The saying goes, "You drag your wife by the hair to a swingers club, and then you have to drag her by the hair to get her out." And from more than one source, we've heard that women run the lifestyle. So, why is it that women embrace it and love it?
Plain and simple...it reminds us that we are beautiful and attractive, no matter our size, shape, color, lumps, and bumps. Even the most beautiful woman has something that she is insecure about and being in the lifestyle, there is always someone that will find them attractive...some more than others but bottom line, there's at least one other man out there that will find you attractive enough to boink.
Many of us are women who have gone through some kind of body transformation--be it child birth, surgery, weight gain/loss--and we want to be reaffirmed that we are still physically attractive. I know it sounds vain but when we are in a relationship, the compliments we receive from our significant other tends to feel forced or expected. When compliments come from a stranger, out of the blue, it seems more genuine. For example, Mr. Sunbuckus will compliment me whenever I take extra care to pretty myself up. As much as I love and appreciate the compliments, it almost always feels like he feels like he has to say them. In contrast, I can think of three separate occasions when I have been complimented unexpectedly and they are ones I will remember for a long time. One was when I was lying down, propping up my head up and gazing down at my partner and he suddenly said, "You're beautiful." Another time, was when Mrs. B (from our play couple) said, "[Mr. Sunbuckus] wants to play bareback with his gorgeous wife." And the third time was when Mr. B and I were talking about the hickeys I had given to him during our playtime. He was commenting on how those at work out tease him about them and he blame them on a vampire but then mentioned that he might slip up and say that a gorgeous Asian woman had left them on him. Those are the moments when compliments feel most sincere.
In the past, I have always questioned whether I was physically attractive. I have been obese most of my life and was never approached by a boy in school to go out on a date. In fact, Mr. Sunbuckus and I met online and fell in love. So, I have always wondered if I was able to physically attract anyone. Truth be told, I have even posted a picture of myself on Craigslist, just asking men if they found me attractive, nothing more. Most of the responses were reassuring but it didn't last very long and I would question myself again because pictures are one thing but in person, when the whole package is in front of someone is a different matter.
I am still insecure in how I appear. There are so many parts of my body that I am ashamed of that I can't list them all. I know that Mr. Sunbuckus will bed me because I'm his wife but it is encouraging to know that at least one other male out there is willing to play with me several times, even after he has seen the stretch marks, saggy skin, and extra baggage that my body bears.
Sunday, March 25, 2012
Thursday, March 22, 2012
Hall Pass
Mr. Sunbuckus has given me a hall pass to play with Mr. B, whenever and how ever many times. Of course, I would still ask to make sure he is okay with it and see what restrictions he places on me. I am a bit surprised that he would give me a hall pass but I also think some of it stems from the fact that Mr. B is married, is respectful, and doesn't play as often as his wife. From what we gathered, she (Mrs. B) goes on dates with her boyfriend at least once a week, sometimes meets him for coffee before work on some days, and overall, plays 5x as much as Mr. B does. So, the caring part of us kind of makes us want to watch out for our new friend and try to get him some playtime. Of course, that gives me extra playtime so I'm trying to find someone for Mr. Sunbuckus to have extra playtime with since Mrs. B is too busy with her boyfriend play most of the time to do a full swap.
Anyway, Mr. B hadn't played since the last time I went over to tease him and had him cum on my stomach. And I felt really bad for having Mrs. B come over last night for our FMF threesome when it was supposed to be his night out. So, this afternoon, I directly told him that he would need to tell me if he wanted to play, as well. It couldn't always be me! He asked if I could come over at 9. We had tentative plans with another couple coming over but I didn't think they would come over since the wife wasn't feel well. I told him that I could be available. I asked permission of Mr. Sunbuckus and Mrs. B and proceeded from there. Once the kids were in bed, I took a shower and started to get ready. As I was showering, I felt some nervousness on my part. Before, I had gone with the intention of just teasing, with no full on sex. Tonight was different and I had a bout of cold feet for a minute until I started thinking about what I should wear. I had already planned on wearing a short skirt and going pantiless. I was considering going braless as well but I don't like how I look without one on. When I was almost ready to go, Mr. Sunbuckus was excited and gave me a quick "goodbye" pumping before leaving.
When I got there, Mrs. B had already left for work and Mr. B was watching an SNL episode. I rubbed his shoulders a bit and nuzzled his neck. We chatted for a bit and right when he was going to lead me to the bedroom, Mrs. B came in and joked that Mr. B was being a slut. She had forgotten to take her medicine. I gave her a small kiss before she left again. Then Mr. B laid on the bed, requesting a massage. I was sitting on top of him, moving my hips against his ass while I rubbed his back. I got him to take off his shirt and it was more enjoyable for the both of us. Eventually, he turned onto his back and I was really able to tease him by getting completely naked and grinding my pussy on his cock through his shorts. It may have been torturous for him but he had a big smile on his face throughout.
Eventually, I removed his shorts and placed my bare pussy on top of his cock. He seemed worried that I was putting him inside me without a condom but I reassured him that just because we were naked didn't mean he was going in just yet. He agreed and relaxed while I rubbed, stroked, kissed, sucked, and teased him all over.
After about 30-45 minutes of teasing, I let him pound me as hard and fast as he could. Surprisingly, we did do several positions but kept going back to doggy and he lasted longer than I thought he would. Of course, he was trying not to cum and wanted to see how long he could last. Perhaps another time, I wanted him to cum and he did...it shot all the way from my bum to the top of my right shoulder. Even he was surprised.
He cleaned me up and we laid in bed and chatted for awhile. I mostly listened and rubbed his body to get him excited again. He asked me if I wanted to play again but I told him I was teasing him for the next time. If I knew he didn't have to wake up early for school and myself for the kids, I probably would have been more willing to play again that session but I had already been there for almost 2 hours. I wanted to get home to Jason and feel him fuck me bareback and to reconnect and reassure him.
It was definitely nice to be away from the house and go out on my own for a little while. A nice reminder that I was more than just a mom, especially after the night/day that I had. And I owe this little piece of "vacation" to my wonderful husband, Mr. Sunbuckus.
Anyway, Mr. B hadn't played since the last time I went over to tease him and had him cum on my stomach. And I felt really bad for having Mrs. B come over last night for our FMF threesome when it was supposed to be his night out. So, this afternoon, I directly told him that he would need to tell me if he wanted to play, as well. It couldn't always be me! He asked if I could come over at 9. We had tentative plans with another couple coming over but I didn't think they would come over since the wife wasn't feel well. I told him that I could be available. I asked permission of Mr. Sunbuckus and Mrs. B and proceeded from there. Once the kids were in bed, I took a shower and started to get ready. As I was showering, I felt some nervousness on my part. Before, I had gone with the intention of just teasing, with no full on sex. Tonight was different and I had a bout of cold feet for a minute until I started thinking about what I should wear. I had already planned on wearing a short skirt and going pantiless. I was considering going braless as well but I don't like how I look without one on. When I was almost ready to go, Mr. Sunbuckus was excited and gave me a quick "goodbye" pumping before leaving.
When I got there, Mrs. B had already left for work and Mr. B was watching an SNL episode. I rubbed his shoulders a bit and nuzzled his neck. We chatted for a bit and right when he was going to lead me to the bedroom, Mrs. B came in and joked that Mr. B was being a slut. She had forgotten to take her medicine. I gave her a small kiss before she left again. Then Mr. B laid on the bed, requesting a massage. I was sitting on top of him, moving my hips against his ass while I rubbed his back. I got him to take off his shirt and it was more enjoyable for the both of us. Eventually, he turned onto his back and I was really able to tease him by getting completely naked and grinding my pussy on his cock through his shorts. It may have been torturous for him but he had a big smile on his face throughout.
Eventually, I removed his shorts and placed my bare pussy on top of his cock. He seemed worried that I was putting him inside me without a condom but I reassured him that just because we were naked didn't mean he was going in just yet. He agreed and relaxed while I rubbed, stroked, kissed, sucked, and teased him all over.
After about 30-45 minutes of teasing, I let him pound me as hard and fast as he could. Surprisingly, we did do several positions but kept going back to doggy and he lasted longer than I thought he would. Of course, he was trying not to cum and wanted to see how long he could last. Perhaps another time, I wanted him to cum and he did...it shot all the way from my bum to the top of my right shoulder. Even he was surprised.
He cleaned me up and we laid in bed and chatted for awhile. I mostly listened and rubbed his body to get him excited again. He asked me if I wanted to play again but I told him I was teasing him for the next time. If I knew he didn't have to wake up early for school and myself for the kids, I probably would have been more willing to play again that session but I had already been there for almost 2 hours. I wanted to get home to Jason and feel him fuck me bareback and to reconnect and reassure him.
It was definitely nice to be away from the house and go out on my own for a little while. A nice reminder that I was more than just a mom, especially after the night/day that I had. And I owe this little piece of "vacation" to my wonderful husband, Mr. Sunbuckus.
Wednesday, March 21, 2012
Finally, a FMF Threesome
Mrs. Sunbuckus here. Two weeks ago, I had my MFM threesome, so ever since, I've been wanting to return the great gift that Mr. Sunbuckus gave me and have him experience a FMF threesome. As it turns out, MFM threesomes are easy to come by, FMF...not so much. However, did we luck out with our first play-couple or what? They play separately and were more than willing to be a part of our FMF threesome as well! Of course, I can't always call on A to be the 2nd female for our FMF romps so I've been looking into other single females that may be willing in the future.
Originally, I wanted to surprise Mr. Sunbuckus with his FMF threesome. He had expressed a fantasy of coming home from playing basketball to find me and another woman playing with each other and him joining in. Well, Mondays just aren't convenient for our playmates. I had tried to set up a FMF for Monday but the single female I had asked never got back to me about it. Luckily, A was able to keep true to her word about playing the next night. I decided to let Mr. Sunbuckus aware of the upcoming event so he could prepare himself.
A was early and we talked a bit while Mr. Sunbuckus was in the shower. I had hoped that maybe she would surprise him by jumping into the shower with him naked but she didn't seem keen on the idea once she saw the size of the shower. I guess that's just my own fantasy about being joined in the shower by a playmate. We both took off our clothes but left our bra and panties on. I had on a matching red set while A had a matching purple set. A brought over one of her toys and wanted to use it on me once Mr. Sunbuckus was out of the shower and ready to play. I was game but I wanted the night to be about Mr. Sunbuckus so after a few moments of trying out the toy, we got down to brass tacks.
Just as I was sandwiched between two men during my MFM threesome, we had Mr. Sunbuckus in between myself and A. We both suckled and kissed him. Her hand was cupping his balls while my hand would occasionally stroke his cock. I probably got tired of this part of the foreplay sooner than anyone else. I was ready to see Mr. Sunbuckus really enjoy himself. Eventually, we tried different tactics. Mr. Sunbuckus orally pleasing A while I was giving him a blowjob. Both A and I lying down on the bed while Mr. Sunbuckus ate one pussy and then the next. Mr. Sunbuckus finger banging me and then A and making her squirt.
We finally got around to doing one of the positions that Mr. Sunbuckus wanted to do...one woman riding his cock and the other riding his tongue. A wanted the cock first so I rode his tongue first. Eventually, we switched and I took the initiative to kiss and fondle A while we were on Mr. Sunbuckus. I knew that he had wanted this in particular so I tried it, even though it was hard to grind on his cock while doing so.
Mr. Sunbuckus even did me doggy style for awhile but I wanted him to finish with A so he did her doggy on the bed. I mostly laid on the bed watching them but I knew that Mr. Sunbuckus would enjoy it even more if I also kissed A while he was fucking her so I did that. After several moments, he came and we chatted just a bit before A left to go home.
Now for the nitty gritty...was I jealous at any point? I'd be lying if I said no. I felt twinges of jealousy every so often, mostly when Mr. Sunbuckus and A were kissing deeply. But I could see how much fun he was having, how much pleasure he was having and this was something that I was offering him and letting him do. We were experiencing this together and it would be something that we will always talk about in the future. Mostly, I enjoyed knowing how much more enjoyable this experience was for him in comparison to the FMF threesome he had in the past, behind my back. According to him, it only involved a blowjob and fucking one girl and then the other. I certainly hope this FMF threesome was better than that one.
One thing for sure...sex is sex. And you know what? Sometimes it does look funny and sometimes it looks sexy.
Originally, I wanted to surprise Mr. Sunbuckus with his FMF threesome. He had expressed a fantasy of coming home from playing basketball to find me and another woman playing with each other and him joining in. Well, Mondays just aren't convenient for our playmates. I had tried to set up a FMF for Monday but the single female I had asked never got back to me about it. Luckily, A was able to keep true to her word about playing the next night. I decided to let Mr. Sunbuckus aware of the upcoming event so he could prepare himself.
A was early and we talked a bit while Mr. Sunbuckus was in the shower. I had hoped that maybe she would surprise him by jumping into the shower with him naked but she didn't seem keen on the idea once she saw the size of the shower. I guess that's just my own fantasy about being joined in the shower by a playmate. We both took off our clothes but left our bra and panties on. I had on a matching red set while A had a matching purple set. A brought over one of her toys and wanted to use it on me once Mr. Sunbuckus was out of the shower and ready to play. I was game but I wanted the night to be about Mr. Sunbuckus so after a few moments of trying out the toy, we got down to brass tacks.
Just as I was sandwiched between two men during my MFM threesome, we had Mr. Sunbuckus in between myself and A. We both suckled and kissed him. Her hand was cupping his balls while my hand would occasionally stroke his cock. I probably got tired of this part of the foreplay sooner than anyone else. I was ready to see Mr. Sunbuckus really enjoy himself. Eventually, we tried different tactics. Mr. Sunbuckus orally pleasing A while I was giving him a blowjob. Both A and I lying down on the bed while Mr. Sunbuckus ate one pussy and then the next. Mr. Sunbuckus finger banging me and then A and making her squirt.
We finally got around to doing one of the positions that Mr. Sunbuckus wanted to do...one woman riding his cock and the other riding his tongue. A wanted the cock first so I rode his tongue first. Eventually, we switched and I took the initiative to kiss and fondle A while we were on Mr. Sunbuckus. I knew that he had wanted this in particular so I tried it, even though it was hard to grind on his cock while doing so.
Mr. Sunbuckus even did me doggy style for awhile but I wanted him to finish with A so he did her doggy on the bed. I mostly laid on the bed watching them but I knew that Mr. Sunbuckus would enjoy it even more if I also kissed A while he was fucking her so I did that. After several moments, he came and we chatted just a bit before A left to go home.
Now for the nitty gritty...was I jealous at any point? I'd be lying if I said no. I felt twinges of jealousy every so often, mostly when Mr. Sunbuckus and A were kissing deeply. But I could see how much fun he was having, how much pleasure he was having and this was something that I was offering him and letting him do. We were experiencing this together and it would be something that we will always talk about in the future. Mostly, I enjoyed knowing how much more enjoyable this experience was for him in comparison to the FMF threesome he had in the past, behind my back. According to him, it only involved a blowjob and fucking one girl and then the other. I certainly hope this FMF threesome was better than that one.
One thing for sure...sex is sex. And you know what? Sometimes it does look funny and sometimes it looks sexy.
Another Threesome
Mrs. Sunbuckus had her threesome, of which we wrote about a couple weeks back. Today it was Mr. Sunbuckus' day to play. Mrs. Sunbuckus had arranged for only the wife of our playmates to come over today, and it was fantastic.
I was actually taking a shower when she came over. So she peeked in the shower real quick and said "Daddy," like she was one of my kids. I quickly hurried with the shower, popped a vitamin "V" and said hello to the lovely ladies. They had already started playing. T had brought over a butterfly vibrator and was using it on Mrs. Sunbuckus, who seemed to be enjoying it. I offered my fingers to Mrs. Sunbuckus' pussy, and we teased her for a few minutes like that.
T then pushed me down on the bed and proceeded to kiss me all over my body. Mrs. Sunbuckus joined in with the kisses, and that went on for awhile. I did notice that T is a little rough with her teeth, but that's okay by me. Eventually Mrs. Sunbuckus took my cock into her mouth while T licked my balls. There were occasional kisses between the two as well.
I couldn't wait to give kisses all over those two bodies, so I got up and instructed them to lay next to each other. I then proceeded to place kisses all up and down both succulent bodies, being sure to play around their pussies but not lick them yet. By this time both their bras were off, and I proceeded to remove both their panties.
I'm pretty sure they were both ready to have their pussies licked, so I started with Mrs. Sunbuckus. She's not as much into the oral as I am, so I moved on to T. I was really enjoying her pussy, and I could tell she was getting into it with her little whimpers. I moved her closer to the edge of the bed and Mrs. Sunbuckus then took my cock into her mouth while I stood up and licked T's pussy.
This went on for several minutes, and of course I enjoyed every second. I started in with the fingers after that. Once I got to T's pussy, we had to put a towel down. She once again expertly instructed me on how to use my fingers and she had two squirting orgasms, then a third one which got her knees quivering again. Having pleased both ladies greatly, T, always the lady, noted that I had not been taken care of yet.
So she started in cowboy style while Mrs. Sunbuckus used my face as a seat. I then had T turn over for some missionary while Mrs. Sunbuckus lay next to us and smiled. I pounded T in several missionary variations, then Mrs. Sunbuckus took a ride on my cock after sucking it again. I had T use my face as a seat, and although I sure loved her pussy, she almost suffocated me! Ah, the dangers of a threesome!
Much more happened after that, and finally I had T doggy style again, and as soon as the condom went on I went a little flacid. Luckily, Mrs. Sunbuckus was there to pump him back up with her hand! Thanks honey! I entered T and pounded her from behind until I exploded deep down inside her pussy.
We lay recovering for about ten minutes. There were kisses all around and T stepped out into the night.
As my philosophy goes, if you do enough good deeds, eventually you will get them back in turn. Having done Mrs. Sunbuckus a good deed with a MFM, my "turn" came tonight, and boy am I glad! I literally can't stop smiling everytime I think about it! It was so much better, too, knowing Mrs. Sunbuckus was there enjoying it with me. She even took a picture of T and I snuggling together afterwards!
The Lifestyle, although it can be slow starting, is starting to get better! I look forward to finding new playmates and attending more parties.
I was actually taking a shower when she came over. So she peeked in the shower real quick and said "Daddy," like she was one of my kids. I quickly hurried with the shower, popped a vitamin "V" and said hello to the lovely ladies. They had already started playing. T had brought over a butterfly vibrator and was using it on Mrs. Sunbuckus, who seemed to be enjoying it. I offered my fingers to Mrs. Sunbuckus' pussy, and we teased her for a few minutes like that.
T then pushed me down on the bed and proceeded to kiss me all over my body. Mrs. Sunbuckus joined in with the kisses, and that went on for awhile. I did notice that T is a little rough with her teeth, but that's okay by me. Eventually Mrs. Sunbuckus took my cock into her mouth while T licked my balls. There were occasional kisses between the two as well.
I couldn't wait to give kisses all over those two bodies, so I got up and instructed them to lay next to each other. I then proceeded to place kisses all up and down both succulent bodies, being sure to play around their pussies but not lick them yet. By this time both their bras were off, and I proceeded to remove both their panties.
I'm pretty sure they were both ready to have their pussies licked, so I started with Mrs. Sunbuckus. She's not as much into the oral as I am, so I moved on to T. I was really enjoying her pussy, and I could tell she was getting into it with her little whimpers. I moved her closer to the edge of the bed and Mrs. Sunbuckus then took my cock into her mouth while I stood up and licked T's pussy.
This went on for several minutes, and of course I enjoyed every second. I started in with the fingers after that. Once I got to T's pussy, we had to put a towel down. She once again expertly instructed me on how to use my fingers and she had two squirting orgasms, then a third one which got her knees quivering again. Having pleased both ladies greatly, T, always the lady, noted that I had not been taken care of yet.
So she started in cowboy style while Mrs. Sunbuckus used my face as a seat. I then had T turn over for some missionary while Mrs. Sunbuckus lay next to us and smiled. I pounded T in several missionary variations, then Mrs. Sunbuckus took a ride on my cock after sucking it again. I had T use my face as a seat, and although I sure loved her pussy, she almost suffocated me! Ah, the dangers of a threesome!
Much more happened after that, and finally I had T doggy style again, and as soon as the condom went on I went a little flacid. Luckily, Mrs. Sunbuckus was there to pump him back up with her hand! Thanks honey! I entered T and pounded her from behind until I exploded deep down inside her pussy.
We lay recovering for about ten minutes. There were kisses all around and T stepped out into the night.
As my philosophy goes, if you do enough good deeds, eventually you will get them back in turn. Having done Mrs. Sunbuckus a good deed with a MFM, my "turn" came tonight, and boy am I glad! I literally can't stop smiling everytime I think about it! It was so much better, too, knowing Mrs. Sunbuckus was there enjoying it with me. She even took a picture of T and I snuggling together afterwards!
The Lifestyle, although it can be slow starting, is starting to get better! I look forward to finding new playmates and attending more parties.
Friday, March 16, 2012
Playing Separately
The past two nights, Mr. Sunbuckus has allowed me to go to A and B's house alone to tease and give a little oral to B while A was at work. This was a pretty big step for us and even B told me that he was surprised that Mr. Sunbuckus allowed me to go over. Of course, the first night was a surprise to B (none of us told him that I was going over) and I probably spent more time driving around finding their house than actually spending time there teasing him.
All day yesterday, I had concocted an idea for the guys. Since I was broken, I wouldn't be able to offer anything but anal, which Mr. Sunbuckus and B enjoy anyways. I had the diabolical idea to have A over for Mr. Sunbuckus to play with. If he finished the deal with her, I wouldn't give up the ass to him. Then for B, he and A would play and if he finished with her, I wouldn't go over to offer the ass. Unfortunately, A was too busy for such a plan which was okay. At least the idea was a fun one for me to fantasize about all day.
Well, Mr. Sunbuckus wanted me to go over again tonight to give B oral. I loved the idea of teasing him again and everyone was okay with it. So, after Mr. Sunbuckus fucked my ass and came inside during our nightly shower together, I went over and teased B. He wasn't going to let me get away so easily though...he proceeded to get me naked and wanted to do anal. Thankfully, I had asked Mr. Sunbuckus about this beforehand and he only wanted me to perform oral and to tease. I had no problem letting B know that he couldn't. He laughed it off but really wanted some release so I let him cum on my stomach. Too bad he couldn't have saved it for A! Anyway, we talked a bit afterwards but it was getting late so I went home.
It was very gratifying to come home to Mr. Sunbuckus. Going out late at night and acting clandestine was fun but my heart is definitely with Mr. Sunbuckus and I couldn't wait to snuggle with him in our bed. I don't mind chatting with my partners but I can see how getting to know your partners outside of sex can diminish the "taboo" feeling of using them for just sex!
All day yesterday, I had concocted an idea for the guys. Since I was broken, I wouldn't be able to offer anything but anal, which Mr. Sunbuckus and B enjoy anyways. I had the diabolical idea to have A over for Mr. Sunbuckus to play with. If he finished the deal with her, I wouldn't give up the ass to him. Then for B, he and A would play and if he finished with her, I wouldn't go over to offer the ass. Unfortunately, A was too busy for such a plan which was okay. At least the idea was a fun one for me to fantasize about all day.
Well, Mr. Sunbuckus wanted me to go over again tonight to give B oral. I loved the idea of teasing him again and everyone was okay with it. So, after Mr. Sunbuckus fucked my ass and came inside during our nightly shower together, I went over and teased B. He wasn't going to let me get away so easily though...he proceeded to get me naked and wanted to do anal. Thankfully, I had asked Mr. Sunbuckus about this beforehand and he only wanted me to perform oral and to tease. I had no problem letting B know that he couldn't. He laughed it off but really wanted some release so I let him cum on my stomach. Too bad he couldn't have saved it for A! Anyway, we talked a bit afterwards but it was getting late so I went home.
It was very gratifying to come home to Mr. Sunbuckus. Going out late at night and acting clandestine was fun but my heart is definitely with Mr. Sunbuckus and I couldn't wait to snuggle with him in our bed. I don't mind chatting with my partners but I can see how getting to know your partners outside of sex can diminish the "taboo" feeling of using them for just sex!
Tuesday, March 13, 2012
The Single Male Phenomenon
It was a single male that helped propel us into the lifestyle, so I didn't really care whether or not we played with them but I was open to it. I knew Mr. Sunbuckus preferred to play with couples so I blocked both single males and single females from our profile when we first began. Then, I chatted with a woman (who oddly seemed to be pimping out her single male playmate), who convinced me to open our profile up to single males. There was quite the response in just a few days. It made Mr. Sunbuckus very uncomfortable so I closed our profile to them but left it open to single females.
During that brief time, one of the males particularly caught my eye because of his experience and ease at chatting with us. Although I wasn't really interested in playing at first, the respectfulness, open-ness, honesty, and patience that he extended us made me want to give it a try. Not to mention, at the time, I still wanted my taste of having a MFM threesome. However, Mr. Sunbuckus was still very, very, very reluctant to have a single male over.
Well, ever since our MFM experience and night at the club while dancing with the other males that were part of a couple, I'm not really interested in single males. I admit, it's nice getting the attention but they can be aggressive if they want to be. Whereas the males that come from a couple have a woman to go home to and pester. That's not to say that I don't enjoy getting a message just asking me how my day is. I think that's just common friendliness which everyone needs in their life. But Mr. Sunbuckus is afraid that a single male will ask to play often. Let me be clear, I have not had this experience with the single male I have kept in contact with but I can see how he can feel that way.
I know that there are tons and tons of single males in the lifestyle and keeping our profile open to them would create too much static in our mailbox but sometimes, I do feel it can be a bit discriminatory to block them but not single females, even if they are "rare". Because in the end, I am still with Mr. Sunbuckus. I love him and we are experiencing all of this together. I would like to try whatever is out there with him and each person is able to offer something that no one else can, their unique selves. That's why one MFM/FMF/MFMF/MFFM experience isn't enough. It is always a completely different experience when you include a brand new person/couple into the mix.
During that brief time, one of the males particularly caught my eye because of his experience and ease at chatting with us. Although I wasn't really interested in playing at first, the respectfulness, open-ness, honesty, and patience that he extended us made me want to give it a try. Not to mention, at the time, I still wanted my taste of having a MFM threesome. However, Mr. Sunbuckus was still very, very, very reluctant to have a single male over.
Well, ever since our MFM experience and night at the club while dancing with the other males that were part of a couple, I'm not really interested in single males. I admit, it's nice getting the attention but they can be aggressive if they want to be. Whereas the males that come from a couple have a woman to go home to and pester. That's not to say that I don't enjoy getting a message just asking me how my day is. I think that's just common friendliness which everyone needs in their life. But Mr. Sunbuckus is afraid that a single male will ask to play often. Let me be clear, I have not had this experience with the single male I have kept in contact with but I can see how he can feel that way.
I know that there are tons and tons of single males in the lifestyle and keeping our profile open to them would create too much static in our mailbox but sometimes, I do feel it can be a bit discriminatory to block them but not single females, even if they are "rare". Because in the end, I am still with Mr. Sunbuckus. I love him and we are experiencing all of this together. I would like to try whatever is out there with him and each person is able to offer something that no one else can, their unique selves. That's why one MFM/FMF/MFMF/MFFM experience isn't enough. It is always a completely different experience when you include a brand new person/couple into the mix.
Monday, March 12, 2012
Unwritten Guy Rules
Mrs. Sunbuckus doesn't always believe what I say. I can't blame her, I do kid around a lot. Jokes are just in my nature; I think that's what helped me get her in the first place.
However, I have been telling her of some "guy" things lately. As we were out with the other couples the other night, I again told her my guy rules, and asked some of the others to confirm. So, here are a few.
1. If you call a guy up and tell him you're horny and want to have sex, he will be there. It does not matter what time it is, where he has to be, what he'll be missing, he will be there in ten minutes.
2. Corollary to 1, it does not matter where you are when you call and say you're horny. You could give directions like "Go down to that street, ask Vinnie the drug dealer at the corner where to meet me, and he'll point you in the right direction." Also, as long as your place has a bed or sofa or even just semi-clean carpet, we'll be there to have sex with you.
3. We don't care if you're carrying a few extra pounds. As long as you're into it and into us, that's what matters. If you're beautiful but act like you're doing us a favor by spreading your legs, you're never going to see us again. Conversely, if you're really into us, just be confident in yourself and enjoy the sex.
I'm sure there are plenty of other rules, but I really wanted to get these down on the blog.
However, I have been telling her of some "guy" things lately. As we were out with the other couples the other night, I again told her my guy rules, and asked some of the others to confirm. So, here are a few.
1. If you call a guy up and tell him you're horny and want to have sex, he will be there. It does not matter what time it is, where he has to be, what he'll be missing, he will be there in ten minutes.
2. Corollary to 1, it does not matter where you are when you call and say you're horny. You could give directions like "Go down to that street, ask Vinnie the drug dealer at the corner where to meet me, and he'll point you in the right direction." Also, as long as your place has a bed or sofa or even just semi-clean carpet, we'll be there to have sex with you.
3. We don't care if you're carrying a few extra pounds. As long as you're into it and into us, that's what matters. If you're beautiful but act like you're doing us a favor by spreading your legs, you're never going to see us again. Conversely, if you're really into us, just be confident in yourself and enjoy the sex.
I'm sure there are plenty of other rules, but I really wanted to get these down on the blog.
Sunday, March 11, 2012
First Time at a Vanilla Club: Mrs. Sunbuckus' Perspective
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Date Night: Mr. Sunbuckus' Perspective
Well, apart from attending swinger-specific events, Mrs. Sunbuckus and I had what could be considered a date night. Of course, it was with the couple who initiated us into the lifestyle.
We met at a local club, and we found out they usually meet there with other swingers. We were there first, and almost nothing was going on. We got a couple of drinks and waited. And waited. And waited some more. Eventually the other couple, we'll nickname Mr. and Mrs. T, showed up. And then some other swinger couples showed up. Eventually, there were six swinger couples there, and the club started filling up with people looking to drink, dance, and have a good time.
We did have a good time. Mrs. Sunbuckus wore an appropriately short dress that allowed her ass to hang out or hands to go under it without much effort. She ended up getting felt up by pretty much every one of the male half, and quite a few of the women halves, too. I ended up on the dance floor a few times dancing in between Mrs. Sunbuckus and Mrs. T. It was quite a confidence builder, knowing I'm out there on the dance floor, two women on me giving me kisses. Hopefully making the regular guys jealous, wondering how this short guy who isn't even dressed that well is getting two beautiful women to openly kiss on the mouth and grinding against him. And secretly, I know I will probably get to have sex with both of them later.
The good times seemed to last as long as I was drinking and for a short time afterwards. Unfortunately, I didn't get to know all the other ladies as well, possibly because of my shyness, possibly because some of the other ladies seemed a little stand-offish, like it would take a few more meet-ups for them to get comfortable with me. To their credit, all the male halves were very friendly, spoke to me a bit, and one of them who has been married for 20+ years gave me a little advice which I'm sure to take to heart later.
As the evening wore on, Mrs. T took my hand, dragged me down to a couch and started making out with me in earnest. Despite her smoking habit, I thoroughly enjoyed her kisses all over me. We were having so much fun until a security guard came over and made us sit up. What a killjoy! Still, that didn't stop us from making out some more. Mrs. Sunbuckus, seeing us making out, decided she'd make out with one of the other guys, and that's exactly what she did, until security came over and told her to pull her skirt down since she was showing too much ass.
Finally, I was sober enough to drive home, and we convinced Mr. and Mrs. T to head back to our home. Of course, it took 10 minutes to leave since Mrs. T was kissing everyone on the way out and there were hugs all around.
Once at home, the fun began. We were all naked, and then Mr. T requested that he be allowed to take Mrs. Sunbuckus to a different room to play. I was ok with that, and Mrs. T remarked that would I really care if they did anything else as at that moment her beautiful nude body was above me and she was busy kissing me. I admitted, I did not care.
Many things were enjoyed that night, and I enjoyed Mrs. T in many ways, and, apparently, Mrs. Sunbuckus enjoyed Mr. T in many ways. At one point I was fisting Mrs. T, and she was moaning and screaming and trying to muffle her passion by putting her hand over her mouth. I gently moved her hand away and said "You don't need to be quiet here." She just proceeded to be as loud as she wanted to be, and I felt pretty good being able to make her moan like that.
Unfortunately, due to the late hour and the fact I had been drinking - something I don't do on a regular basis - Mr. Sunbuckus Jr. had some trouble staying hard throughout the night. Mrs. T took it all in stride, though, and we played in other ways. At one point she was trying to suck my nipples and I couldn't keep from laughing. It doesn't work for Mrs. Sunbuckus, and it didn't work for Mrs. T. Sorry, ladies, Mr. Sunbuckus' nipples are off-limits.
At some point Mrs. T. had a knee-shaking, body-quivering orgasm. After she recovered from that, she was quite the lady, insisting that I cum as well, and offering herself doggy style. A minute later, she's bent over, and I'm in the unthinkable position: a gorgeous lady offering me her pussy and Mr. Sunbuckus Jr at half-staff!
Fortunately, I was able to get him up to snuff, and started riding Mrs. T doggy style, about halfway through Mr. T and Mrs. Sunbuckus come back into the room looking freshly fucked. Mrs. Sunbuckus gives Mrs. T a kiss, and I ride Mrs. T to a long-awaited, overdue orgasm which had me feeling fantastic.
Some more kisses, some more smalltalk, and then Mr. and Mrs. T had to leave.
Mrs. Sunbuckus and I tried some more sex, but the late hour and fatigue factor set in and we were unable to finish what we started. Fortunately, the next morning we were able to finish with a little anal, some oral and fantastic pounding.
Overall a fanstastic date, and I have to believe by now that Mrs. T is a nympho on some sort of level. She just loves cock too much. I'm totally ok with that, of course.
Still loving the lifestyle, even if we have only played with one couple so far.
We met at a local club, and we found out they usually meet there with other swingers. We were there first, and almost nothing was going on. We got a couple of drinks and waited. And waited. And waited some more. Eventually the other couple, we'll nickname Mr. and Mrs. T, showed up. And then some other swinger couples showed up. Eventually, there were six swinger couples there, and the club started filling up with people looking to drink, dance, and have a good time.
We did have a good time. Mrs. Sunbuckus wore an appropriately short dress that allowed her ass to hang out or hands to go under it without much effort. She ended up getting felt up by pretty much every one of the male half, and quite a few of the women halves, too. I ended up on the dance floor a few times dancing in between Mrs. Sunbuckus and Mrs. T. It was quite a confidence builder, knowing I'm out there on the dance floor, two women on me giving me kisses. Hopefully making the regular guys jealous, wondering how this short guy who isn't even dressed that well is getting two beautiful women to openly kiss on the mouth and grinding against him. And secretly, I know I will probably get to have sex with both of them later.
The good times seemed to last as long as I was drinking and for a short time afterwards. Unfortunately, I didn't get to know all the other ladies as well, possibly because of my shyness, possibly because some of the other ladies seemed a little stand-offish, like it would take a few more meet-ups for them to get comfortable with me. To their credit, all the male halves were very friendly, spoke to me a bit, and one of them who has been married for 20+ years gave me a little advice which I'm sure to take to heart later.
As the evening wore on, Mrs. T took my hand, dragged me down to a couch and started making out with me in earnest. Despite her smoking habit, I thoroughly enjoyed her kisses all over me. We were having so much fun until a security guard came over and made us sit up. What a killjoy! Still, that didn't stop us from making out some more. Mrs. Sunbuckus, seeing us making out, decided she'd make out with one of the other guys, and that's exactly what she did, until security came over and told her to pull her skirt down since she was showing too much ass.
Finally, I was sober enough to drive home, and we convinced Mr. and Mrs. T to head back to our home. Of course, it took 10 minutes to leave since Mrs. T was kissing everyone on the way out and there were hugs all around.
Once at home, the fun began. We were all naked, and then Mr. T requested that he be allowed to take Mrs. Sunbuckus to a different room to play. I was ok with that, and Mrs. T remarked that would I really care if they did anything else as at that moment her beautiful nude body was above me and she was busy kissing me. I admitted, I did not care.
Many things were enjoyed that night, and I enjoyed Mrs. T in many ways, and, apparently, Mrs. Sunbuckus enjoyed Mr. T in many ways. At one point I was fisting Mrs. T, and she was moaning and screaming and trying to muffle her passion by putting her hand over her mouth. I gently moved her hand away and said "You don't need to be quiet here." She just proceeded to be as loud as she wanted to be, and I felt pretty good being able to make her moan like that.
Unfortunately, due to the late hour and the fact I had been drinking - something I don't do on a regular basis - Mr. Sunbuckus Jr. had some trouble staying hard throughout the night. Mrs. T took it all in stride, though, and we played in other ways. At one point she was trying to suck my nipples and I couldn't keep from laughing. It doesn't work for Mrs. Sunbuckus, and it didn't work for Mrs. T. Sorry, ladies, Mr. Sunbuckus' nipples are off-limits.
At some point Mrs. T. had a knee-shaking, body-quivering orgasm. After she recovered from that, she was quite the lady, insisting that I cum as well, and offering herself doggy style. A minute later, she's bent over, and I'm in the unthinkable position: a gorgeous lady offering me her pussy and Mr. Sunbuckus Jr at half-staff!
Fortunately, I was able to get him up to snuff, and started riding Mrs. T doggy style, about halfway through Mr. T and Mrs. Sunbuckus come back into the room looking freshly fucked. Mrs. Sunbuckus gives Mrs. T a kiss, and I ride Mrs. T to a long-awaited, overdue orgasm which had me feeling fantastic.
Some more kisses, some more smalltalk, and then Mr. and Mrs. T had to leave.
Mrs. Sunbuckus and I tried some more sex, but the late hour and fatigue factor set in and we were unable to finish what we started. Fortunately, the next morning we were able to finish with a little anal, some oral and fantastic pounding.
Overall a fanstastic date, and I have to believe by now that Mrs. T is a nympho on some sort of level. She just loves cock too much. I'm totally ok with that, of course.
Still loving the lifestyle, even if we have only played with one couple so far.
Wednesday, March 7, 2012
First Threesome - With Another Guy!
Well, we had our first male-female-male threesome last night. I have to say, I was a bit hesitant at first. I had arranged a surprise for Mrs. Sunbuckus and invited over the guy who broke us in at the party. I felt comfortable with him, I know he is good to perform sexually. Most importantly for me, I know he has a beautiful wife at home to relieve any excess tension. Sorry single guys, not yet - maybe never - but making sure the other guy has a relief valve assuages my mind. Why is this? Because I'm a guy, and I know that guys will go to great lengths for a piece of pussy and are more likely to be pushy.
So, we're finishing up our evening workout. I had been texting him and told him it's going to be a surprise. Well, our workout ran about 30 minutes later than I thought, so I had to text him in the middle of the workout to come over about 30 minutes later. Mrs. Sunbuckus was still in the bathroom finishing her shower when he knocked on the door. I let him in and immediately Mrs. Sunbuckus knew the game was on!
Now, I try to be a good host to our guests, so I got him something to drink, and noted in my mind that we must be in bizzaro world. Not only had I invited over a good-looking man to have sex with my wife, I'm getting him a drink!
All three of us conversed for about 10 minutes and it's going pleasantly, but Mrs. Sunbuckus wants the cock and herds us all back into the bedroom.
Well, things went very wildly from that point on. The details are in the post below, but suffice it to say, Mrs. Sunbuckus was satisified in her pussy and ass, and got quite alot of cock in her mouth as well. While the DP wasn't able to materialize like we wanted, everything else went pretty smoothly. Once again, he was like a machine and not only fucked Mrs. Sunbuckus well, but she made him cum three times.
I know she enjoyed it immensely, and that was what I was hoping for. And secretly, I'm hoping Mrs. Sunbuckus will surprise me with a little something extra one night.
As to my thoughts about the whole thing? Well, since he has been in the lifestyle for awhile, he was kind, wasn't pushy, followed the rules we laid out for him (condoms required for intercourse; if it's been in the ass, you have to change condoms before going back in the pussy...the usual stuff), took turns and overall just enjoyed himself while making sure Mrs. Sunbuckus had a nice time.
I felt very comfortable throughout the whole thing, and although I'm not attracted to men sexually, I can admire a guy who takes care of himself. After it was all over, I didn't feel jealous at all, and I think I would gladly do it again after seeing how much Mrs. Sunbuckus enjoyed rolling off one cock and taking another.
First MFM Threesome
It finally happened! Our first MFM threesome! And it was sort-of a surprise to me. We had invited the male half of the couple that we played with at the party to come over last night. But we didn’t hear back from him until almost 12 hours after we sent the invite (good thing we asked early in the morning). I, Mrs. Sunbuckus, thought that maybe something had come up or he just wasn’t interested even though he had expressed his desire the past two nights to come visit. We did our usual nighttime routine once the kids were in bed…I blogged, we exercised then showered. However, something was odd and while I was in the shower, I had this sneaking suspicion that Mr. Sunbuckus had something up his sleeve. Perhaps he was going to surprise me and have our playmate, B, come and join me in the shower. After I exited the shower with no unexpected visitors, I began to wonder why that feeling wouldn’t go away. As I was drying my hair, I heard a knock on the door…just as I was thinking about how there would have been if B were coming over. My internal conversation stopped and exclaimed, “No way. Is this really happening?” As excited as I was to experience a MFM threesome, I was a bit relieved that we hadn’t heard back and might have a relaxing night. On top of having a somewhat stressful day with the kids, I was feeling insecure about my sexual abilities and wasn’t sure how good it would be for B. So when I realized that we were actually going to do a MFM threesome, I did freak out internally about how I was going to handle it...but I pushed it away as fast as I could so I could enjoy the night.
Mr. Sunbuckus approached me from behind as I was finishing up in the bathroom and I was nervously but ecstatically teasing him that I knew he’d pull something like this on me. Since I had nothing else to do but go out and greet our guest, I walked out to our living room just wearing my nightgown. Neither Mr. Sunbuckus or B knew that I wasn’t wearing underwear, which added to the upcoming excitement of the night. We chatted for a while on the couch, Mr. Sunbuckus on my left and B on my right. I let my arm rest against his and we rubbed each other’s legs and arms. It was getting to be almost 11 and I knew both of my playmates had to work the next day so I basically said, “Let’s go to the bedroom!”
B admired our big king-sized bed and enjoyed the comfort of it. I laid down next him and he immediately lifted my nightgown up to squeeze my ass. I noticed that Mr. Sunbuckus was cleaning off the Laz-Boy chair in the room and I told him that he should join us on the bed. So, there I was, right in the middle of two men and I loved the feeling of it. Being desired by both and knowing that both were going to fuck me that night was intoxicating.
It seemed like it was a long time when we played but I think in all, it was only about 70 minutes. There was a lot going on during that 70 minutes. At one time, I was giving a blowjob to one while stroking the other. Being taken doggie style and giving oral to the other partner. Attempting our first double penetration, which didn’t turn out but there’s always next time. Getting eaten and fingered while sucking the other cock. B ended up cumming three times, one with vaginal sex, one with anal sex, and the last with a handjob. It was nice to be able to make him cum by a handjob because I’ve never been able to do that with Mr. Sunbuckus and it worried me that maybe I don’t know how to handle a cock. Perhaps B was just ready to cum but at least I was able to do that for him with my hand. And, of course, Mr. Sunbuckus finished creaming my asshole at the end.
With our full swap and threesome under our belts, I am even more convinced that we are in the right mindset to swing. Both times, I found the sex fun but not intimate. Only when I was kissing Mr. Sunbuckus did I feel that I was having a special, loving moment with him. I hope that if he ever feels insecure or jealous that he knows that no matter how much fun I am having with other playmates, my bond and love for him is what makes the sex we have together unique and unmatchable by any others.
Throughout the entire experience, I was having a blast although there was one time where I was worried about being able to take care of two men at the same time. Perhaps I would get worn out? But I didn’t. Another concern I had was my lack of being able to multi-task. I had a hard time giving oral at times because of the pounding I was getting…it was affecting my stability and rhythm. In all, I can’t wait for the next MFM threesome but I think I owe Mr. Sunbuckus his own FMF threesome next!
Mr. Sunbuckus approached me from behind as I was finishing up in the bathroom and I was nervously but ecstatically teasing him that I knew he’d pull something like this on me. Since I had nothing else to do but go out and greet our guest, I walked out to our living room just wearing my nightgown. Neither Mr. Sunbuckus or B knew that I wasn’t wearing underwear, which added to the upcoming excitement of the night. We chatted for a while on the couch, Mr. Sunbuckus on my left and B on my right. I let my arm rest against his and we rubbed each other’s legs and arms. It was getting to be almost 11 and I knew both of my playmates had to work the next day so I basically said, “Let’s go to the bedroom!”
B admired our big king-sized bed and enjoyed the comfort of it. I laid down next him and he immediately lifted my nightgown up to squeeze my ass. I noticed that Mr. Sunbuckus was cleaning off the Laz-Boy chair in the room and I told him that he should join us on the bed. So, there I was, right in the middle of two men and I loved the feeling of it. Being desired by both and knowing that both were going to fuck me that night was intoxicating.
It seemed like it was a long time when we played but I think in all, it was only about 70 minutes. There was a lot going on during that 70 minutes. At one time, I was giving a blowjob to one while stroking the other. Being taken doggie style and giving oral to the other partner. Attempting our first double penetration, which didn’t turn out but there’s always next time. Getting eaten and fingered while sucking the other cock. B ended up cumming three times, one with vaginal sex, one with anal sex, and the last with a handjob. It was nice to be able to make him cum by a handjob because I’ve never been able to do that with Mr. Sunbuckus and it worried me that maybe I don’t know how to handle a cock. Perhaps B was just ready to cum but at least I was able to do that for him with my hand. And, of course, Mr. Sunbuckus finished creaming my asshole at the end.
With our full swap and threesome under our belts, I am even more convinced that we are in the right mindset to swing. Both times, I found the sex fun but not intimate. Only when I was kissing Mr. Sunbuckus did I feel that I was having a special, loving moment with him. I hope that if he ever feels insecure or jealous that he knows that no matter how much fun I am having with other playmates, my bond and love for him is what makes the sex we have together unique and unmatchable by any others.
Throughout the entire experience, I was having a blast although there was one time where I was worried about being able to take care of two men at the same time. Perhaps I would get worn out? But I didn’t. Another concern I had was my lack of being able to multi-task. I had a hard time giving oral at times because of the pounding I was getting…it was affecting my stability and rhythm. In all, I can’t wait for the next MFM threesome but I think I owe Mr. Sunbuckus his own FMF threesome next!
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