Mrs. Sunbuckus: Gun Shy

The past two couples that we played with have been less than enticing. I knew that we would play with couples that wouldn't be very exciting but I didn't think we would actually play with couples that we may not really be attracted to! I think we just wanted to play and accepted whoever was interested...which may have not been a good idea. I actually found myself not at all attracted to the past two males in these couples and was not at all excited to kiss them. In all honesty, if I could have just closed my eyes and focused that their dicks were inside and I could pretend it was someone else, I probably would have. Luckily, with the last couple, I was fingered a bit too harshly and was able to stave off anymore playtime by claiming that I had "broke". Not to mention, that the last couple seemed to only be interested in playing with me...which I hated. I wanted Mr. Sunbuckus to play as well and when it seemed that the female half just wanted girl/girl play, I wanted out but I wasn't sure how.

Anyway, those two experiences have made me very wary in going out and finding another couple to play with...almost to the point of just wanting to swing with one of the couples that we've played with already or not swing for awhile. It's so hard to find couples that we're both interested in and who are interested in us...the both of us. I have often wondered if couples who have been in the LS for awhile realize this and decide to swing separately or if those couples are resigned to pass on swing opportunities. Since it seems that women are able to get more playtime, I would be more than happy to give Mr. Sunbuckus a hall pass to play with the wife of a couple (as long as they are okay with it) separately if I am not attracted to the husband. Of course, how do you politely tell a couple, "Hey, I don't find you attractive but our spouses are into each other, why don't we just let them have fun?"

We have another weekend of possible fun coming up. I really hope we have a good experience because if not, I am not sure how many more of these "bad" experiences I can take before I want to withdraw from swinging for awhile.

Double Penetration

Mrs. Sunbuckus here. This past Saturday, I told Mr. Sunbuckus that I had dreamed of having a double penetration that night. Well, he decided to ask Mr. B over to give it another attempt. I wasn't sure if I was really ready to try it. On one hand, I wanted to play with Mr. B but I haven't been in the mood for anal. I was also unsure of how the threesome dynamic would be because I had developed some feelings for Mr. B since the first threesome we had together. Would it affect Mr. Sunbuckus to have all three of us in the same room playing?

Well, Mr. B came over, we watched a bit of tv, showered, and retired to the bedroom together. We started with some oral, I would alternate between Mr. Sunbuckus and Mr. B. Then the usual threesome positions, oral on one male while I was being entered from behind.

Mr. Sunbuckus decided it was time to try for that elusive dp so he gave the lube to Mr. B while I straddled him. Once Mr. Sunbuckus was in my pussy, Mr. B entered me anally. It was a bit tough at first but once I had adjusted to his length, Mr. B began pumping me from behind while I tried to move back and forth on top of Mr. Sunbuckus. Eventually, Mr. B and Mr. Sunbuckus switched places (as well as a change of protection since he was going from ass to pussy).

Eventually, Mr. Sunbuckus wanted to have me ride him reverse cowgirl, with his cock in my ass and Mr. B in my pussy. I was dubious because I usually don't like reverse cowgirl but it ended up being my favorite dp position since my pussy was getting the action but I still had a cock in my ass, too. I enjoyed it so much that I could feel my pussy tighten and it brought Mr. B to orgasm. Afterwards, Mr. Sunbuckus and I stood by the bed while he pounded my ass and Mr. B fingered my pussy as Mr. Sunbuckus came to his own orgasm.

It would have been nice to have another round but Mr. B was tired and Mr. Sunbuckus is usually good for only one round so we had some small talk before Mr. B left.

Mrs. Sunbuckus: Dabbling in Polyamory

I know we haven't updated in awhile. We actually have been to a couple of parties which had some varying degrees of success and were interesting experiences. However, I came to talk about our little dabble in polyamory. I had been playing separately with Mr. B a number of times and we text everyday. I had begun to care for him as a friend...perhaps as something more. I knew that I had to make sure Mr. Sunbuckus knew and was okay before proceeding. He was wary but agreed that we could explore it bit by bit to see how comfortable it would be. Well, I felt it was necessary to make sure that Mrs. B would be okay with it and she was okay with it as long as no one feels threatened. I was more than willing to stop playing and even texting/talking with Mr. B if anyone was not okay. As it was expected with their open marriage, they were okay with it.

Well, it has come to our attention that Mrs. B is not very interested in creating a couple poly situation, which is what I think Mr. Sunbuckus was hoping for. He does not foresee very much or any future play with Mrs. B because she is very busy with her own boyfriend on the side, so tonight, he asked for me to stop playing one-on-one with Mr. B. And I am more than happy to do so. Surprisingly, I am actually a bit relieved that he has finally told me that he is out right uncomfortable with me playing separately with Mr. B and directly told me that he would like me to stop. Perhaps I have been waiting for him to be honest with himself and willing to tell me what he wants. But most of all...even though it was for a short period of time, being poly is hard.

I think quite often about both Mr. Sunbuckus and Mr. B throughout the day. However, splitting time between them is rough. When I am with Mr. B, I miss Mr. Sunbuckus and sometimes it is reversed when I am with Mr. Sunbuckus. I would want to be with both. I literally felt torn in two at times. Now I can slowly detach myself from Mr. B and not have to worry about being with two men at the same time.

I did want to make a separate post about my thoughts about polyamory, which I may still do eventually. Overall, I think it is theoretically the most open relationship a couple can have but exercising it in reality is very difficult and requires a lot of energy to maintain. How can one deny one's natural tendency to be so openly loving with others as well as receive and accept so much love? It is a very amazing feeling knowing how much love you are capable of.

But for now, we will be emotionally monogamous, as some of the great people at the swingers forum say.

Overwhelmed and Disappointed

Sometimes I get a bit overwhelmed by how often playtime can occur or juggling all of our new social connections and keeping them intact for possible future playtime. Which is kind of the reason why I wanted to attend the meet and greet at the club tonight. But I also get to go out and have fun...which I sometimes sorely need after having a stressful day at home. So, even though I sometimes feel like I have too much on my plate, I also get disappointed when fun times, even if it doesn't include playtime, doesn't occur. For example, last night, I was supposed to pay a visit to Mr. B, just to give him a massage with the possibility of playtime. Well, he seemed busy during the time that I was going to go over so going over for a visit never materialized. Then, today, I had thought about going out to the club to chat and dance with several of our swinger friends since it's always nice to dress up and go somewhere. But it didn't seem right to go out on my own without Mr. Sunbuckus to meet possible new couples. Then I wondered if maybe Mr. B would want to go together but he had considered staying at home, watching movies and inviting me over. Well, those plans also changed and he ended up going to the club with his lovely wife before she goes to work, which is for the best.

So, here I sit, complaining about my two different feelings. On one hand, I feel a bit spread thin and on the other hand, I feel disappointed that I'm not doing anything socially. However, I did think about how I have missed just spending time with Mr. Sunbuckus so hopefully tonight will work out for the best.

Mr. Sunbuckus: Date Night With Mrs. B.

Although I find Mrs. B to be attractive and personable, getting time with her, it turns out, is very hard. Her work schedule is odd, plus she has a boyfriend in addition to her husband whom she sees on a fairly regular basis.

So it was with great anticipation that I was able to secure a commitment from her to go out on a date with me. This after Mrs. Sunbuckus had two - TWO - dates with Mr. B.

Now, to get sidetracked a little here, as I told another guy who is fairly new to swinging himself, the men have to work twice as hard to get half as much pussy as women do to get twice the dick. I have come to accept that, and accept that, hey, I have a hot wife that other men want to have sex with. So if I am able to find the random woman who likes me, and I also like her, than I am going to try to make the most of that while I can. I am very lucky to have found that woman, and so early in our swinging experiences.

So, the day came upon me, finally. I again let Mrs. Sunbuckus dress me, and I think I ended up looking like either the prototypical swinger - sans big sunglasses and gel-ed up hair, or a bro. Either way, I think I came out looking ok. At least okay enough for Mrs. B to not recoil in horror. Which is success, I guess.

I proceeded to pick up Mrs. B at her place. She was dressed in a nice blouse and pants, a look I like on her. We proceeded to a unique restaurant that not even Mrs. Sunbuckus and I have been to together. As it turned out, the venue was awesome, but the food was sort of so-so, although Mrs. B enjoyed her steak. And, they let you pick your own steak knife! I have never been to a place where you get to pick your own steak knife! Of course, the main course, for me, was being able to spend some alone time with this gorgeous, fun lady, and getting to know her a bit more.

She told me about some powerful men that she had dated, her time in the Navy, all the places she has lived. In ten years, I believe they have lived in seven locations. I silently surmised that at this rate, Mr. and Mrs. B would be gone from our lives in under a year, which sort of made me sad inside. I got the distinct feeling that Mrs. B does not care that much for her current locale and as soon as certain things are finished, they are headed to other places to live. Of course, I can't fault them too much, they have no family here and came to the area for a specific purpose. And being ex-military, moving around often is normal for them.

After dinner, we walked over to the movie theater, and I showed her some of the places I am familiar with around the city. We watched Men In Black 3, which I found to be a decent movie. Mrs. B chose the next-to-the-back-row row of seats to sit in, and fortunately nobody else sat there. She said that if the movie got to be too boring, she would arrange the seats so she could lay down and spread her legs. I was silently hoping for the movie to be bad, but alas, we were both drawn in to the plot. Throughout the movie I held her hand and occassionally stroked and kissed her exposed arm.

After the movie, we had the walk back to the car. We took a slight detour through a courtyard that was all dressed up in white Christmas lights, a fountain, some waterfalls and little water channels. If I wasn't a swinger and she wasn't my wife, I'd say it was almost romantic.

Once we got back to the car we headed back to her place, where Mr. B had vacated and was spending the night with Mrs. Sunbuckus at our house. I thought sexytime would start, but Mrs. B was apparently still itching to do something, and suggested we play pool. Not wanting to make her mad, and knowing I should let her do something she wants to do, too, I agreed. We headed out to a bar that apparently had shut down permanently, so we instead had to go to her back-up bar.

At the bar, I quickly learned that Mrs. B is a pool master. She beat me soundly in two games, then played the third game with only one hand...and beat me soundly. Although I never claimed to be good at pool, I had fun nonetheless and got to have a beer, as well. We only spent about 30 minutes playing pool, then, finally, headed back to her place for sexytime.

I won't go into too much detail here. It wasn't as wild and crazy as a party can get. But we had fun. I licked Mrs. B's pussy and fingered it for a good long time. Then finished off with doing her missionary. Right after we finished, she had me turn out the light and we cuddled lightly in bed before she fell asleep. Since the bed was new to me, I had a little more trouble falling asleep, but eventually managed.

In the morning I awoke to a lovely sight: Mrs. B lying on her side, the blanket covering the front of her body but exposing the side on top. The light was coming in the window and shining off her skin. I lay and stared at her for a few minutes, just in awe that a beautiful woman like that would want to have anything to do with me. I whispered that I had a good time to her. I'm not sure if she was awake enough to hear me or not. I had to get to work at that point, so I got dressed and let myself out. Later on, Mrs. B would let me know that she had a fun time, and that she would be open to going on a date with me again.

Knowing it's been awhile since I've been on a date with anyone but Mrs. Sunbuckus, overall I felt like the night was a success. Of course, since some playtime was involved, most swingers would consider it a success. I feel Mrs. Sunbuckus and I are very fortunate to have such an open couple who wants to be with us in so many different ways. Playtime is quickly becoming not the raison d'etre, but the dessert on otherwise eventful evenings. Which is why it makes me a little sad knowing they will most likely move away in less than a year. Hopefully I can get a couple more date nights in with Mrs. B before they move on. As she said, "I'm a hard woman to pin down", to which I replied, "You're a good woman to pin down."

Mrs. Sunbuckus: Two Parties In One Night

Mr. Sunbuckus and I have been interested in trying out one of the swankier parties in town. They are supposed to be "exclusive" with a hefty cover charge. Well, Mr. B was telling me about how he had heard that a lot of the people at those types of parties were cliquish and snobby. Mr. E was telling us that he had heard good things about those parties so it was a vote for each side. Well, I had my reservations but we had to see for ourselves.

Judging from the couples that had RSVP'd for the event, a lot of them were what I call really pretty people. Young, beautiful, fit, tone, in shape, big breasts...I was getting mighty intimidated. Even though Mr. Sunbuckus kindly called me "the hottest woman" at the club the night before, this was an entirely different crowd. I have pretty big body issues and was nervous. Mr. B had informed me that he was going to another party that night and said we would have more fun there. A few hours before the party, I asked Mr. B if it would be okay with the host if we crash his party if our swanky party turned into a dud. We got the A-OK so we had a firm back-up plan...although I wasn't certain about seeing Mr. B for the 3rd night in a row. I didn't want my playmate to get tired of me!

Well, the party started at 5 but we arrived at 7. The host said that there were going to be about 200 people there but only a quarter of them were there when we got there. Later, it was more believable that there were 200. With that amount of people and the venue being held at a big "mansion" there wasn't going to be enough parking along the street so they had everyone park at a nearby school and a limo would shuttle party-goers back and forth between the parking lot and house party. I was impressed but with such a big "donation" you should get something for your buck, right?

Driving through the neighborhood, we kept guessing which house we would stop at until the limo finally halted. We walked up the driveway and through the garage while one of the hosts, an ex-porn star, asked us our nationality (he meant ethnicity). He was trying to get a "good mix" of people to come to the parties.

As we walked into the house, through the garage entrance, doors were appropriately labeled "restroom" or "playroom". We toured the house and as silly as it sounds, I thought it wasn't very big considering it was touted as being 12,000 square feet of play area! And it didn't help that some of the house was closed off while a big hallway was set up for photographs.

There was an attractive, petite Asian woman from L.A. that we introduced ourselves to. We later saw her with an older gentleman...not someone I was interested in playing with. We didn't chat with her much because we were still looking around and getting our bearings. We had brought along our "fuck bag" and had to find a suitable place for it. When we reached the backyard area, a lot of bags were placed against the house perimeter, which is where we eventually placed ours. We got some complimentary drinks (soda and water) and sat near the hot tub to see if anyone would be at our "level." There was a table full of older people just chatting within their group. There were two younger couples chatting at the hot tub. Another two couples near the drink station. And various other groups that consisted from 2-4 couples in each that stayed within their limited group. There were single couples, like us, milling around. They seemed to be the ones that were more at our "level". All of the other groups that had paired off were mostly younger (probably our age, to be honest), buff (for males), thin with big breasts (females), and seemingly stand-offish. I did see some men look our way for maybe a second but that was it. I had put on my bikini but kept my shirt and skirt on over it because I just felt like I couldn't compete with the overwhelming amount of attractive women there. Mr. Sunbuckus wanted me to dress down but I told him that I would on one condition, if I could find three women at the party that was also dressed down but looked like a normal woman. I know it sounds harsh because I'm sure a lot of those pretty women are nice but they sure made me feel awful for having the body that I did have after having three children and losing a lot of weight.

We went up to a couple who were standing around by themselves like us. They consisted of an older woman with a younger man. She was in very good shape and wearing just her bikini. She offered to show us some moves on one of the pole platforms. I thought she was going to do a lot but it was just some basic stuff so I wasn't really impressed. We chatted a bit and found out they were just there to look. Another couple came by and joined us. They seemed friendly and I thought the woman was attractive, though certainly pretty tall. However, her husband was a bit abrasive in attitude or personality because I was not at all attracted to him.

Nothing seemed to be happening so, I had the idea of just playing with Mr. Sunbuckus in one of the playrooms to see if it would spark anything...like our first house party where people at least gathered around. I gave him a blowjob but the room was dark so we moved to another room. A couple came in and they were talking about whether they could join in or not so I stopped long enough to invite them into bed. Soon enough, I felt a pair of hands on my ass and then the male half fingered me a bit before placing himself between my legs to give me oral while I was still doing oral on Mr. Sunbuckus. Eventually, he put on a condom and went inside me for a few minutes. I'm still unsure if he finished or not but it was quick lived. The female half of the couple didn't play because her master, who was not present, forbid her to play with males. After they left, we also left to walk around some more. We noticed that one of the other rooms had about 2-3 other couples playing, but each separately...same room sex. Mr. Sunbuckus wanted me to ride him and I gushed all over him quite a lot because it was dripping off of him and down my legs as well. During that time, Mr. Sunbuckus offered to play with a woman who was waiting for her partner to return. She declined very hastily as if the idea repulsed her. Another couple across from us on a couch was engaged--the female blowing the male. Mr. Sunbuckus wanted me to go over and offer to suck him as well but I was very hesitant. I have to be very horny and very comfortable to perform oral on another male other than Mr. Sunbuckus. Eventually, we left to clean up ourselves. Upon walking around, we met with the couple that played with us for a few minutes and traded names and numbers. Shortly after, we declared the party a bust and returned to the garage area for the limo to take us back to our car.

While we were there waiting, there was the male half of a couple standing around that seemed familiar. Eventually, he approached us and asked us if we had been at the club the night before. We introduced each other and talked about the party. They had attended several of the parties before and they were "fun" but this one just didn't go anywhere. With the right amount of time to chat with them, I could be interested in playing with them in the future. Then when the limo arrived to drop off some new attendees and shuttle us back to the school, the couple that we were waiting to show up arrived (we saw that they were attending through one of the swingers' websites). We formally introduced each other but went our separate ways. We had already let Mr. B know that we were going to his friend's party and didn't want to prolong the agony/frustration from the first party.

I had teased Mr. B through text that I would give him oral once we arrived, making him think that Mr. Sunbuckus was telling him that. Yes, the two parties could not have been any more different in atmosphere, location, and the ratio of attractiveness of party goers but after introductions, there was already some action going on in one of the rooms and kitchen and Mr. Sunbuckus pushed me and Mr. B into one of the rooms so I could make good on my tease. Mr. Sunbuckus even had his playmate, an older single female so everyone was happy. The host wanted to take pictures of us playing as long as no faces were in the photos. After about an hour of playing, the men needed to rest and it was getting late in the night. Mr. B needing to work in the morning and Mr. Sunbuckus and I having to wake up at a decent hour to pick up the children the next day so we said our goodbyes and thank yous to the hosts and headed home.

Mr. Sunbuckus had not cum during Friday night's playtime and as well as during the 2nd party so we played once we got home and he had an explosive cum before we fell asleep. Although we had quite playtime the past two nights, we still had our two dates coming up before the weekend ended...Mr. B and I on Sunday night and Mrs. B and Mr. Sunbuckus on Monday night.

Mr. Sunbuckus: One Night, Two Parties

Part of trying everything in the lifestyle, I had decided about a month earlier to sign up for a swankier party. It was to be held at a mansion and hosted by two ex-adult film stars. The price of admission was farely high, although the hosts did provide some food (hamburgers and hotdogs) and drinks (generic soda and water).

Mrs. Sunbuckus was a little nervous about the party due to the attractiveness of the other people who were signed up to go. She also had heard that big parties like that were very hit and miss. I told her that we would try it out and go from there.

It turns out that our friend, Mr. B, was also going to a much smaller party the same night, so as a backup plan Mrs. Sunbuckus had asked Mr. B if we could go to their party should ours turn into a bust.

So the big night came. It was certainly a nice home. We parked away from the house and the hosts had a limo going back and forth to pick people up and drop them off. The home itself was quite spacious, with a big backyard, small-ish but elegant pool, and a hot tub. About half the rooms in the home were blocked off, with only two marked for "Playtime" with another, outside-accessible only room also marked for playtime, for a total of four indoors beds and one outdoors bed, which was really just an air mattress. I remarked to Mrs. Sunbuckus that, for the number of guests attending, that seemed like it might be an inadequate amount of playroom.

As befit a larger party in a swanky neighborhood, there were plenty of good-looking women wearing skimpy bathing suits. I did notice that several of them also wore coverups for their bottoms, which seemed a little odd to me. After all, at most of the swinger parties we have been to so far, the women walked around either naked or practically naked. We changed into our outfits in one of the nice bathrooms and stowed our gear away. I tucked some condoms and lube into my shorts just in case we needed them.

When we arrived, there were maybe 50 or so people milling around, with more coming in every ten minutes or so as the limo driver made his rounds. The hosts were certainly nice enough, and there was a photographer taking pictures on request. Most of the people had formed into small groups of four-five couples. My observation of the types of people who were there:

• Older couples, not in swimsuits, who hung out at a table and talked with each other
• Older men with their trophy-wife younger wives or girlfriends who appeared to be there just to show off how hot their wife or girlfriend is
• Younger, successful, attractive men with their hot wife or girlfriend, again showing off
• A few real swinger couples who were probably excited about all the hot action they might get with the attractive people
• Some regular-ish people who came to the party to check out what it's like

So, we did talk to a few couples, some in from out of state. There was a classic cougar situation with an older woman and her younger boyfriend or husband. She was still attractive, but they weren't swinging, just observing. This was the third party they had gone to that was hosted by this particular group. They were a nice couple, just apparently not interested in having sex with other people. Too bad, because Mrs. Sunbuckus was attracted to the guy and I would totally have played the shit out of the woman.

After a couple hours of nothing but milling around by most guests and no action going on, we decided to try and get some people to start playing. I had taken a viagra earlier so that I could stay hard if there were minor distractions, as there tend to be at parties. So we went into one of the playrooms and Mrs. Sunbuckus started sucking my cock. But the room was completely dark and no one would be able to see what was going on. So I had us move to one of the two remaining, prominent rooms, where she again started sucking my cock.

Now, at this house, every bedroom has a bathroom, so there were about four bathrooms total available for the 200+ guests, so you can imagine that the bathrooms were in quite high demand. As Mrs. Sunbuckus kept sucking my cock, people would walk by the bed on their way to the bathroom and hardly even pay attention. Fortunately, one gentleman and his playmate walked in and decided to play with us. As it turned out though, the woman was "on restriction" because she has some sort of master/slave relationship going on with another person who was not at the party. The gentleman did fuck Mrs. Sunbuckus a bit, but it only lasted a few minutes. I did get a couple handfuls of boobs from his playmate, but again, it was not much. All the while, people kept walking by and were like "Oh, excuse us, we're just going to use the bathroom..."

Now I'm just like "What the heck is going on here?" At any other party, a nice blowjob would have attracted a crowd of people, and some would have invariably joined in. Meanwhile, outside, people are still hanging out in small groups, talking, doing nothing but looking pretty and drinking alcohol. A few groups are playing with whipped cream on boobs, but no real swinging is going on. Mrs. Sunbuckus and I go to a room with two beds in it, and finally she mounts me and rides me until she gushes all over my cock, and stomach, and legs...

In the other bed is another couple, young-ish looking, and they're playing with each other. Suddenly the guy gets up and leaves, so I ask the woman if he left I can come over there and "take care of that" for you. Although in a pleasant, tone, she insisted that he is coming back and no help was needed whatsoever. So much for playtime.

By this time it's getting later into the night, so Mrs. Sunbuckus and I decide to call this party a bust and head over to Mr. B's party. On the way out, we saw another couple that we had met at the club the prior night. They had only been there 45 minutes and were already leaving. We also saw arriving another couple we had met at our first party but had not played with. I decided that we still needed to go because nobody was really playing.

We drove over to Mr. B's party, which was about as opposite of the other party as it gets. The house was in a rundown part of town, the guest were not nearly as attractive, no pool, but it did have nice people who wanted to do some swinging. We had been there maybe fifteen minutes, said hi to everybody, before Mrs. Sunbuckus and Mr. B got onto a bed and started playing. There was another woman who joined us and I ended up playing with her for about forty five minutes or so. While not the most attractive woman I had met that night, she was the one who played the hardest with us.

As we finished up playing there, another couple came to the party. We had been sort of interested in meeting them, but had not sent them any email or anything. Well, now they were there, at the party. However, by this time we were getting tired and I had to rest, so we excused ourselves from the room before those two started having an orgy with about two women and five men or something like that. I would have liked to play with the woman, but we were getting tired and finally, around 1am, decided to leave the party.

In retrospect of the first party, I believe there wasn't much, if any, playing, because the crowd was mostly younger and it seemed like most of the couples were showing off with a "You can look but not touch!" attitude. Which is pretty much the opposite of what a swinger's party should be. Also, as with many younger people, they have more conservative views on sex and are less comfortable with their body image than older people tend to be. That's not to say all are like that, just that most are like that. And when the older man, young trophy wife dynamic comes in, it's very clear that those couples are not interested in playing, just for the woman to show up and look good while the man shows off his woman. Very frustrating, and then it's like "Why would you even sign up for a party like this if that's all you're going to do?"

So, from now on, we'll probably be avoiding the big, swanky parties like that. First of all, there is the cost, although that is a relatively minor issue. Second of all, we want to have fun. Sexy kind of fun, and that wasn't happening there. As I remarked to several people, "My eyes are happy but my penis is sad."

Mr Sunbuckus: To the Club, then Home Again

Ever since the party a few weeks ago wherein Mrs. Sunbuckus and I did not play because the atmosphere was not really to our liking, a couple we had met at the party (well, the male half, anyways) had been wanting to meet up with us.

Mrs. Sunbuckus and Mr. E had been exchanging texts for the last several weeks, since they are both at home during the day. Mrs. E was unavailable during the day, the time of the day I would be most likely to text, so I didn't really talk to her too much, if at all, but according to Mr. E, she was interested in me.

Now, not to make too much of it, but I was hesitant to have them over at our home right away, since I felt like I'd gotten burned a couple of times with the husband half saying that the wife is "interested" in me, and then it feeling really more like a taking-one-for-the-team fuck than genuinely-interested-in-fucking-me-fuck. To that end, I instructed Mrs. Sunbuckus to make arrangements to meet the couple at a neutral location, and if things worked out, we would go from there.

We decided to go back to the club we had been to with Mr and Mrs. B the first time, since it is swinger-friendly and we had been invited to help celebrate the birthday of another swinging couple we had seen there last time. Mr and Mrs. E were gracious enough to accomodate on short notice.

Now, our children would be spending the weekend with my parents, so after we dropped them off there, Mrs. Sunbuckus and I went to the mall so she could dress me in some new clothes, since almost all my clothes were picked out by me and I probably don't have much of a clue as to what women like to see on a man. I'm glad she dressed me, because afterwards I looked pretty sharp.

Mrs. Sunbuckus had promised Mr. E a certain time that we would be at the club, and for some reason was hurrying up to make it there at that exact time. I told her not to worry since it's a club, it's not going to matter too much if we're a little late, but she hurried me along anyways. We grabbed a quick bite to eat, hurried home to shower and dress, then off to the club.

The club was, as always, loud. A sizeable crowd had gathered for the birthday party, perhaps 10-15 couples. We knew about five or six of them, and met a few new ones. Mr. B was there by himself since Mrs. B was working that night. He had brought along a friend of his, also a swinger. Mr and Mrs. D were not there yet, and I looked at Mrs. Sunbuckus and told her "See, we didn't have to be here early." We got some drinks, and mingled with the swinger crowd. Several people recognized us from our profile and stopped by to say hi, but we weren't interested in most of them.

Finally, about forty-five minutes after we arrived, Mr and Mrs. E showed up. We tried conversing, but because of the noise level I kept having to duck my head in so I could hear. Fortunately, Mr. E did most of the speaking, as he had at the party, so Mrs. Sunbuckus and I didn't have to do much. After a bit, Mrs. E ducked out to smoke a cigarette, leaving Mr. E to speak to us together and holding Mrs. E's drink.

Apparently, Mrs. E had run into an old friend, because she was out there at least fifteen minutes, if not longer. After she returned, we all spoke some more, I went to the restroom and got another drink, and halfway through that drink Mrs. Sunbuckus informed me that Mr and Mrs. E were ready to leave, signaling that they wanted to play.

Well, that was good enough for me. I got a good enough feeling that Mrs. E was at least mildly interested in something different (me) so what the heck. It's the start of a three-day weekend, let's see just how much pussy I can get.

To make logisitics easier, and to get a chance to speak without the extra noise of the club, Mrs. E rode with me and Mrs Sunbuckus rode with Mr. E to direct him to our home. It worked out well, we were able to talk more and find out more about each other, and that made me feel more comfortable.

Mrs. E and I arrived earlier than Mr E and Mrs. Sunbuckus, so I showed her around the home, including the king-size bed. Just as I was getting ready to seat her on the couch and start making out with her, Mrs Sunbuckus and Mr. E arrived at the door.

All of us chatted in the hallway for a few minutes before we moved onto the bedroom.

Once in the bedroom, the clothes came off and the fun began. I started by kissing Mrs. E like teenagers in heat, then getting her clothes off and giving her kisses all over her body. Once I got down to the legs, I hesitated a bit. Mrs. E apparently has some sort of skin condition which gives her what appear to be small sores all over her legs. I had noticed it at the party, but of course we didn't play at the party so it was not a concern. Taking it in stride here, though, I noted that her pussy area did not have these sores, and most of her body did not. I kissed up and around the sores and then concentrated on the pussy, which pleased Mrs. E. Meanwhile, Mr. E was eating out Mrs. Sunbuckus' pussy, although it seemed like her moans were a little forced. She would later confide to me that she was faking the moans during oral so that Mr. D wouldn't feel like he was doing a bad job.

I looked over at one point, and Mrs. Sunbuckus was sucking Mr. E's cock, and he looked like...he was stroking out! If I hadn't known better, and someone had taken a picture of only his face and shown it to a stranger, I bet they would have guessed he was having a stroke. I will admit, that took a little of the energy from me, but I continued on, put on the condom and mounted Mrs. E.

She was fantastic, accepting my cock in all different missionary positions. I believe we fucked for at least thirty minutes. At one point, I was about to try going in doggy style, but Mr. E decided to have his "O" face at that very moment. And as he was making his "O" face, he let out some wicked, scary moans or something. Well, that was enough to soften me up and I was unable to take Mrs. E doggy style. I let her know, but she didn't seem dissappointed at all. I guess if you've been in the lifestyle long enough, you know it happens now and then. The fatigue from the day at work plus the unexpected fright from Mr. E's orgasm just did me in. I laid next to Mrs. E and snuggled her in my arms as we all talked some more.

Eventually, as Mrs. E started falling asleep, they decided to leave. We all got dressed and bid goodbye. Perhaps we will see them again. I told Mrs. Sunbuckus that if we see them again, Mr. E and Mrs. Sunbuckus will have to play in another room, since I didn't want a repeat of the screaming thing that Mr. E did.

Overall, though, a good start to the weekend with a lovely couple.

Mrs. Sunbuckus: Couple Number 4

Mr. Sunbuckus and I have planned quite the Memorial Weekend. First off, we headed to the club (non-swinging but LS friendly) to celebrate a LS friend's birthday and meet with a couple we wanted to play with but had met at the last party we went to. I was pretty interested in the husband at the party. He chatted with both of us and was attractive to me. About a couple of weeks later, we traded phone numbers and we've texted and I even teased him with a bit of sexting. The only question was whether Mr. Sunbuckus and Mrs. E would hit it off.

I admit, I almost didn't recognize Mr. E when they walked into the club. The last time we saw them, he was only wearing boxers and a silly jester's hat. He looked scrumptious and more in line with what I am usually attracted to, tucked in button down shirt, sleeves rolled up, glasses, and hair combed just right to make you want to run your hands through it.

For the two hours that we were there, we chatted most of the time with Mr. and Mrs. E. I wanted to do a some dancing with several people (Mr. Sunbuckus, Mr. E, and Mr. B) but it just wasn't to be. When it was agreed that everyone wanted to play, we left to go to our place. Mr. Sunbuckus and Mrs. E left in our car while I went with Mr. E to help direct him to our house. We took a lot longer to get to the house than Mr. Sunbuckus and Mrs. E because Mr. E liked to drive slowly. But I still enjoyed conversing with him on the way. I do have to say, for the majority of our playmates, I have enjoyed the company of the married men because they are able to hold a conversation with me that doesn't always have to be about sex.

Anyway, I wanted to go straight to the bedroom when we got home, but we ended up chatting some more before retreating to the bed. Mr. E and I were the first to get undressed but I suppose that's to be expected...I seem to be more enthusiastic about getting down to playing right away.

I can't really tell you what exactly Mr. Sunbuckus and Mrs. E did...I think he did some oral on her and mostly missionary. To be honest, I was too busy with Mr. E to really take note. Mr. E performed oral on me before I went down on him. He seemed to really enjoy the blowjob I give, much to Mr. Sunbuckus' disconcertment. Not because of feeling discomfort that I was performing oral on Mr. E but by Mr. E's facial expression. Mr. Sunbuckus even had to stop and ask if Mr. E was okay because I guess it looked like Mr. E was having a stroke! All I know was that I could hear his moans and gasps and I haven't had that kind of reaction from another man while performing oral so it was a nice ego boost to know that I may actually know what I'm doing when giving a blowjob!

Eventually, we got to the main course, which is what I am always after. After doing a few standard positions, he put me in one that I usually don't do, or none of my playmates have done with me yet. Apparently, it is his favorite position because he can go really deep. I don't know about that...it felt good sometimes but other times, it was average. But he really enjoyed it and when it came time for him to cum, it seemed that he went on for about a minute, grunting and shaking. It was the most dramatic cum I have seen and heard from a man. Sure, I may have helped prolong it by grinding my hips toward his pelvis and squeezing his cock but I looked over to Mrs. E and she seemed a bit disturbed with her own husband's reaction! I asked her if he usually does that and she said no. Later on, Mr. Sunbuckus confided in me that he didn't cum because Mr. E's explosive cum reaction made him lose his hard-on.

We all were lying in bed naked and talking. Mr. E was hoping for a second round after some recovery time but Mrs. E was tired from her long day at work and we had to cut playtime short. In all, I thought it was fun and maybe we'll do separate rooms next time so make sure Mr. Sunbuckus and Mrs. E get their completion. I'm curious to see if I can get Mr. E to have a similar reaction again!

Date Night With Mr. B

Mrs. Sunbuckus here, obviously. I hardly think Mr. Sunbuckus would go out on a date with Mr. B...unless it was to hang out and pick up other women.

Mr. B is a big movie watcher and we have talked about going to see a movie together. This past Saturday, we were finally able to go out to movie and a dinner. I dressed up, made myself as pretty as I knew how to (I don't know how to apply makeup so I do what I can), and we were off. I think I did a pretty good job at knocking him off his feet because for the first time in my life, I heard someone use the words amazing and stunning to describe me!

Since he got off work later than he wanted, we were running late and decided to see the movie first and then go to dinner afterwards. I was a bit nervous about how it would be to actually go out on a date. I'm not really the best conversationalist or knowledgeable about world events so I was afraid that he might be bored but we did pretty well. I guess it helped that he is pretty good at just shooting the breeze about anything and that we've had our moments of just talking before and after playing.

It was both thrilling and odd to be sitting in the theater with him. Thrilling because it had been quite awhile since feeling that "date" feeling while at the movies. Odd because it wasn't Mr. Sunbuckus next to me. I wasn't sure if Mr. B wanted to hold hands or touch during the movie so I waited. Of course, he was busy scarfing down nachos at first since he hadn't eaten since lunch but once I was holding the box, he started to caress my leg and I snaked my hand over to his lap. I guess I was more bold than he thought I would be or what he was even used to. I admit, I like to rub Mr. Sunbuckus' crotch through his pants at the theaters...and it was just natural for me to do that with Mr. B. Later, I was surprised to learn that he hasn't had anyone do that with him before. Throughout the film, we held hands and caressed each other here and there. Mr. B later informed me that the male sitting next to him kept looking at us because I was rubbing him. How naughty is it that I relish in that??

After the movie, we walked around the nearby shops and restaurants because Mr. B's leg was hurting a bit. We chatted about the movie and whether we should eat or not. (Can you believe it? He claimed to have filled up on nachos??) He had originally planned on taking me to a Japanese restaurant and that's where we ended up going. We made it just in time before last call. They even put out some candles for our table since the overhead light wasn't working. I sat next to him because it was freezing cold and I needed some extra warmth. I was literally shivering before I switched over to his side. We decided on two sushi rolls and an appetizer of calamari. Very yummy but I didn't want to get too full before playing so for once, I had to fight my desire to waste not-want not and leave some sushi behind. Sushi! It still bothers me to have left those two pieces on the platter....

We headed back to his place. I brought in my purse and my mystery backpack that I had brought along. I had planned on tying him up and teasing him relentlessly so I brought along our bed restraining system as well as some extra condoms, lube, an extra pair of clothes, toothpaste and a toothbrush in case I stayed the night. I had asked Mr. Sunbuckus ahead of time if he was okay with me staying the night. He seemed okay with it. I was glad to get his permission because it had been one of my longtime fantasizes to fall asleep and wake up to a different man and see what he would do.

After some show and tell (I had expressed interest in seeing his uniforms) and some light chatter, we got down to business. He was really ready to go after feeling the wetness of his underwear. We didn't really do any crazy positions like in the past but I was amazed at how many times he was able to keep going. Three times that night before falling asleep and one more in the morning. He had told me in the past that the most he has cum in one night was 6 times. I was trying to see if we could reach and pass that benchmark but it was late at night and he had worked all day.

He did finally figure out the position that makes me make moan the loudest. Unfortunately, it's not his favorite position but did say that he liked seeing the reaction I was giving him from doing it. We didn't use the restraining system though because I wasn't sure how willing he would have been. He had recently played with a playmate that was really interested in dominating him and he resisted that idea so I didn't want to push it.

Two things I wanted to point out...I had a bit of a hard time falling asleep. Even though I had thought about how nice it might be, it was actually harder for me to relax than I thought. Even though I enjoy Mr. B's company, I still ached to have Mr. Sunbuckus next to me.

The second thing...I've come to the conclusion that I enjoy seeing a man on top of me, thinking that he is the one in control but in actuality, I'm the one with the power over him to make him cum. It was quite pleasurable seeing Mr. B struggling not to cum while I was doing what I could to make him climax.

Boyfriends and Boy Toys

Mr. Sunbuckus and I came to an arrangement so that I would explore the realm of having a boyfriend or boy toy on the side. I was a bit intrigued with this idea when we found out that Mr. and Mrs. B were on the lookout for their own girlfriend/boyfriend. However, I did see firsthand from them how easily it was for Mrs. B to get a boyfriend whereas Mr. B has yet to get a girlfriend. I was also concerned a bit when it seemed that Mrs. B would meet with her boyfriend almost everyday before work and play with him at least once a week. When does Mr. B get his time with Mrs. B? I didn't want to do that to Mr. Sunbuckus.

I have waffled back and forth between a boyfriend or a boy toy as well as to whether or not I should even be getting one at all. One of the reasons why I was wishy washy was because I wasn't certain I wanted to expend emotional energy on someone other than Mr. Sunbuckus. Yes, it's thrilling to think about having a male attracted to me to wine and dine me. However, I don't want it to take away from what I need to give to Mr. Sunbuckus...he comes first and I didn't want him to feel like a second fiddle. Second, two men that I was attracted to either expressed no interest or did but not enough to really make me feel like I wanted to meet him. Whereas, there have been a few men that contacted me but I wasn't interested in the slightest. It has turned out to be harder to find a boyfriend than I thought. And a lot more time and work finding one that works. Third, I had considered requiring friendship with the boyfriend/boy toy but have thought about changing the "screening" process...instead of getting to know them first and then playing, reverse it. I was telling Mr. Sunbuckus that I should see if they are fun in bed first and if they are, then explore that. And if not, then put them in the reject pile. Of course, attraction would still have to be a two-way street.

Mr. Sunbuckus has expressed concern about single males in the past and present and I'm sure he will complain about them in the future, too. I didn't really have a problem with them but after experiencing meeting and playing with a single male...I know exactly what he means and why he was so skeptical. He is a man, I probably should have listened to him but I had to learn for myself. Mr. Sunbuckus doesn't like single males because he is afraid that they will dog the female for playtime all the time. Although the single male that I toyed with did seem to ask to see me a lot, he didn't ask to play every time. But, yes, I did get turned off from his asking everyday to see me. Granted...he had a friendly face but he wasn't at all what I wanted in a boyfriend/boy toy. If he had been more attractive to me, perhaps I would have liked the attention more. But as it was, I did not like it. For this reason, Mr. Sunbuckus is more comfortable if it were a married male that I used as a boyfriend/boy toy. And who do we know that is a married male and also looking for a girlfriend? Mr. B of course. However, I have not mentioned anything about us being in that type of relationship other than that Mr. Sunbuckus would prefer that arrangement.

So, will I be doing the boyfriend thing? I don't know. It's a very fun thought but I like couple swapping so that we both get playtime and we can connect with each other during that time. There is something to be said about sharing your spouse so intimately with another woman and knowing he is having a fun time.

To be continued....

Mr Sunbuckus: Another Fun Couple, and a new Twist

Ever since the last house party we attended, there was a gentleman who had wanted to play with Mrs. Sunbuckus but wasn't able to get it up at the party.

She had reached out to him because she felt bad that he wasn't able to get an erection at the party. Finally, last night, nearly a month after the party, he and his wife were able to make it to our place. We'll refer to them as Mr and Mrs D. Now, Mrs. D had played - extensively - with Mr. B at the same house party. They were the couple that kept fucking even after falling off the bed. What a trooper!

I promised Mrs. D that we wouldn't fall off the bed, to which she replied that was good since she is too old for that shit. She was in for a different surprise, though.

When the lucky couple arrived at our home, we all sat around the couch. Mrs. D is a taller redhead, like Mrs. B. I guess tall redheads like guys like me? That's not a complaint! Mr. D is a little bigger but very enthusiastic.

After a few minutes of chit chat, Mrs. Sunbuckus rearranged the parties so that Mrs. D sat next to me and Mrs. Sunbuckus sat next to Mr. D. That was enough to get the party started. After only a couple minutes of that, we all went to the bedroom.

Both the men started by kissing the women all over. Mrs D has nice breasts with pierced nipples, so I spent a great deal of time going all over those with my tongue. I kissed my way all over her body. She has soft, creamy white skin, and I made sure to kiss it in as many places as possible, front and back.

I then gently spread her legs and worked my way up and down her legs before finally getting my mouth on her pussy. She tasted great, so I kept going, eventually working my finger inside her, then two fingers, then fingering her for awhile until she squirted a little. I kept licking her pussy until I offered to let her suck my cock, which she agreed to heartily.

I laid on my back and she started in on the cock. Now, I had taken a half-dose of Viagra, so my equipment was in full working condition. Meanwhile, Mrs. Sunbuckus and Mr. D had decided start having sex, and as I lay there, Mrs. Sunbuckus laid down next to me and started moaning almost too loudly while Mr. D pounded her pussy. After about five minutes of that, Mr. D finished, while Mrs. D was still sucking my cock. Mrs. Sunbuckus decided she would help suck the cock and started deep-throating the cock while Mrs. D sucked on my balls. Well, that got me to the extra level of hardness. I asked Mrs. D if she is ready for my cock inside her. She says yes, so I put on a condom and start out missionary. I proceed to have her in many positions, enjoying watching my cock go in and out of her pussy, legs up, doggy style, missionary again. I also enjoyed kissing her to some extent, although she also spent a fair amount of time with Mr D's cock in her mouth.

This got Mr. D aroused again, so he and Mrs. Sunbuckus got it together and had another round of sex, while I was still fucking Mrs. D! At this point I could feel the sweat building up on Mrs. D, so I offered to flip over so the fan could get her and she could use my cock as a pleasure toy. I think she enjoyed that and rode me doggy style for about ten minutes.

Finally, I was inside Mrs. D missionary, and she leaned her head back and sucked Mr. D's cock, which got him excited enough for a third round with Mrs. Sunbuckus. Mrs. D and I were still on round 1, and Mr. D did something kind of new to us, in that he was totally getting off on seeing Mrs. D get pounded for such a long time. We're used to Mr. B playing separtely from Mrs. B or excusing himself to another room while Mrs. B plays. So it was kind of suprising to hear Mr. D say things like "Tell him how much you love his cock" or "It's a pleasure watching your man work" (to Mrs. Sunbuckus.) Mrs. D squirted a lot after that, and didn't want my cock inside her while she was sensitive. But Mr. D insisted she take my cock in again, so back in it went. After all, who am I to complain?

Finally, after what was about an hour of nearly non-stop pounding for Mrs. D, I had a huge orgasm inside her. We both collapsed, sweaty and satisfied. Later she would confide that I gave her about as much as she could handle, but that she had fun and would do it again.

I always enjoy it when they would do it again.

Mr. Sunbuckus. Big Party Blues

Mrs. Sunbuckus and I had signed up for a swanky-sounding party. The theme was to be "Kink" and it was to be held at a large venue. Only couples and single women were to be allowed. But, if you haven't figured it out yet, we didn't make it to that party. Two nights before the party our ticket was unexpectedly refunded. The next day I found out that the party organizers had not been able to obtain some kind of event license with the host city and so therefore had to cancel.

This was very disappointing on several levels. On the first level, we had to plan a babysitter to stay overnight and arrange a hotel and so on and so forth. So all that preparation would go to waste.

We hastily signed up for a party that Mr and Mrs B had signed up for, only to find out later THEY wouldn't be able to make it.

We decided to push ahead anyways. After all, where would we be if we didn't give ourselves the opportunity to meet new people?

We went to the party anwyays. We enjoyed a nice meal at an unusual Brazilian restaurant. Then we showered and went to the party.

The location was ok. Not fantastic, mind you, merely ok. The space was a bit crowded, and as the night wore on, we noticed that the number of single men was increasing.

Of course, we also met a few new couples, and a few couples we already knew. But ultimately, we didn't play with anyone. We left fairly early - for a swinger's party - and went back to the hotel, where we played with each other.

In retrospect, I knew that I was a bit concerend about this party on several levels. First of all, the hosts were allowing single men. And there were about 30 single men signed up for the party. Secondly, most of the single men were African-American. While race itself was not an issue, what the party turned out to be was for non-African-American women to have sex with African-American men. In the time we were there, that was basically all we saw for playtime, except for two other women playing with each other. I watched a nearly middle-aged man look on as his wife had sex with a large black man. We also saw another gentleman look on while his wife serviced three African-American men.

We also had the unfortunate experience of another single male come up to us, in what seemed like a too-eager way. He didn't really even try to get to know us, but kept hounding us to come back to our hotel. As we left the party, he practically chased us out trying to get to us to let him come back to the hotel with us. Uhhh..no?

As I said, it was a very uncomfortable atmosphere to me, nearly to the point of one of the swinger's clubs being filled with single guys all trying to get a glimpse of some action. I'm not entirely sure Mr and Mrs B would have enjoyed the party themselves.

A few of the people we spoke with said they had been to this host's other parties before and kept coming back for more. All I can say is that those people must be looking for African-American men. As I said to Mrs B, there's nothing wrong with that, except I'm not African-American and that's all the ladies seemed interested in. Of the couples we talked to, we would spend some time chatting with the male half while, once again, the female half would slink away and talk to someone else or generally just decide to hang out separate from their spouse or boyfriend. Very frustrating, as Mrs Sunbuckus and I have decided that with new couples we would only play together for awhile.

Overall, strike out, but next time I think we'll stick to parties that limit or outright ban single men. That way it's not a sausage fest.

We've also decided that would be our last party for awhile and try one-on-one (or two-on-two) dating so that we can concentrate on the other couple. I think I prefer that to some extent. It allows me to concentrate on the woman and not worry about her getting distracted or some other man coming up and trying to steal her away for playtime. When I'm with a woman, I want to be with her mentally and not feel like she's looking around wondering if there's anyone with a better cock nearby. Because that's just going to distract me and make it that much harder to get an erection.

Showing Interest

Mr. Sunbuckus and I are pretty shy and reserved people. We met online 13 years ago and didn't really have to deal with the dating scene or developing our self confidence or skills in how to approach those that we were interested in. This, in itself, has pros and cons. We both know that we fell in love with each other's personality core. However, that has also given us some doubts on the level of attraction that our physical appearances hold.

Ever since January, I have come to the conclusion that it is a thousand times easier to be a woman in the LS than it is to be a man. If you are a woman, it really does center around you and who you want to play with. If you are a single female, the LS world is your oyster. The absolute opposite is true for men. If you are a married man, you have it a lot easier than single males but you still have to work hard to get a woman warmed up enough to want to play with you. It is not entirely dependent on looks. Men are visual and are attracted to what they usually see. Women need to be chatted up, be shown that they are desired and interesting as a whole package before wanting to play. In a nutshell...women want to be chased. At least I do. I can be interested in how a man appears but if he can't hold a conversation with me or has an attitude that is off putting, then it's no playtime with him. Of course, I have been a bit of a slut at the parties lately and if a man kisses and fondles me, I will more than likely play...after all, it's a swingers party, not a book/movie club. But overall, women like some conversation to judge a man's personality before playing with him.

Well, Mr. Sunbuckus feels that no one is interested in him, which I do not think is the case. He is a very attractive man. The only problem is that he doesn't know how to go up to a woman and show he is interested. You can't really blame him though since we have been together for 12 years and he has wired himself to not outwardly show interest in a woman in the form of actually talking to her in order to get her into bed.

Some ways that I have been approached is to be complimented first and then an introduction. Another is being approached and asking me if I'm having a great time, and then some light touching on my back. Then, if the person doesn't pull away, then they might be interested in more so you can rub a bit more sensually until they are warmed up a bit for the fondling to get more aggressive. Obviously, once there seems to be interest some kissing and suggestion for more can be broached. I think running the fingertips up and down lightly on the arm can be nice...and if they like it, move to the legs and then between the legs.

I know that I have to work on this myself and being more outgoing in approaching couples that we are interested in. So far, we have coasted on other couples approaching us. I have vowed to try really hard at our next party to approach a couple that we are interested in and chatting them up. After all, how are we going to build up our seductive skills if we don't practice?

Mr. Sunbuckus: Third House Party

We had an unexpected invite to a third house party after our most recent house party only the previous week. It included several of the couples from the previous week, plus our most frequent playmates, Mr. and Mrs. B. Having everyone we've met so far in one place certainly seemed intriguing.

At first we weren't sure if we would be able to make it, since we usually don't party on consecutive weekends. But Mrs. Sunubuckus was able to arrange a last-minute babysitter, so we decided to go ahead and go.

It was a long drive out to the house party, the furthest we've gone so far in the lifestyle. Mrs. Sunbuckus had decided beforehand that, although she would ask my permission to play, she wouldn't insist that she and I play together at the same time. That way she would be free to do her thing and I would be free to do my thing.

When we arrived at the party, we recognized the woman opening the door for us right away as being at the party the previous weekend. Hugs were exchanged and we entered the premises. Almost immediately upon entering, Mr. B approached us and said hi. I had not seen him in some time so I took a few minutes to get caught up and chat with him. I also saw Mr and Mrs C, whom we played with last weekend and we waved hello to each other. Mrs. Sunbuckus gave hugs to Mr B and Mr C, as well as a few others we had met before. We were introduced around to some of the other couples, but I honestly can't remember most of their names.

This home had a pool and hot tub, so I wanted to check that out. I went outside, and immediately saw a lovely naked woman floating on the pool. I looked around to see if Mrs. B was anywhere around, but I did not immediately see her in the couple of groups that were around there chatting. Since I had already toured the interior of the home, I knew she wasn't inside. Only then, by the power of deduction, did I realize that Mrs. B was the lovely figure floating around the pool! Sometimes having bad eyesight sucks, right?

So Mrs. B recognizes me and immediately says hi, and invites me into the pool. Now, I may not be very saavy with the women, as the case would be later, but I do know enough that when a beautiful naked woman invites you into the pool, you don't waste time.

So, here I am, haven't even been at the part 20 minutes, and I'm jumping back into the house getting naked and going out to the pool. By this time Mrs. B had moved to the hot tub, so I jump right in with her and Mr C and a couple of other ladies whose names I honestly do not remember. I get comfortable with her, and try my best to get other ladies to get comfortable with me, but I must be putting out some sort of creepy vibe that only Mrs B knows to ignore. After perhaps ten minutes in the pool, Mrs B sees Mr B about to play through one of the windows.

We went inside the house and saw Mr. B and a few ladies getting busy. Then some other people started getting busy. And some other people. Mrs. B took a small spot on the bed, and I started caressing her body. She was eventually able to work her legs apart so I could start fingering her. Well, she must have been extremely horny because I had not even fingered her for more than a minute or two before I could feel her squirting on my hand. She didn't have me stop, though, so I kept going and I could see her having another orgasm. But she still didn't tell me to stop, and she had another squirting orgasm.

At this time, Mrs Sunbuckus was playing with Mr C. What happened for the next hour or so I don't quite recall. I did try to chat up a few women, but no one seemed interested. Maybe I'm not charming enough? Maybe I'm not forceful enough, I dunno. I just know no one seemed to want to talk to me except a few of the guys, and I was pretty sure I wouldn't be playing with them. Mrs. Sunbuckus was trying to encourage me to get a playmate for the evening, and eventually Mrs B walked by and asked what was going on. Mrs Sunbuckus said she was trying to get me a playmate, at which point Mrs B simply took my hand and we found a place to play. She's very subtle like that.

This was about 10pm, give or take. Mrs B and I could only find some space where the hosts had layed out a few sheets and some pillows. We started kissing, and I let Mrs B stroke my cock until it got hard in her hand. I put on some protection and we started playtime. We played for a good long time. Mrs B must have orgasmed about 10 times while we were playing, and several of those I could feel her squirting warm juices on my cock. But I kept going, and Mrs B correctly guessed that I had taken a viagra which, with the alcohol, made me hard and long-lasting. I guess Mrs B didn't anticipate that, because I wore her out and possibly disappointed her to some extent because I didn't cum on demand for her (she asked several times for me to cum). I wasn't apologetic, though, as I finally turned the tables on her and gave her more than she could handle. When we finished, it was nearly 11pm, give or take, again, so we had been playing for most of an hour, which would be a good night for most swingers.

During this time that Mrs B and I had been playing, Mrs Sunbuckus did a little soft play with the host, which he enjoyed. Others came and went, watching us play, including Mr B, who just gave me a big smile while I had sex with his wife. Very odd sometimes, swinging is.

Well, my cock was still able to easily get hard after Mrs B played with me. So I spent the next hour or so trying to get other women to play with me. Now, I'm not exactly a hard body, but compared to many of the other men there, I could have easily been considered a boy toy, or at least someone without a beer belly. No takers. I had a hard time getting anyone to engage in a conversation with me. The most talking I did was with Mrs Sunbuckus. Not that I minded, but I could hear her disappointment in her voice when I told her that I hadn't gotten anyone else to play with me.

About 12:30 or so, I gave up, got dressed, gave hugs and kisses to Mr and Mrs B (I didn't kiss Mr B) and left the home. On the way home, I floated the idea of going to the swingers club so that I could finally cum with Mrs Sunbuckus. We chose that route since Mrs Sunbuckus' parents were watching the kids and would stay overnight. I didn't feel like having loud noisy sex with her parents in the house.

We went to the club, which, as usual, was hopping with a maybe a dozen or so women and maybe three dozen or so men. We played a bit in the couples room where others could see us, then decided to take the "Fish Bowl" bedroom, a room with beds and a window so others could see us having sex. Three months ago we wouldn't have done that, but after having been to three house parties and letting others watch us, it almost seemed normal, except Mrs Sunbuckus wouldn't give the guys a show and let them watch my cock go into her pussy. Oh well...

So, the aftermath, the evaluation of the house party. Overall, if you want to consider it a success, I would have to say, yes, I played, and Mrs Sunbuckus played, so in that respect, it was a success. Did I play with someone new? No. Mrs Sunbuckus did not, either, although she sort of played with another man but he couldn't get it up, and she soft-played with the host.

However, in the maybe too-much self-examination aftermath, I think I have some issues with the crowd we played with, apart from Mr and Mrs B. First of all, they almost all, to a T, seemed to be more interested in Mrs Sunbuckus and not so much I. Is that partly due to my somewhat guarded personality around new people? Sure. But I also think asian men aren't as accepted into the lifestyle. More than once did women slink away from me. One does it, sure, maybe they just don't like you. But once it starts happening all the time, it does become disheartening. I know if I could engage some of them in some conversation, that I could probably make them feel differently, but I just don't seem to have the knack for breaking into their conversation, for one, and for just attracting women to me, for two. I'm not the kind of person who goes into a bar and leaves with a woman I've never met, and I don't think I ever will be. Most of the other couples were white, and they tended to play with the white guys. On one level, I don't blame them for knowing what they like, on another level, isn't part of being in the lifestyle trying out new things? And I like to think that, for many of the women, I am a new thing. It was not to be, however.

Mrs Sunbuckus says I just need to be more forceful, something I've never really been in pursuing a woman. In order to be more successful, I have to break a lifelong behavior of being polite and respectful around women, trying to minimize the sexualization of the situations. Yes, many of the women were sitting around naked, which sort of automatically sexualizes the situation, but seriously. Coming into their personal space and trying to break the ice has never come naturally to me. It's going to take some time to unlearn this habit. In the meantime, it looks like I may miss out on lots of opportunities.

Mrs Sunbuckus says I need to get out there and play with other people. I have assured her that I would like to. But in the meantime, if I only play with Mrs B, who confided in me why she was attracted to me in the first place, I am more than happy. At least I know she is attracted to me physically, which does make me feel better about myself. It also makes me so very, very glad that we met them when we did.

I think that our next move will be to get around to larger parties, since there will be a better chance of a compatible couple liking both of us, and to do individual dates with other couples, since their focus will be on us and it will be much more difficult for them to wander off and talk to other people. Small house parties can be fun, but I think it's best when you know - and have played with - at least two or three of the couples there. I also will try to be more forward in engaging the women, but no promises in unlearning a lifetime's behavior in a short amount of time.

Couple's "Exclusivity"

On the swingers forum, I had read a thread about how some couples get jealous. Not that their partners are having sex with other people but that their play couple(s) are having sex with other couples other than them. At the time, it did seem silly but now that we have a touch more experience I can say that I think this happens with those that are new to the LS who may still be letting go of society's pre-conceived notions that sex equals love or at least a level of exclusivity.

One of the reasons why I was super interested in going to the third house party this past weekend was to see our first couple that we played with playing with other couples/individuals. I wanted to make sure that I wasn't developing those odd jealous exclusivity feelings with them. And I wanted to make sure that I wasn't getting too attached to Mr. B since we had been playing exclusively with each other the past month. Thankfully, I am not. In fact, as I stated before, since we had played so often, I think I have that new-play-toy feeling out of my system with him. I think it also helps that I have played with a few other men since and found that Mr. B is not as enjoyable as I thought.

Mrs. Sunbuckus: Third House Party

I suppose our third house party was not really "third time's the charm." I had fun but most of the time, I was worried about Mr. Sunbuckus getting his playtime in....

Originally, we had heard of the party from the weekend before while we attended our 2nd house party. We usually don't go out 2 weekends in a row so I assumed we wouldn't be able to make it. Not to mention, the possibility of being broken for the weekend. And we had Easter Sunday with family.

Well, Mr. and Mrs. B were attending the same party and some of the couples (4 of them in fact) from our 2nd house party were attending this party. I thought it would be nice to see them again and do some "networking". I do love the social aspect of the LS since Mr. Sunbuckus and I don't really have that many friends and would like to get to know others more, even if we don't play with them.

As it was getting closer to Saturday evening, I asked our sitter if she was available. She was not. Then I figured I'd shoot in the dark and ask my parents to see if they would mind staying late to watch the kids. We would get them ready for bed and then leave. All they had to worry about was putting them to bed and then just be present in the house as they slept. Surprisingly, they didn't mind and actually didn't ask any questions either. Quite odd...perhaps they are aware of something but don't want to say. Either way, it was nice of them to stay the night so Mr. Sunbuckus and I could go out.

Since we had our house swap on Tuesday, and I had playtime with Mr. B while Mr. Sunbuckus did not, I wanted to make it up to him. Secretly, I hoped that we could find new playmates. However, Mr. Sunbuckus is just a bit too shy and only played with Mrs. B at the party. He told me he tried to get something going with Mrs. C but she didn't seem interested. I had hoped that he would expand to someone completely new but he didn't.

During the night, I played with Mr. C (the male part of our 2nd play couple). He was very fun and had me squirting while he was giving oral and fingering me as well as when I was on top. It's nice to enjoy being with a male who loves being drenched from a woman.

Then, while I was watching Mr. Sunbuckus and Mrs. B play, Mr. V (the male host of the party) came up from behind me and started to rub and kiss me. He had asked me if I was having fun. I like to rub my backside on whoever is behind me so I was doing that. Eventually, he rubbed my tits and pussy while I was stroking his cock. Mr. V is on the older side and I admit that I wasn't really into that. However, I was appreciative of the attention so I was willing to kiss, stroke, and do a little oral on him. He did have a very thick cock at the base but not so much at the tip. It was almost cone shaped to me. Fleetingly, I entertained the thought of how his cock would feel inside me but I couldn't mentally get past the age difference. I felt bad that I had gotten him so riled up so I offered to let him cum on my ass. Which he did. Mr. and Mrs. V are very kind people. I was surprised to hear from Mr. Sunbuckus that he wasn't interested in Mrs. V because I found her very attractive and if I was a male, I would want to be with her.

Later, I was in the hot tub by myself when a male, Mr. D, came in. He told me that Mr. Sunbuckus had invited him to join me in the hot tub. I had met Mr. and Mrs. D a bit earlier in the night but not too much. They seemed very nice but I wasn't sure if they were interested so I had gone off to rest and play again. After fondling and kissing a bit in the hot tub, Mr. D asked if I would mind if we go use one of the bedrooms. I was definitely game and went to make sure Mr. Sunbuckus was okay with it. To my dismay, he was sitting in a chair and not playing. I was hoping to find him having fun with a playmate. I felt a bit guilty for having more playmates than him and hesitated. After all, I had agreed to the party so he could get some playtime. I hadn't expected to do much or any playing myself.

Mr. Sunbuckus seemed okay so Mr. D and I went to find a room. He was very excited and went down on me immediately. His technique is similar to Mr. Sunbuckus' until he started to finger me at the same time which was rough and aggressive. Although different and exciting in the way that rough sex can be exciting, sometimes the roughness can get to be too much for it to be fun after awhile. Luckily, he had to take a break and go to the bathroom. Mr. Sunbuckus came into the room and I decided to give him some oral while waiting. Mr. D came back and seemed to have some trouble getting hard. I gave him some oral but it didn't work. We tried kissing but it didn't work. I mounted him, hoping that maybe grinding on him would do something. He moaned and groaned but it just wasn't working. I felt bad that we didn't get any playtime but sometimes things happen. I think he played earlier and he might have had too much to drink. He was very nice though and gave me one of the nicest compliments of the night. He said that I was the hottest woman at the party. The other compliment came from Mr. C when he said that I was close to the top of his "fun list" because I was able to make him cum (he says he doesn't cum with every woman he plays with) and I was a great kisser and we seemed to really be compatible.

After the house party, Mr. Sunbuckus and I returned to the club we visited when we first started to explore the LS. It was hopping at the club and it was interesting going in there, knowing that we might be more hardcore "swingers" than some of the ones in there considering how we just came from a private house party, engaged in swapping, and witnessed many orgies with our own eyes. I was surprised that Mr. Sunbuckus pulled into the club but he explained that he wanted us to fuck without anything worry of my parents hearing us (which we would have had to think about if we were to go straight home and fuck.) We sat around for a few minutes to soak in the atmosphere, went to the "couples only" room to do some oral and sex, then we moved onto the "see through" room where couples can go in a "secluded room" but onlookers can watch through the 1 way window. I found it very liberating to know that we didn't really have any hesitation doing it in there. A few months ago, it would have been a big leap to have sex in that room, hearing and knowing that there were other people on the other side of the window while we fucked. Now, it just seemed "normal" since we have gone to a few parties and had onlookers while we play. I wonder how out of the box it was for those on the other side to be on the viewer side of the window. Was it their first time watching another couple have sex? Did they get turned on? I liked to imagine that some of the males rubbed themselves a bit while watching. After Mr. Sunbuckus creamed me, we left and went home.

I have really enjoyed meeting so many nice people so far. I even kind of felt that Mr. Sunbuckus and I knew more people at the party than maybe Mr. and Mrs. B even though they had more experience.

So, you're probably wondering why I didn't play with Mr. B. Two reasons: 1. I had recently played with him just that week. 2. I have to be honest and say that I am a bit tired of him. We have been playing with each other about 1-2 times a week since meeting. I wanted another playmate to explore and enjoy. Plus, I have come to the conclusion that although he has the stamina, he doesn't make me as wet and excited as I thought he would. Perhaps I am not as attracted to him as I thought? Perhaps I feel self-conscious about my body when I play with him since he maintains himself so well (and gets worried when he gets little stretch marks on his arms from working out--thus making me wonder what he must think about mine?) Who knows. I do know that I want to have a break from playing with him for awhile.

No-Playtime Playtime

Mrs. B, the female half of our regular play couple, is a very hard woman to get a hold of. Not only does she have a boyfriend, and another on the side, and her husband, and her job, and her kids...well, you get the picture. So I was lucky enough to get what amounts to a date with her last night.

Of course, I knew beforehand that she was "broken" which I just interpreted to be have different fun. Mr. B proposed a house swap, so Mrs. Sunbuckus went to their house and Mrs. B came to our house so no babysitters would be needed.

Mrs. B and I sat on the couch and made out a bit. Then she laid down, settled her head into my lap and we talked. We just talked about our lives for about an hour or so, give or take. I learned so much about Mrs. B, and she learned a lot about me. And I'm really glad we had that time to get to know each other better. And it's not that I'm trying to seduce her, but that I just feel if we're going to keep having sex, it's nice to know more about that person.

Eventually we got to just laying on the couch and making out. I do love to kiss, and we did plenty of that. Although we were "watching" a movie, I suggested we could get more comfortable in the bedroom. To which she simply stood up, walked down the hall, and proceeded to strip down to her undies.

We both laid down on the bed, and Mrs. B took my shirt off and kept her lips locked to mine. We alternated her on top and me on top, and when she would get on top she would grind her pussy into my crotch.

I managed to break away and start kissing her beautiful body all over. First down her chest, around her nice breasts, then finally sucking her nipples. I spent a goodly amount of time just caressing and sucking on her breasts.

I turned her over and started kissing up and down her back, starting at the nape of the neck, which managed to elicit a few sighs from Mrs. B. I then sat on her back and started massging her a bit, warning that I might accidentally paralyze her since I'm not a licensed massage therapist.

My attention turned back to my mouth on her body, and worked down to her beautiful ass. I pushed her thong aside and gave her butthole a good tongue-probing, which I'm almost certain she enjoyed. Well, at least she didn't stop me. I kissed my way down her legs, around her smooth calves and on up to the feet.

I noted that she seemed to be falling asleep. What happened after that was that Mrs. B and I cuddled together, her in my arms, she caressing my body lightly, and we both fell asleep.

We must have been asleep for about 30 minutes when my phone rang and Mrs. Sunbuckus wanted to know what we were up to. Mrs. B got up and left, giving me a goodnight kiss before departing.

When Mrs. Sunbuckus came home we talked about our experiences. Of course she and Mrs. B played together, which I knew they would do.

Mrs. Sunbuckus rode my cock and I finished up by giving her a good doggy-style creampie.

What a wonderful night, and what a pleasure getting to know Mrs. B in a non-sexual way. So, see, sometimes playing isn't always just having sex.

Arrogance in The Lifestyle

So far, most of the people we have personally met in the Lifestyle have been pleasant and kind. That's a good thing. However, going through the profiles on the swinging websites we have membership at, I wonder sometimes if some of these people are for real.

In particular, I am referring to couples who "Only want a woman to play with my wife" or "A wife with a hall pass." There was a profile that said "She likes to play with women and see her man pleasure another woman." Since about 90% of the profiles are couples or single men, I wonder if this tactic ever works. Seeing as how single women are considered unicorns for their rarity, and the arrogance of saying that you'll only play with single women, it seems like this tactic probably doesn't work very well.

In fact, we receieved an email from another couple with this very type of profile. The basics are that they only want single females, or couples, but only for watching. The underlying presumption is that the other man is not going to get playtime, only his wife. I know maybe some couples like to do that, but for the most part, we've found the best couples are the ones who play together, not separately.

So, I replied to their email stating we're a full-swap couple only. They replied that with the right chemistry they would be ok with a full-swap. But the damage had been done by their profile. I never replied to them knowing that they might "full swap" a couple of times, but then constantly want Mrs. Sunbuckus to play without me.

Mrs. Sunbuckus: Our Second House Party

Mrs. Sunbuckus here. Ever since our first house party and finding that the couple, Mr. and Mrs. B lived so close by and played separately, I have been playing roughly 1-2 times every week since. Personally, I had been getting a little burned out and wanted a break. I wanted to reconnect with Mr. Sunbuckus so I had considered playing one last time this past Saturday and then not playing until our next party on the 21st of April.

I had intel that there would be a private house party after a meet and greet in the east side of town. Originally, we did not plan on going to the meet and greet because it was so far away and our first meet and greet wasn't really as fun as compared to our house party experience. (As Mr. Sunbuckus says, why go to a meet and greet when you can go to a meet and fuck?)

The person who had passed the intel onto me is considered a unicorn (single female) but she has been a bit flaky at times. Well, the morning of the meet and greet, we received an email inviting us to a house party from a couple we haven't met before but one that we had expressed some interest in but never contacted them. Mr. Sunbuckus and I were more than happy to skip the meet and greet to go. The only thing they asked was that we bring a dish for everyone to eat. How exciting...but I was also getting nervous as the time got closer. Were we going to be able to come out of our reserved shells to hit it with other couples? Would we even attract any interest from others? And would we be attracted to anyone? I shared my thoughts to Mr. B and he told us to "Be active" and "Be brave."

The dress I had originally bought to wear to the meet and greet, I decided to wear to the party anyways, even if it was a bit too dressy for the occasion. After all, when am I going to get another chance to wear it anytime soon?? As it turned out, it was quite the hit with the males at the party. But we'll get to that.

We are pretty punctual people so we arrived right on time but didn't really want to be the first couple to "go in" since we didn't know anyone. Well, after sitting in the car for a few minutes, we bit the bullet and went in anyways. We were able to chat with the hosts for a while before anyone else arrived and it was nice. At first, I didn't find the male host to be particularly attractive but he was very nice and as I got more comfortable with him, I found that I wouldn't mind playing with him if he asked.

Then, other couples started to pour in. It was close to about an hour after the "starting time". Personally, I was hoping to start playing about an hour in but it was just at that time that couples were just arriving. Argh. Mr. and Mrs. C, the couple that invited us, arrived and I was a bit disappointed in the male half, again. And it felt like Mrs. C wasn't friendly at all to me at first. She was mostly interested in chatting with the wife-host since they are good friends. Probably about 9:30, the majority of the couples had arrived. In all, there were 7 other couples besides us. One couple, I recognized the male half from our first house party. I remembered him because I had a slight interest in him the first time but I thought he was a single male so I kind of just dismissed him. Imagine my surprise when I found out after the party that he was part of a couple. We did talk with him and his wife but I wasn't quite feeling it for the male half after chatting with him a bit. He seemed dazed, in my opinion. His wife seemed nice, after she talked to us for a little bit. At first, I thought she was a bit stand-offish until she stopped to talk to us.

The majority of us stood around the kitchen island, chatting and laughing. I found it very pleasant but I think Mr. Sunbuckus was bored. He wanted to know when we would start playing. I enjoyed the conversation and company. I wanted to play too, especially since I knew we didn't want to get home too late but I wanted to forge some kind of friendship with these couples so we could be invited to other parties in the future.

Eventually, some couples went to some of the bedrooms to play. However, about 4-5 women went out to the backyard patio to talk. Mr. C, the male half of the couple that invited us to the house party, started to rub my back. I had noticed that he stood to my left and kept looking at me. But I wasn't sure how to really break the ice so I kind of let him take the lead in conversation and touching. I put my back to him and began to rub my bottom against him to show him that I was interested. I could feel his erection through our clothing, which was stimulating. Another reason why I faced away from him though is so I could look at Mr. Sunbuckus and make sure he was okay. I felt guilty that he wasn't playing with anyone yet. And so, that's probably how it went on for at least 20 minutes, Mr. C and a few of the other males fondling and rubbing me, wanting to play. I had to hold them off, telling them that I wasn't going to play unless Mr. Sunbuckus also had a playmate. Mr. C encouraged Mr. Sunbuckus to go out to the back patio to talk and convince the other women to come in. While he was away, one male kneeled down behind me and wanted to lick my asshole. Another male came to rub and nibble at my nipples. And Mr. C did a little oral, nipple play, and fingered me. While he was fingering me, we were all in the same room as the mini-orgy (3 couples) going on in the bedroom, the not-really-standoffish woman was watching Mr. C finger me and was telling me to relax and squirt...to concentrate on what he was doing. Well, that did it and I squirted right there, standing up. That was very new for me, since I had only experienced squirting while riding on top of my male partners. Mr. C was very ecstatic and really wanted to play right then and there. I told him that I still wouldn't play unless Mr. Sunbuckus was playing too. He tried to put me at ease and say that he was probably in the other room getting his brains fucked but I told him to make sure by looking outside. Sure enough, he was outside with the other women. Mr. C pressured Mrs. C to play with Mr. Sunbuckus so we could play.

Looking back, I feel bad about how that went down. I didn't want anyone to feel pressured. Even Mrs. C commented about how she felt pressured to play and I told her that we can slow down if she wanted. Well, somehow, we all got onto the bed and started playing. Mr. C and I started missionary and I tried to show him that I was more than willing to hold my legs in the air for him. He was nice enough to ask me what my favorite position was...I responded that as long as a cock was inside, I was happy. So, we did missionary and doggy style. However, he doesn't have the stamina that Mr. B has and had to ask a few times if I could be on top so he could rest. I was more than happy to oblige and soon enough, I was squirting all over him. Throughout the time we were playing, I would notice that the males that were rubbing on me earlier kept popping in to watch, as if they wanted their turn. Thinking about it now, I probably should have invited them over to play and maybe I could have engaged in a MFMM. Mr. C and I rotated between positions again and eventually, he came. We chatted a bit and fondled while Mr. Sunbuckus and Mrs. C were still playing. After awhile, Mr. C wanted to play again so he put on another condom and we went for round 2. When he needed a break again, I was on top and squirted several times. Mr. C seemed to really enjoy all the wetness on him. However, he didn't cum again with me. I think he was tired and needed a break from playing. So, once Mr. Sunbuckus and Mrs. C finished, we all sat or laid on the bed chatting. Mr. Sunbuckus took note of the time, and decided we should get going. I was a bit disappointed that we wouldn't get to play with anyone else but hopefully we will get invited by the hosts again for their next party.

I had a lot of fun at the party and I didn't feel any jealousy at all. Of course, maybe I was too busy having my own fun to really see what Mr. Sunbuckus was doing. I do know he enjoyed Mrs. C's triple D breasts. Okay, maybe I was jealous...but not of what Mr. Sunbuckus was doing but of Mrs. C's big breasts. I wish I had such beautiful breasts! I know Mr. Sunbuckus would love them, too. But that's another topic that I've written about and one that I go back and forth on....

I can't wait until our next house party or our next playtime...which is tomorrow night!

Private House Party

This previous Saturday, we had planned on going to a Meet and Greet across town. One of our contacts from the previous house party had said that she and some other friends would be having a little get-together afterwards. However, she never replied to let us know if we were invited or not.

So we posted a hot date about five days before the meet and greet saying that we were looking for a couple to host afterwards.

So the days pass by, and no responses to the date.

Finally, on the day of the meet and greet, we get email from another couple. They saw our hot date, read our profile and decided to invite us to a small private house party on the other other side of town from the meet and greet. Closer to us, but still far away.

As luck would have it, the couple that invited us to the private house party had been one we were sort of interested in, but hadn't sent any email.

Mrs. Sunbuckus and I quickly decided that a small house party would be way more fun than a meet and greet, especially considering that there was no guarantee of an invite after the meet and greet. So we ditched the meet and greet.

That left us about an extra hour at home, which we used to "Doll" ourselves up (and take care of some trimming down below...)

We headed out to the private house party and ended up being the first couple there besides the host. We chatted it up with them and had chips and salsa while we waited for other couples to arrive. The host couple were in their 40's, he a tall hispanic man and she a full-figured redhead. They explained how it's not that often that they get a free house, due to their kids living at home. We thanked them for hosting.

Eventually, the other couples started trickling in. There was the couple that invited us, an older couple from Las Vegas, and a couple that we had previously met at the house party. There was also a black couple, and a blonde German woman and her hispanic husband. I just about freaked out when I found out she is a grandma, because she was smoking hot. I said "Man, that's a grandma I'd like to fuck!"

So conversation is going, booze is flowing, music is playing. Eventually two couples go off to play in the master bedroom. They are quickly joined by some other men. And for some reason, other than Mrs. Sunbuckus, all the other ladies go out to the patio and start talking about movies.

WTH? While this is going on, the husband of the couple that invited us, we'll call him G, starts rubbing up against Mrs. Sunbuckus and I can see she is enjoying it. She then makes sure to note that she won't start playing until I start playing. Which was really nice of her. I ask G what is up with all the women going outside to talk, and he tells me I should go round them up and get them back inside.

So I step outside, and try to get the ladies back into the house. But for some reason, my logic doesn't make sense to them. Maybe I was too drunk, not really sure at that point. So I kind of stand around dejectedly, and then Mrs. Sunbuckus and G appear at the door, stark naked, and they're like "Hey, what's taking you so long?"

Somehow, the ladies finally start filtering in, and by this time the master bedroom is free, so G asks his wife to help out so he can get started. She starts to strip down and before I know it she is sucking my cock. But not too long. I ask her if she wants her pussy licked, but instead she asks to ride my cock, which at this time, thanks to Vitamin V, is rock hard. So I agree, get a cover, she lubes up her pussy and she starts to ride. As she starts, she plants a big kiss on my lips. I do love to kiss! She continues to kiss my off and on throughout the whole time we played, even sucking my whole tongue into her mouth.

Thanks to the combination of Vitamin V and alcohol, which I usually don't drink, not only am I hard as a rock the whole time, I also am having a hard time cumming. But G's wife, A, is the lucky recipient of the long-lasting erection. She has to lube up a second time at some point throughout.

Meanwhile, Mrs. Sunbuckus and G are going crazy next to us, with Mrs. Sunbuckus being especially vocal, moaning loudly. I know G has already cum once, and Mrs. Sunbuckus has squirted multiple times all over him. And I'm still giving it hard to A, in what would turn out later to be a stunning machine-like performance for me.

I have A in multiple positions, and finally cum by pounding her hard in missionary, which I'm sure she enjoyed, but ya never know I guess. Mrs. Sunbuckus and G had gone at it again - and finished again - before I finished off with A.

At this point, all the drinks had run through me and I had to hurry off to the bathroom to pee. Which, as it turns out, is really hard to do with an erection that won't go away. I guess that's a blessing and a curse. I lay in bed afterwards, tired and pleased. A got dressed, I finally got dressed, and at the late hour we hurried home for the babysitter, only to find out she is going to spend the night and we could have played some more.

But we were both tired from the long day and decided against going back to the party.

Once home, I practically fell asleep in bed after a nice, hot shower. But darn if that Vitamin V was still in effect. I was practically asleep on the bed when Mrs. Sunbuckus came over and started sucking my cock hard. I had her keep at it for a bit and then let her get on top to ride me. I was practically asleep while she rode me, but my cock stayed hard. I asked her later if she liked that, and she said it wasn't as fun as she thought it would be. I could tell she liked it better if I moaned a bit, but I was so tired I didn't do much of that.

Eventually I turned her over and pounded her doggy style until I let loose another gusher of cum.

Totally satisifed and spent, I finally fell asleep for some much needed rest.

The next day, G and A thanked us for a nice evening. Mrs. Sunbuckus commented that she didn't feel jealous this time seeing me have sex with another women right next to her. I certainly didn't feel jealous of her - only jealous that she was getting some action while all the other women hung out outside and gabbed.

So there it was, a nice private house party. Now that we've been to one, we've decided that we might be able to host a small party with 4-5 couples at our home sometime in the future. I guess we'll find out as we travel this path down the swinging road.