We had an unexpected invite to a third house party after our most recent house party only the previous week. It included several of the couples from the previous week, plus our most frequent playmates, Mr. and Mrs. B. Having everyone we've met so far in one place certainly seemed intriguing.
At first we weren't sure if we would be able to make it, since we usually don't party on consecutive weekends. But Mrs. Sunubuckus was able to arrange a last-minute babysitter, so we decided to go ahead and go.
It was a long drive out to the house party, the furthest we've gone so far in the lifestyle. Mrs. Sunbuckus had decided beforehand that, although she would ask my permission to play, she wouldn't insist that she and I play together at the same time. That way she would be free to do her thing and I would be free to do my thing.
When we arrived at the party, we recognized the woman opening the door for us right away as being at the party the previous weekend. Hugs were exchanged and we entered the premises. Almost immediately upon entering, Mr. B approached us and said hi. I had not seen him in some time so I took a few minutes to get caught up and chat with him. I also saw Mr and Mrs C, whom we played with last weekend and we waved hello to each other. Mrs. Sunbuckus gave hugs to Mr B and Mr C, as well as a few others we had met before. We were introduced around to some of the other couples, but I honestly can't remember most of their names.
This home had a pool and hot tub, so I wanted to check that out. I went outside, and immediately saw a lovely naked woman floating on the pool. I looked around to see if Mrs. B was anywhere around, but I did not immediately see her in the couple of groups that were around there chatting. Since I had already toured the interior of the home, I knew she wasn't inside. Only then, by the power of deduction, did I realize that Mrs. B was the lovely figure floating around the pool! Sometimes having bad eyesight sucks, right?
So Mrs. B recognizes me and immediately says hi, and invites me into the pool. Now, I may not be very saavy with the women, as the case would be later, but I do know enough that when a beautiful naked woman invites you into the pool, you don't waste time.
So, here I am, haven't even been at the part 20 minutes, and I'm jumping back into the house getting naked and going out to the pool. By this time Mrs. B had moved to the hot tub, so I jump right in with her and Mr C and a couple of other ladies whose names I honestly do not remember. I get comfortable with her, and try my best to get other ladies to get comfortable with me, but I must be putting out some sort of creepy vibe that only Mrs B knows to ignore. After perhaps ten minutes in the pool, Mrs B sees Mr B about to play through one of the windows.
We went inside the house and saw Mr. B and a few ladies getting busy. Then some other people started getting busy. And some other people. Mrs. B took a small spot on the bed, and I started caressing her body. She was eventually able to work her legs apart so I could start fingering her. Well, she must have been extremely horny because I had not even fingered her for more than a minute or two before I could feel her squirting on my hand. She didn't have me stop, though, so I kept going and I could see her having another orgasm. But she still didn't tell me to stop, and she had another squirting orgasm.
At this time, Mrs Sunbuckus was playing with Mr C. What happened for the next hour or so I don't quite recall. I did try to chat up a few women, but no one seemed interested. Maybe I'm not charming enough? Maybe I'm not forceful enough, I dunno. I just know no one seemed to want to talk to me except a few of the guys, and I was pretty sure I wouldn't be playing with them. Mrs. Sunbuckus was trying to encourage me to get a playmate for the evening, and eventually Mrs B walked by and asked what was going on. Mrs Sunbuckus said she was trying to get me a playmate, at which point Mrs B simply took my hand and we found a place to play. She's very subtle like that.
This was about 10pm, give or take. Mrs B and I could only find some space where the hosts had layed out a few sheets and some pillows. We started kissing, and I let Mrs B stroke my cock until it got hard in her hand. I put on some protection and we started playtime. We played for a good long time. Mrs B must have orgasmed about 10 times while we were playing, and several of those I could feel her squirting warm juices on my cock. But I kept going, and Mrs B correctly guessed that I had taken a viagra which, with the alcohol, made me hard and long-lasting. I guess Mrs B didn't anticipate that, because I wore her out and possibly disappointed her to some extent because I didn't cum on demand for her (she asked several times for me to cum). I wasn't apologetic, though, as I finally turned the tables on her and gave her more than she could handle. When we finished, it was nearly 11pm, give or take, again, so we had been playing for most of an hour, which would be a good night for most swingers.
During this time that Mrs B and I had been playing, Mrs Sunbuckus did a little soft play with the host, which he enjoyed. Others came and went, watching us play, including Mr B, who just gave me a big smile while I had sex with his wife. Very odd sometimes, swinging is.
Well, my cock was still able to easily get hard after Mrs B played with me. So I spent the next hour or so trying to get other women to play with me. Now, I'm not exactly a hard body, but compared to many of the other men there, I could have easily been considered a boy toy, or at least someone without a beer belly. No takers. I had a hard time getting anyone to engage in a conversation with me. The most talking I did was with Mrs Sunbuckus. Not that I minded, but I could hear her disappointment in her voice when I told her that I hadn't gotten anyone else to play with me.
About 12:30 or so, I gave up, got dressed, gave hugs and kisses to Mr and Mrs B (I didn't kiss Mr B) and left the home. On the way home, I floated the idea of going to the swingers club so that I could finally cum with Mrs Sunbuckus. We chose that route since Mrs Sunbuckus' parents were watching the kids and would stay overnight. I didn't feel like having loud noisy sex with her parents in the house.
We went to the club, which, as usual, was hopping with a maybe a dozen or so women and maybe three dozen or so men. We played a bit in the couples room where others could see us, then decided to take the "Fish Bowl" bedroom, a room with beds and a window so others could see us having sex. Three months ago we wouldn't have done that, but after having been to three house parties and letting others watch us, it almost seemed normal, except Mrs Sunbuckus wouldn't give the guys a show and let them watch my cock go into her pussy. Oh well...
So, the aftermath, the evaluation of the house party. Overall, if you want to consider it a success, I would have to say, yes, I played, and Mrs Sunbuckus played, so in that respect, it was a success. Did I play with someone new? No. Mrs Sunbuckus did not, either, although she sort of played with another man but he couldn't get it up, and she soft-played with the host.
However, in the maybe too-much self-examination aftermath, I think I have some issues with the crowd we played with, apart from Mr and Mrs B. First of all, they almost all, to a T, seemed to be more interested in Mrs Sunbuckus and not so much I. Is that partly due to my somewhat guarded personality around new people? Sure. But I also think asian men aren't as accepted into the lifestyle. More than once did women slink away from me. One does it, sure, maybe they just don't like you. But once it starts happening all the time, it does become disheartening. I know if I could engage some of them in some conversation, that I could probably make them feel differently, but I just don't seem to have the knack for breaking into their conversation, for one, and for just attracting women to me, for two. I'm not the kind of person who goes into a bar and leaves with a woman I've never met, and I don't think I ever will be. Most of the other couples were white, and they tended to play with the white guys. On one level, I don't blame them for knowing what they like, on another level, isn't part of being in the lifestyle trying out new things? And I like to think that, for many of the women, I am a new thing. It was not to be, however.
Mrs Sunbuckus says I just need to be more forceful, something I've never really been in pursuing a woman. In order to be more successful, I have to break a lifelong behavior of being polite and respectful around women, trying to minimize the sexualization of the situations. Yes, many of the women were sitting around naked, which sort of automatically sexualizes the situation, but seriously. Coming into their personal space and trying to break the ice has never come naturally to me. It's going to take some time to unlearn this habit. In the meantime, it looks like I may miss out on lots of opportunities.
Mrs Sunbuckus says I need to get out there and play with other people. I have assured her that I would like to. But in the meantime, if I only play with Mrs B, who confided in me why she was attracted to me in the first place, I am more than happy. At least I know she is attracted to me physically, which does make me feel better about myself. It also makes me so very, very glad that we met them when we did.
I think that our next move will be to get around to larger parties, since there will be a better chance of a compatible couple liking both of us, and to do individual dates with other couples, since their focus will be on us and it will be much more difficult for them to wander off and talk to other people. Small house parties can be fun, but I think it's best when you know - and have played with - at least two or three of the couples there. I also will try to be more forward in engaging the women, but no promises in unlearning a lifetime's behavior in a short amount of time.
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