing our first house party and first full swap. Unfortunately, it was overshadowed by the discovery that my new phone that Mr. Sunbuckus had given to me for Valentine’s Day was stolen while we were playing.
As for my emotions and feelings…I didn’t really feel jealousy during the swap; however, once it was over and during the times when I wasn’t worried or upset about the loss of my phone, the comparison questions started to creep into my head. Was she a better kisser? Was she a better lay? Does Mr. Sunbuckus wish I had big tits like she did? On and on and on. But I think one of the things I was bothered by the most was how much pleasure she actually received. I know Mr. Sunbuckus is fabulous at finger banging but I haven’t really squirted or gushed in that manner. I may have gushed a few times on Mr. Sunbuckus while I was on top but never finger-banged. And I was jealous that she was able to experience such pleasure from my husband when I couldn’t. Was something wrong with me? Am I doing something wrong? Will Mr. Sunbuckus start to resent me for not reacting in such a manner?
Anyway, I am looking forward to our next house party. And I think on our next outing, perhaps I will put out a general invitation to all attendees that if they wanted to fondle me, they could without asking…but with Mr. Sunbuckus’ permission, of course. Because being touched and fondled was my favorite part of the night.
Sunday, February 26, 2012
Diving In Head First
Well, we've been hanging around the fringes of the lifestyle for a couple of months now. Gone to a meet and greet, went to the club a few times, exchanged emails with a few couples and singles.
That had been enough to get Mrs. Sunbuckus and I more interested. Since we hadn't been able to attend the previous party like we would have liked to, Mrs. Sunbuckus surprised me by arranging for an overnight babysitter and signing us up for another, smaller house party.
Looking at the invitation, we saw over 100 people had signed up for the party, but it was only a 3-bedroom, 1600 square foot house. I looked at her and said "There's not going to be enough room for everyone."
The whole week before the event, I was either giddy with anticipation or nervous about what might happen. I think Mrs. Sunbuckus was, too. But we knew that if we just stuck to our old ways, we'd never get to experience everything the lifestyle has to offer; sometimes, you just gotta jump in head first and hope for the best. Or a sharp rock to kill you instantly so you don't live the rest of your life as a vegetable.
Before the party we had a nice dinner, some sushi. Since there was still some time left over before the party started, we stopped by a dealership and looked at some cars. We also stopped by a grocery store and purchased some wine coolers to help lubricate our personalities a bit before the evening. Sort of like giving yourself courage pills, I suppose, but we felt that if we were being too prudish, we'd down a few drinks and hopefully we'd be a bit more forward.
So, finally we're at the house. We enter and Mrs. Sunbuckus goes off to the bathroom to change into some of her sexy, sexy lingerie. I run back to the car to get the drinks. As I'm coming back in, the host of the party comes downstairs and says hi. She's wearing a see-through babydoll, a g-string and very little else! I know then I'm at the right place.
Finally Mrs. Sunbuckus gets her sexy wear on. As the man in the relationship, I feel luck in that I'm not having to wear anything much different than maybe some sexy underwear under my clothing (I was.)
The party starts out slow as couples trickle in. A main difference we noted from the swinger's clubs is that the ratio of men to women is much, much more even. Single men are rare, and many of the ladies are wearing sexy lingerie leaving little to the imagination. People are bringing their own drinks, standing around talking, normal party stuff that it might as well be a holiday party except the ladies are wearing almost nothing. Mrs. Sunbuckus, I'm proud to say, we wearing one of the more revealing outfits, a corset with a g-string, high heels and nothing else. She received quite a few compliments on her ass, and hopefully she now has more confidence in it as well.
At one point, we were standing in the hallway near the bedrooms, either waiting to see if something would happen in them or maybe something was going on in there, I'm not sure. This lovely lady, let's call her M, walks in off the balcony, looks at Mrs. Sunbuckus and says something to the effect of liking her outfit and that she could eat her pussy all day! So, being bold, I jump in and ask her "Do you want to eat it?"
Before I or Mrs. Sunbuckus know what is happening, she pushes Mrs. Sunbuckus against the wall, gives her a long kiss on the lips, hesitates for a moment, and says "yes; but right now a beer is calling me."
That beer would take another hour to materialize, but now I was interested, and I was hoping to get Mrs. Sunbuckus to spread her legs for a lovely lady. At some point we met her husband, a tall, very fit and very handsome man that I was almost sure Mrs. Sunbuckus would love to fuck. We'll just refer to him as Tony.
Finally, we were able to corner the lovely lady and ask her "Do you still want to lick Mrs. Sunbuckus' pussy?" So she, her husband, Mrs. Sunbuckus and I found an unused room.
What happened next was right out of a porno. There was the lovely lady eating out Mrs. Sunbuckus' pussy; Mrs. Sunbuckus sucking first my cock, then Mrs. Sunbuckus sucking Tony's cock. Tony eating out Mrs. Sunbuckus while I ate out M's pussy. Mrs. Sunbuckus and Tony were 69'ing at some point. Luckily we had brought protection, because I knew at that point that if we were going to go this far, we might as well go all the way.
Tony suited up Tony Jr, and he entered Mrs. Sunbuckus. Before I know it, he's pounding her hard while I'm still eating out M's pussy. They're making such a show of it, though, that I ask M if we should try to compete, to which she surprisingly said "Of course!" Maybe it was "absolutely" but either way I couldn't believe it. So I suit up and pretty soon I'm having at it with M.
Now, don't get me wrong, I enjoyed it very much, but the excitement of the night, that diving in, must have got me too excited, because after maybe five minutes of thrusting, I had spent my load. Of course Tony and Mrs. Sunbuckus were STILL going at it! I whispered to M "Your man is a machine; he could go all night." and she says back "I know." And it wasn't like I was jealous, I think I was more in awe of his machine-like endurance.
Not wanting to disappoint M, I start going back down on her pussy, with some deep-finger stimulation. Well, she is loving it. She keeps screaming at me to do it harder, faster, whatever. After maybe ten, twenty minutes of this, she starts gushing. And gushing. I can feel my hand getting wet from her juices, but I keep going until she tells me to stop. As I'm sitting there, her husband still giving Mrs. Sunbuckus quite the ride, I can feel M's legs and body quivering, and finally I feel like I'm good enough to do this swinging thing without disappointing the other ladies. Even if I had cum way, way before I planned to.
And so it happened, we dived in head first, and I don't feel like Mrs. Sunbuckus was cheating on me, and I was happy that she was getting to experience other men in a safe way.
Later, Mrs. Sunbuckus would confess to me that their cocks were not as thick as mine. While I don't have first hand experience to dispute that, it is nice of her to say. We spoke extensively about what we liked and maybe didn't like. But overall, I think it went well, and we are eagerly and lustily looking forward to the next house party we can make it to.
That had been enough to get Mrs. Sunbuckus and I more interested. Since we hadn't been able to attend the previous party like we would have liked to, Mrs. Sunbuckus surprised me by arranging for an overnight babysitter and signing us up for another, smaller house party.
Looking at the invitation, we saw over 100 people had signed up for the party, but it was only a 3-bedroom, 1600 square foot house. I looked at her and said "There's not going to be enough room for everyone."
The whole week before the event, I was either giddy with anticipation or nervous about what might happen. I think Mrs. Sunbuckus was, too. But we knew that if we just stuck to our old ways, we'd never get to experience everything the lifestyle has to offer; sometimes, you just gotta jump in head first and hope for the best. Or a sharp rock to kill you instantly so you don't live the rest of your life as a vegetable.
Before the party we had a nice dinner, some sushi. Since there was still some time left over before the party started, we stopped by a dealership and looked at some cars. We also stopped by a grocery store and purchased some wine coolers to help lubricate our personalities a bit before the evening. Sort of like giving yourself courage pills, I suppose, but we felt that if we were being too prudish, we'd down a few drinks and hopefully we'd be a bit more forward.
So, finally we're at the house. We enter and Mrs. Sunbuckus goes off to the bathroom to change into some of her sexy, sexy lingerie. I run back to the car to get the drinks. As I'm coming back in, the host of the party comes downstairs and says hi. She's wearing a see-through babydoll, a g-string and very little else! I know then I'm at the right place.
Finally Mrs. Sunbuckus gets her sexy wear on. As the man in the relationship, I feel luck in that I'm not having to wear anything much different than maybe some sexy underwear under my clothing (I was.)
The party starts out slow as couples trickle in. A main difference we noted from the swinger's clubs is that the ratio of men to women is much, much more even. Single men are rare, and many of the ladies are wearing sexy lingerie leaving little to the imagination. People are bringing their own drinks, standing around talking, normal party stuff that it might as well be a holiday party except the ladies are wearing almost nothing. Mrs. Sunbuckus, I'm proud to say, we wearing one of the more revealing outfits, a corset with a g-string, high heels and nothing else. She received quite a few compliments on her ass, and hopefully she now has more confidence in it as well.
At one point, we were standing in the hallway near the bedrooms, either waiting to see if something would happen in them or maybe something was going on in there, I'm not sure. This lovely lady, let's call her M, walks in off the balcony, looks at Mrs. Sunbuckus and says something to the effect of liking her outfit and that she could eat her pussy all day! So, being bold, I jump in and ask her "Do you want to eat it?"
Before I or Mrs. Sunbuckus know what is happening, she pushes Mrs. Sunbuckus against the wall, gives her a long kiss on the lips, hesitates for a moment, and says "yes; but right now a beer is calling me."
That beer would take another hour to materialize, but now I was interested, and I was hoping to get Mrs. Sunbuckus to spread her legs for a lovely lady. At some point we met her husband, a tall, very fit and very handsome man that I was almost sure Mrs. Sunbuckus would love to fuck. We'll just refer to him as Tony.
Finally, we were able to corner the lovely lady and ask her "Do you still want to lick Mrs. Sunbuckus' pussy?" So she, her husband, Mrs. Sunbuckus and I found an unused room.
What happened next was right out of a porno. There was the lovely lady eating out Mrs. Sunbuckus' pussy; Mrs. Sunbuckus sucking first my cock, then Mrs. Sunbuckus sucking Tony's cock. Tony eating out Mrs. Sunbuckus while I ate out M's pussy. Mrs. Sunbuckus and Tony were 69'ing at some point. Luckily we had brought protection, because I knew at that point that if we were going to go this far, we might as well go all the way.
Tony suited up Tony Jr, and he entered Mrs. Sunbuckus. Before I know it, he's pounding her hard while I'm still eating out M's pussy. They're making such a show of it, though, that I ask M if we should try to compete, to which she surprisingly said "Of course!" Maybe it was "absolutely" but either way I couldn't believe it. So I suit up and pretty soon I'm having at it with M.
Now, don't get me wrong, I enjoyed it very much, but the excitement of the night, that diving in, must have got me too excited, because after maybe five minutes of thrusting, I had spent my load. Of course Tony and Mrs. Sunbuckus were STILL going at it! I whispered to M "Your man is a machine; he could go all night." and she says back "I know." And it wasn't like I was jealous, I think I was more in awe of his machine-like endurance.
Not wanting to disappoint M, I start going back down on her pussy, with some deep-finger stimulation. Well, she is loving it. She keeps screaming at me to do it harder, faster, whatever. After maybe ten, twenty minutes of this, she starts gushing. And gushing. I can feel my hand getting wet from her juices, but I keep going until she tells me to stop. As I'm sitting there, her husband still giving Mrs. Sunbuckus quite the ride, I can feel M's legs and body quivering, and finally I feel like I'm good enough to do this swinging thing without disappointing the other ladies. Even if I had cum way, way before I planned to.
And so it happened, we dived in head first, and I don't feel like Mrs. Sunbuckus was cheating on me, and I was happy that she was getting to experience other men in a safe way.
Later, Mrs. Sunbuckus would confess to me that their cocks were not as thick as mine. While I don't have first hand experience to dispute that, it is nice of her to say. We spoke extensively about what we liked and maybe didn't like. But overall, I think it went well, and we are eagerly and lustily looking forward to the next house party we can make it to.
Sunday, February 12, 2012
Another Night at the Club
Since it's the Saturday before Valentine's day, I decided to treat the missus to a nice dinner. we had a nice French dinner at a highly-regarded local eatery. It was a bit on the pricey side, but Mrs. Sunbuckus is totally worth it.
We had originally planned to try a house party afterwards. However, since we couldn't get an overnight babysitter, and since Mrs. Sunbuckus was expecting that time of the month to show up, we decided against it. The plan was if it showed up, we'd see a movie, otherwise we'd do something else.
That time of the month did not show up, luckily, so we headed over to the swinger's club again. Due to our tight schedule, we weren't able to do much. First of all, we showed up about 30 minutes before the club even opened, so we had some time to kill. We cruised by a car dealer and looked at some cars before heading back.
Then, since it was relatively early in the evening, the club was not that jumping. When we arrived, there were only two other couples there; there weren't even any single men there yet.
Sure enough, though, as the minutes ticket by a few single gentlemen trickled in. In particular, the Missus and I were lounging on a couch, and this older gentleman, maybe in his 50's comes and sits next to us, a friendly hi. Then he proceeds to start unbuttoning his shirt. Ok, I think, maybe he's just getting comfortable. But in the back of my mind, I think he might be getting completely undressed.
So I see him start untucking his shirt, unbuttoning his pants. Maybe he's just loosening the shirt. Then the shirt comes off. Then he stands up and drops his trousers right there. He came prepared, wearing a cock ring. So, here we are, lounging on the couch and there's a naked guy next to us. Mrs. Sunbuckus was a little unnerved by that.
Eventually, about an hour after arriving, a fair number of couples had showed up, and we went back to the couples room. Mrs. Sunbuckus started off with one of her fantastic blowjobs, all wet, sloppy, and warm. Another couple then entered the room, and after a few minutes asked if they could watch. Of course!
After sucking my cock for about ten minutes, Mrs. Sunbuckus got up and started riding my cock, again with the other couple able to watch us. Another couple entered the room around that time and also watched, as well as a few single men outside the room.
After discussing what to do next, we decided on doggie-style sex. Mrs. Sunbuckus bent over the bed in the room, and I entered her from behind. We pumped together for a few minutes, but I delayed my gratification. There were a few single men still watching. All told, we spent about 40 minutes in the couples room.
We went back to the main area after that, and sat farther away from the naked guy. Unfortunately, time was passing us by. We had to get back home so the babysitter could leave. This was quite unfortunate because, from our experience, the party doesn't get really going until much later into the night.
I think that if that's the case, we will probably need to setup overnight babysitters before we should do the club again. It's just too much pressure working against the babysitter's clock. We also would like to still try a house party. Most house parties restrict or just outright ban single men, and there is reportedly a lot more fucking going on.
Until next time...
We had originally planned to try a house party afterwards. However, since we couldn't get an overnight babysitter, and since Mrs. Sunbuckus was expecting that time of the month to show up, we decided against it. The plan was if it showed up, we'd see a movie, otherwise we'd do something else.
That time of the month did not show up, luckily, so we headed over to the swinger's club again. Due to our tight schedule, we weren't able to do much. First of all, we showed up about 30 minutes before the club even opened, so we had some time to kill. We cruised by a car dealer and looked at some cars before heading back.
Then, since it was relatively early in the evening, the club was not that jumping. When we arrived, there were only two other couples there; there weren't even any single men there yet.
Sure enough, though, as the minutes ticket by a few single gentlemen trickled in. In particular, the Missus and I were lounging on a couch, and this older gentleman, maybe in his 50's comes and sits next to us, a friendly hi. Then he proceeds to start unbuttoning his shirt. Ok, I think, maybe he's just getting comfortable. But in the back of my mind, I think he might be getting completely undressed.
So I see him start untucking his shirt, unbuttoning his pants. Maybe he's just loosening the shirt. Then the shirt comes off. Then he stands up and drops his trousers right there. He came prepared, wearing a cock ring. So, here we are, lounging on the couch and there's a naked guy next to us. Mrs. Sunbuckus was a little unnerved by that.
Eventually, about an hour after arriving, a fair number of couples had showed up, and we went back to the couples room. Mrs. Sunbuckus started off with one of her fantastic blowjobs, all wet, sloppy, and warm. Another couple then entered the room, and after a few minutes asked if they could watch. Of course!
After sucking my cock for about ten minutes, Mrs. Sunbuckus got up and started riding my cock, again with the other couple able to watch us. Another couple entered the room around that time and also watched, as well as a few single men outside the room.
After discussing what to do next, we decided on doggie-style sex. Mrs. Sunbuckus bent over the bed in the room, and I entered her from behind. We pumped together for a few minutes, but I delayed my gratification. There were a few single men still watching. All told, we spent about 40 minutes in the couples room.
We went back to the main area after that, and sat farther away from the naked guy. Unfortunately, time was passing us by. We had to get back home so the babysitter could leave. This was quite unfortunate because, from our experience, the party doesn't get really going until much later into the night.
I think that if that's the case, we will probably need to setup overnight babysitters before we should do the club again. It's just too much pressure working against the babysitter's clock. We also would like to still try a house party. Most house parties restrict or just outright ban single men, and there is reportedly a lot more fucking going on.
Until next time...
Monday, January 30, 2012
Easing Our Way Into the Lifestyle
Mrs. Sunbuckus and I have been having pretty good sex lately. Mrs. Sunbuckus started giving me wet and sloppy blowjobs on a regular basis, which really gets my motor running. In return, I asked that she allow me to lick her pussy while I finger it hard. She is really loving it and the sex has been phenomenal.
More recently, around Christmas, we have been playing with some light bondage. Restraints, a little ass-slapping, blindfolds. She really got into and we have been fucking like bunny rabbits.
It was during this time that she confided in me she would like to try having sex with two men at once. She then confided that she had already picked out who she wanted the second man to be. There was only one condition: he wanted to have sex with her alone first.
Well, that was a little too much for me, so I put the kibosh on it, somewhat to Mrs. Sunbuckus' dismay. A few days later, I suggested that she might be interested in the Lifestyle. She did a little bit of research before, but seemed sort of skeptical.
As it turned out, a week later we were able to arrange a kid-free night. We went out to dinner, and then had no immediate plans. I had suggested we try a swinger's club earlier that week, so we went over to a club. It was dark inside, smelled kind of like smoke that you can never get out of a place that people used to smoke in all the time. But it was very open and there was a hot woman with big tits dancing around on a pole. I figure she worked there. Anyway, it happened to be a Friday night. There were a few couples, but otherwise it was single guys. We decided to spend the night just kind of sitting, relaxing, and figuring out what we're comfortable with.
Eventually, we made our way to the "Showroom" of sorts, the couples-only room. There were a few other couples in there. One of them was being shy, but the other two couples were getting naked and fooling around with each other. So we went in there with them, sat on a side couch, where Mrs. Sunbuckus could hardly hold herself back and started sucking my cock right there! Now, being newbies to the whole swinging thing, Mrs. Sunbuckus had not dressed for success, wearing jeans and a nice blouse. I did finger her pussy a little, but the jeans made it hard. So I said that next time we come, she should wear a nice, tight dress. The other couples that were playing together were busy spreading their legs, giving blowjobs, getting their pussies licked and the ladies were sharing the cocks between them, but only by blowjobs.
After the club, we went home and fucked hard and I had an explosive orgasm inside her.
Mrs. Sunbuckus really seemed to get off on having people watch her. I, on the other hand, at least for the first time, was a little creeped out by all the single guys peering through the door and in the peepholes trying to get a glimpse of everybody having sex.
Well, after that experience, Mrs. Sunbuckus signed up for a swinging lifestyle membership site. We started getting emails from all sorts of people. We settled on attending a meet and greet last weekend. Mrs. Sunbuckus wore a sexy party dress, with garters and stockings, and no underwear! If we hadn't been at a restaurant, she would have flashed people her ass all night. We met some very nice people, and it seems most of the people in the Lifestyle are very nice. It also seems that those in the Lifestyle are older. Most are above the age of 40, and a good number are over 50. I can understand. After all, at an advanced age, most people become more comfortable with their body, they know what they like. They also usually have their kids out of the house and are not tied up with the grind of getting kids to school and everything else that comes with kids and life in general.
We did meet a nice couple, an older Irish man and his Japanese wife. Mrs. Sunbuckus and I would not have placed this man at more than 35, but he revealed that he is 50! Shocker, even his wife, although attractive, appeared older than him. In retrospect, we probably should have invited them to our hotel room for some playtime. But since our night at the club, I had wanted to try another swing club, so we left the party a bit early, after having met about 4-5 couples. By that time, the room had become very crowded and it was hard to move around, let alone get a conversation with someone.
So we proceeded to a second swingers club. By contrast to the first one we went to, this one was darker, creepier, and skankier. Although I do love a little bit of the dirty aspect of this lifestyle, this was a bit TOO dirty, if you know what I mean. Creepy single guys, almost no couples, very poor layout for mingling. We stayed there for an hour or so. There were some couples there, but nothing really seemed to be going on other than single guys sitting around waiting for any of the couples to have sex.
So, this being a Saturday night and all, we decided to go back to the original club, and see what the Saturday crowd is like. We must say, it was much livelier! There were probably 10 couples there, many ladies wearing sexy see-through dresses. As we sat down, I noticed a short, stout Hispanic mean sitting across from us, stroking his cock, which was out of his pants. I must say, it was impressively large. I asked Mrs. Sunbuckus to look at it, but she declined. She eventually changed out of her party dress and into a sexier dress. Tight and red, it had a lace-up seam in the back that exposed a line of flesh all the way down to the ass.
After observing for a while, we made our way back to the couples room. This time, we sat in an area where Mrs. Sunbuckus and I were clearly visible. She proceeded to give me a nice, wet blowjob, really fantastic. Slow strokes, long strokes, lots of spit. It was fantastic. I returned the favor by fingering her pussy. She then climbed onto my still-hard cock and started fucking me right there. Of course by that time there was a crowd of men outside watching us, and a few couples had come into the room and, while they were having some oral sex, were not going all the way to fucking like we were. I wish they had, then the show would have been even better.
Of course, while Mrs. Sunbuckus was fucking me, I pulled up her dress, exposing her ass for everybody to see. I felt like, hey, I wanted to put on a show, and let all those other guys wish they could stick their cocks in Mrs. Sunbuckus, but only I could control who did it and when. Otherwise, I loved knowing that the other men were watching us and may even fantasize about us later while they stroked their cocks at home. After a few minutes of this, we quit and went back to the main floor to see what else was going on.
It's then that I noticed a couple that had been at the club the previous time was there again. This time with another couple. I surmised that they bring in other couples to play with.
After a bit, we went back into the couples room. I was determined to put on even more of a show. I licked Mrs. Sunbuckus' pussy, then had her suck my cock at an angle that those watching could clearly see my cock going in and out of her soft, wet mouth. I then bent her over the bed, again sideways, and took her from behind. By this time there was a sizable audience, and that got me going even more. Some more people came into the couples room. Two guys sat down and started receiving blowjobs from their partners. Then, one of them started sucking the other guy's cock. Then she had two cocks in her hands at once. It was very exciting. We would have stayed and watched some more, but I had to get Mrs. Sunbuckus back to the hotel and fuck her brains out.
We fucked very nicely at the hotel, and Mrs. Sunbuckus even surprised me and swallowed my cum.
So, what has the Lifestyle done for us so far, and why are we choosing to try it out? Well, never mind that the sex lately just between us has been great. But, there's only so many positions two people can try. Mrs. Sunbuckus wants to try two cocks at once, maybe a gangbang. And I wouldn't mind fucking some other guys' wives while Mrs. Sunbuckus enjoys their husband's cocks. Or even doing some stuff that only a group can do.
I feel comfortable with our marriage, secure knowing that my wife loves me, but that she is just curious to try new things. We have both been curious in the past, and went behind each other's backs to try those things out. I feel it's better this way if we can be honest about what we want to try and do it together instead of secretly. On top of that, thinking about all the sex has Mrs. Sunbuckus unbelievably horny, and we have been fucking like bunnies still.
I think the Lifestyle will help us explore our sexuality and fulfill fantasies that we just can't do alone. And, on top of that, it's a great way to meet a lot of nice people, something that is difficult when you have kids and other life responsibilities. It's nice to be able to talk about pleasing each other, openly, with other couples. Instead of talking about our kids, we get to be adults, talking about pleasure, our pleasure. It doesn't mean we don't love our kids, it just means we get to be adults with wants and needs apart from our kids once in awhile.
I feel that way when I get to play basketball. No one knows what I do at work, I get to be someone else, just a guy who likes to play basketball. That's how I feel in the Lifestyle. I'm just a guy who wants to have some fun with his sexy wife.
I hope the Lifestyle works out for us. Right now we're taking it slow, partly because it's hard to get time for just ourselves, and partly because we want to be comfortable with what we're doing.
So, watch for our next post. Hopefully we'll have something to talk about where we went with another couple and had some playtime.
More recently, around Christmas, we have been playing with some light bondage. Restraints, a little ass-slapping, blindfolds. She really got into and we have been fucking like bunny rabbits.
It was during this time that she confided in me she would like to try having sex with two men at once. She then confided that she had already picked out who she wanted the second man to be. There was only one condition: he wanted to have sex with her alone first.
Well, that was a little too much for me, so I put the kibosh on it, somewhat to Mrs. Sunbuckus' dismay. A few days later, I suggested that she might be interested in the Lifestyle. She did a little bit of research before, but seemed sort of skeptical.
As it turned out, a week later we were able to arrange a kid-free night. We went out to dinner, and then had no immediate plans. I had suggested we try a swinger's club earlier that week, so we went over to a club. It was dark inside, smelled kind of like smoke that you can never get out of a place that people used to smoke in all the time. But it was very open and there was a hot woman with big tits dancing around on a pole. I figure she worked there. Anyway, it happened to be a Friday night. There were a few couples, but otherwise it was single guys. We decided to spend the night just kind of sitting, relaxing, and figuring out what we're comfortable with.
Eventually, we made our way to the "Showroom" of sorts, the couples-only room. There were a few other couples in there. One of them was being shy, but the other two couples were getting naked and fooling around with each other. So we went in there with them, sat on a side couch, where Mrs. Sunbuckus could hardly hold herself back and started sucking my cock right there! Now, being newbies to the whole swinging thing, Mrs. Sunbuckus had not dressed for success, wearing jeans and a nice blouse. I did finger her pussy a little, but the jeans made it hard. So I said that next time we come, she should wear a nice, tight dress. The other couples that were playing together were busy spreading their legs, giving blowjobs, getting their pussies licked and the ladies were sharing the cocks between them, but only by blowjobs.
After the club, we went home and fucked hard and I had an explosive orgasm inside her.
Mrs. Sunbuckus really seemed to get off on having people watch her. I, on the other hand, at least for the first time, was a little creeped out by all the single guys peering through the door and in the peepholes trying to get a glimpse of everybody having sex.
Well, after that experience, Mrs. Sunbuckus signed up for a swinging lifestyle membership site. We started getting emails from all sorts of people. We settled on attending a meet and greet last weekend. Mrs. Sunbuckus wore a sexy party dress, with garters and stockings, and no underwear! If we hadn't been at a restaurant, she would have flashed people her ass all night. We met some very nice people, and it seems most of the people in the Lifestyle are very nice. It also seems that those in the Lifestyle are older. Most are above the age of 40, and a good number are over 50. I can understand. After all, at an advanced age, most people become more comfortable with their body, they know what they like. They also usually have their kids out of the house and are not tied up with the grind of getting kids to school and everything else that comes with kids and life in general.
We did meet a nice couple, an older Irish man and his Japanese wife. Mrs. Sunbuckus and I would not have placed this man at more than 35, but he revealed that he is 50! Shocker, even his wife, although attractive, appeared older than him. In retrospect, we probably should have invited them to our hotel room for some playtime. But since our night at the club, I had wanted to try another swing club, so we left the party a bit early, after having met about 4-5 couples. By that time, the room had become very crowded and it was hard to move around, let alone get a conversation with someone.
So we proceeded to a second swingers club. By contrast to the first one we went to, this one was darker, creepier, and skankier. Although I do love a little bit of the dirty aspect of this lifestyle, this was a bit TOO dirty, if you know what I mean. Creepy single guys, almost no couples, very poor layout for mingling. We stayed there for an hour or so. There were some couples there, but nothing really seemed to be going on other than single guys sitting around waiting for any of the couples to have sex.
So, this being a Saturday night and all, we decided to go back to the original club, and see what the Saturday crowd is like. We must say, it was much livelier! There were probably 10 couples there, many ladies wearing sexy see-through dresses. As we sat down, I noticed a short, stout Hispanic mean sitting across from us, stroking his cock, which was out of his pants. I must say, it was impressively large. I asked Mrs. Sunbuckus to look at it, but she declined. She eventually changed out of her party dress and into a sexier dress. Tight and red, it had a lace-up seam in the back that exposed a line of flesh all the way down to the ass.
After observing for a while, we made our way back to the couples room. This time, we sat in an area where Mrs. Sunbuckus and I were clearly visible. She proceeded to give me a nice, wet blowjob, really fantastic. Slow strokes, long strokes, lots of spit. It was fantastic. I returned the favor by fingering her pussy. She then climbed onto my still-hard cock and started fucking me right there. Of course by that time there was a crowd of men outside watching us, and a few couples had come into the room and, while they were having some oral sex, were not going all the way to fucking like we were. I wish they had, then the show would have been even better.
Of course, while Mrs. Sunbuckus was fucking me, I pulled up her dress, exposing her ass for everybody to see. I felt like, hey, I wanted to put on a show, and let all those other guys wish they could stick their cocks in Mrs. Sunbuckus, but only I could control who did it and when. Otherwise, I loved knowing that the other men were watching us and may even fantasize about us later while they stroked their cocks at home. After a few minutes of this, we quit and went back to the main floor to see what else was going on.
It's then that I noticed a couple that had been at the club the previous time was there again. This time with another couple. I surmised that they bring in other couples to play with.
After a bit, we went back into the couples room. I was determined to put on even more of a show. I licked Mrs. Sunbuckus' pussy, then had her suck my cock at an angle that those watching could clearly see my cock going in and out of her soft, wet mouth. I then bent her over the bed, again sideways, and took her from behind. By this time there was a sizable audience, and that got me going even more. Some more people came into the couples room. Two guys sat down and started receiving blowjobs from their partners. Then, one of them started sucking the other guy's cock. Then she had two cocks in her hands at once. It was very exciting. We would have stayed and watched some more, but I had to get Mrs. Sunbuckus back to the hotel and fuck her brains out.
We fucked very nicely at the hotel, and Mrs. Sunbuckus even surprised me and swallowed my cum.
So, what has the Lifestyle done for us so far, and why are we choosing to try it out? Well, never mind that the sex lately just between us has been great. But, there's only so many positions two people can try. Mrs. Sunbuckus wants to try two cocks at once, maybe a gangbang. And I wouldn't mind fucking some other guys' wives while Mrs. Sunbuckus enjoys their husband's cocks. Or even doing some stuff that only a group can do.
I feel comfortable with our marriage, secure knowing that my wife loves me, but that she is just curious to try new things. We have both been curious in the past, and went behind each other's backs to try those things out. I feel it's better this way if we can be honest about what we want to try and do it together instead of secretly. On top of that, thinking about all the sex has Mrs. Sunbuckus unbelievably horny, and we have been fucking like bunnies still.
I think the Lifestyle will help us explore our sexuality and fulfill fantasies that we just can't do alone. And, on top of that, it's a great way to meet a lot of nice people, something that is difficult when you have kids and other life responsibilities. It's nice to be able to talk about pleasing each other, openly, with other couples. Instead of talking about our kids, we get to be adults, talking about pleasure, our pleasure. It doesn't mean we don't love our kids, it just means we get to be adults with wants and needs apart from our kids once in awhile.
I feel that way when I get to play basketball. No one knows what I do at work, I get to be someone else, just a guy who likes to play basketball. That's how I feel in the Lifestyle. I'm just a guy who wants to have some fun with his sexy wife.
I hope the Lifestyle works out for us. Right now we're taking it slow, partly because it's hard to get time for just ourselves, and partly because we want to be comfortable with what we're doing.
So, watch for our next post. Hopefully we'll have something to talk about where we went with another couple and had some playtime.
Sunday, January 29, 2012
Entering the LS
Mrs. Sunbuckus here. I am hoping that this blog will help myself and Mr. Sunbuckus explore our thoughts and feelings concerning issues and experiences we've encountered while joining the Lifestyle. And perhaps our writings will help you and your significant other determine if this is for the both of you or not. I have found that the Swingers Forum to be very useful in terms of discussion and questions with those more experienced then us. Oh, what would we do without the internet??
So, how did we decide to get into the LS? Well, I was exchanging friendly emails with a man and it came to be that I asked him if he would consider having a threesome with us. Just out of curiosity...not necessarily something that I thought would really happen but just to gauge the level of interest. I was surprised that he would be willing to. Now, I've had a lot of different fantasies throughout my life. They may have originated from pornos or erotic literature but I know what I'm interested in, curious about, and downright disgusted by. Threesomes, gangbangs, light bondage...those are what frequent my fantasies along with the situational couplings like workplace sex and the like. Now that I knew someone might be interested in a threesome with me and Mr. Sunbuckus, I asked him how he felt about it. At first, he had his doubts. I knew that I wasn't going to do anything unless he was comfortable and on board with everything. So, we would talk about this on and off. Throughout that time, the third wheel male of the picture withdrew himself from the situation but the talks between myself and Mr. Sunbuckus continued. It was as if a door had been opened and we were both curious to see what was on the other side.
As I have learned from the Swingers Forum, the LS is something that you do as a couple. You don't do it to fix a relationship. If you have a strong and secure relationship, it will help to further strengthen it. If your relationship has problems, it will magnify them and make the issues come forth and force the couple to deal with them. Even though both Mr. Sunbuckus and I have dealt with infidelity on both sides, we both love each other very much and have worked through them. Since we are still very new to the LS and have not actually had any real LS experiences in terms of soft or hard swapping, the level of trust, commitment, respect and communication has increased dramatically between the two of us. I have learned that it is crucial to talk about anything and everything with your partner to make the LS work for the both of you.
So, before you do anything LS related, talk, talk, talk, talk, talk, talk, talk, talk about it. Don't just talk about it before, during, and after sex. Talk about it when it's appropriate but not always under the glow of having sex either.
So, how did we decide to get into the LS? Well, I was exchanging friendly emails with a man and it came to be that I asked him if he would consider having a threesome with us. Just out of curiosity...not necessarily something that I thought would really happen but just to gauge the level of interest. I was surprised that he would be willing to. Now, I've had a lot of different fantasies throughout my life. They may have originated from pornos or erotic literature but I know what I'm interested in, curious about, and downright disgusted by. Threesomes, gangbangs, light bondage...those are what frequent my fantasies along with the situational couplings like workplace sex and the like. Now that I knew someone might be interested in a threesome with me and Mr. Sunbuckus, I asked him how he felt about it. At first, he had his doubts. I knew that I wasn't going to do anything unless he was comfortable and on board with everything. So, we would talk about this on and off. Throughout that time, the third wheel male of the picture withdrew himself from the situation but the talks between myself and Mr. Sunbuckus continued. It was as if a door had been opened and we were both curious to see what was on the other side.
As I have learned from the Swingers Forum, the LS is something that you do as a couple. You don't do it to fix a relationship. If you have a strong and secure relationship, it will help to further strengthen it. If your relationship has problems, it will magnify them and make the issues come forth and force the couple to deal with them. Even though both Mr. Sunbuckus and I have dealt with infidelity on both sides, we both love each other very much and have worked through them. Since we are still very new to the LS and have not actually had any real LS experiences in terms of soft or hard swapping, the level of trust, commitment, respect and communication has increased dramatically between the two of us. I have learned that it is crucial to talk about anything and everything with your partner to make the LS work for the both of you.
So, before you do anything LS related, talk, talk, talk, talk, talk, talk, talk, talk about it. Don't just talk about it before, during, and after sex. Talk about it when it's appropriate but not always under the glow of having sex either.
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