Sunday, April 22, 2012

Mr. Sunbuckus. Big Party Blues

Mrs. Sunbuckus and I had signed up for a swanky-sounding party. The theme was to be "Kink" and it was to be held at a large venue. Only couples and single women were to be allowed. But, if you haven't figured it out yet, we didn't make it to that party. Two nights before the party our ticket was unexpectedly refunded. The next day I found out that the party organizers had not been able to obtain some kind of event license with the host city and so therefore had to cancel.

This was very disappointing on several levels. On the first level, we had to plan a babysitter to stay overnight and arrange a hotel and so on and so forth. So all that preparation would go to waste.

We hastily signed up for a party that Mr and Mrs B had signed up for, only to find out later THEY wouldn't be able to make it.

We decided to push ahead anyways. After all, where would we be if we didn't give ourselves the opportunity to meet new people?

We went to the party anwyays. We enjoyed a nice meal at an unusual Brazilian restaurant. Then we showered and went to the party.

The location was ok. Not fantastic, mind you, merely ok. The space was a bit crowded, and as the night wore on, we noticed that the number of single men was increasing.

Of course, we also met a few new couples, and a few couples we already knew. But ultimately, we didn't play with anyone. We left fairly early - for a swinger's party - and went back to the hotel, where we played with each other.

In retrospect, I knew that I was a bit concerend about this party on several levels. First of all, the hosts were allowing single men. And there were about 30 single men signed up for the party. Secondly, most of the single men were African-American. While race itself was not an issue, what the party turned out to be was for non-African-American women to have sex with African-American men. In the time we were there, that was basically all we saw for playtime, except for two other women playing with each other. I watched a nearly middle-aged man look on as his wife had sex with a large black man. We also saw another gentleman look on while his wife serviced three African-American men.

We also had the unfortunate experience of another single male come up to us, in what seemed like a too-eager way. He didn't really even try to get to know us, but kept hounding us to come back to our hotel. As we left the party, he practically chased us out trying to get to us to let him come back to the hotel with us. Uhhh..no?

As I said, it was a very uncomfortable atmosphere to me, nearly to the point of one of the swinger's clubs being filled with single guys all trying to get a glimpse of some action. I'm not entirely sure Mr and Mrs B would have enjoyed the party themselves.

A few of the people we spoke with said they had been to this host's other parties before and kept coming back for more. All I can say is that those people must be looking for African-American men. As I said to Mrs B, there's nothing wrong with that, except I'm not African-American and that's all the ladies seemed interested in. Of the couples we talked to, we would spend some time chatting with the male half while, once again, the female half would slink away and talk to someone else or generally just decide to hang out separate from their spouse or boyfriend. Very frustrating, as Mrs Sunbuckus and I have decided that with new couples we would only play together for awhile.

Overall, strike out, but next time I think we'll stick to parties that limit or outright ban single men. That way it's not a sausage fest.

We've also decided that would be our last party for awhile and try one-on-one (or two-on-two) dating so that we can concentrate on the other couple. I think I prefer that to some extent. It allows me to concentrate on the woman and not worry about her getting distracted or some other man coming up and trying to steal her away for playtime. When I'm with a woman, I want to be with her mentally and not feel like she's looking around wondering if there's anyone with a better cock nearby. Because that's just going to distract me and make it that much harder to get an erection.

Sunday, April 8, 2012

Showing Interest

Mr. Sunbuckus and I are pretty shy and reserved people. We met online 13 years ago and didn't really have to deal with the dating scene or developing our self confidence or skills in how to approach those that we were interested in. This, in itself, has pros and cons. We both know that we fell in love with each other's personality core. However, that has also given us some doubts on the level of attraction that our physical appearances hold.

Ever since January, I have come to the conclusion that it is a thousand times easier to be a woman in the LS than it is to be a man. If you are a woman, it really does center around you and who you want to play with. If you are a single female, the LS world is your oyster. The absolute opposite is true for men. If you are a married man, you have it a lot easier than single males but you still have to work hard to get a woman warmed up enough to want to play with you. It is not entirely dependent on looks. Men are visual and are attracted to what they usually see. Women need to be chatted up, be shown that they are desired and interesting as a whole package before wanting to play. In a nutshell...women want to be chased. At least I do. I can be interested in how a man appears but if he can't hold a conversation with me or has an attitude that is off putting, then it's no playtime with him. Of course, I have been a bit of a slut at the parties lately and if a man kisses and fondles me, I will more than likely play...after all, it's a swingers party, not a book/movie club. But overall, women like some conversation to judge a man's personality before playing with him.

Well, Mr. Sunbuckus feels that no one is interested in him, which I do not think is the case. He is a very attractive man. The only problem is that he doesn't know how to go up to a woman and show he is interested. You can't really blame him though since we have been together for 12 years and he has wired himself to not outwardly show interest in a woman in the form of actually talking to her in order to get her into bed.

Some ways that I have been approached is to be complimented first and then an introduction. Another is being approached and asking me if I'm having a great time, and then some light touching on my back. Then, if the person doesn't pull away, then they might be interested in more so you can rub a bit more sensually until they are warmed up a bit for the fondling to get more aggressive. Obviously, once there seems to be interest some kissing and suggestion for more can be broached. I think running the fingertips up and down lightly on the arm can be nice...and if they like it, move to the legs and then between the legs.

I know that I have to work on this myself and being more outgoing in approaching couples that we are interested in. So far, we have coasted on other couples approaching us. I have vowed to try really hard at our next party to approach a couple that we are interested in and chatting them up. After all, how are we going to build up our seductive skills if we don't practice?

Mr. Sunbuckus: Third House Party

We had an unexpected invite to a third house party after our most recent house party only the previous week. It included several of the couples from the previous week, plus our most frequent playmates, Mr. and Mrs. B. Having everyone we've met so far in one place certainly seemed intriguing.

At first we weren't sure if we would be able to make it, since we usually don't party on consecutive weekends. But Mrs. Sunubuckus was able to arrange a last-minute babysitter, so we decided to go ahead and go.

It was a long drive out to the house party, the furthest we've gone so far in the lifestyle. Mrs. Sunbuckus had decided beforehand that, although she would ask my permission to play, she wouldn't insist that she and I play together at the same time. That way she would be free to do her thing and I would be free to do my thing.

When we arrived at the party, we recognized the woman opening the door for us right away as being at the party the previous weekend. Hugs were exchanged and we entered the premises. Almost immediately upon entering, Mr. B approached us and said hi. I had not seen him in some time so I took a few minutes to get caught up and chat with him. I also saw Mr and Mrs C, whom we played with last weekend and we waved hello to each other. Mrs. Sunbuckus gave hugs to Mr B and Mr C, as well as a few others we had met before. We were introduced around to some of the other couples, but I honestly can't remember most of their names.

This home had a pool and hot tub, so I wanted to check that out. I went outside, and immediately saw a lovely naked woman floating on the pool. I looked around to see if Mrs. B was anywhere around, but I did not immediately see her in the couple of groups that were around there chatting. Since I had already toured the interior of the home, I knew she wasn't inside. Only then, by the power of deduction, did I realize that Mrs. B was the lovely figure floating around the pool! Sometimes having bad eyesight sucks, right?

So Mrs. B recognizes me and immediately says hi, and invites me into the pool. Now, I may not be very saavy with the women, as the case would be later, but I do know enough that when a beautiful naked woman invites you into the pool, you don't waste time.

So, here I am, haven't even been at the part 20 minutes, and I'm jumping back into the house getting naked and going out to the pool. By this time Mrs. B had moved to the hot tub, so I jump right in with her and Mr C and a couple of other ladies whose names I honestly do not remember. I get comfortable with her, and try my best to get other ladies to get comfortable with me, but I must be putting out some sort of creepy vibe that only Mrs B knows to ignore. After perhaps ten minutes in the pool, Mrs B sees Mr B about to play through one of the windows.

We went inside the house and saw Mr. B and a few ladies getting busy. Then some other people started getting busy. And some other people. Mrs. B took a small spot on the bed, and I started caressing her body. She was eventually able to work her legs apart so I could start fingering her. Well, she must have been extremely horny because I had not even fingered her for more than a minute or two before I could feel her squirting on my hand. She didn't have me stop, though, so I kept going and I could see her having another orgasm. But she still didn't tell me to stop, and she had another squirting orgasm.

At this time, Mrs Sunbuckus was playing with Mr C. What happened for the next hour or so I don't quite recall. I did try to chat up a few women, but no one seemed interested. Maybe I'm not charming enough? Maybe I'm not forceful enough, I dunno. I just know no one seemed to want to talk to me except a few of the guys, and I was pretty sure I wouldn't be playing with them. Mrs. Sunbuckus was trying to encourage me to get a playmate for the evening, and eventually Mrs B walked by and asked what was going on. Mrs Sunbuckus said she was trying to get me a playmate, at which point Mrs B simply took my hand and we found a place to play. She's very subtle like that.

This was about 10pm, give or take. Mrs B and I could only find some space where the hosts had layed out a few sheets and some pillows. We started kissing, and I let Mrs B stroke my cock until it got hard in her hand. I put on some protection and we started playtime. We played for a good long time. Mrs B must have orgasmed about 10 times while we were playing, and several of those I could feel her squirting warm juices on my cock. But I kept going, and Mrs B correctly guessed that I had taken a viagra which, with the alcohol, made me hard and long-lasting. I guess Mrs B didn't anticipate that, because I wore her out and possibly disappointed her to some extent because I didn't cum on demand for her (she asked several times for me to cum). I wasn't apologetic, though, as I finally turned the tables on her and gave her more than she could handle. When we finished, it was nearly 11pm, give or take, again, so we had been playing for most of an hour, which would be a good night for most swingers.

During this time that Mrs B and I had been playing, Mrs Sunbuckus did a little soft play with the host, which he enjoyed. Others came and went, watching us play, including Mr B, who just gave me a big smile while I had sex with his wife. Very odd sometimes, swinging is.

Well, my cock was still able to easily get hard after Mrs B played with me. So I spent the next hour or so trying to get other women to play with me. Now, I'm not exactly a hard body, but compared to many of the other men there, I could have easily been considered a boy toy, or at least someone without a beer belly. No takers. I had a hard time getting anyone to engage in a conversation with me. The most talking I did was with Mrs Sunbuckus. Not that I minded, but I could hear her disappointment in her voice when I told her that I hadn't gotten anyone else to play with me.

About 12:30 or so, I gave up, got dressed, gave hugs and kisses to Mr and Mrs B (I didn't kiss Mr B) and left the home. On the way home, I floated the idea of going to the swingers club so that I could finally cum with Mrs Sunbuckus. We chose that route since Mrs Sunbuckus' parents were watching the kids and would stay overnight. I didn't feel like having loud noisy sex with her parents in the house.

We went to the club, which, as usual, was hopping with a maybe a dozen or so women and maybe three dozen or so men. We played a bit in the couples room where others could see us, then decided to take the "Fish Bowl" bedroom, a room with beds and a window so others could see us having sex. Three months ago we wouldn't have done that, but after having been to three house parties and letting others watch us, it almost seemed normal, except Mrs Sunbuckus wouldn't give the guys a show and let them watch my cock go into her pussy. Oh well...

So, the aftermath, the evaluation of the house party. Overall, if you want to consider it a success, I would have to say, yes, I played, and Mrs Sunbuckus played, so in that respect, it was a success. Did I play with someone new? No. Mrs Sunbuckus did not, either, although she sort of played with another man but he couldn't get it up, and she soft-played with the host.

However, in the maybe too-much self-examination aftermath, I think I have some issues with the crowd we played with, apart from Mr and Mrs B. First of all, they almost all, to a T, seemed to be more interested in Mrs Sunbuckus and not so much I. Is that partly due to my somewhat guarded personality around new people? Sure. But I also think asian men aren't as accepted into the lifestyle. More than once did women slink away from me. One does it, sure, maybe they just don't like you. But once it starts happening all the time, it does become disheartening. I know if I could engage some of them in some conversation, that I could probably make them feel differently, but I just don't seem to have the knack for breaking into their conversation, for one, and for just attracting women to me, for two. I'm not the kind of person who goes into a bar and leaves with a woman I've never met, and I don't think I ever will be. Most of the other couples were white, and they tended to play with the white guys. On one level, I don't blame them for knowing what they like, on another level, isn't part of being in the lifestyle trying out new things? And I like to think that, for many of the women, I am a new thing. It was not to be, however.

Mrs Sunbuckus says I just need to be more forceful, something I've never really been in pursuing a woman. In order to be more successful, I have to break a lifelong behavior of being polite and respectful around women, trying to minimize the sexualization of the situations. Yes, many of the women were sitting around naked, which sort of automatically sexualizes the situation, but seriously. Coming into their personal space and trying to break the ice has never come naturally to me. It's going to take some time to unlearn this habit. In the meantime, it looks like I may miss out on lots of opportunities.

Mrs Sunbuckus says I need to get out there and play with other people. I have assured her that I would like to. But in the meantime, if I only play with Mrs B, who confided in me why she was attracted to me in the first place, I am more than happy. At least I know she is attracted to me physically, which does make me feel better about myself. It also makes me so very, very glad that we met them when we did.

I think that our next move will be to get around to larger parties, since there will be a better chance of a compatible couple liking both of us, and to do individual dates with other couples, since their focus will be on us and it will be much more difficult for them to wander off and talk to other people. Small house parties can be fun, but I think it's best when you know - and have played with - at least two or three of the couples there. I also will try to be more forward in engaging the women, but no promises in unlearning a lifetime's behavior in a short amount of time.

Couple's "Exclusivity"

On the swingers forum, I had read a thread about how some couples get jealous. Not that their partners are having sex with other people but that their play couple(s) are having sex with other couples other than them. At the time, it did seem silly but now that we have a touch more experience I can say that I think this happens with those that are new to the LS who may still be letting go of society's pre-conceived notions that sex equals love or at least a level of exclusivity.

One of the reasons why I was super interested in going to the third house party this past weekend was to see our first couple that we played with playing with other couples/individuals. I wanted to make sure that I wasn't developing those odd jealous exclusivity feelings with them. And I wanted to make sure that I wasn't getting too attached to Mr. B since we had been playing exclusively with each other the past month. Thankfully, I am not. In fact, as I stated before, since we had played so often, I think I have that new-play-toy feeling out of my system with him. I think it also helps that I have played with a few other men since and found that Mr. B is not as enjoyable as I thought.

Mrs. Sunbuckus: Third House Party

I suppose our third house party was not really "third time's the charm." I had fun but most of the time, I was worried about Mr. Sunbuckus getting his playtime in....

Originally, we had heard of the party from the weekend before while we attended our 2nd house party. We usually don't go out 2 weekends in a row so I assumed we wouldn't be able to make it. Not to mention, the possibility of being broken for the weekend. And we had Easter Sunday with family.

Well, Mr. and Mrs. B were attending the same party and some of the couples (4 of them in fact) from our 2nd house party were attending this party. I thought it would be nice to see them again and do some "networking". I do love the social aspect of the LS since Mr. Sunbuckus and I don't really have that many friends and would like to get to know others more, even if we don't play with them.

As it was getting closer to Saturday evening, I asked our sitter if she was available. She was not. Then I figured I'd shoot in the dark and ask my parents to see if they would mind staying late to watch the kids. We would get them ready for bed and then leave. All they had to worry about was putting them to bed and then just be present in the house as they slept. Surprisingly, they didn't mind and actually didn't ask any questions either. Quite odd...perhaps they are aware of something but don't want to say. Either way, it was nice of them to stay the night so Mr. Sunbuckus and I could go out.

Since we had our house swap on Tuesday, and I had playtime with Mr. B while Mr. Sunbuckus did not, I wanted to make it up to him. Secretly, I hoped that we could find new playmates. However, Mr. Sunbuckus is just a bit too shy and only played with Mrs. B at the party. He told me he tried to get something going with Mrs. C but she didn't seem interested. I had hoped that he would expand to someone completely new but he didn't.

During the night, I played with Mr. C (the male part of our 2nd play couple). He was very fun and had me squirting while he was giving oral and fingering me as well as when I was on top. It's nice to enjoy being with a male who loves being drenched from a woman.

Then, while I was watching Mr. Sunbuckus and Mrs. B play, Mr. V (the male host of the party) came up from behind me and started to rub and kiss me. He had asked me if I was having fun. I like to rub my backside on whoever is behind me so I was doing that. Eventually, he rubbed my tits and pussy while I was stroking his cock. Mr. V is on the older side and I admit that I wasn't really into that. However, I was appreciative of the attention so I was willing to kiss, stroke, and do a little oral on him. He did have a very thick cock at the base but not so much at the tip. It was almost cone shaped to me. Fleetingly, I entertained the thought of how his cock would feel inside me but I couldn't mentally get past the age difference. I felt bad that I had gotten him so riled up so I offered to let him cum on my ass. Which he did. Mr. and Mrs. V are very kind people. I was surprised to hear from Mr. Sunbuckus that he wasn't interested in Mrs. V because I found her very attractive and if I was a male, I would want to be with her.

Later, I was in the hot tub by myself when a male, Mr. D, came in. He told me that Mr. Sunbuckus had invited him to join me in the hot tub. I had met Mr. and Mrs. D a bit earlier in the night but not too much. They seemed very nice but I wasn't sure if they were interested so I had gone off to rest and play again. After fondling and kissing a bit in the hot tub, Mr. D asked if I would mind if we go use one of the bedrooms. I was definitely game and went to make sure Mr. Sunbuckus was okay with it. To my dismay, he was sitting in a chair and not playing. I was hoping to find him having fun with a playmate. I felt a bit guilty for having more playmates than him and hesitated. After all, I had agreed to the party so he could get some playtime. I hadn't expected to do much or any playing myself.

Mr. Sunbuckus seemed okay so Mr. D and I went to find a room. He was very excited and went down on me immediately. His technique is similar to Mr. Sunbuckus' until he started to finger me at the same time which was rough and aggressive. Although different and exciting in the way that rough sex can be exciting, sometimes the roughness can get to be too much for it to be fun after awhile. Luckily, he had to take a break and go to the bathroom. Mr. Sunbuckus came into the room and I decided to give him some oral while waiting. Mr. D came back and seemed to have some trouble getting hard. I gave him some oral but it didn't work. We tried kissing but it didn't work. I mounted him, hoping that maybe grinding on him would do something. He moaned and groaned but it just wasn't working. I felt bad that we didn't get any playtime but sometimes things happen. I think he played earlier and he might have had too much to drink. He was very nice though and gave me one of the nicest compliments of the night. He said that I was the hottest woman at the party. The other compliment came from Mr. C when he said that I was close to the top of his "fun list" because I was able to make him cum (he says he doesn't cum with every woman he plays with) and I was a great kisser and we seemed to really be compatible.

After the house party, Mr. Sunbuckus and I returned to the club we visited when we first started to explore the LS. It was hopping at the club and it was interesting going in there, knowing that we might be more hardcore "swingers" than some of the ones in there considering how we just came from a private house party, engaged in swapping, and witnessed many orgies with our own eyes. I was surprised that Mr. Sunbuckus pulled into the club but he explained that he wanted us to fuck without anything worry of my parents hearing us (which we would have had to think about if we were to go straight home and fuck.) We sat around for a few minutes to soak in the atmosphere, went to the "couples only" room to do some oral and sex, then we moved onto the "see through" room where couples can go in a "secluded room" but onlookers can watch through the 1 way window. I found it very liberating to know that we didn't really have any hesitation doing it in there. A few months ago, it would have been a big leap to have sex in that room, hearing and knowing that there were other people on the other side of the window while we fucked. Now, it just seemed "normal" since we have gone to a few parties and had onlookers while we play. I wonder how out of the box it was for those on the other side to be on the viewer side of the window. Was it their first time watching another couple have sex? Did they get turned on? I liked to imagine that some of the males rubbed themselves a bit while watching. After Mr. Sunbuckus creamed me, we left and went home.

I have really enjoyed meeting so many nice people so far. I even kind of felt that Mr. Sunbuckus and I knew more people at the party than maybe Mr. and Mrs. B even though they had more experience.

So, you're probably wondering why I didn't play with Mr. B. Two reasons: 1. I had recently played with him just that week. 2. I have to be honest and say that I am a bit tired of him. We have been playing with each other about 1-2 times a week since meeting. I wanted another playmate to explore and enjoy. Plus, I have come to the conclusion that although he has the stamina, he doesn't make me as wet and excited as I thought he would. Perhaps I am not as attracted to him as I thought? Perhaps I feel self-conscious about my body when I play with him since he maintains himself so well (and gets worried when he gets little stretch marks on his arms from working out--thus making me wonder what he must think about mine?) Who knows. I do know that I want to have a break from playing with him for awhile.

Wednesday, April 4, 2012

No-Playtime Playtime

Mrs. B, the female half of our regular play couple, is a very hard woman to get a hold of. Not only does she have a boyfriend, and another on the side, and her husband, and her job, and her kids...well, you get the picture. So I was lucky enough to get what amounts to a date with her last night.

Of course, I knew beforehand that she was "broken" which I just interpreted to be have different fun. Mr. B proposed a house swap, so Mrs. Sunbuckus went to their house and Mrs. B came to our house so no babysitters would be needed.

Mrs. B and I sat on the couch and made out a bit. Then she laid down, settled her head into my lap and we talked. We just talked about our lives for about an hour or so, give or take. I learned so much about Mrs. B, and she learned a lot about me. And I'm really glad we had that time to get to know each other better. And it's not that I'm trying to seduce her, but that I just feel if we're going to keep having sex, it's nice to know more about that person.

Eventually we got to just laying on the couch and making out. I do love to kiss, and we did plenty of that. Although we were "watching" a movie, I suggested we could get more comfortable in the bedroom. To which she simply stood up, walked down the hall, and proceeded to strip down to her undies.

We both laid down on the bed, and Mrs. B took my shirt off and kept her lips locked to mine. We alternated her on top and me on top, and when she would get on top she would grind her pussy into my crotch.

I managed to break away and start kissing her beautiful body all over. First down her chest, around her nice breasts, then finally sucking her nipples. I spent a goodly amount of time just caressing and sucking on her breasts.

I turned her over and started kissing up and down her back, starting at the nape of the neck, which managed to elicit a few sighs from Mrs. B. I then sat on her back and started massging her a bit, warning that I might accidentally paralyze her since I'm not a licensed massage therapist.

My attention turned back to my mouth on her body, and worked down to her beautiful ass. I pushed her thong aside and gave her butthole a good tongue-probing, which I'm almost certain she enjoyed. Well, at least she didn't stop me. I kissed my way down her legs, around her smooth calves and on up to the feet.

I noted that she seemed to be falling asleep. What happened after that was that Mrs. B and I cuddled together, her in my arms, she caressing my body lightly, and we both fell asleep.

We must have been asleep for about 30 minutes when my phone rang and Mrs. Sunbuckus wanted to know what we were up to. Mrs. B got up and left, giving me a goodnight kiss before departing.

When Mrs. Sunbuckus came home we talked about our experiences. Of course she and Mrs. B played together, which I knew they would do.

Mrs. Sunbuckus rode my cock and I finished up by giving her a good doggy-style creampie.

What a wonderful night, and what a pleasure getting to know Mrs. B in a non-sexual way. So, see, sometimes playing isn't always just having sex.

Arrogance in The Lifestyle

So far, most of the people we have personally met in the Lifestyle have been pleasant and kind. That's a good thing. However, going through the profiles on the swinging websites we have membership at, I wonder sometimes if some of these people are for real.

In particular, I am referring to couples who "Only want a woman to play with my wife" or "A wife with a hall pass." There was a profile that said "She likes to play with women and see her man pleasure another woman." Since about 90% of the profiles are couples or single men, I wonder if this tactic ever works. Seeing as how single women are considered unicorns for their rarity, and the arrogance of saying that you'll only play with single women, it seems like this tactic probably doesn't work very well.

In fact, we receieved an email from another couple with this very type of profile. The basics are that they only want single females, or couples, but only for watching. The underlying presumption is that the other man is not going to get playtime, only his wife. I know maybe some couples like to do that, but for the most part, we've found the best couples are the ones who play together, not separately.

So, I replied to their email stating we're a full-swap couple only. They replied that with the right chemistry they would be ok with a full-swap. But the damage had been done by their profile. I never replied to them knowing that they might "full swap" a couple of times, but then constantly want Mrs. Sunbuckus to play without me.

Monday, April 2, 2012

Mrs. Sunbuckus: Our Second House Party

Mrs. Sunbuckus here. Ever since our first house party and finding that the couple, Mr. and Mrs. B lived so close by and played separately, I have been playing roughly 1-2 times every week since. Personally, I had been getting a little burned out and wanted a break. I wanted to reconnect with Mr. Sunbuckus so I had considered playing one last time this past Saturday and then not playing until our next party on the 21st of April.

I had intel that there would be a private house party after a meet and greet in the east side of town. Originally, we did not plan on going to the meet and greet because it was so far away and our first meet and greet wasn't really as fun as compared to our house party experience. (As Mr. Sunbuckus says, why go to a meet and greet when you can go to a meet and fuck?)

The person who had passed the intel onto me is considered a unicorn (single female) but she has been a bit flaky at times. Well, the morning of the meet and greet, we received an email inviting us to a house party from a couple we haven't met before but one that we had expressed some interest in but never contacted them. Mr. Sunbuckus and I were more than happy to skip the meet and greet to go. The only thing they asked was that we bring a dish for everyone to eat. How exciting...but I was also getting nervous as the time got closer. Were we going to be able to come out of our reserved shells to hit it with other couples? Would we even attract any interest from others? And would we be attracted to anyone? I shared my thoughts to Mr. B and he told us to "Be active" and "Be brave."

The dress I had originally bought to wear to the meet and greet, I decided to wear to the party anyways, even if it was a bit too dressy for the occasion. After all, when am I going to get another chance to wear it anytime soon?? As it turned out, it was quite the hit with the males at the party. But we'll get to that.

We are pretty punctual people so we arrived right on time but didn't really want to be the first couple to "go in" since we didn't know anyone. Well, after sitting in the car for a few minutes, we bit the bullet and went in anyways. We were able to chat with the hosts for a while before anyone else arrived and it was nice. At first, I didn't find the male host to be particularly attractive but he was very nice and as I got more comfortable with him, I found that I wouldn't mind playing with him if he asked.

Then, other couples started to pour in. It was close to about an hour after the "starting time". Personally, I was hoping to start playing about an hour in but it was just at that time that couples were just arriving. Argh. Mr. and Mrs. C, the couple that invited us, arrived and I was a bit disappointed in the male half, again. And it felt like Mrs. C wasn't friendly at all to me at first. She was mostly interested in chatting with the wife-host since they are good friends. Probably about 9:30, the majority of the couples had arrived. In all, there were 7 other couples besides us. One couple, I recognized the male half from our first house party. I remembered him because I had a slight interest in him the first time but I thought he was a single male so I kind of just dismissed him. Imagine my surprise when I found out after the party that he was part of a couple. We did talk with him and his wife but I wasn't quite feeling it for the male half after chatting with him a bit. He seemed dazed, in my opinion. His wife seemed nice, after she talked to us for a little bit. At first, I thought she was a bit stand-offish until she stopped to talk to us.

The majority of us stood around the kitchen island, chatting and laughing. I found it very pleasant but I think Mr. Sunbuckus was bored. He wanted to know when we would start playing. I enjoyed the conversation and company. I wanted to play too, especially since I knew we didn't want to get home too late but I wanted to forge some kind of friendship with these couples so we could be invited to other parties in the future.

Eventually, some couples went to some of the bedrooms to play. However, about 4-5 women went out to the backyard patio to talk. Mr. C, the male half of the couple that invited us to the house party, started to rub my back. I had noticed that he stood to my left and kept looking at me. But I wasn't sure how to really break the ice so I kind of let him take the lead in conversation and touching. I put my back to him and began to rub my bottom against him to show him that I was interested. I could feel his erection through our clothing, which was stimulating. Another reason why I faced away from him though is so I could look at Mr. Sunbuckus and make sure he was okay. I felt guilty that he wasn't playing with anyone yet. And so, that's probably how it went on for at least 20 minutes, Mr. C and a few of the other males fondling and rubbing me, wanting to play. I had to hold them off, telling them that I wasn't going to play unless Mr. Sunbuckus also had a playmate. Mr. C encouraged Mr. Sunbuckus to go out to the back patio to talk and convince the other women to come in. While he was away, one male kneeled down behind me and wanted to lick my asshole. Another male came to rub and nibble at my nipples. And Mr. C did a little oral, nipple play, and fingered me. While he was fingering me, we were all in the same room as the mini-orgy (3 couples) going on in the bedroom, the not-really-standoffish woman was watching Mr. C finger me and was telling me to relax and squirt...to concentrate on what he was doing. Well, that did it and I squirted right there, standing up. That was very new for me, since I had only experienced squirting while riding on top of my male partners. Mr. C was very ecstatic and really wanted to play right then and there. I told him that I still wouldn't play unless Mr. Sunbuckus was playing too. He tried to put me at ease and say that he was probably in the other room getting his brains fucked but I told him to make sure by looking outside. Sure enough, he was outside with the other women. Mr. C pressured Mrs. C to play with Mr. Sunbuckus so we could play.

Looking back, I feel bad about how that went down. I didn't want anyone to feel pressured. Even Mrs. C commented about how she felt pressured to play and I told her that we can slow down if she wanted. Well, somehow, we all got onto the bed and started playing. Mr. C and I started missionary and I tried to show him that I was more than willing to hold my legs in the air for him. He was nice enough to ask me what my favorite position was...I responded that as long as a cock was inside, I was happy. So, we did missionary and doggy style. However, he doesn't have the stamina that Mr. B has and had to ask a few times if I could be on top so he could rest. I was more than happy to oblige and soon enough, I was squirting all over him. Throughout the time we were playing, I would notice that the males that were rubbing on me earlier kept popping in to watch, as if they wanted their turn. Thinking about it now, I probably should have invited them over to play and maybe I could have engaged in a MFMM. Mr. C and I rotated between positions again and eventually, he came. We chatted a bit and fondled while Mr. Sunbuckus and Mrs. C were still playing. After awhile, Mr. C wanted to play again so he put on another condom and we went for round 2. When he needed a break again, I was on top and squirted several times. Mr. C seemed to really enjoy all the wetness on him. However, he didn't cum again with me. I think he was tired and needed a break from playing. So, once Mr. Sunbuckus and Mrs. C finished, we all sat or laid on the bed chatting. Mr. Sunbuckus took note of the time, and decided we should get going. I was a bit disappointed that we wouldn't get to play with anyone else but hopefully we will get invited by the hosts again for their next party.

I had a lot of fun at the party and I didn't feel any jealousy at all. Of course, maybe I was too busy having my own fun to really see what Mr. Sunbuckus was doing. I do know he enjoyed Mrs. C's triple D breasts. Okay, maybe I was jealous...but not of what Mr. Sunbuckus was doing but of Mrs. C's big breasts. I wish I had such beautiful breasts! I know Mr. Sunbuckus would love them, too. But that's another topic that I've written about and one that I go back and forth on....

I can't wait until our next house party or our next playtime...which is tomorrow night!

Private House Party

This previous Saturday, we had planned on going to a Meet and Greet across town. One of our contacts from the previous house party had said that she and some other friends would be having a little get-together afterwards. However, she never replied to let us know if we were invited or not.

So we posted a hot date about five days before the meet and greet saying that we were looking for a couple to host afterwards.

So the days pass by, and no responses to the date.

Finally, on the day of the meet and greet, we get email from another couple. They saw our hot date, read our profile and decided to invite us to a small private house party on the other other side of town from the meet and greet. Closer to us, but still far away.

As luck would have it, the couple that invited us to the private house party had been one we were sort of interested in, but hadn't sent any email.

Mrs. Sunbuckus and I quickly decided that a small house party would be way more fun than a meet and greet, especially considering that there was no guarantee of an invite after the meet and greet. So we ditched the meet and greet.

That left us about an extra hour at home, which we used to "Doll" ourselves up (and take care of some trimming down below...)

We headed out to the private house party and ended up being the first couple there besides the host. We chatted it up with them and had chips and salsa while we waited for other couples to arrive. The host couple were in their 40's, he a tall hispanic man and she a full-figured redhead. They explained how it's not that often that they get a free house, due to their kids living at home. We thanked them for hosting.

Eventually, the other couples started trickling in. There was the couple that invited us, an older couple from Las Vegas, and a couple that we had previously met at the house party. There was also a black couple, and a blonde German woman and her hispanic husband. I just about freaked out when I found out she is a grandma, because she was smoking hot. I said "Man, that's a grandma I'd like to fuck!"

So conversation is going, booze is flowing, music is playing. Eventually two couples go off to play in the master bedroom. They are quickly joined by some other men. And for some reason, other than Mrs. Sunbuckus, all the other ladies go out to the patio and start talking about movies.

WTH? While this is going on, the husband of the couple that invited us, we'll call him G, starts rubbing up against Mrs. Sunbuckus and I can see she is enjoying it. She then makes sure to note that she won't start playing until I start playing. Which was really nice of her. I ask G what is up with all the women going outside to talk, and he tells me I should go round them up and get them back inside.

So I step outside, and try to get the ladies back into the house. But for some reason, my logic doesn't make sense to them. Maybe I was too drunk, not really sure at that point. So I kind of stand around dejectedly, and then Mrs. Sunbuckus and G appear at the door, stark naked, and they're like "Hey, what's taking you so long?"

Somehow, the ladies finally start filtering in, and by this time the master bedroom is free, so G asks his wife to help out so he can get started. She starts to strip down and before I know it she is sucking my cock. But not too long. I ask her if she wants her pussy licked, but instead she asks to ride my cock, which at this time, thanks to Vitamin V, is rock hard. So I agree, get a cover, she lubes up her pussy and she starts to ride. As she starts, she plants a big kiss on my lips. I do love to kiss! She continues to kiss my off and on throughout the whole time we played, even sucking my whole tongue into her mouth.

Thanks to the combination of Vitamin V and alcohol, which I usually don't drink, not only am I hard as a rock the whole time, I also am having a hard time cumming. But G's wife, A, is the lucky recipient of the long-lasting erection. She has to lube up a second time at some point throughout.

Meanwhile, Mrs. Sunbuckus and G are going crazy next to us, with Mrs. Sunbuckus being especially vocal, moaning loudly. I know G has already cum once, and Mrs. Sunbuckus has squirted multiple times all over him. And I'm still giving it hard to A, in what would turn out later to be a stunning machine-like performance for me.

I have A in multiple positions, and finally cum by pounding her hard in missionary, which I'm sure she enjoyed, but ya never know I guess. Mrs. Sunbuckus and G had gone at it again - and finished again - before I finished off with A.

At this point, all the drinks had run through me and I had to hurry off to the bathroom to pee. Which, as it turns out, is really hard to do with an erection that won't go away. I guess that's a blessing and a curse. I lay in bed afterwards, tired and pleased. A got dressed, I finally got dressed, and at the late hour we hurried home for the babysitter, only to find out she is going to spend the night and we could have played some more.

But we were both tired from the long day and decided against going back to the party.

Once home, I practically fell asleep in bed after a nice, hot shower. But darn if that Vitamin V was still in effect. I was practically asleep on the bed when Mrs. Sunbuckus came over and started sucking my cock hard. I had her keep at it for a bit and then let her get on top to ride me. I was practically asleep while she rode me, but my cock stayed hard. I asked her later if she liked that, and she said it wasn't as fun as she thought it would be. I could tell she liked it better if I moaned a bit, but I was so tired I didn't do much of that.

Eventually I turned her over and pounded her doggy style until I let loose another gusher of cum.

Totally satisifed and spent, I finally fell asleep for some much needed rest.

The next day, G and A thanked us for a nice evening. Mrs. Sunbuckus commented that she didn't feel jealous this time seeing me have sex with another women right next to her. I certainly didn't feel jealous of her - only jealous that she was getting some action while all the other women hung out outside and gabbed.

So there it was, a nice private house party. Now that we've been to one, we've decided that we might be able to host a small party with 4-5 couples at our home sometime in the future. I guess we'll find out as we travel this path down the swinging road.