So far, most of the people we have personally met in the Lifestyle have been pleasant and kind. That's a good thing. However, going through the profiles on the swinging websites we have membership at, I wonder sometimes if some of these people are for real.
In particular, I am referring to couples who "Only want a woman to play with my wife" or "A wife with a hall pass." There was a profile that said "She likes to play with women and see her man pleasure another woman." Since about 90% of the profiles are couples or single men, I wonder if this tactic ever works. Seeing as how single women are considered unicorns for their rarity, and the arrogance of saying that you'll only play with single women, it seems like this tactic probably doesn't work very well.
In fact, we receieved an email from another couple with this very type of profile. The basics are that they only want single females, or couples, but only for watching. The underlying presumption is that the other man is not going to get playtime, only his wife. I know maybe some couples like to do that, but for the most part, we've found the best couples are the ones who play together, not separately.
So, I replied to their email stating we're a full-swap couple only. They replied that with the right chemistry they would be ok with a full-swap. But the damage had been done by their profile. I never replied to them knowing that they might "full swap" a couple of times, but then constantly want Mrs. Sunbuckus to play without me.
Wednesday, April 4, 2012
Monday, April 2, 2012
Mrs. Sunbuckus: Our Second House Party
Mrs. Sunbuckus here. Ever since our first house party and finding that the couple, Mr. and Mrs. B lived so close by and played separately, I have been playing roughly 1-2 times every week since. Personally, I had been getting a little burned out and wanted a break. I wanted to reconnect with Mr. Sunbuckus so I had considered playing one last time this past Saturday and then not playing until our next party on the 21st of April.
I had intel that there would be a private house party after a meet and greet in the east side of town. Originally, we did not plan on going to the meet and greet because it was so far away and our first meet and greet wasn't really as fun as compared to our house party experience. (As Mr. Sunbuckus says, why go to a meet and greet when you can go to a meet and fuck?)
The person who had passed the intel onto me is considered a unicorn (single female) but she has been a bit flaky at times. Well, the morning of the meet and greet, we received an email inviting us to a house party from a couple we haven't met before but one that we had expressed some interest in but never contacted them. Mr. Sunbuckus and I were more than happy to skip the meet and greet to go. The only thing they asked was that we bring a dish for everyone to eat. How exciting...but I was also getting nervous as the time got closer. Were we going to be able to come out of our reserved shells to hit it with other couples? Would we even attract any interest from others? And would we be attracted to anyone? I shared my thoughts to Mr. B and he told us to "Be active" and "Be brave."
The dress I had originally bought to wear to the meet and greet, I decided to wear to the party anyways, even if it was a bit too dressy for the occasion. After all, when am I going to get another chance to wear it anytime soon?? As it turned out, it was quite the hit with the males at the party. But we'll get to that.
We are pretty punctual people so we arrived right on time but didn't really want to be the first couple to "go in" since we didn't know anyone. Well, after sitting in the car for a few minutes, we bit the bullet and went in anyways. We were able to chat with the hosts for a while before anyone else arrived and it was nice. At first, I didn't find the male host to be particularly attractive but he was very nice and as I got more comfortable with him, I found that I wouldn't mind playing with him if he asked.
Then, other couples started to pour in. It was close to about an hour after the "starting time". Personally, I was hoping to start playing about an hour in but it was just at that time that couples were just arriving. Argh. Mr. and Mrs. C, the couple that invited us, arrived and I was a bit disappointed in the male half, again. And it felt like Mrs. C wasn't friendly at all to me at first. She was mostly interested in chatting with the wife-host since they are good friends. Probably about 9:30, the majority of the couples had arrived. In all, there were 7 other couples besides us. One couple, I recognized the male half from our first house party. I remembered him because I had a slight interest in him the first time but I thought he was a single male so I kind of just dismissed him. Imagine my surprise when I found out after the party that he was part of a couple. We did talk with him and his wife but I wasn't quite feeling it for the male half after chatting with him a bit. He seemed dazed, in my opinion. His wife seemed nice, after she talked to us for a little bit. At first, I thought she was a bit stand-offish until she stopped to talk to us.
The majority of us stood around the kitchen island, chatting and laughing. I found it very pleasant but I think Mr. Sunbuckus was bored. He wanted to know when we would start playing. I enjoyed the conversation and company. I wanted to play too, especially since I knew we didn't want to get home too late but I wanted to forge some kind of friendship with these couples so we could be invited to other parties in the future.
Eventually, some couples went to some of the bedrooms to play. However, about 4-5 women went out to the backyard patio to talk. Mr. C, the male half of the couple that invited us to the house party, started to rub my back. I had noticed that he stood to my left and kept looking at me. But I wasn't sure how to really break the ice so I kind of let him take the lead in conversation and touching. I put my back to him and began to rub my bottom against him to show him that I was interested. I could feel his erection through our clothing, which was stimulating. Another reason why I faced away from him though is so I could look at Mr. Sunbuckus and make sure he was okay. I felt guilty that he wasn't playing with anyone yet. And so, that's probably how it went on for at least 20 minutes, Mr. C and a few of the other males fondling and rubbing me, wanting to play. I had to hold them off, telling them that I wasn't going to play unless Mr. Sunbuckus also had a playmate. Mr. C encouraged Mr. Sunbuckus to go out to the back patio to talk and convince the other women to come in. While he was away, one male kneeled down behind me and wanted to lick my asshole. Another male came to rub and nibble at my nipples. And Mr. C did a little oral, nipple play, and fingered me. While he was fingering me, we were all in the same room as the mini-orgy (3 couples) going on in the bedroom, the not-really-standoffish woman was watching Mr. C finger me and was telling me to relax and squirt...to concentrate on what he was doing. Well, that did it and I squirted right there, standing up. That was very new for me, since I had only experienced squirting while riding on top of my male partners. Mr. C was very ecstatic and really wanted to play right then and there. I told him that I still wouldn't play unless Mr. Sunbuckus was playing too. He tried to put me at ease and say that he was probably in the other room getting his brains fucked but I told him to make sure by looking outside. Sure enough, he was outside with the other women. Mr. C pressured Mrs. C to play with Mr. Sunbuckus so we could play.
Looking back, I feel bad about how that went down. I didn't want anyone to feel pressured. Even Mrs. C commented about how she felt pressured to play and I told her that we can slow down if she wanted. Well, somehow, we all got onto the bed and started playing. Mr. C and I started missionary and I tried to show him that I was more than willing to hold my legs in the air for him. He was nice enough to ask me what my favorite position was...I responded that as long as a cock was inside, I was happy. So, we did missionary and doggy style. However, he doesn't have the stamina that Mr. B has and had to ask a few times if I could be on top so he could rest. I was more than happy to oblige and soon enough, I was squirting all over him. Throughout the time we were playing, I would notice that the males that were rubbing on me earlier kept popping in to watch, as if they wanted their turn. Thinking about it now, I probably should have invited them over to play and maybe I could have engaged in a MFMM. Mr. C and I rotated between positions again and eventually, he came. We chatted a bit and fondled while Mr. Sunbuckus and Mrs. C were still playing. After awhile, Mr. C wanted to play again so he put on another condom and we went for round 2. When he needed a break again, I was on top and squirted several times. Mr. C seemed to really enjoy all the wetness on him. However, he didn't cum again with me. I think he was tired and needed a break from playing. So, once Mr. Sunbuckus and Mrs. C finished, we all sat or laid on the bed chatting. Mr. Sunbuckus took note of the time, and decided we should get going. I was a bit disappointed that we wouldn't get to play with anyone else but hopefully we will get invited by the hosts again for their next party.
I had a lot of fun at the party and I didn't feel any jealousy at all. Of course, maybe I was too busy having my own fun to really see what Mr. Sunbuckus was doing. I do know he enjoyed Mrs. C's triple D breasts. Okay, maybe I was jealous...but not of what Mr. Sunbuckus was doing but of Mrs. C's big breasts. I wish I had such beautiful breasts! I know Mr. Sunbuckus would love them, too. But that's another topic that I've written about and one that I go back and forth on....
I can't wait until our next house party or our next playtime...which is tomorrow night!
I had intel that there would be a private house party after a meet and greet in the east side of town. Originally, we did not plan on going to the meet and greet because it was so far away and our first meet and greet wasn't really as fun as compared to our house party experience. (As Mr. Sunbuckus says, why go to a meet and greet when you can go to a meet and fuck?)
The person who had passed the intel onto me is considered a unicorn (single female) but she has been a bit flaky at times. Well, the morning of the meet and greet, we received an email inviting us to a house party from a couple we haven't met before but one that we had expressed some interest in but never contacted them. Mr. Sunbuckus and I were more than happy to skip the meet and greet to go. The only thing they asked was that we bring a dish for everyone to eat. How exciting...but I was also getting nervous as the time got closer. Were we going to be able to come out of our reserved shells to hit it with other couples? Would we even attract any interest from others? And would we be attracted to anyone? I shared my thoughts to Mr. B and he told us to "Be active" and "Be brave."
The dress I had originally bought to wear to the meet and greet, I decided to wear to the party anyways, even if it was a bit too dressy for the occasion. After all, when am I going to get another chance to wear it anytime soon?? As it turned out, it was quite the hit with the males at the party. But we'll get to that.
We are pretty punctual people so we arrived right on time but didn't really want to be the first couple to "go in" since we didn't know anyone. Well, after sitting in the car for a few minutes, we bit the bullet and went in anyways. We were able to chat with the hosts for a while before anyone else arrived and it was nice. At first, I didn't find the male host to be particularly attractive but he was very nice and as I got more comfortable with him, I found that I wouldn't mind playing with him if he asked.
Then, other couples started to pour in. It was close to about an hour after the "starting time". Personally, I was hoping to start playing about an hour in but it was just at that time that couples were just arriving. Argh. Mr. and Mrs. C, the couple that invited us, arrived and I was a bit disappointed in the male half, again. And it felt like Mrs. C wasn't friendly at all to me at first. She was mostly interested in chatting with the wife-host since they are good friends. Probably about 9:30, the majority of the couples had arrived. In all, there were 7 other couples besides us. One couple, I recognized the male half from our first house party. I remembered him because I had a slight interest in him the first time but I thought he was a single male so I kind of just dismissed him. Imagine my surprise when I found out after the party that he was part of a couple. We did talk with him and his wife but I wasn't quite feeling it for the male half after chatting with him a bit. He seemed dazed, in my opinion. His wife seemed nice, after she talked to us for a little bit. At first, I thought she was a bit stand-offish until she stopped to talk to us.
The majority of us stood around the kitchen island, chatting and laughing. I found it very pleasant but I think Mr. Sunbuckus was bored. He wanted to know when we would start playing. I enjoyed the conversation and company. I wanted to play too, especially since I knew we didn't want to get home too late but I wanted to forge some kind of friendship with these couples so we could be invited to other parties in the future.
Eventually, some couples went to some of the bedrooms to play. However, about 4-5 women went out to the backyard patio to talk. Mr. C, the male half of the couple that invited us to the house party, started to rub my back. I had noticed that he stood to my left and kept looking at me. But I wasn't sure how to really break the ice so I kind of let him take the lead in conversation and touching. I put my back to him and began to rub my bottom against him to show him that I was interested. I could feel his erection through our clothing, which was stimulating. Another reason why I faced away from him though is so I could look at Mr. Sunbuckus and make sure he was okay. I felt guilty that he wasn't playing with anyone yet. And so, that's probably how it went on for at least 20 minutes, Mr. C and a few of the other males fondling and rubbing me, wanting to play. I had to hold them off, telling them that I wasn't going to play unless Mr. Sunbuckus also had a playmate. Mr. C encouraged Mr. Sunbuckus to go out to the back patio to talk and convince the other women to come in. While he was away, one male kneeled down behind me and wanted to lick my asshole. Another male came to rub and nibble at my nipples. And Mr. C did a little oral, nipple play, and fingered me. While he was fingering me, we were all in the same room as the mini-orgy (3 couples) going on in the bedroom, the not-really-standoffish woman was watching Mr. C finger me and was telling me to relax and squirt...to concentrate on what he was doing. Well, that did it and I squirted right there, standing up. That was very new for me, since I had only experienced squirting while riding on top of my male partners. Mr. C was very ecstatic and really wanted to play right then and there. I told him that I still wouldn't play unless Mr. Sunbuckus was playing too. He tried to put me at ease and say that he was probably in the other room getting his brains fucked but I told him to make sure by looking outside. Sure enough, he was outside with the other women. Mr. C pressured Mrs. C to play with Mr. Sunbuckus so we could play.
Looking back, I feel bad about how that went down. I didn't want anyone to feel pressured. Even Mrs. C commented about how she felt pressured to play and I told her that we can slow down if she wanted. Well, somehow, we all got onto the bed and started playing. Mr. C and I started missionary and I tried to show him that I was more than willing to hold my legs in the air for him. He was nice enough to ask me what my favorite position was...I responded that as long as a cock was inside, I was happy. So, we did missionary and doggy style. However, he doesn't have the stamina that Mr. B has and had to ask a few times if I could be on top so he could rest. I was more than happy to oblige and soon enough, I was squirting all over him. Throughout the time we were playing, I would notice that the males that were rubbing on me earlier kept popping in to watch, as if they wanted their turn. Thinking about it now, I probably should have invited them over to play and maybe I could have engaged in a MFMM. Mr. C and I rotated between positions again and eventually, he came. We chatted a bit and fondled while Mr. Sunbuckus and Mrs. C were still playing. After awhile, Mr. C wanted to play again so he put on another condom and we went for round 2. When he needed a break again, I was on top and squirted several times. Mr. C seemed to really enjoy all the wetness on him. However, he didn't cum again with me. I think he was tired and needed a break from playing. So, once Mr. Sunbuckus and Mrs. C finished, we all sat or laid on the bed chatting. Mr. Sunbuckus took note of the time, and decided we should get going. I was a bit disappointed that we wouldn't get to play with anyone else but hopefully we will get invited by the hosts again for their next party.
I had a lot of fun at the party and I didn't feel any jealousy at all. Of course, maybe I was too busy having my own fun to really see what Mr. Sunbuckus was doing. I do know he enjoyed Mrs. C's triple D breasts. Okay, maybe I was jealous...but not of what Mr. Sunbuckus was doing but of Mrs. C's big breasts. I wish I had such beautiful breasts! I know Mr. Sunbuckus would love them, too. But that's another topic that I've written about and one that I go back and forth on....
I can't wait until our next house party or our next playtime...which is tomorrow night!
Private House Party
This previous Saturday, we had planned on going to a Meet and Greet across town. One of our contacts from the previous house party had said that she and some other friends would be having a little get-together afterwards. However, she never replied to let us know if we were invited or not.
So we posted a hot date about five days before the meet and greet saying that we were looking for a couple to host afterwards.
So the days pass by, and no responses to the date.
Finally, on the day of the meet and greet, we get email from another couple. They saw our hot date, read our profile and decided to invite us to a small private house party on the other other side of town from the meet and greet. Closer to us, but still far away.
As luck would have it, the couple that invited us to the private house party had been one we were sort of interested in, but hadn't sent any email.
Mrs. Sunbuckus and I quickly decided that a small house party would be way more fun than a meet and greet, especially considering that there was no guarantee of an invite after the meet and greet. So we ditched the meet and greet.
That left us about an extra hour at home, which we used to "Doll" ourselves up (and take care of some trimming down below...)
We headed out to the private house party and ended up being the first couple there besides the host. We chatted it up with them and had chips and salsa while we waited for other couples to arrive. The host couple were in their 40's, he a tall hispanic man and she a full-figured redhead. They explained how it's not that often that they get a free house, due to their kids living at home. We thanked them for hosting.
Eventually, the other couples started trickling in. There was the couple that invited us, an older couple from Las Vegas, and a couple that we had previously met at the house party. There was also a black couple, and a blonde German woman and her hispanic husband. I just about freaked out when I found out she is a grandma, because she was smoking hot. I said "Man, that's a grandma I'd like to fuck!"
So conversation is going, booze is flowing, music is playing. Eventually two couples go off to play in the master bedroom. They are quickly joined by some other men. And for some reason, other than Mrs. Sunbuckus, all the other ladies go out to the patio and start talking about movies.
WTH? While this is going on, the husband of the couple that invited us, we'll call him G, starts rubbing up against Mrs. Sunbuckus and I can see she is enjoying it. She then makes sure to note that she won't start playing until I start playing. Which was really nice of her. I ask G what is up with all the women going outside to talk, and he tells me I should go round them up and get them back inside.
So I step outside, and try to get the ladies back into the house. But for some reason, my logic doesn't make sense to them. Maybe I was too drunk, not really sure at that point. So I kind of stand around dejectedly, and then Mrs. Sunbuckus and G appear at the door, stark naked, and they're like "Hey, what's taking you so long?"
Somehow, the ladies finally start filtering in, and by this time the master bedroom is free, so G asks his wife to help out so he can get started. She starts to strip down and before I know it she is sucking my cock. But not too long. I ask her if she wants her pussy licked, but instead she asks to ride my cock, which at this time, thanks to Vitamin V, is rock hard. So I agree, get a cover, she lubes up her pussy and she starts to ride. As she starts, she plants a big kiss on my lips. I do love to kiss! She continues to kiss my off and on throughout the whole time we played, even sucking my whole tongue into her mouth.
Thanks to the combination of Vitamin V and alcohol, which I usually don't drink, not only am I hard as a rock the whole time, I also am having a hard time cumming. But G's wife, A, is the lucky recipient of the long-lasting erection. She has to lube up a second time at some point throughout.
Meanwhile, Mrs. Sunbuckus and G are going crazy next to us, with Mrs. Sunbuckus being especially vocal, moaning loudly. I know G has already cum once, and Mrs. Sunbuckus has squirted multiple times all over him. And I'm still giving it hard to A, in what would turn out later to be a stunning machine-like performance for me.
I have A in multiple positions, and finally cum by pounding her hard in missionary, which I'm sure she enjoyed, but ya never know I guess. Mrs. Sunbuckus and G had gone at it again - and finished again - before I finished off with A.
At this point, all the drinks had run through me and I had to hurry off to the bathroom to pee. Which, as it turns out, is really hard to do with an erection that won't go away. I guess that's a blessing and a curse. I lay in bed afterwards, tired and pleased. A got dressed, I finally got dressed, and at the late hour we hurried home for the babysitter, only to find out she is going to spend the night and we could have played some more.
But we were both tired from the long day and decided against going back to the party.
Once home, I practically fell asleep in bed after a nice, hot shower. But darn if that Vitamin V was still in effect. I was practically asleep on the bed when Mrs. Sunbuckus came over and started sucking my cock hard. I had her keep at it for a bit and then let her get on top to ride me. I was practically asleep while she rode me, but my cock stayed hard. I asked her later if she liked that, and she said it wasn't as fun as she thought it would be. I could tell she liked it better if I moaned a bit, but I was so tired I didn't do much of that.
Eventually I turned her over and pounded her doggy style until I let loose another gusher of cum.
Totally satisifed and spent, I finally fell asleep for some much needed rest.
The next day, G and A thanked us for a nice evening. Mrs. Sunbuckus commented that she didn't feel jealous this time seeing me have sex with another women right next to her. I certainly didn't feel jealous of her - only jealous that she was getting some action while all the other women hung out outside and gabbed.
So there it was, a nice private house party. Now that we've been to one, we've decided that we might be able to host a small party with 4-5 couples at our home sometime in the future. I guess we'll find out as we travel this path down the swinging road.
So we posted a hot date about five days before the meet and greet saying that we were looking for a couple to host afterwards.
So the days pass by, and no responses to the date.
Finally, on the day of the meet and greet, we get email from another couple. They saw our hot date, read our profile and decided to invite us to a small private house party on the other other side of town from the meet and greet. Closer to us, but still far away.
As luck would have it, the couple that invited us to the private house party had been one we were sort of interested in, but hadn't sent any email.
Mrs. Sunbuckus and I quickly decided that a small house party would be way more fun than a meet and greet, especially considering that there was no guarantee of an invite after the meet and greet. So we ditched the meet and greet.
That left us about an extra hour at home, which we used to "Doll" ourselves up (and take care of some trimming down below...)
We headed out to the private house party and ended up being the first couple there besides the host. We chatted it up with them and had chips and salsa while we waited for other couples to arrive. The host couple were in their 40's, he a tall hispanic man and she a full-figured redhead. They explained how it's not that often that they get a free house, due to their kids living at home. We thanked them for hosting.
Eventually, the other couples started trickling in. There was the couple that invited us, an older couple from Las Vegas, and a couple that we had previously met at the house party. There was also a black couple, and a blonde German woman and her hispanic husband. I just about freaked out when I found out she is a grandma, because she was smoking hot. I said "Man, that's a grandma I'd like to fuck!"
So conversation is going, booze is flowing, music is playing. Eventually two couples go off to play in the master bedroom. They are quickly joined by some other men. And for some reason, other than Mrs. Sunbuckus, all the other ladies go out to the patio and start talking about movies.
WTH? While this is going on, the husband of the couple that invited us, we'll call him G, starts rubbing up against Mrs. Sunbuckus and I can see she is enjoying it. She then makes sure to note that she won't start playing until I start playing. Which was really nice of her. I ask G what is up with all the women going outside to talk, and he tells me I should go round them up and get them back inside.
So I step outside, and try to get the ladies back into the house. But for some reason, my logic doesn't make sense to them. Maybe I was too drunk, not really sure at that point. So I kind of stand around dejectedly, and then Mrs. Sunbuckus and G appear at the door, stark naked, and they're like "Hey, what's taking you so long?"
Somehow, the ladies finally start filtering in, and by this time the master bedroom is free, so G asks his wife to help out so he can get started. She starts to strip down and before I know it she is sucking my cock. But not too long. I ask her if she wants her pussy licked, but instead she asks to ride my cock, which at this time, thanks to Vitamin V, is rock hard. So I agree, get a cover, she lubes up her pussy and she starts to ride. As she starts, she plants a big kiss on my lips. I do love to kiss! She continues to kiss my off and on throughout the whole time we played, even sucking my whole tongue into her mouth.
Thanks to the combination of Vitamin V and alcohol, which I usually don't drink, not only am I hard as a rock the whole time, I also am having a hard time cumming. But G's wife, A, is the lucky recipient of the long-lasting erection. She has to lube up a second time at some point throughout.
Meanwhile, Mrs. Sunbuckus and G are going crazy next to us, with Mrs. Sunbuckus being especially vocal, moaning loudly. I know G has already cum once, and Mrs. Sunbuckus has squirted multiple times all over him. And I'm still giving it hard to A, in what would turn out later to be a stunning machine-like performance for me.
I have A in multiple positions, and finally cum by pounding her hard in missionary, which I'm sure she enjoyed, but ya never know I guess. Mrs. Sunbuckus and G had gone at it again - and finished again - before I finished off with A.
At this point, all the drinks had run through me and I had to hurry off to the bathroom to pee. Which, as it turns out, is really hard to do with an erection that won't go away. I guess that's a blessing and a curse. I lay in bed afterwards, tired and pleased. A got dressed, I finally got dressed, and at the late hour we hurried home for the babysitter, only to find out she is going to spend the night and we could have played some more.
But we were both tired from the long day and decided against going back to the party.
Once home, I practically fell asleep in bed after a nice, hot shower. But darn if that Vitamin V was still in effect. I was practically asleep on the bed when Mrs. Sunbuckus came over and started sucking my cock hard. I had her keep at it for a bit and then let her get on top to ride me. I was practically asleep while she rode me, but my cock stayed hard. I asked her later if she liked that, and she said it wasn't as fun as she thought it would be. I could tell she liked it better if I moaned a bit, but I was so tired I didn't do much of that.
Eventually I turned her over and pounded her doggy style until I let loose another gusher of cum.
Totally satisifed and spent, I finally fell asleep for some much needed rest.
The next day, G and A thanked us for a nice evening. Mrs. Sunbuckus commented that she didn't feel jealous this time seeing me have sex with another women right next to her. I certainly didn't feel jealous of her - only jealous that she was getting some action while all the other women hung out outside and gabbed.
So there it was, a nice private house party. Now that we've been to one, we've decided that we might be able to host a small party with 4-5 couples at our home sometime in the future. I guess we'll find out as we travel this path down the swinging road.
Sunday, March 25, 2012
Why Women Love the Lifestyle
The saying goes, "You drag your wife by the hair to a swingers club, and then you have to drag her by the hair to get her out." And from more than one source, we've heard that women run the lifestyle. So, why is it that women embrace it and love it?
Plain and simple...it reminds us that we are beautiful and attractive, no matter our size, shape, color, lumps, and bumps. Even the most beautiful woman has something that she is insecure about and being in the lifestyle, there is always someone that will find them attractive...some more than others but bottom line, there's at least one other man out there that will find you attractive enough to boink.
Many of us are women who have gone through some kind of body transformation--be it child birth, surgery, weight gain/loss--and we want to be reaffirmed that we are still physically attractive. I know it sounds vain but when we are in a relationship, the compliments we receive from our significant other tends to feel forced or expected. When compliments come from a stranger, out of the blue, it seems more genuine. For example, Mr. Sunbuckus will compliment me whenever I take extra care to pretty myself up. As much as I love and appreciate the compliments, it almost always feels like he feels like he has to say them. In contrast, I can think of three separate occasions when I have been complimented unexpectedly and they are ones I will remember for a long time. One was when I was lying down, propping up my head up and gazing down at my partner and he suddenly said, "You're beautiful." Another time, was when Mrs. B (from our play couple) said, "[Mr. Sunbuckus] wants to play bareback with his gorgeous wife." And the third time was when Mr. B and I were talking about the hickeys I had given to him during our playtime. He was commenting on how those at work out tease him about them and he blame them on a vampire but then mentioned that he might slip up and say that a gorgeous Asian woman had left them on him. Those are the moments when compliments feel most sincere.
In the past, I have always questioned whether I was physically attractive. I have been obese most of my life and was never approached by a boy in school to go out on a date. In fact, Mr. Sunbuckus and I met online and fell in love. So, I have always wondered if I was able to physically attract anyone. Truth be told, I have even posted a picture of myself on Craigslist, just asking men if they found me attractive, nothing more. Most of the responses were reassuring but it didn't last very long and I would question myself again because pictures are one thing but in person, when the whole package is in front of someone is a different matter.
I am still insecure in how I appear. There are so many parts of my body that I am ashamed of that I can't list them all. I know that Mr. Sunbuckus will bed me because I'm his wife but it is encouraging to know that at least one other male out there is willing to play with me several times, even after he has seen the stretch marks, saggy skin, and extra baggage that my body bears.
Plain and simple...it reminds us that we are beautiful and attractive, no matter our size, shape, color, lumps, and bumps. Even the most beautiful woman has something that she is insecure about and being in the lifestyle, there is always someone that will find them attractive...some more than others but bottom line, there's at least one other man out there that will find you attractive enough to boink.
Many of us are women who have gone through some kind of body transformation--be it child birth, surgery, weight gain/loss--and we want to be reaffirmed that we are still physically attractive. I know it sounds vain but when we are in a relationship, the compliments we receive from our significant other tends to feel forced or expected. When compliments come from a stranger, out of the blue, it seems more genuine. For example, Mr. Sunbuckus will compliment me whenever I take extra care to pretty myself up. As much as I love and appreciate the compliments, it almost always feels like he feels like he has to say them. In contrast, I can think of three separate occasions when I have been complimented unexpectedly and they are ones I will remember for a long time. One was when I was lying down, propping up my head up and gazing down at my partner and he suddenly said, "You're beautiful." Another time, was when Mrs. B (from our play couple) said, "[Mr. Sunbuckus] wants to play bareback with his gorgeous wife." And the third time was when Mr. B and I were talking about the hickeys I had given to him during our playtime. He was commenting on how those at work out tease him about them and he blame them on a vampire but then mentioned that he might slip up and say that a gorgeous Asian woman had left them on him. Those are the moments when compliments feel most sincere.
In the past, I have always questioned whether I was physically attractive. I have been obese most of my life and was never approached by a boy in school to go out on a date. In fact, Mr. Sunbuckus and I met online and fell in love. So, I have always wondered if I was able to physically attract anyone. Truth be told, I have even posted a picture of myself on Craigslist, just asking men if they found me attractive, nothing more. Most of the responses were reassuring but it didn't last very long and I would question myself again because pictures are one thing but in person, when the whole package is in front of someone is a different matter.
I am still insecure in how I appear. There are so many parts of my body that I am ashamed of that I can't list them all. I know that Mr. Sunbuckus will bed me because I'm his wife but it is encouraging to know that at least one other male out there is willing to play with me several times, even after he has seen the stretch marks, saggy skin, and extra baggage that my body bears.
Thursday, March 22, 2012
Hall Pass
Mr. Sunbuckus has given me a hall pass to play with Mr. B, whenever and how ever many times. Of course, I would still ask to make sure he is okay with it and see what restrictions he places on me. I am a bit surprised that he would give me a hall pass but I also think some of it stems from the fact that Mr. B is married, is respectful, and doesn't play as often as his wife. From what we gathered, she (Mrs. B) goes on dates with her boyfriend at least once a week, sometimes meets him for coffee before work on some days, and overall, plays 5x as much as Mr. B does. So, the caring part of us kind of makes us want to watch out for our new friend and try to get him some playtime. Of course, that gives me extra playtime so I'm trying to find someone for Mr. Sunbuckus to have extra playtime with since Mrs. B is too busy with her boyfriend play most of the time to do a full swap.
Anyway, Mr. B hadn't played since the last time I went over to tease him and had him cum on my stomach. And I felt really bad for having Mrs. B come over last night for our FMF threesome when it was supposed to be his night out. So, this afternoon, I directly told him that he would need to tell me if he wanted to play, as well. It couldn't always be me! He asked if I could come over at 9. We had tentative plans with another couple coming over but I didn't think they would come over since the wife wasn't feel well. I told him that I could be available. I asked permission of Mr. Sunbuckus and Mrs. B and proceeded from there. Once the kids were in bed, I took a shower and started to get ready. As I was showering, I felt some nervousness on my part. Before, I had gone with the intention of just teasing, with no full on sex. Tonight was different and I had a bout of cold feet for a minute until I started thinking about what I should wear. I had already planned on wearing a short skirt and going pantiless. I was considering going braless as well but I don't like how I look without one on. When I was almost ready to go, Mr. Sunbuckus was excited and gave me a quick "goodbye" pumping before leaving.
When I got there, Mrs. B had already left for work and Mr. B was watching an SNL episode. I rubbed his shoulders a bit and nuzzled his neck. We chatted for a bit and right when he was going to lead me to the bedroom, Mrs. B came in and joked that Mr. B was being a slut. She had forgotten to take her medicine. I gave her a small kiss before she left again. Then Mr. B laid on the bed, requesting a massage. I was sitting on top of him, moving my hips against his ass while I rubbed his back. I got him to take off his shirt and it was more enjoyable for the both of us. Eventually, he turned onto his back and I was really able to tease him by getting completely naked and grinding my pussy on his cock through his shorts. It may have been torturous for him but he had a big smile on his face throughout.
Eventually, I removed his shorts and placed my bare pussy on top of his cock. He seemed worried that I was putting him inside me without a condom but I reassured him that just because we were naked didn't mean he was going in just yet. He agreed and relaxed while I rubbed, stroked, kissed, sucked, and teased him all over.
After about 30-45 minutes of teasing, I let him pound me as hard and fast as he could. Surprisingly, we did do several positions but kept going back to doggy and he lasted longer than I thought he would. Of course, he was trying not to cum and wanted to see how long he could last. Perhaps another time, I wanted him to cum and he did...it shot all the way from my bum to the top of my right shoulder. Even he was surprised.
He cleaned me up and we laid in bed and chatted for awhile. I mostly listened and rubbed his body to get him excited again. He asked me if I wanted to play again but I told him I was teasing him for the next time. If I knew he didn't have to wake up early for school and myself for the kids, I probably would have been more willing to play again that session but I had already been there for almost 2 hours. I wanted to get home to Jason and feel him fuck me bareback and to reconnect and reassure him.
It was definitely nice to be away from the house and go out on my own for a little while. A nice reminder that I was more than just a mom, especially after the night/day that I had. And I owe this little piece of "vacation" to my wonderful husband, Mr. Sunbuckus.
Anyway, Mr. B hadn't played since the last time I went over to tease him and had him cum on my stomach. And I felt really bad for having Mrs. B come over last night for our FMF threesome when it was supposed to be his night out. So, this afternoon, I directly told him that he would need to tell me if he wanted to play, as well. It couldn't always be me! He asked if I could come over at 9. We had tentative plans with another couple coming over but I didn't think they would come over since the wife wasn't feel well. I told him that I could be available. I asked permission of Mr. Sunbuckus and Mrs. B and proceeded from there. Once the kids were in bed, I took a shower and started to get ready. As I was showering, I felt some nervousness on my part. Before, I had gone with the intention of just teasing, with no full on sex. Tonight was different and I had a bout of cold feet for a minute until I started thinking about what I should wear. I had already planned on wearing a short skirt and going pantiless. I was considering going braless as well but I don't like how I look without one on. When I was almost ready to go, Mr. Sunbuckus was excited and gave me a quick "goodbye" pumping before leaving.
When I got there, Mrs. B had already left for work and Mr. B was watching an SNL episode. I rubbed his shoulders a bit and nuzzled his neck. We chatted for a bit and right when he was going to lead me to the bedroom, Mrs. B came in and joked that Mr. B was being a slut. She had forgotten to take her medicine. I gave her a small kiss before she left again. Then Mr. B laid on the bed, requesting a massage. I was sitting on top of him, moving my hips against his ass while I rubbed his back. I got him to take off his shirt and it was more enjoyable for the both of us. Eventually, he turned onto his back and I was really able to tease him by getting completely naked and grinding my pussy on his cock through his shorts. It may have been torturous for him but he had a big smile on his face throughout.
Eventually, I removed his shorts and placed my bare pussy on top of his cock. He seemed worried that I was putting him inside me without a condom but I reassured him that just because we were naked didn't mean he was going in just yet. He agreed and relaxed while I rubbed, stroked, kissed, sucked, and teased him all over.
After about 30-45 minutes of teasing, I let him pound me as hard and fast as he could. Surprisingly, we did do several positions but kept going back to doggy and he lasted longer than I thought he would. Of course, he was trying not to cum and wanted to see how long he could last. Perhaps another time, I wanted him to cum and he did...it shot all the way from my bum to the top of my right shoulder. Even he was surprised.
He cleaned me up and we laid in bed and chatted for awhile. I mostly listened and rubbed his body to get him excited again. He asked me if I wanted to play again but I told him I was teasing him for the next time. If I knew he didn't have to wake up early for school and myself for the kids, I probably would have been more willing to play again that session but I had already been there for almost 2 hours. I wanted to get home to Jason and feel him fuck me bareback and to reconnect and reassure him.
It was definitely nice to be away from the house and go out on my own for a little while. A nice reminder that I was more than just a mom, especially after the night/day that I had. And I owe this little piece of "vacation" to my wonderful husband, Mr. Sunbuckus.
Wednesday, March 21, 2012
Finally, a FMF Threesome
Mrs. Sunbuckus here. Two weeks ago, I had my MFM threesome, so ever since, I've been wanting to return the great gift that Mr. Sunbuckus gave me and have him experience a FMF threesome. As it turns out, MFM threesomes are easy to come by, FMF...not so much. However, did we luck out with our first play-couple or what? They play separately and were more than willing to be a part of our FMF threesome as well! Of course, I can't always call on A to be the 2nd female for our FMF romps so I've been looking into other single females that may be willing in the future.
Originally, I wanted to surprise Mr. Sunbuckus with his FMF threesome. He had expressed a fantasy of coming home from playing basketball to find me and another woman playing with each other and him joining in. Well, Mondays just aren't convenient for our playmates. I had tried to set up a FMF for Monday but the single female I had asked never got back to me about it. Luckily, A was able to keep true to her word about playing the next night. I decided to let Mr. Sunbuckus aware of the upcoming event so he could prepare himself.
A was early and we talked a bit while Mr. Sunbuckus was in the shower. I had hoped that maybe she would surprise him by jumping into the shower with him naked but she didn't seem keen on the idea once she saw the size of the shower. I guess that's just my own fantasy about being joined in the shower by a playmate. We both took off our clothes but left our bra and panties on. I had on a matching red set while A had a matching purple set. A brought over one of her toys and wanted to use it on me once Mr. Sunbuckus was out of the shower and ready to play. I was game but I wanted the night to be about Mr. Sunbuckus so after a few moments of trying out the toy, we got down to brass tacks.
Just as I was sandwiched between two men during my MFM threesome, we had Mr. Sunbuckus in between myself and A. We both suckled and kissed him. Her hand was cupping his balls while my hand would occasionally stroke his cock. I probably got tired of this part of the foreplay sooner than anyone else. I was ready to see Mr. Sunbuckus really enjoy himself. Eventually, we tried different tactics. Mr. Sunbuckus orally pleasing A while I was giving him a blowjob. Both A and I lying down on the bed while Mr. Sunbuckus ate one pussy and then the next. Mr. Sunbuckus finger banging me and then A and making her squirt.
We finally got around to doing one of the positions that Mr. Sunbuckus wanted to do...one woman riding his cock and the other riding his tongue. A wanted the cock first so I rode his tongue first. Eventually, we switched and I took the initiative to kiss and fondle A while we were on Mr. Sunbuckus. I knew that he had wanted this in particular so I tried it, even though it was hard to grind on his cock while doing so.
Mr. Sunbuckus even did me doggy style for awhile but I wanted him to finish with A so he did her doggy on the bed. I mostly laid on the bed watching them but I knew that Mr. Sunbuckus would enjoy it even more if I also kissed A while he was fucking her so I did that. After several moments, he came and we chatted just a bit before A left to go home.
Now for the nitty gritty...was I jealous at any point? I'd be lying if I said no. I felt twinges of jealousy every so often, mostly when Mr. Sunbuckus and A were kissing deeply. But I could see how much fun he was having, how much pleasure he was having and this was something that I was offering him and letting him do. We were experiencing this together and it would be something that we will always talk about in the future. Mostly, I enjoyed knowing how much more enjoyable this experience was for him in comparison to the FMF threesome he had in the past, behind my back. According to him, it only involved a blowjob and fucking one girl and then the other. I certainly hope this FMF threesome was better than that one.
One thing for sure...sex is sex. And you know what? Sometimes it does look funny and sometimes it looks sexy.
Originally, I wanted to surprise Mr. Sunbuckus with his FMF threesome. He had expressed a fantasy of coming home from playing basketball to find me and another woman playing with each other and him joining in. Well, Mondays just aren't convenient for our playmates. I had tried to set up a FMF for Monday but the single female I had asked never got back to me about it. Luckily, A was able to keep true to her word about playing the next night. I decided to let Mr. Sunbuckus aware of the upcoming event so he could prepare himself.
A was early and we talked a bit while Mr. Sunbuckus was in the shower. I had hoped that maybe she would surprise him by jumping into the shower with him naked but she didn't seem keen on the idea once she saw the size of the shower. I guess that's just my own fantasy about being joined in the shower by a playmate. We both took off our clothes but left our bra and panties on. I had on a matching red set while A had a matching purple set. A brought over one of her toys and wanted to use it on me once Mr. Sunbuckus was out of the shower and ready to play. I was game but I wanted the night to be about Mr. Sunbuckus so after a few moments of trying out the toy, we got down to brass tacks.
Just as I was sandwiched between two men during my MFM threesome, we had Mr. Sunbuckus in between myself and A. We both suckled and kissed him. Her hand was cupping his balls while my hand would occasionally stroke his cock. I probably got tired of this part of the foreplay sooner than anyone else. I was ready to see Mr. Sunbuckus really enjoy himself. Eventually, we tried different tactics. Mr. Sunbuckus orally pleasing A while I was giving him a blowjob. Both A and I lying down on the bed while Mr. Sunbuckus ate one pussy and then the next. Mr. Sunbuckus finger banging me and then A and making her squirt.
We finally got around to doing one of the positions that Mr. Sunbuckus wanted to do...one woman riding his cock and the other riding his tongue. A wanted the cock first so I rode his tongue first. Eventually, we switched and I took the initiative to kiss and fondle A while we were on Mr. Sunbuckus. I knew that he had wanted this in particular so I tried it, even though it was hard to grind on his cock while doing so.
Mr. Sunbuckus even did me doggy style for awhile but I wanted him to finish with A so he did her doggy on the bed. I mostly laid on the bed watching them but I knew that Mr. Sunbuckus would enjoy it even more if I also kissed A while he was fucking her so I did that. After several moments, he came and we chatted just a bit before A left to go home.
Now for the nitty gritty...was I jealous at any point? I'd be lying if I said no. I felt twinges of jealousy every so often, mostly when Mr. Sunbuckus and A were kissing deeply. But I could see how much fun he was having, how much pleasure he was having and this was something that I was offering him and letting him do. We were experiencing this together and it would be something that we will always talk about in the future. Mostly, I enjoyed knowing how much more enjoyable this experience was for him in comparison to the FMF threesome he had in the past, behind my back. According to him, it only involved a blowjob and fucking one girl and then the other. I certainly hope this FMF threesome was better than that one.
One thing for sure...sex is sex. And you know what? Sometimes it does look funny and sometimes it looks sexy.
Another Threesome
Mrs. Sunbuckus had her threesome, of which we wrote about a couple weeks back. Today it was Mr. Sunbuckus' day to play. Mrs. Sunbuckus had arranged for only the wife of our playmates to come over today, and it was fantastic.
I was actually taking a shower when she came over. So she peeked in the shower real quick and said "Daddy," like she was one of my kids. I quickly hurried with the shower, popped a vitamin "V" and said hello to the lovely ladies. They had already started playing. T had brought over a butterfly vibrator and was using it on Mrs. Sunbuckus, who seemed to be enjoying it. I offered my fingers to Mrs. Sunbuckus' pussy, and we teased her for a few minutes like that.
T then pushed me down on the bed and proceeded to kiss me all over my body. Mrs. Sunbuckus joined in with the kisses, and that went on for awhile. I did notice that T is a little rough with her teeth, but that's okay by me. Eventually Mrs. Sunbuckus took my cock into her mouth while T licked my balls. There were occasional kisses between the two as well.
I couldn't wait to give kisses all over those two bodies, so I got up and instructed them to lay next to each other. I then proceeded to place kisses all up and down both succulent bodies, being sure to play around their pussies but not lick them yet. By this time both their bras were off, and I proceeded to remove both their panties.
I'm pretty sure they were both ready to have their pussies licked, so I started with Mrs. Sunbuckus. She's not as much into the oral as I am, so I moved on to T. I was really enjoying her pussy, and I could tell she was getting into it with her little whimpers. I moved her closer to the edge of the bed and Mrs. Sunbuckus then took my cock into her mouth while I stood up and licked T's pussy.
This went on for several minutes, and of course I enjoyed every second. I started in with the fingers after that. Once I got to T's pussy, we had to put a towel down. She once again expertly instructed me on how to use my fingers and she had two squirting orgasms, then a third one which got her knees quivering again. Having pleased both ladies greatly, T, always the lady, noted that I had not been taken care of yet.
So she started in cowboy style while Mrs. Sunbuckus used my face as a seat. I then had T turn over for some missionary while Mrs. Sunbuckus lay next to us and smiled. I pounded T in several missionary variations, then Mrs. Sunbuckus took a ride on my cock after sucking it again. I had T use my face as a seat, and although I sure loved her pussy, she almost suffocated me! Ah, the dangers of a threesome!
Much more happened after that, and finally I had T doggy style again, and as soon as the condom went on I went a little flacid. Luckily, Mrs. Sunbuckus was there to pump him back up with her hand! Thanks honey! I entered T and pounded her from behind until I exploded deep down inside her pussy.
We lay recovering for about ten minutes. There were kisses all around and T stepped out into the night.
As my philosophy goes, if you do enough good deeds, eventually you will get them back in turn. Having done Mrs. Sunbuckus a good deed with a MFM, my "turn" came tonight, and boy am I glad! I literally can't stop smiling everytime I think about it! It was so much better, too, knowing Mrs. Sunbuckus was there enjoying it with me. She even took a picture of T and I snuggling together afterwards!
The Lifestyle, although it can be slow starting, is starting to get better! I look forward to finding new playmates and attending more parties.
I was actually taking a shower when she came over. So she peeked in the shower real quick and said "Daddy," like she was one of my kids. I quickly hurried with the shower, popped a vitamin "V" and said hello to the lovely ladies. They had already started playing. T had brought over a butterfly vibrator and was using it on Mrs. Sunbuckus, who seemed to be enjoying it. I offered my fingers to Mrs. Sunbuckus' pussy, and we teased her for a few minutes like that.
T then pushed me down on the bed and proceeded to kiss me all over my body. Mrs. Sunbuckus joined in with the kisses, and that went on for awhile. I did notice that T is a little rough with her teeth, but that's okay by me. Eventually Mrs. Sunbuckus took my cock into her mouth while T licked my balls. There were occasional kisses between the two as well.
I couldn't wait to give kisses all over those two bodies, so I got up and instructed them to lay next to each other. I then proceeded to place kisses all up and down both succulent bodies, being sure to play around their pussies but not lick them yet. By this time both their bras were off, and I proceeded to remove both their panties.
I'm pretty sure they were both ready to have their pussies licked, so I started with Mrs. Sunbuckus. She's not as much into the oral as I am, so I moved on to T. I was really enjoying her pussy, and I could tell she was getting into it with her little whimpers. I moved her closer to the edge of the bed and Mrs. Sunbuckus then took my cock into her mouth while I stood up and licked T's pussy.
This went on for several minutes, and of course I enjoyed every second. I started in with the fingers after that. Once I got to T's pussy, we had to put a towel down. She once again expertly instructed me on how to use my fingers and she had two squirting orgasms, then a third one which got her knees quivering again. Having pleased both ladies greatly, T, always the lady, noted that I had not been taken care of yet.
So she started in cowboy style while Mrs. Sunbuckus used my face as a seat. I then had T turn over for some missionary while Mrs. Sunbuckus lay next to us and smiled. I pounded T in several missionary variations, then Mrs. Sunbuckus took a ride on my cock after sucking it again. I had T use my face as a seat, and although I sure loved her pussy, she almost suffocated me! Ah, the dangers of a threesome!
Much more happened after that, and finally I had T doggy style again, and as soon as the condom went on I went a little flacid. Luckily, Mrs. Sunbuckus was there to pump him back up with her hand! Thanks honey! I entered T and pounded her from behind until I exploded deep down inside her pussy.
We lay recovering for about ten minutes. There were kisses all around and T stepped out into the night.
As my philosophy goes, if you do enough good deeds, eventually you will get them back in turn. Having done Mrs. Sunbuckus a good deed with a MFM, my "turn" came tonight, and boy am I glad! I literally can't stop smiling everytime I think about it! It was so much better, too, knowing Mrs. Sunbuckus was there enjoying it with me. She even took a picture of T and I snuggling together afterwards!
The Lifestyle, although it can be slow starting, is starting to get better! I look forward to finding new playmates and attending more parties.
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