The past two couples that we played with have been less than enticing. I knew that we would play with couples that wouldn't be very exciting but I didn't think we would actually play with couples that we may not really be attracted to! I think we just wanted to play and accepted whoever was interested...which may have not been a good idea. I actually found myself not at all attracted to the past two males in these couples and was not at all excited to kiss them. In all honesty, if I could have just closed my eyes and focused that their dicks were inside and I could pretend it was someone else, I probably would have. Luckily, with the last couple, I was fingered a bit too harshly and was able to stave off anymore playtime by claiming that I had "broke". Not to mention, that the last couple seemed to only be interested in playing with me...which I hated. I wanted Mr. Sunbuckus to play as well and when it seemed that the female half just wanted girl/girl play, I wanted out but I wasn't sure how.
Anyway, those two experiences have made me very wary in going out and finding another couple to play with...almost to the point of just wanting to swing with one of the couples that we've played with already or not swing for awhile. It's so hard to find couples that we're both interested in and who are interested in us...the both of us. I have often wondered if couples who have been in the LS for awhile realize this and decide to swing separately or if those couples are resigned to pass on swing opportunities. Since it seems that women are able to get more playtime, I would be more than happy to give Mr. Sunbuckus a hall pass to play with the wife of a couple (as long as they are okay with it) separately if I am not attracted to the husband. Of course, how do you politely tell a couple, "Hey, I don't find you attractive but our spouses are into each other, why don't we just let them have fun?"
We have another weekend of possible fun coming up. I really hope we have a good experience because if not, I am not sure how many more of these "bad" experiences I can take before I want to withdraw from swinging for awhile.
Showing posts with label playing separately. Show all posts
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Thursday, March 22, 2012
Hall Pass
Mr. Sunbuckus has given me a hall pass to play with Mr. B, whenever and how ever many times. Of course, I would still ask to make sure he is okay with it and see what restrictions he places on me. I am a bit surprised that he would give me a hall pass but I also think some of it stems from the fact that Mr. B is married, is respectful, and doesn't play as often as his wife. From what we gathered, she (Mrs. B) goes on dates with her boyfriend at least once a week, sometimes meets him for coffee before work on some days, and overall, plays 5x as much as Mr. B does. So, the caring part of us kind of makes us want to watch out for our new friend and try to get him some playtime. Of course, that gives me extra playtime so I'm trying to find someone for Mr. Sunbuckus to have extra playtime with since Mrs. B is too busy with her boyfriend play most of the time to do a full swap.
Anyway, Mr. B hadn't played since the last time I went over to tease him and had him cum on my stomach. And I felt really bad for having Mrs. B come over last night for our FMF threesome when it was supposed to be his night out. So, this afternoon, I directly told him that he would need to tell me if he wanted to play, as well. It couldn't always be me! He asked if I could come over at 9. We had tentative plans with another couple coming over but I didn't think they would come over since the wife wasn't feel well. I told him that I could be available. I asked permission of Mr. Sunbuckus and Mrs. B and proceeded from there. Once the kids were in bed, I took a shower and started to get ready. As I was showering, I felt some nervousness on my part. Before, I had gone with the intention of just teasing, with no full on sex. Tonight was different and I had a bout of cold feet for a minute until I started thinking about what I should wear. I had already planned on wearing a short skirt and going pantiless. I was considering going braless as well but I don't like how I look without one on. When I was almost ready to go, Mr. Sunbuckus was excited and gave me a quick "goodbye" pumping before leaving.
When I got there, Mrs. B had already left for work and Mr. B was watching an SNL episode. I rubbed his shoulders a bit and nuzzled his neck. We chatted for a bit and right when he was going to lead me to the bedroom, Mrs. B came in and joked that Mr. B was being a slut. She had forgotten to take her medicine. I gave her a small kiss before she left again. Then Mr. B laid on the bed, requesting a massage. I was sitting on top of him, moving my hips against his ass while I rubbed his back. I got him to take off his shirt and it was more enjoyable for the both of us. Eventually, he turned onto his back and I was really able to tease him by getting completely naked and grinding my pussy on his cock through his shorts. It may have been torturous for him but he had a big smile on his face throughout.
Eventually, I removed his shorts and placed my bare pussy on top of his cock. He seemed worried that I was putting him inside me without a condom but I reassured him that just because we were naked didn't mean he was going in just yet. He agreed and relaxed while I rubbed, stroked, kissed, sucked, and teased him all over.
After about 30-45 minutes of teasing, I let him pound me as hard and fast as he could. Surprisingly, we did do several positions but kept going back to doggy and he lasted longer than I thought he would. Of course, he was trying not to cum and wanted to see how long he could last. Perhaps another time, I wanted him to cum and he did...it shot all the way from my bum to the top of my right shoulder. Even he was surprised.
He cleaned me up and we laid in bed and chatted for awhile. I mostly listened and rubbed his body to get him excited again. He asked me if I wanted to play again but I told him I was teasing him for the next time. If I knew he didn't have to wake up early for school and myself for the kids, I probably would have been more willing to play again that session but I had already been there for almost 2 hours. I wanted to get home to Jason and feel him fuck me bareback and to reconnect and reassure him.
It was definitely nice to be away from the house and go out on my own for a little while. A nice reminder that I was more than just a mom, especially after the night/day that I had. And I owe this little piece of "vacation" to my wonderful husband, Mr. Sunbuckus.
Anyway, Mr. B hadn't played since the last time I went over to tease him and had him cum on my stomach. And I felt really bad for having Mrs. B come over last night for our FMF threesome when it was supposed to be his night out. So, this afternoon, I directly told him that he would need to tell me if he wanted to play, as well. It couldn't always be me! He asked if I could come over at 9. We had tentative plans with another couple coming over but I didn't think they would come over since the wife wasn't feel well. I told him that I could be available. I asked permission of Mr. Sunbuckus and Mrs. B and proceeded from there. Once the kids were in bed, I took a shower and started to get ready. As I was showering, I felt some nervousness on my part. Before, I had gone with the intention of just teasing, with no full on sex. Tonight was different and I had a bout of cold feet for a minute until I started thinking about what I should wear. I had already planned on wearing a short skirt and going pantiless. I was considering going braless as well but I don't like how I look without one on. When I was almost ready to go, Mr. Sunbuckus was excited and gave me a quick "goodbye" pumping before leaving.
When I got there, Mrs. B had already left for work and Mr. B was watching an SNL episode. I rubbed his shoulders a bit and nuzzled his neck. We chatted for a bit and right when he was going to lead me to the bedroom, Mrs. B came in and joked that Mr. B was being a slut. She had forgotten to take her medicine. I gave her a small kiss before she left again. Then Mr. B laid on the bed, requesting a massage. I was sitting on top of him, moving my hips against his ass while I rubbed his back. I got him to take off his shirt and it was more enjoyable for the both of us. Eventually, he turned onto his back and I was really able to tease him by getting completely naked and grinding my pussy on his cock through his shorts. It may have been torturous for him but he had a big smile on his face throughout.
Eventually, I removed his shorts and placed my bare pussy on top of his cock. He seemed worried that I was putting him inside me without a condom but I reassured him that just because we were naked didn't mean he was going in just yet. He agreed and relaxed while I rubbed, stroked, kissed, sucked, and teased him all over.
After about 30-45 minutes of teasing, I let him pound me as hard and fast as he could. Surprisingly, we did do several positions but kept going back to doggy and he lasted longer than I thought he would. Of course, he was trying not to cum and wanted to see how long he could last. Perhaps another time, I wanted him to cum and he did...it shot all the way from my bum to the top of my right shoulder. Even he was surprised.
He cleaned me up and we laid in bed and chatted for awhile. I mostly listened and rubbed his body to get him excited again. He asked me if I wanted to play again but I told him I was teasing him for the next time. If I knew he didn't have to wake up early for school and myself for the kids, I probably would have been more willing to play again that session but I had already been there for almost 2 hours. I wanted to get home to Jason and feel him fuck me bareback and to reconnect and reassure him.
It was definitely nice to be away from the house and go out on my own for a little while. A nice reminder that I was more than just a mom, especially after the night/day that I had. And I owe this little piece of "vacation" to my wonderful husband, Mr. Sunbuckus.
Friday, March 16, 2012
Playing Separately
The past two nights, Mr. Sunbuckus has allowed me to go to A and B's house alone to tease and give a little oral to B while A was at work. This was a pretty big step for us and even B told me that he was surprised that Mr. Sunbuckus allowed me to go over. Of course, the first night was a surprise to B (none of us told him that I was going over) and I probably spent more time driving around finding their house than actually spending time there teasing him.
All day yesterday, I had concocted an idea for the guys. Since I was broken, I wouldn't be able to offer anything but anal, which Mr. Sunbuckus and B enjoy anyways. I had the diabolical idea to have A over for Mr. Sunbuckus to play with. If he finished the deal with her, I wouldn't give up the ass to him. Then for B, he and A would play and if he finished with her, I wouldn't go over to offer the ass. Unfortunately, A was too busy for such a plan which was okay. At least the idea was a fun one for me to fantasize about all day.
Well, Mr. Sunbuckus wanted me to go over again tonight to give B oral. I loved the idea of teasing him again and everyone was okay with it. So, after Mr. Sunbuckus fucked my ass and came inside during our nightly shower together, I went over and teased B. He wasn't going to let me get away so easily though...he proceeded to get me naked and wanted to do anal. Thankfully, I had asked Mr. Sunbuckus about this beforehand and he only wanted me to perform oral and to tease. I had no problem letting B know that he couldn't. He laughed it off but really wanted some release so I let him cum on my stomach. Too bad he couldn't have saved it for A! Anyway, we talked a bit afterwards but it was getting late so I went home.
It was very gratifying to come home to Mr. Sunbuckus. Going out late at night and acting clandestine was fun but my heart is definitely with Mr. Sunbuckus and I couldn't wait to snuggle with him in our bed. I don't mind chatting with my partners but I can see how getting to know your partners outside of sex can diminish the "taboo" feeling of using them for just sex!
All day yesterday, I had concocted an idea for the guys. Since I was broken, I wouldn't be able to offer anything but anal, which Mr. Sunbuckus and B enjoy anyways. I had the diabolical idea to have A over for Mr. Sunbuckus to play with. If he finished the deal with her, I wouldn't give up the ass to him. Then for B, he and A would play and if he finished with her, I wouldn't go over to offer the ass. Unfortunately, A was too busy for such a plan which was okay. At least the idea was a fun one for me to fantasize about all day.
Well, Mr. Sunbuckus wanted me to go over again tonight to give B oral. I loved the idea of teasing him again and everyone was okay with it. So, after Mr. Sunbuckus fucked my ass and came inside during our nightly shower together, I went over and teased B. He wasn't going to let me get away so easily though...he proceeded to get me naked and wanted to do anal. Thankfully, I had asked Mr. Sunbuckus about this beforehand and he only wanted me to perform oral and to tease. I had no problem letting B know that he couldn't. He laughed it off but really wanted some release so I let him cum on my stomach. Too bad he couldn't have saved it for A! Anyway, we talked a bit afterwards but it was getting late so I went home.
It was very gratifying to come home to Mr. Sunbuckus. Going out late at night and acting clandestine was fun but my heart is definitely with Mr. Sunbuckus and I couldn't wait to snuggle with him in our bed. I don't mind chatting with my partners but I can see how getting to know your partners outside of sex can diminish the "taboo" feeling of using them for just sex!
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